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[cupids-archives]

This is more of a general question but who do you write for in LMK ??

❦ I write for every canon adult in lmk, and that goes for any other fandom as well!! (exceptions apply for platonic relationships) ❦

[corpseaten]

I hate how people on here will be like “ I want a yandere to date me!!!! “ then the second you show any obsessive behaviour they no longer want you ? Whats the deal with that. Do you not know what you’re getting in to? Me being dependant on you every single second of the day and feeling like killing myself whenever you’re busy and can’t give me attention is Love, unhealthy love, but Did you not sign up for this? It’s especially bad when they claim to be a yandere themself! Mad when I start trying to guilt trip you? You told me before you liked it and even encouraged me to do it when I was shy about my feelings . . must yanderes always be taken as some sort of joke or something to play around with?

[theiasthesis]

Shifting explained except its with the 5 W's

Who

You are a shifter, you have the full ability to expand your awareness to other physical bodies, within other realities.

What

Shifting is the act of moving ones awareness from one reality to another an alternate one. We shift every nano second, even faster. With every second, reality becomes a different one.

When

You are able to shift whenever you please, as we shift realities every nanosecond, you have the full ability to shift during any time of day. Reality Shifters typically shift during the night where they are left undisturbed from outside influences.

Where

You can shift from any location, your bedroom, the sofa, in the car, in a classroom, on the toilet, in the shower etc

Why

As human beings, we are naturally curious beings, and want to have different experiences, and live as through as many experiences as possible. Shifting allows you to experience all your hearts desire, and allows you to be within full control of yourself

[daemirs]

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[andersonfilms]

♱ ANDERSONFILMS SFW WORKS!

⋆ we could go there: situationships already are difficult enough. especially with your girlfriend's ex looming over the two of you like a vulture. will the two of you be able to move past it?

⋆ which wolf wins: a spin on canon.

⋆ bet you wanna love me now: i love you x i loved you.

⋆ firefighter!abby ⋆ doctor!abby ⋆ lovergirl!abby ⋆ author!abby ⋆

⋆ i’m in love with you (cowgirl!abby) ⋆ all my love is free ⋆ new year's eve ⋆

⋆ clumsy nd cute abby ⋆ homemade meal ⋆ slow dancing w ex!abby ⋆ abby falling asleep on you ⋆ anderson’s treats ⋆

[ohproserpine]

୨୧⋆.ೃ࿔*serphie <3 17 | she/her. requests open but not guaranteed!

#serphiewrites <- tag for my writing fandoms <- hazbin h, helluva b deer dolly! <- big ole masterlist

to see all of my written works i suggest going to my ao3 instead! it's much easier to navigate there: ao3 <- persephonecakes

[huntresstonner]

❛⠀⠀gnawanic⠀｡ 𝜗𝜚

✚ ｡ ⠀ ⠀⠀a gender that feels connected to the act of biting or chewing on something, similar to the act of cannibalism. this can feel primal and animalistic, and can feel liberating from human social norms. ✝︎

⤷⠀coined by the huntress⠀ ┄ @inkstainedsprout  🍖

[PT START: gnawanic. a gender that feels connected to the act of biting or chewing on something, similar to the act of cannibalism. this can feel primal and animalistic, and can feel liberating from human social norms. END PT]

[evergreen-endo]

WE PLAY THE SAME KEYS AT DIFFERENT TIMES — r. kaji.

cw: 18+ mdni, f! reader, car sex, spit. wc: 0.8k a/n: unedited. thought about him on my drive home. enjoy. 

You and Kaji can’t ever just listen to music in the car together.

He really never intended for it to be like this at first— but once it happened the first time, it’s all he could think of the next time he got in his car. It’s the same every time; inviting you for a ride to listen to a tune that’s stuck in his head, one he claims he can’t get rid of until he hears it again. But with him, it can never just be one song. There are too many that make him think of you these days, despite his best efforts to press skip on those in particular. 

He drives around until night falls, and you’ve both shared everything you’ve had on repeat this week. As he pulls onto the highway, the low vibration of his car picking up speed thrums against your thighs, much like the guitar blaring through his speakers. The low light of the city falls on his hands as he steers with practiced motion, heel of his palm flat against the leather. Warm yellow light trails along the veins on his arms, dragging your gaze wherever it touches. It highlights the rim of his features for a split second, long enough to see the way he side eyes you.

He lets out a huff, leaning back against the headrest to hide in the dark, though it’s futile. As he whirrs past the overheads, the light guides your gaze to his thighs, spread lazily even with one foot on the gas, and up, up, up to…oh. It’s only a second that you see it before light rushes past, and you wait on the next street light to illuminate him. It takes its time, stretching slowly over the same path, fingertips to forearms to biceps. A flit of your eyes down, and the car leers onto the exit ramp, light changing its course and missing the bulge of his cock entirely. 

The both of you huff for different reasons, you in disappointment, and him in relief. Not that you can hear each other over the music, anyway.

You spend the rest of the ride bopping your head along and picking up your phone to add songs you like to your own playlist. He’s grateful that there aren’t as many street lamps on the route to your place, so you miss the poorly hidden smirk that plays on his lips. 

Pulling into your driveway, he thumbs at his wheel to turn the music down just as that one song comes on. The one you fucked to the first time he did this; the reason he keeps inviting you to do this. He pauses, sighing, and turns it back up again. You tense, thighs crossing as you hear the click of his seatbelt and squeak of the leather as he reaches over to click yours, too.

Kaji’s breath always comes out ragged— grits his teeth and hisses through them even as his chest heaves for more oxygen. He’s got you bouncing on his cock in his backseat, guiding you to some extent, rough grip on your hips because he really can’t find it in himself to be gentle. Not when you move so perfectly you hit every goddamn beat. 

You’re the perfect melody to him— he has half a mind to lean forward and turn the music down in favor of the sound of you. Ass clapping against his thighs, wet squelching from between yours, breathy moans and gasps and keens. He wishes he could isolate every salacious layer of sound— to savor it, ingrain it into his memory to replay over and over.

The beat of the song slows, just before he knows it’ll build up again. He takes the break to wrap an arm around your waist, effectively slowing the motion of your hips. You whine as he forces you to grind your clit against him, and he hums, captivated.

Using his free hand, he twirls his fingers through your hair, wrapping the strands around to get enough hold to pull you forward, the abruptness ripping a gasp from you. Perfect. Twisting his lips up, he tilts his head forward, letting a glob of spit travel past his lips and drip down onto your awaiting tongue as he plants his feet firm on the ground. With all the leverage in the world, he bucks his hips up into you as the beat picks up again, the heavy weight of his thrusts knocking the air from your lungs. 

It gets hard to move when you squeeze around him, ticks him off that you’re slowing down his rhythm. He just wants to give you what you deserve and you’re always holding him back with that fucking grip of yours. At least, he thinks, you’re giving him a chance to readjust his hips, so he can hit that spongey spot inside you until the song closes out, until all that’s left is the sound of your shared panting.

[luvlydevil]

★ ‧ AFFECTIDERIC. A gender connected to wanting affection in a nonhuman way. E.g. ; wanting affection in a puppy way, a demon way, ect.

Not a gender system, but subtypes can be made.

[cupids-archives]

which reqs do you have in progress (including the ones from your old blog)? 😊

i looooove your writing btw!! 😁 (specially the yandere works) 🫣

a lot lolz, I’ve been chipping away at them very slowly though, trying to answer at least one request from either blog at least once a day. I can totally share them with you if you want :)

[corpseaten]

You ⠀ don’t ⠀ want ⠀ to ⠀ be ⠀ handcuffed ⠀ to me ⠀ whenever ⠀ we ⠀ go ⠀ outside . . ? ⠀ So you ⠀ no ⠀ longer ⠀ love ⠀ me? ⠀ Are ⠀ you asking ⠀ me ⠀ to ⠀ kill ⠀ myself, ⠀ dear ⠀?

[theiasthesis]

Shifting can be escapism, and that's OK.

Im going to give you a valuable lesson, so stick to the post, dont skip because every word is important. Don't let that small attention span get to you baby, remember that knowledge is power.

My name is Willow! I'm a non-dualist reality shifter, shifting coach and subliminal creator who's a freak for the multiverse and knowledge. Everything I say on here is based on my own personal experiences and research.

This post can help you with:

Escapism, guilt for shifting, realising you're worthy of shifting.

The self determination theory (SDT) is a psychological theory of motivation. It focuses on the degree to which specific human behaviour is for the self ; self motivated and self determined

Basically, what exactly is it that a human being can do, that isn't manipulated by outside influence, but rather their own human nature?

According to the theory these are 3 self motivated human behaviours:

Autonomy

Having the freedom to decide your actions without outside influence.

Example: Being able to go out with your friends, without your parents restricting you.

Competence

The ability to do something effectively and be useful.

Example: You're a very useful employee at your company, this means you are competent for your job.

Relatedness

Being connected or related to someone, or something.

Example: Having a connection with family or friends

OK, so how does any of this apply to shifting and escapism?

When you lack one of any of these 3 behaviours or feelings, this is a disruption your human nature. Naturally by birth, you are within your birth right to recieve all of this.

Each of these behaviours, have extreme importance in your cognitive behaviour

- Cognitive behaviors are thoughts, ideas, and representations of yourself to others.

If you don't have the will or ability to control your actions independently, you are most likely going to feel stuck, and like everything is out of your control. Doing things that make you happy and activities you find meaningful, will become an issue due to your lack of autonomy.

If you don't feel competent in areas of your life, or people aren't competent when it comes to you, this can create low self esteem and a bad self concept, you may think of yourself as "worthless" "useless" or "incompetent"

You may feel less motivated to taking on new challenges and activities, as you feel like you're just going to fail, and mess everything up anyways.

Connection is what makes us human, love and empathy towards overs and receiving it, is what makes human life so special. Relatedness, is what you need to experience caring relationships, to be part of a community, and overall to feel love. Humans need love, that is a fact.

When these basic needs aren't met, a human being can lack the motivation to commit to any one of these factors, which take up a huge part in life.

Lacking these can make you feel, stressed, anxious, self loath and nihilistic.

When you don't have these 3 factors, this causes a lack of motivation to commit to them, which means you don't have them.

So you turn to something else, escapism.

"Escapism is the tendency to distract oneself from real-life problems. It can also be conceived as shutting meanings out of one's mind and freeing oneself from self-awareness for a while . Escapism has been identified as one of the key drivers behind online behaviors, in both adaptive and maladaptive ways"

- PubMed Central®

Link to study

Think of escapism like touching a hot stove. Imagine you place your hand upon a stove. At first its cold, and you're fine.

Then the temperature starts to slowly rise, its currently warm, its still fine you can deal with it. Now, it's getting hotter, and hotter, and hotter...

And you remove your hand.

Not on purpose, but by instinct.

By reflex, your hand immediately moved away from the stove once it got too hot.

Your nervous system felt the pain, which sent a signal to the brain, that something with your hand is wrong.

Biology isn't my strong suit I fear.

Another example.

You're in immediate danger, there's a tsunami coming your way, it's too big for you to face, if you stay where you are, you're going to get crushed by the water, and die on impact. So what do you do?

You run.

Naturally you escape from the dangerous situation, because who in their right mind would test their luck and try to survive a tsunami?

Are you getting it?

When human beings are faced with a situation that is uncomfortable, causes mental, or physical harm, or even death, their first response is to escape.

It is human nature to run, to escape, to not face the dangerous situation. Sometimes it can be a bad move, like ditching a daye you were nervous for, other times it could be skipping school because you constantly run into a group of serious bullies.

Repeat after me.

If you are in a situation where you do not feel loved, worthy, or free, you are allowed to escape.

You are allowed to escape.

Empathise on that baby, nobody is going to tell you off for it.

However, you must be weary of using shifting as escapism.

Shifting is a wonderful phenomenon, it is not something that determines whether you live or not. It doesn't determine your worth either, nor is it something that causes you psychological stress.

If you find yourself having suicidal or self harming thoughts, with shifting as a way to mend these thoughts, I beg of you to take a step back and evaluate these thoughts of yours.

Shifting is a journey, I preach that it's something that can be done on the first go, but that isn't the case for everybody.

It can be as short or as long as you make it, failure in shifting when using it as an escape from serious issues, is a one way road to psychological distress.

With that, I ask that you first deal with your mental health, before anything else.

Find something that makes you feel good and grounded, something you enjoy.

Please remember, that not everything is something you must be good at, if it came from you it's already perfect.

Meditation, painting, dancing, listening to music, writing, exercise. Anything and everything that makes you feel good, nothing is too silly, nobody is going to think you're weird or bad at doing something you love to do.

I found that talking out loud, writing in my journal, mediation and watching anime helped me a lot when I had "life impacting plans" connected to shifting.

LESSON SUMMARY

1. It is natural for human beings to run away when they are faced in a dangerous or uncomfortable situation

2. Shifting being used to run away from a bad situation, isn't negative. It only becomes negative once you prioritise it over your own health

3. Your mental and physical health always comes first before shifting

4. You deserve to be loved, to feel worthy, to not be let down, and to be free, whether that's through shifting or not!

[daemirs]

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[tt0kiw]

pretty ⭑ dividers by tt0kiw 　

[bru1sed-hearts]

(credits to artist, syaden)

[huntresstonner]

❛⠀⠀butcher⠀｡ 𝜗𝜚

✚ ｡ ⠀ ⠀⠀for masculine gay/(any sexuality attracted to men) males, regardless of bodytype, age, etc! it's opposite is baker. similar to / inspired by terms like bear and butch ✝︎

⤷⠀coined by the huntress⠀ ┄ 🍖

[PT START: burcher. for masculine gay/(any sexuality attracted to men) males, regardless of bodytype, age, etc! it's opposite is baker(link). similar to / inspired by terms like bear (link) and butch. (link) END PT]