#lettinggo

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[thichnhathanhgems]

[mstudi0s]

Resistance :

Resistance is made from desperation. The harder you push to get something, the worse the resistance gets. Detaching and recognizing that you already have what it is that you're pushing for is what will bring it to you in a jiffy. Let go. It's already yours. 🤍

[zukiigirl]

[pinkpetalbee]

🌟💖 May you never again get attached to someone who isn't right for you. May you find a love that fills your days with laughter, One that keeps the flirtation alive and offers unwavering loyalty. You deserve a love that brings peace to your heart, That soothes your mind and calms your nerves — A love that never causes you pain. May you find such a love and cherish it always. 🌺✨

[the-silent-voices]

You weren't in love with them. You were in love with the possibility of them — the version they never became. The one you waited for anyway. It wasn’t love. It was a promise your heart wrote on their behalf. And sometimes, the hardest part isn't letting go of the person — it's grieving the future you built around who they could have been. The love you imagined together doesn’t die all at once. It fades — every time you realize they are not the person you needed. And healing begins the moment you stop rewriting their story, and start rewriting your own.

Not sure who wrote this, but it felt like a piece of my heart put into words.

[moonshadowmystique]

After all these months of trying, I finally realized something life-changing: you cannot change another person. No matter how much you love them or how hard you try, their growth and choices are their own. But what you can change is yourself—your mindset, your reactions, and your boundaries. And in doing so, you reclaim your power.

True peace comes when you stop trying to control others and focus on your own growth. When you let go of that need, you will find freedom, strength, and a deeper sense of self-worth.

[timeseternity]

One day, all the love that I’ve given will finally find its way back to me. And instead of regretting how I gave you my heart, I’ll be thankful that you didn’t know what to do with it.

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[thoughtsofalatebloomingflower]

just for a moment, let yourself think that you didn’t do anything wrong. just for a moment, let yourself think that you are enough. just for a moment, let yourself think that you don’t need to change. just for a moment, let yourself think that you don’t have to change. let yourself think that you don’t need to figure it out. just for a moment, let yourself think that you don’t need to grow and evolve. just for a moment, let yourself think that you are perfect. just for a moment, let yourself think that you are cool, which is actually so stupid to think. just for a moment, let yourself think that you know enough. just for a moment, let yourself think that you have the right to not understand. just for a moment, let yourself think that you are right. just for a moment, let yourself think that you are on the right path. just for a moment, let yourself think that you are where you want to be. just for a moment, let yourself think that everything is fine, that it’s actually fucking perfect. just for a moment, let yourself think that you are good. just for a moment, let yourself think that you were wronged. just for a moment, let yourself feel the anger towards everyone and everything. just for a moment, let yourself feel the hate towards everyone and everything. just for a moment, stop the need to rise to expectations of anything — of something, of society, of your mother, of your grandparents, of the man you’re looking for. just for a moment, stop judging yourself. just for a moment, accept yourself as you are: disgusting, too fat, with a face full of pimples, with cellulite on your ass, with hips too big and ass too small, with a body of a man, with hair on your face, with hairy legs, back, and armpits you’ve tried everything to get rid of. you’ve devastated your skin with wax. you’ve shaved, only for it to grow stronger and become even more visible on your strawberry legs that no lotion can fix, and you can’t afford laser treatment yet. fuck this. fuck everything. stuff yourself with chocolate and go to sleep. ignore everything, ignore negative thoughts, ignore positive ones. just take a breath and rest. tomorrow, or in a few weeks, you will find the strength to eat clean again, take care of yourself, take yourself dancing on the carpet in the middle of your room, take out your gratitude journal and do something productive, because it actually makes you feel better. you will realize that you love your family, and they want the best for you, no matter in what way they show it. and actually, you have a lot to love. hate will pass, as it has no space in your beautiful heart, and no one deserves it. you will jump back, with insight on why it’s you, you actually hate on, and you will learn how to be yourself again. you will find light again. you will realize that your past hurt is only keeping you in its claws, that it passed, and you can get yourself up — not with even more hate or blame, but slowly with love and compassion. you will find the strength to face what’s actually not okay and doesn’t sit right with you, and you will realize you want to do better, not only for others, but for yourself. because you’ve spent too long in a swamp. you will find freedom because you didn’t suppress that, and you didn’t let it control you or your life. and maybe you tried a thousand times, but maybe what you’ve learned to become and how you’ve learned to survive is too much to handle for your beautiful soul, fragile heart, and hard mind. this is true power, and only you have it inside of you to fix your life with the smallest steps you can take, because you are drained. you will notice that those bitchful patterns that had you as their puppet start to whimper in fear and dissolve as the little pathetic shits they are — not overpowering demons they pretend to be. let this part that somehow got to you die. it’s not pity she needs but a goodbye.

[mstudi0s]

Overcome Affirmations

I can get past this roadblock.

I am stronger than this situation.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

I have survived 110% of my worst days.

I have bounced back before and have always come back stronger.

My mistakes do not define me.

I am not what people say I am. I am only what I say I am.

Others opinions of me do not define me.

Good things will return back into my life.

After a storm is always a rainbow.

[inkneverdies]

[katharinaleoniekorb]

If someone were to ask me to wrap up the art of living…

✹ Letting go of resistance and surrendering to transformation — so freedom may unfold and new perspectives emerge.

✹ Remaining soft and gentle — to keep the heart wide open.

✹ Being humble enough — to forget oneself at times and trust in life may grow.

✹ Feeling deeply, drawing shadows into the light — so they lose their hold, their weight, their, their power.

✹ Seeking stillness and carving space for feeling—so peace may settle in.

✹ Truly empathizing — not just in thought, but in soul — so one may become a light for others.

✹ Laughing and dancing — to meet life’s gravity with humor, ease and grace.

[cerisenoire-html]

Growing Up and Out

My mother My miracle mother My beautiful kind smart mother

Who held me in her womb, her arms, her heart Taught me to say please and thank you And I love you and I hate you

Now I go walking alone, driving alone With my thoughts and hers

I work so hard to leave her Day in and day out I pray I don't burden my miracle mother

But I know that even after all of these years, No one will ever soothe me in the same way

[justmyhumanexperience]

Recently, I learned about toxic empathy. It's such a strange thing because it's an oxymoron but it's a very real thing in the world of psychology. Basically, if you hang on too tightly to someone and over empathize with them you can end up taking on more than you should in regards to someone's situation. It comes at the cost of you losing yourself. Now, it's not a terrible thing to be an empathetic person but you have to set healthy limits in which you empathize with the person you are dealing with.

[yourabundancemanifestation]

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