#HSKINDRAMA

[smolmagicalmuffin]

Can we promise not to harass dammek kins? Because he hasnt been fully introduced yet and who knows maybe he will see the faults in what he did and apologize? Idk im worried and i would hate for drama to start up...

[ghostytricksters]

lolll i know of someone who says they’re kin w/ jade harley and yet posts and defends ships like brojohn, johnjade, and johnjake with “it’s just fiction! learn to separate fiction from reality!” esp when people express discomfort and ask them to put a warning on their posts and i swear to god if i see their ass make one post in the hskin community i will drag that callout post i made into the tag faster than they can blink bye 

their nasty, manipulative, inconsiderate ass can stay far far away

[17293817-blog]

Hey I’d like to stay anonymous for my own safety, but if anyone remembers Tumblr user @v-serket (a callout is posted for them in the hskindrama tag, but it’s currently only accessible on mobile tumblr) they’ve resurfaced again. They’re currently @ doilhouse on vent and @ sinyes on peach. I don’t know their tumblr as they’ve remade multiple times since being called out, but I’ll make another post on this blog when I do find it. I just wanted to let everyone know because they were a really scary person for a while and I wanted everyone to be safe. They are now going by Zara and have stopped iding as Vriska Serket, they now id as Rose Lalonde and Andromeda Black from Harry Potter.

[medichams]

Hey for everyone's safety, if you're on the app vent and were involved in the v-serket drama from like a year ago Quinn is on vent as doilhouse and is purposefully trying to listen to and interact with people involved in the drama or who reblogged their callout on tumblr. Idk what their Tumblr is, but they're now going by Zara and are kin with Rose Lalonde.

[gamerphobe]

it costs 0 dollars to stop harassing people for their kins

[turntechgodammit]

what the shit is with all these hskin w discourse blogs

discourse face to face the way we did back in ye olden days of hskindrama

[sdvxii-moved]

hskindrama is so fucking funny

[doctorcorby]

When you say someone can’t be kin with a character who is disabled, you are reducing that character to only their disability.

[auto-responder-ai-blog]

When multiple DID and DDNOS systems are arguing with you, a soulbonder/tulpamancer/endogenic system/natural system, that you need to have a dissociative disorder to be a system/multiple then you should listen to them, rather than insisting on your point of view.

Step one of not stepping on us: Don’t talk over us.

[parcelpyxis-archive]

okay, so everyone is getting mad about "fake systems", but i think the issue is that they are misunderstanding the actual definition of "head mates" and "fronting"? it seems like some people think they are synonymous with kin shifts/personality shifts when that isn't the case. a head mate isn't a kintype. head mates are entirely separate consciousnesses that have their own thoughts and feelings. they are like more than one person living inside one body, so they take turns fronting and being in control. and someone will need to have gone through childhood trauma at a young age for their psyche to be split like this. it's pretty impossible for it to just happen on it's own, or for someone to be born with their head mates already existing. people are able to have bpd and did/ddnos at the same time and people can experience dissociation without having a system (there's more than one "type" of dissociation) but identity issues and system members are NOT the same thing.

[meowlinleft-blog]

From a physically disabled + hearing impaired Meulin - You can’t choose your kintypes - Just because you don’t have a certain trait in this life doesn’t make you any less valid - You don’t understand the disabilities you may have had in a past life as a kin, so you can’t talk like you do, but that doesn’t make you invalid. - None of this was ever even a concept until a bunch of white girls pretending to be trans japanese girls decided to make it up to try and “claim” kintypes please s to p

(=^・^=)

[katana-kind-blog]

im autistic but i say its perfectly fucking fine for allistics to ID as nepeta not to mention that “nepeta is autistic” is just a fucking headcanon

i mean its a great one but trolls also dont subscribe to typical human neurology i mean theyre an entirely different fucking species

also im psychotic and its fine for non-psychotics to ID as sollux

whatever guys just be who you are and dont let assholes try to reduce characters to a specific trait. have a good day yall

[movedddddddddddddddddd]

friendly reminder that natural systems and soulbonds are fake B)

[doctorcorby]

Why telling people to change/repress/drop kintypes is psychologically harmful and abusive

you are putting the theoretical momentary ‘offense’ of a group of people over the real, sustained feelings and mental health of a person who has to live with them day to day.

you are telling someone to change a part of their core identity to be more socially appropriate

a kintype is a discovered reason for feelings and memories that already existed in a person. By telling them to ignore that kintype, you are asking them to decontextualize potentially traumatic memories and experiences.

you are telling them their emotional and psychological needs and health are unimportant to you.

a kintype is not something someone choses. Telling someone to drop one is telling them to do something literally impossible.

Telling a person to repress their kin memories is like telling them to repress childhood memories

Ignoring a kintype won’t make it go away, it will only make the effect that kintype has on someone more confusing and upsetting. (effects like memories, supernumerary phantom limbs, feelings of loss and grief, etc)

Yes, this list is somewhat repetitive, but it’s important that people understand these points. Telling people to repress/drop/change kintypes is harmful, no matter what.

@problematicgumshoe 

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[brostrlder]

Kind of funny that a Vriska of all people is sayin’ this shit ‘bout us. Ain’t like she’s any better since she’s suicide baitin’ people.

[doomedpriince-blog]

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dont feel pre22ured twwo be multiiple cau2e you aiint mii22iin out on lot only thiin youre mii22iin out on ii2 2ufferiin and leadiin a 2ane liife