#( @ all my f/os )

[kunikinifunk]

It is valid to feel like you make your f/os ooc but also remember when dating someone, you see what others don't 💜

[starburst-selfship]

“Who do you ship this character with” me and no one else bro. It’s me and them against the world

[knightoflove]

Sensitive Self Shippers, this one is for you <3

💫 They’ll always be around to comfort you, no matter what upset you. They’re ready to listen.

🌙 They’d never tease you if you were uncomfortable with it. Your f/o(s) would never push your boundaries.

☀️ You’re their sun & moon, if anyone made you upset they’d be there to help pick you up (and maybe beat up the person who upset you idk)

🪐 And they would never ever think you being sensitive is annoying. They love you so much and they hate to see you cry.

Pr/oship dni please

Dividers made by @.cafekitsune

[bizarrescribblez]

selfshippers who have f/os played by the same actor my beloveds…

[dreamwinged]

sometimes honestly if you're feeling invalid/anxious/any sort of negative feeling about your selfship , you just have to go back to canon. and i know it seems like such an easy answer but you really do have to. it is always SO comforting to me when i'm feeling bad about things to just see my f/os normally, without any fan interpretation or characterization or opportunities for jealousy involved; to remember why i fell in love with them and that no one can take that specific experience away from me. that other people's thoughts on the character don't matter because at the end of the day, none of it has any bearing on canon and no one can "know" a character any better than anyone else. it really really does work and i wish id realized it sooner

[distant-velleity]

therapy is stored in the nui

bonus:

[anemone-ships]

˚✧₊⁎ imagine you and your f/o staying in a cosy cabin/treehouse, surrounded by nature!! the two of you spend your days alone together in the middle of nowhere: going on hikes, baking bread, playing music, and cuddling under the stars.

pro.ship dni

[lovehoarder]

Some appreciation for f/os who aren't very vocal about their love.

🌹Who look at you like you're they're whole world.

🌹Who subtly go to grab your hand when you're next to each other.

🌹Who leave little gifts on your bed.

🌹Who get you your favorite/safe foods during a grocery run. They know the brand and flavor that you prefer, too.

🌹Who leave a plate for you if you work a late shift.

🌹They love by listening, and they'd listen to you for ages. They memorize who you hate, who you love. Your favorite songs, shows, colors.

They love you so, so much even if it's hard for them to say it <3

[starstruckloves]

taking a moment to appreciate standoffish f/os that actually have the biggest soft spot for you. and no, im not talking about being mean or anything, just more so maybe nervous or hesitant. wether it be that they aren’t used to love this healthy or just general excitement and the slight awkwardness of doing new things in a relationship such as kissing or holding hands, they tend to be just a bit standoffish but they love you dearly.

you may ask to give them a hug and they just sheepishly turn their head away, trying to seem indifferent as they agree. but when they actually hug you, they can’t get enough, pulling you closer to them and snuggling in your warmth. even if they are a bit nervous, they still love you so much. they just aren’t the best at showing it 🫶

[taichouu]

This might be kind of a loaded question but I'm genuinely curious. Mostly for my mutuals who self ship but obviously you're welcome to vote even if you don't self-ship.

There is absolutely no shame or malice directed in voting no, I'm trying to gauge how universal my own experiences are!

[nimue-hidden-lake]

Your f/o overhears you cough or sneeze, thus they suddenly grab you and roll you into a blanket. You tell them that it’s no big deal but they insist and thus you are trapped inside a warm blanket burrito for the day.

But of course they would not leave you there and let you cough to your own devices, until you are too exhausted or annoyed about your coughing. No, they will be there for you and help you get better.

May it be by tending to some of your needs like making you hot tea to drink or feeding you soup. Perhaps they even give you a cold, wet towel on your forehead if you have a fever, to help you feel more comfortable.

If your f/o is brave enough, maybe they even cuddle up to you, claiming that it will help you recover quicker. 

They will try everything they can to help you feel better. After all, you’d do the same for your f/o, wouldn't you?

Proship/Comship do not interact please!

[lieutenantselnia]

Reminder that in your personal version of canon, you are your f/o's only true love <3

[cupiidzbow]

im adding a new thing to my new carrd im making and i know not everyone reads it when following me so im just gonna post this here in advance before I finish the carrd 😭😭😭

[3qu1us]

[cryptidhusband]

This goes out to all the people with a lot of F/Os! You all are so so valid. It doesn't matter if you can pay attention to all of them or just a few, or just one, at once. Your F/Os still love you.

And to anyone struggling with the idea of having a big list always remember F/Os are for you and you don't need a reason to F/O anyone.