#I don wannaaaaa

[stardynamite]

Guyssss I’m turning 18 next week which means that I’ll officially be older than Saiki in the show Saiki K 😩

I don’t wannaaaaaa gnnnnn

[inkedmyths]

Augh.

[caregiverlad]

i don wannaaaaa plus dunno if could fall sleep, my tummy hurtin n feel icky :< wish i could though

-🏳️‍⚧️

maybe you should drink some water, and maybe try taking some tums? laying down might help you feel better too.

[tinselkelli]

MzKatieCassidy: So tired. Don't feel like doing anything. Never leaving the couch

[theeverhopeful]

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[transdro1ds]

h@nkc0n fandom is so fucking obsessed with c0nnor getting hank to eat better and exercise more. you don’t fucking know how much he exercises. it could be a lot. sometimes people are just fat. a lot of times when people hit middle age they gain weight for no reason and hank is in his goddamn 50s my dudes. 

also like?? he passed the physical exam to become a police officer at some point in his life, and you have to be reasonably strong and smart and fast to do that, and he’s a god damn police lieutenant, and we have EVERY indication that he used to be a fucking pillar of society and went into a huge downspiral when his fucking son fucking DIED.

and i’ve read multiple???? fics where c0nnor is like “come on hank we gotta go exercise” and he’s like “UUUUUUGH I DON WANNAAAAA” as if he’s never exercised before in his life and he sure as shit isn’t going to start now. HE! IS! A POLICE! OFFICER! HE’S EXERCISED BEFORE! HE’S BEEN VERY PHYSICALLY FIT BEFORE! THIS LITERALLY HAS TO BE TRUE IN ORDER FOR HIM TO BE A POLICE OFFICER!

Same for acting like Hank has never eaten healthy food before and turns up his nose at Connor offering him healthier options. Hank was a husband and a father. You think he and his wife and Cole ate fast food burgers for breakfast lunch and dinner every day of their lives when they were a family??? Fuck no! You know who does eat fast food burgers whenever they can? People who are just barely able to struggle through each day who certainly do not have enough mental or physical energy left at the end of each day to cook for themselves. 

The only problems with Hank’s health that anyone should be trying to target (and that someone should be a professional of some sort and NOT his boyfriend) are his mental health because he’s had persistent suicidal ideation for months or years and that’s the most urgent threat to his fucking life, and also, and perhaps at the same time, his alcoholism, which is not helping his mental health at all certainly and is itself considered a mental illness and is not doing great things to like, his organs and stuff either.

The issue with C0nnor barging in and transforming his life is that it doesn’t work that way. Any mental health professional or any person who works with addicted people can and will tell you that someone has to WANT to recover and has to take those steps by themselves or it doesn’t count--like, if you force someone to go to AA meetings and they don’t want to be there, they’re not going to get better, you know? (AA is also a very flawed model for addiction recovery but that’s a very different post!!!) 

I hate to say it but I think a lot of this ever-present trope for this ship is not only naivete about how recovery happens but also...fatphobia. Like, as I was writing this post I was able to reflect on a lot of the fic I’ve read and it absolutely boggles the mind how many fics I’ve read where the assumption is that Hank has never in his life eaten well or exercised and sometimes he doesn’t even know how. And people ignore everything else they know about the character that is a very strong indication that this is NOT the case, and their brains just subconsciously throw it in the garbage because look at him, he’s fat, everyone knows fat people are fat because they never exercise and they eat 700 burgers a day, right???? (That last part is sarcasm, dear god it’s sarcasm.)

[mister-lady]

Bu i don wannaaaaa

But you should!!!! You need sleep!! You can talk wiff ur buddies tomorrow!!! U need som sleep!! I know its hard to sleep and it sucks :( but it's good four u and you'll feel better afterward!!! <33

[littllynniethep00h]

I don wannaaaaa, bedtime is stupidddddd 😭😔 but I listen to my Daddy so I'm gonna. Nini!!

[hello-zuko-here]

300 more words ughhhhhh almost there