#44f

[sukkanen]

cuteness aggression!!!!!!!!!

CUTENESS GRRRRRRRRRRR

[machinedalal]

MBO - T 460/44 - F https://dl.machinedalal.com/A93o

Manufacturer: #MBO Year: 2003 Machine Availability: More than 30 days Price: On Request Location: Germany

#T460 #44F #FoldingMachine #machinedalal

[ahorsenamedphoebe]

More cold and snowy days

[pendraegon]

it's been raining here today in chicago and it's one of those things that im like... this is nice... but historically, this would be flurries during this time of the year and 😬

[klaudia2646]

It was supposed to stop raining this morning, they said. I tell you, if I ever start playing the lotto and win 😉 I’ll connect my detached garage to the rest of the house. I don’t want to move. I like my house and neighborhood and even though there are much nicer and gorgeous houses on the same street, they’re huge and we certainly don’t need that. Anyway, I hardly ever play the lotto and when I do I don’t win not even 5 dollars.

The last picture of the plant , I thought it was a cactus and it’s actually a succulent, I just found out! I love this kind of plant and supposedly it grows up to 6 feet indoors. I have one at home but it’s very little, it’ll take a while for it to grow that much. I have to find a safe place to put it cause I’m getting all of my plants from the porch into the house and Oscar the cat loves to chew them up. This particular one is very toxic for pets. 

[h0]

sometimes im like oh im never gonna love again right? but sometimes im like the love and yearning and felt were the signs of someone i was at the time yearning for something i saw from myself in other people!! and i now i get to recognize that Same Spark in myself so i havent ever stopped loving!!!!!!!!

[matsinko]

through gritted teeth: i love spring

[green-and-grey]

May 27th and the goddamn furnace just kicked on what the fuck

[ravioliwings]

it's finally snowing for real this time

[redstonedust]

inspired by conversations with international friends:

by comfortable i dont mean your preference ie. ''i like when its cold'' i mean which one is not cold, but not warm either.

(also sorry about the kind of arbitrary groupings, conversion is weird and i have no clue how wide the range needed to be LMAO.)

[ahsokasupremacy]

This is extra hilarious to me. Not only because Hayden Christensen (42M) is basically the same age as Rosario Dawson (44F). But also, Anakin is approximately twenty-two years old here.

So yes, to him, Ahsoka is basically an old lady.

It’s sooo peak Anakin of him to gaslight Ahsoka into thinking that she is the older sibling now when in reality he died at like forty-five (not really that far off from her current age).

[rabidlestat]

AITA for accidentally starting a cult?

I (44f) got pregnant when I was 14 before I wad married. I was betrothed to my now husband (now dead) and I freaked out because he wanted to stone me so I told him it was immaculate conception and god got me pregnant. He believed me and spared my life, but we kept going along with it and now my son (30m) is convinced he's the son of God and has started a cult. He got arrested by the state and I've heard they're going to have him crucified. I didn't know it would go this far. AITA?

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WBITA if i told my mom to stop watching kdramas and get off the internet.

I [20F] have been increasingly frustrated with my mother [44F] for a very stupid and hypocritical reason. We're pretty close, with her mostly raising me on my own and all that, but we're very different people and often clash on a lot of things. Despite that, I like hanging out with her and telling her about stuff and vice versa. She also works from home, so we're around each other very often since I don't work rn.

The problem is that for the last month or so she's gotten very into kdramas and youtube summaries of manhwas and all that. I am not trying nor claiming to be a mental healthcare professional, but I am 99% sure she has some type of undiaognosed autism (like once she told me that for most of her life she didnt how to show or feel emotion and she would copy other people arround her and we had an argument about how that is Not The Common Human Experience. Among other things she's a neat freak, blunt, has told me before that she has very bad intrusive thoughts and so on) . This is relevant bc another one of her quirks is that she can become obsessive with something Very Easily. She cannot help herself from bingwatching shows, speedreading through books, She Has To Finish A Task Before Anything Else In This One Specific Order. This is serious, she geniunely gets angry or frustrated about any sort of interruption. Normally this is fine for me to work around, but the reason I am here with this ask is bc it's gotten worse.

Every time I go and try to talk to her, she's got her headphones on, watching a manhwa video (her headphones are bad bc they're work headphones so I can hear what she's listening to). 90% of the time I interrupt her, she does the biggest sigh, fixes me with a dead stare, and acts dimissive. At night, where she would usually hangout in the living room watching idle TV, she now goes straight to her room to watch kdrama's in bed, and her room is where she works from too. The latest development is that she's stopped eating in the livingroom during her work breaks too, which was the one time of day I could hang out with her while she's on the clock. She instead asks me to bring her food to her room and once again, on her personal laptop, watching manhwa summaries.

This, on top of my own personal declining mental health and the fact that sometimes I feel like our roles are reversed (I do any chore she asks me around the house, I cook for the entire house, I am the one sent to do grocery shopping etc while she goes out with her friends) I don't mind this usually, she is my mom, I am unemployed, and she does work a 9 to 5 even if it is from home. But now it stings a lot. The part that makes me think I am the asshole is the fact that the way she is acting right now is the exact same thing she used to scold me on before. "Take off those headphones, stop only hangin out in your room, notice the world around you" and I am still a bit like that. But I feel like I've changed. I finished highschool during the pandemic and quarantine and it fucked me up, not having the strongest friendships irl since I live in a fairly conservative country and I am very outwardly queer and stuff. But I've made an effort to start talking to her, to hang out with her, to help around the house. I was and still half am in the same behavioral pattern she is in right now, but I feel like I've made the effort to not wear headphones so often so I can hear if she calls me, to leave the door to my room open etc. It feels like minor things, ik.

I will also say, while I spend a lot of time online and on my phone/laptop, I do a diversity of things. I draw, I watch youtube videos, I talk and play games with my friends, I read, etc. Things I don't mind pausing. My mom, all she does, is ocasionally scroll through instagram, respond to messages, and watch youtube manhwa summaries. It is all that she does. And she acts like I've come in yelling during one of her meetings every time I interrupt her.

The problem here is, I am afraid that if I bring this up with her, that I will find out the change in behaviour I think I made would be invisible to her and that I would be the biggest hypocrite. And I do not want another yelling match as we have had several in the past on similar subjects, where I think I've changed but she doesn't.

Another one, it seems to make her happy. She laughs, and seems to be geniunely invested. Her new workplace is stressful and the work that she has to do is complicated, and I am glad she's found something to destress her and again. I do the same thing, I hole myself up in my room and spend time alone, why am I now mad at her for doing the exact same thing, right? But she's stopped listening to me. I tell her about things, she dismisses me bc she was in the middle of a video, and then comes calling for me because "Why haven't you done x y z Why is x y z here Why are we missing x y z" despite me having told her. I've suggested to her to watch some longer youtube videos together, which is usually our bonding method, and she'll agree. How that usually went was that I would wait until she called me since its her schedule we work around or that I pop into the living room and her seeing me would remind her. Now, again, she barely leaves her room. She just watches those videos and those shows. Nothing else. Works, sends out the roomba to vaccum every day, either gets her own food or yells for me to do it for her, and thats it. Checks on her plants maybe, does one or two chores that I haven't done. Back to her manhwas.

So , WIBTA if I confronted her about this and told her to stop? It risks another yelling match between us, it is hypocritical of me to do so bc I am the same. I am not gonna pretend I don't also become a hermit and hole myself up in my room. But idk. And it seems to be a geniune interest for her and it makes me happy, even tho in this whole situation I feel abandoned by my mother. Which sounds very stupid and dramatic but. Oh well.

What are these acronyms?

[heavenlybackside]

The rain in Maine goes mainly down the drain.

March 28, 2024 · 6:12am · 44F

Portland, Maine

#portland #maine #rain

[oneeyedizabella]

It's 7c/44f out of nowhere, he's been out here for a solid hour looking at birds

[onepunchknockout]

Things my mom (44F) has said while playing Board Game Island (LANGUAGE WARNING)

"Look at Yoshi, all happy. I don't like her face." 

"These computer bitches are ahead of us!"

"Isn't Tommy the one you like?"

"You fucker!"

"Anna is a sneaky Russian computer spy."

(When told Anna is Italian): "How do you know that?"

"Anna is so angry and butch. She's an angry lesbian."

(When told she's married to a man in my TL): "No wonder she's so angry. She's a lesbian."

"She (Siobhán) thinks she's hot shit."

"Well he already got the lifterator. Bastard."

"Who are these… bimbos?" (Referring to Ai and Helen)

"Anna Maria, the lesbo team."

"I tied with Michele Obama (Maria) down there."