#GettingOveraBreakup

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GSMC Life & Happiness Podcast Episode 123: Mending Broken Hearts, and Blissful Memories

[inhearthell]

Getting Over A Breakup Can Be Disastrous If You Neglect These Simple Rules

Have you just gone through a breakup recently, and you still have a lot of deep, dark, negative feelings? Getting over a breakup is hard to do. Perhaps your feelings go from one extreme to the other; one moment, you love them more than anything, and the next moment you're glad you broke up and hope you never see them again. If so, then you should know that you are not alone. A lot of people have experienced the same thing. Read the full article

[thoughts-sequentia-blog]

Virtually nothing comes as a shock and throws us off track like break ups. That awful phenomenon have the uncanny ability to wrench our guts inside out. So bear in mind these tips won't suddenly make you feel great, but will go a long way to help. Good luck! 1. Decide it's time to recover. 2. Rebuild your self esteem. 3. Take good care of yourself beginning with your looks. 4. Upgrade your fashion, hair style, and charisma. 5. Work on feeling, looking, and smelling good. 6. Take care of the outside as much as your inside. 7. Open up to new places, things, experiences, and people. 8. A rebound lover is a bad, bad, idea. 9. Realistically reminisce. Not to judge, but learn. 10. Purge on social media. Unfollow, unfriend, delete, and stuff. 11. Understand that the only closure you get is the one you gift yourself. 12. Lose the hope of making up. 13. Frequently vent, like you're talking to a therapist... Alone. 14. Begin picking up your life, incorporating new things as you go. 15. Get a hobby or resume an old one. 16. Don't leave the music out. 17. Contacting them in any way is an absolute no, no! Delete their contacts. 18. Understand it's going to take time and hurts. 19. Travel just for the heck of it. 20. Rearrange your living space to fit the new you. 21. Start getting physically fit by working out. 22. Never stay friends. 23. Don't give them the excuse to make you out as the bad person by not talking or doing trash. 24. Work on you like crazy. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. 25. Get busy, and stay busy. 26. Make sure you go through the entire break up process. So your healing would be complete. 27. You might want to change your hair color, and accentuate your looks... Credit: #goodhousekeeping #goodhousekeepingmagazine #thecutlife✂️ #cosmopolitan #cosmopolitanmagazine #heartbreak #breakup #gettingoverabreakup #gettingoveraheartbreak #badbreakup #badbreakups #survivingabreakup #brokenheart #brokenheartquotes #breakupquotes #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationships #relationshipadvice #relationshipmemes Have an 🤓 opinion or 🤔 question on this... Leave a comment 👇 https://www.instagram.com/p/CAsS0kisHTs/?igshid=1xmuyg7fqdjxk

[rebeccalee-syd-blog]

Relationships are supposed to be filled with love, kindness and compassion. You're supposed to compliment each others lives in a positive way that organically brings your best attributes to light.

So what happens when this person you love, breaks your heart? I have been through my fair share of heart breaks which have come from all walks of life - men, friends, even family and I can assure you it never gets any easier but I wrote this letter to someone who might be experiencing it for the first time.

I hope it helps.

[antmutemorgan]

‘Just forget about her’ they say 😮‍💨🤣 . I miss the way you kiss my cheek in the morning while I sleep 😘 I miss the way you grabbed me from below to say hello to my meat 👋. Making love in the morning is not for me ❌ but when I was with you, making love in the morning was a definite. ✅ [spicy love lyrics/poetry poem 🌶] . #comedy #heartbreakjokes #gettingoverher #gettingoverhim #gettingoveritfunny #gettingoverabreakup #lol

[agentscarletwidowofficial]

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[gahee96]

If you are going through a break up, watch this video by The Science of Love! Although it has been a while since I went through a break up myself, this video really helped me look at my past relationships in a more positive light. Wanted to share!

[inhearthell]

Live Your Life While Getting Over a Broken Heart

When you’re getting over a broken heart, life can feel upside down. The longer you were with your ex, the longer you will probably feel like you’re living a different life. And if you were a really close couple, getting over a breakup can be even harder, sometimes to the point that you feel like it’s not worth getting out of bed in the morning. When your life changes drastically as it does when a relationship ends, everything can feel a bit surreal. Read the full article

[thecybermess]

8 Rules For Getting Over A Breakup

1. Don’t talk to him.

First, you seriously have to stop all means of communication. This sounds harsh, but you cannot be the girl that still talks to her ex-boyfriend or occasionally hooks up with him or still isn’t over him.  No guys like those girls and no girls have respect for those girls, so don’t be one! A break-up means just that, you are done.

2. The Mourning Phase.

It is perfectly normal to be upset over a break up. Pile your hair on top of your head, slip on your sweatpants, play “Wrecking Ball” on repeat, eat a ton of chocolate (or some people eat less, whatever your preference is), or watch the Notebook. Do whatever you gotta do.  Call your best friend, your mom, your sister, whoever will listen to the story, but don’t turn to social media.  You don’t need boys from your grade school, moms you babysit for, or anyone else knowing you’re hurting.

3. Rebounds!

Once you finally stop crying uncontrollably at any given time, you are ready to get some craziness out of your system.  Some girls like to go home with random guys, or others like a few public makeouts.  Whatever your preference is, go nuts and never talk to him again.  Get all of that out of your system and do all the things you couldn’t do when you had a boyfriend. Now is the time.

4. When to know you’re over him.

Once you stop comparing every guy to the ex, you’re probably ready to start talking to guys beyond meeting them.  Be careful though. Be picky.  It’sokay to be selfish sometimes.  You don’t have to settle, and there’s nothing wrong with being single.  Finding your next boyfriend could take five months or five years.  But it doesn’t matter.  If you’re the type who can’t be alone and rushes into relationships back to back, then you really need to take time to yourself and be independent.  Don’t date anyone just because you’re lonely.  Make sure you actually like the person.  I would say on average, if you find more than three flaws (big or small) in a guy, move on.

5. Ex-talk is taboo.

When you meet a new guy, DO NOT talk about the ex. Never ever ever. Unless they ask something like “when was your last relationship”, you can then say something along the lines that you recently got out of a long term one, but nooooo details.  You never want to come off as someone who is not over her ex.

6. You can’t do this alone.

Work on your friendships.  A lot of people are prone to neglecting their friends to make time for the boyfriend.  Rekindle those old connections and reach out to old friends.  It won’t hurt and you won’t know if there’s still something there until you try.  Make lunch dates, Skype friends in other cities, or go on road trips to visit friends.  Boys come and go, but you’re always going to want to have your girlfriends.  They keep you together in between the relationships (or during).  Even if you find the love of your life, you have to have good friends.  Seriously.  You never want to have to rely on a boy for advice, for a listening ear, or to have someone to hang out with.  It is fantastic if you find a boy for these things, but you need backups and a sense of balance between friends/boyfriend. Plus you don’t want to have to resort to distant relatives for your bridal party someday…

7. Don’t act girlfriend-like too soon.

It might be instinct at first to expect things from a guy that you would expect from a boyfriend since that is what you are used to, but remember in the beginning of something to take things slow. Don’t get jealous. Don’t get mad if he doesn’t call you, just don’t answer next time.  Don’t give any guy the satisfaction that you’re clingy to him/need him/are mad at him.  Don’t start that shit early on; just get out while you can.

8. Do what makes you happy.

Basically, life is short in the long run, and you have to make the most of your time.  Being unhappy is a waste of this precious time we have on earth.  If being single for indefinite period of time is what you need to be happy, then DO IT!   If you love life and love as much as I do, than you deserve to be happy.  No one, and I mean no one is allowed to make you feel inferior without your consent (yeah, that was an Eleanor Roosevelt paraphrased quote and yeah, she’s the shit).  So while you are figuring out who you are as an individual, reflect on your past relationship and realize the problems.  Instead of becoming angry every time you think of your ex, be thankful that he showed you exactly what you want from a relationship next time around.  Also come to terms with things you did wrong, too, because that will help you in achieving a healthy relationship somewhere down the line.

[designingmyself-blog]

Sometimes I wonder if I am ever going to get over you. I think I may not. I think I could not. And every moment that I am alone, the emptiness feels like it is never going to fade.

[agentscarletwidowofficial]

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[inhearthell]

Learning How to Move on From a Breakup is Good For You

It is tough to let go of a relationship that you thought was perfect. Unfortunately, there are a good number of people who don't know how to move on from a breakup. If this describes you, and you are looking for information on how to deal with a breakup, then read on. Counselors and love experts have encountered numerous cases of breakups, and they have been giving ideas on how to deal with a breakup for many years. Read the full article

[inhearthell]

Is Being Friends With an Ex Good For You?

In some ways, breaking up and being friends with an ex is sort of like getting back together with an ex. Only this time, you two will not have a romantic relationship. It will only be a platonic relationship. There are some benefits and drawbacks to this. To figure out if staying friends with your ex are worthwhile to you, you must figure out if either one of you still has strong feelings for each other. Read the full article

[inhearthell]

Why Breaking Up With You Was the Best Decision I Ever Made

When you are in the middle of breaking up with your significant other it can be hard just to breathe. The pain can be so overwhelming that you don't think you'll survive, but as this personal account shows, you can find meaning in your loss. Remember when you broke my heart? At some point, I live in the belief that you have ruined my life. I spent endless nights crying the life out of me. The days are spent rehashing the night we broke up. Read the full article

[inhearthell]

Getting Over a Breakup, You Will Get Over Your Ex

After a relationship breakup, everything in the world can seem bleak and depressing. You may be asking yourself, "Why can't I get over a breakup?". The most important thing to remember is that this is a normal reaction. Anytime anything "bad" happens to us, we go through a period of grieving. A relationship breakup is no exception. Why Can't I Get Over a Breakup? When a relationship ends, you have a loss. There's the loss of a person from your life with who you've spent lots of time... Read the full article

[inhearthell]

I can't let it go, is it normal to still love my ex?

Why Am I Still In Love My Ex Sometimes you will find yourself in a situation where you can say, "Is it normal to love my ex still when my ex does not feel the same way." That is undoubtedly a horrible situation to find yourself in. How do you go about rekindling love when your ex no longer seems to be interested in making things work? When you approach a situation where you are saying to yourself... Read the full article