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[seathernycolors]

all you are is what you see

[gigikid]

Y'all guess who's birthday?!?

[babeysart]

i drew my girlfwend @dentalhickory ♡♡

[lostinthe-jojos]

I miss this blog and I miss writing.

I've had a lot of things going on this whole year, that have kept me occupied or stressed or , as I've started to think lately, a little depressed again.

For starters, I got a job at a public nursing home, which started out as great but a lot of shit has been coming out and sometimes the work environment is pretty... unbearable (you wouldn't believe the amount of drama we're dealing with). It was supposed to be a two or three months gig but it seems like the person I'm substituting for won't be coming back any time soon. I started another course, to become a cooking and pastry teacher, and a "healthy baking" one (which, really will be helpful when baking for people with allergies, intolerances and other dietary restrictions!). But, despite doing things I usually enjoy, I have been in a weird place, mentally speaking.

I haven't really made time to do or enjoy other things that I love apart from working and studying. And I feel like changing that would be the first step to start feeling better.

So, I'd love to start posting here again. I miss everyone I used to interact with. I have a few posts in my drafts and some ideas to change my blog's theme, so I should be back on posting more regularly soon💖

[callings]

Journaled too earnestly on my lunch break and now I gotta lock in

[rels-tenim]

Infinite Rat Generator!

[max1mus]

@ 나는 이겼다 2021 ─     me & my melody      ✿𝅼       

[ky-the-squiddy]

Every so often I come across people going on about 'queer is a bad word, I'm not a terf but we shouldn't use that word in community/academic/etc settings, don't call me queer' and just

Okay

You're not queer

I won't call you that, no one should call you that, and anyone that does is being an asshole regardless of their identity or minority status. It doesn't matter what reasoning you have behind not wanting to be labelled as queer, what trauma you may or may not have, what you've identified as in the past and present, and whether or not your preference just comes to not liking the vibe of the word for entirely inscrutible reasons. No one has any right to pry.

If you say you're not queer, then you're not queer, and that's okay.

It just also means that if I, a queer person, talk about the queer community, then I'm not referring to you. If an academic refers to queer history and queer texts written by queer people about other queer people, they're also not talking about you. If a corporation starts using 'queer' in their ads then they can eat shit because fuck 'em, they have no fucking right to use our words when they aren't and have never been one of us, but if a well-meaning ally uses 'queer' as a one-syllable shorthand for LGBTQIA+ in a verbal conversation, then there's no reason for you to get any more annoyed at them as you would if they used the word 'gay' instead.

You have every single right to be labelled or not labelled as you like, and I will stand behind you all the way. If someone is trying to shove 'queer' on you when you really don't want it? Then I will happily, metaphorically, deck them in the face for you. We are still family, whatever you choose to call yourself, and it's important that we stick together.

But

If you aren't queer, and you get frustrated when you see queer people talking about the queer community, take a deep breath, and consider:

They aren't talking about you

[mousegirlheart]

you are a mouse, you have whiskers, you have paws, you have cheese. you are a furry tumblr user purified by memes and popular online culture into a beautiful example of nature’s perfection

[umaimiau]

[angellurgy2]

scurries up your sleeve while you arent looking and sniffs ur armpits btw

[r0tt1ngbunn1ez]

[robinsceramics]

rat cup!

[image descriptions: a green pinch pot with one side built out of "stones" of clay. Little black rat silhouettes creep along the side. One of their tails hangs onto one of the pot's feet.]

[askmarcille]

Hi, Marcille. I hope you're having a good day so far! And if not, hope it gets better.

I was wondering what your favorite dish is that you've eaten so far. Not necessarily dungeon food, just in general! Also, if you've gotten a question like this before, I apologize.

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Hey there! My day's been going pretty well so far. I hope yours is going well too!

My favorite dish (that isn't monsters because we all know how I feel about that) would have to be a simple seafood soup. When you have noodles, some shrimp, squid, a type of fish you enjoy, it's perfect! It's definitely become a comfort food for me when I'm not in dungeons.

[lostinthe-jojos]

Hi! I haven't been doing much, just sleeping and eating and working.

Gotta say I'm a bit burn out from work, hence why I haven't been on this blog as much as would have liked to ((to sum things up, I had to do two shifts in one, which sucks))

I have two requests currently, both for Ryusei, and I will write them, but be patient.

[itti-the-mouse]