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love when men cry about body hair bc "it's hygiene" and yet 15% of cis men leave the bathroom without washing their hands at all and an additional 35% only just wet their hands without using soap. that is nearly half of all men. that means statistically you have probably shaken hands with or been in direct contact with one of these people.
love when men say that women "only want money" when it turns out that even in equal-earning homes, women are actually adding caregiver burdens and housework from previous years, whereas men have been expanding leisure time and hobbies. in equal-earning households, men spend an average of 3.5 hours extra in leisure time per week, which is 182 hours per year - a little over a week of paid vacation time that the other partner does not receive. kinda sounds like he wants her money.
love that men have decided women are frail and weak and annoying when we scream in surprise but it turns out it's actually women who are more reliable in an emergency because men need to be convinced to actually take action and respond to the threat. like, actually, for-real: men experience such a strong sense of pride about their pre-supposed abilities that it gets them and their families killed. they are so used to dismissing women that it literally kills them.
love it. told my father this and he said there's lies, damned lies, and statistics. a year ago i tried to get him to evacuate the house during a flash flood. he ignored me and got injured. he has told me, laughing, that he never washes his hands. he has said in the last week that women are just happier when we're cooking or cleaning.
maybe i'm overly nostalgic. but it didn't used to feel so fucking bleak. it used to feel like at least a little shameful to consider women to be sheep. it just feels like the earth is round and we are still having conversations about it being flat - except these conversations are about the most obvious forms of patriarchy. like, we know about this stuff. we've known since well before the 50's.
recently andrew tate tried to justify cheating on his partner as being the "male prerogative." i don't know what the prerogative for the rest of us would be. just sitting at home, watching the slow erosion of our humanity.
#writeblr#warm up#ps edited so it is more clear where “half” of men is coming from:#15% literally don't even touch water#an ADDITIONAL 35% ''wash'' by just running their hands under water WITHOUT SOAP#15+35 =50%#like that is not washing ur hands. go back and use soap#btw the numbers for women are 4% never washing and 15% ''just water''#which is still gross but like. sooo much better yikes#ps i know we're all gay on this site but watching ppl ''correct'' my math on this has been wild#i have a learning disability im genuinely bad at math so i check EVERY time someone corrects me#but no they're just confidently wrong.....#182 hours is a week babes. 182/24 (number of hours in a day) is ~7.6#that's where i got that number from. also from rent we know there's 168 hours in a week.#ALSO btw if u read this and ur response is ''men are also struggling rn tho'' like babe you missed the point of it tho#this doesn't even make fun of men it's legit just pointing out that bigotry against women isn't founded#in anything men actually CARE about . like they don't actually CARE about ''being clean'' when they make fun of armpit hair#or they would be WASHING THEIR HANDS.#men pretend to be rollin' in cash and Apex Predators and instead they are trained to be lazy and unwilling to act in emergencies#i have never and will never make fun of men for asking for more support on important topics like DV and mental health.#this is so clearly not about men; it's about how common just being plainly misogynistic has become.#like they don't try to hide it anymore.
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Wondering what touch point cleaning is and why you might need it? The COVID-19 pandemic has opened up people’s eyes to the importance of deep cleaning their offices. It is also worth knowing that even though a surface looks clean, it does not necessarily mean that it is germ-free.
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Alternative version of Robby's "Second Place" Mental Spiral I would have liked to see
#Cobra Kai#Robby Keene#My Videos#Miyagi-horiginal#This isn't a perfect edit but it gets the gist of what I imagined ahfjksjfjs#It would be a little out of nowhere if Robby were to be thinking of Johnny for the third or fourth time if it were really in the episode#Only not to touch on it ever again#But that's sort of the point; Robby's insecurities and hurt towards not feeling like Johnny's priority has felt heavily streamlined#In what seems to be one-two-three steps for a clean wrap up resolution and then these Stepford Wives smiles about Johnny's new baby 😀🙃#This cut wouldn't exist in the episode because Robby's problems feeling inferior to Miguel/the new baby can't exist within the narrative
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passionate people genuinely pulls me in. i genuinely think that i would absolutely adore listening to zhongli's stories (be it his memories or random knowledges) or al haitham's hyperfixation (he seems like someone who would have small projects or interests in different topics and just laser focuses on them until he finds another thing that interests him).
i can listen to people gush about their current hyperfixation for hours on end. yall are amazing. keep at it. i hope it brings you even more joy. ily /p
#rin rambles#this just hit me as i was doing cleaning round the flat while listening to podcasts#(i still am but i took a break bc dinner)#and then i'm reminded about this#literally listened to my brother gush about sword of convallaria and while i would not enjoy it i'm pretty sure we talked about it for-#-like an hour#not the type of game i like but it's like#it's like. you know when you listen to someone talk casually unscripted and you can HEAR their passion-#and you can hear that they're just so genuinely fixated about the topic and they govto tangents sometimes and they trail off sometimes but-#-then they find a point they haven't touched and their voice picks back up in excitement#it's so endearing to hear
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just read a delightful OT3 story in another fandom involving hot baths and massages, and now I am directly yoinking a bunch of its beats so I can tell myself a bedtime story about Lisa and Kaeya bullying Jean into a hot bath and massages. 10/10, do recommend
#she comes back filthy and exhausted from a big battle#and lisa is like 'you're not getting in my bed in that state'#jean is confused. there was no previous discussion of getting in lisa's bed. this was supposed to be kaeya's date night#and now will inevitably be swallowed up by post-mission reports#(but she and kaeya can sneak in some late-night couch cuddles while reviewing everyone else's reports. so it's fine. really)#at which point lisa informs them both that they are having their date night in her bathroom#look at them. merely stepping into the office would create an hour's worth of work for noelle. add another hour for every item they touch#do they want to do that to noelle? of course not. how COULD they#at which point kaeya is pretty enthusiastically getting with the program. surely they can write their reports at lisa's. once they're clean#waiting to review all the others' reports until tomorrow will give them the chance to clean up first too. great for morale#(and obviously lisa will now be inviting herself along on the bathroom date. it's her tub#jean will just have to endure both of them loving on her at once. how terrible. whatever will she do)#...damnit. logging this for later to see if i can write the bath-and-massages without actually completely ripping off this other writer#anyway#jean has two hands and two aides: coincidence?
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V: Gimme your hands.
K: What, we holdin' hands now like some teens in the schoolyard?
V: Hm-hm.
K: Pff... yeah, okay, sure.
(he actually loves it, but he would never admit it)
ALSO.
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I'm sorry for being such a tease but yeah... They're holding hands ;___; like some teens in love in the school yard ;___;
There's a few things iffy yet with one of the hand poses, details really but I'm a perfectionist always, in case you couldn't tell yet XD
Also, everything here is far from shareable yet, cause I'd like to do these as AMM addons eventually, currently they're just replacers. Also obviously I wanna make a whole pack with modular poses and whatnot because we need. hand. holding. poses!!! As many as possible for all the scenarios xD
#cyberpunk 2077#kerry eurodyne x v#kerry eurodyne#male v cyberpunk#cyberpunk vp#cyberpunk 2077 vp#cyberpunk photomode#vincent ezaki#otp: to bad decisions#my vp#elven tries modding cyberpunk#*squishes my blorbos together like dolls*#bUT also!!!#this is really important to me bc like....#kerry doesnt know that at that point but Vince *never* had someone to hold hands with like that when he was a teen#and in general physical closeness and affection just make his brain go brrrrrrr and not always in a good way#cause guy is so touch starved he cannot deal with the most casual pda#kinky sex with strangers is okay but holding hands? lovingly gazing in each others eyes? unheard of#will never be over the intimacy of just *existing* side by side#also another random sidenote: kerry's outfit is still a wip XD I wanna clean up the jacket and recolor some bits and pieces#but I love it on him so much. vince picked it for him :3
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first week back at school and ahhhhhh everything is a little overwhelming currently
- my living space is full of boxes i have simply not had the energy to unpack at all.... hopefully this weekend (but i have also been invited to a Social Event so WE SHALL SEE)
- this school year is going to have So Much Important Stuff happening inbetween the many weeks of practice placement
- such as The Academic Text
- AND i need to finish the big project i was supposed to have finished ages ago
- our teacher this year speaks swedish with a very thick french accent and i speak norwegian with a dialect, we really struggle to understand one another but maybe hopefully that will change over time.... please...........
- i'm stressed about Stupid Bureaucracy Stuff
- and im so so sleepytired :(((
- and it's too humid and warm for comfort :(((((
AT LEAST I HAVE CUTE SOCKS
purchased in a distraught jetlag haze and subsidized by my travel insurance. they're my favourites now
#swedenquest#everything happens so much :(((#but i will be okay...!!!!!!!! no unsolicited advice please#in fact i have been given resources for metacognitive therapy to fight my brain demons and im excited to get more into that#but also how am i supposed to read anything under these circumstances.#tomorrow is self study day and if i wasn't so stressed about Big Project I would've made myself stay at home and rest/unpack#ill simply have to compromise. sleep a little bit longer; couple hours of tinkering at school#take it easy but take it!!!!#also god i was first out to have kitchen cleaning responsibilities this week#which isnt Hard u just need to run the break room dishwasher and take out the trash BUT#the trash bags are the worst quality trash bags i have ever encountered. they tore at my touch.#i tried so hard to remove the trash from the trash cans in a neat and professional manner but it all kept falling apart#and next thing you know there's coffee grounds all over the floor and everyone looks at you with pity#i got some help but it was so stressful and Bad#and there's someone in the 2nd year who keeps emptying the dishwasher even tho it's not their turn and I WOULD DO IT IF U WAITED FIVE MINUT#they did this all the time last year too and it's like. i get that they're stressed out by dishes in the sink or whatever i really do get i#but it's really messing with the system and like... teaching everyone else to not contribute??? because they don't even get to??#AND i lost at minigolf with like 20 more points than everyone at my team#which i genuinely wouldn't mind except i dragged the average score down so bad we could never have won anything#FIRST WEEK OF SCHOOL GOING FINE
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Me meeting new people I’m not comfortable with: -keeps a distance but offers a handshake at most-
Them: -pull me into a hug-
Me:
#pix habla#honey… sweetheart…. do not touch me#:T they also asked for pictures and for my social media#tbh they are fake as hell there’s no one as fake as these people#I thought I was just gonna volunteer to clean dog poop like I usually do at the shelter#but got pulled into a selfie party#legit had to hide in the car i just wanted to help the poor dogs I didn’t want to be around weird people#also ? their party in the lobby was giving the poor dogs so much anxiety the adults got aggressive and the puppies were shaking to the point#of pooping themselves#like ……….#okay
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was watching this vod and this outfit...
#goddamn did he really nail late 2010s#his haircut looks so good#scruff on point#cuorduroy jacket so cute#the only dings he gets are the sandals and the cartier ring#the sandals are self explanatory#and i will always think wearing cartier jewelry is so cringe#the ring looks really good on him and especially with the outfit#but wearing cartier jewelry is just so… ugh#it’s like wearing a gucci belt#it’s like the walmart of designer#(said by someone whose wardrobe is almost entirely from walmart)#but it’s the la boy/upper middle class aesthetic you gotta look like you have it like that and nobody's gonna know it's designer if they#cant see the stamp#and the ring and the sandals are the touch of boy you are so from la in this fit for me. the whole thing is pretty la but you get it#so. i miss him wearing fits like this he looks so good if a little too clean but still good. good clean. hipster boyfriend machine#smooch#barbie doll
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#*handel's hallelujah playing*#a baptism#hehe#i've probably finished it a two-digit number of times at this point but it's been a while#Steam actually recognizes the PS4 controller and changes all the prompts in-game to match the PS button symbols that's kinda cool#after five years of potato-laptop screen using this one is like staring at the sun help#i will be oscar isaac chop-sticking my snacks from this point onward no filth-encrusted fingers shall be touching this keyboard#i can actually update my steam list now i guess#i've been out of the AAA game for ages now i don't even know what to want anymore#i have also chosen to forsake my past chrome ways and pledged myself to a life of firefox from now on#clean break and all that#i can finally ctrl+c/v things again#and after over a goddamn year of working a laptop with a busted screen i can finally just#close#the lid#what a concept
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siiiiiiigh
#i am in fact a grown adult who is still incapable of talking about their feelings and thoughts to people so I'll just rant here#my relationship with my mother is. so weird. it's not always bad but it always ends up bad for one reason or another#she can be perfectly civil and i'll still be irritated. other times i do try to tolerate it and engage and she ends up saying something#upsetting to me either way.#i don't want to keep being rude to her i don't want to get mad and annoyed all the time but i just can't stop. it's always like this#and i hate myself for it and i hate her and i hate everything about it#today i was leaving for work and she was like. i'll take the trash out of your room and i told her not to do it. she kept insisting and i#had to raise my voice at her to maybe get the point across to get her not to touch anything#and yes my room is a fucking mess and it is something to be embarrassed of. i just feel so fucking tired all time time and i keep tellin#myself that i will clean it this time for sure and then i don't. most of the time it's my mother taking care of it without my permission#and i am grateful for it bc nobody likes living in a mess... but i also fucking hate it because it makes me feel even more worthless#i just can't get rid of the feeling of shame. no matter what i do.#and back to the mother thing. i told her that if she touches anything i will go to her room and throw out anything that isn't nailed down#even though objectively i have no reason to oppose her helping me#but i also fucking hate it#maybe being rude is the only way to get it across. but also i get irritated about anything so easily#i feel shittier and shittier every day. had there been an easy and painless way of killing myself i would have done it already#and despite how much i want to blame this on a disorder or lack of access to medication. there is no magic pill that would fix me is there#i'm just a shitty person who cannot get it together despite everything being handed to me#i'm literally bad at anything and everything. i'm not even a good blogger lmao#people have it much worse in life and still do better. me? i'm useless. there's no helping it. i should have died from covid or something#nobody will save me. nobody cares enough. besides one person whom i push away because i can't stand her and i don't even know why 👍#if i stop messaging people first most of them would forget about me#i am alone. a lonely person in a messy room desperately trying to be entertaining so someone will pay a little bit of attention to me.#not to mention the geopolitics#i won't even go there. i hate the possibility that people might see it mentioned and give me shit for it#one more thing that is apparently my fault. directly or indirectly#all i want is to leave this country. spend the day with someone who cares for me like an actual friend. and then shoot myself so i don't#have to go back#sealene.txt
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my mystery illness hurting me -_-
#.pdf#rd#sorry im about to start rambling and whining about my sickliness in the tags feel free to not read them if you dont wanna see that#feels bad. lately every time i do a little too much of anything (which isnt much) i feel miserable and weak and bad at breathing for daaaays#suspecting me/cfs or i thought maybe post viral fatigue after i got covid a month ago but 1) ive had the fatigue the better part of a year-#-its just that its gotten worse since recovering from covid and 2) from what ive read post viral fatigue is mechanically like identical to-#-me/cfs (when it presents like my bullshit) and also can persist and “become” me/cfs so i dont see much of a point in differentiating them#either way it soudns like i only have a shot at getting better if i avoid doing anything that triggers it to get worse (which is a lot) so.#cant exactly put my whole life on hold to lie around in bed for months on end. so whatever#also heartrate spikes while standing in a way thats very consistent with pots. another thing that causes Issues but does not explain all of-#-my symptoms. so i dont thknk its just that. whayever iguess im trying to get in touch witb my doctor cos last night it got concerningly bad#likee. did a little cleaning last night cos my mother forced me to and afterwards i got a horrible cough and was wheezing and shit#ik ik cleaning = dust = cough but in the past when cleaning has aggravated my lungs its felt so different and gone away almpst immediately#but like. i have since slept and still feel a horrible heaviness in my chest and shit idunno. dont like it
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there is no possible way to communicate to my fucking roommates that they're not doing their share of the chores in this house without them ignoring or hating me and i feel like i'm going Insane
#i wanna talk about me#i texted this morning saying Hey guys its dirty in here. i'm doing my part now please do yours at some point today too#and just the other minute i checked with the person who's supposed to do the counters if she did them yet#cause they're still fucking dirty.#and she said i cleaned them last night and always does them at night#Well then why is there a fucking oil slick next to the stove that's been there for three days then.#But just me trying as politely as possible to check in and ask 'did you get to the counters yet?' and she got cross with me#i can tell.#and of course she hasn't done the bathroom yet either.#even though it's her week. and was last week too.#but it's still gross.#and she hasn't fucking touched it.#and like#she got way on MY ass months ago for the exact same fucking chores. and not being up to her cleanliness standards#but no matter how many times i try to improve things or speak up nothing changes#if i ask nothing changes. if i keep asking i'm an annoying nag and they hate me!!!#what the fuck am i supposed to do!!#i can't clean an entire house of four people all by myself every week!!#AND WE AGREED TO SHARE THE CLEANING!!!!!!!!!!#WE'VE HAD MULTIPLE HOUSEHOLD MEETINGS ABOUT THIS
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young nesta who was groomed to use her beauty as a weapon vs nesta now who has never felt more ugly and undesirable in her life since she has failed the one thing she was raised to do
#ask to tag //#i have a post somewhere around here somewhat about this#this plus the very long winded meta in my head re: her body dysmorphia and ED#it's all coming together..................somewhere. in the trenches that hold the braincell i sometimes use#i think she has a touch of OCD and the thing about nesta's mindset re: her body/eating habits#is that it's. always present for her#there is never a time when she isn't thinking about her appearance. how she presents herself to people#she cannot be in front of a mirror long or she will spiral about everything wrong with how she looks#the way she carefully constructs herself every single morning for the day is like preparing for battle#because that's exactly what it is for her#and everything has a number. everything has significance#any sort of comment even just an aside even harmless regarding her clothes or how she looks will ruin the rest of her day#RUIN it. she's checked out after that#she picks herself apart every second of every day and most of it's rooted in her looks#her mother beat vanity into her from a very young age#because that's all she has as the eldest sister who needs to get married to ensure her sisters' her family's futures#and it makes me rage because she is seen as either cold or explosive#but nobody wants to point out that she's most often despondent. dissociative. avoidant. in pain.#anyway i need to settle down i am back in the building#this place is a mess i'm cleaning i'm cleaning
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I really feel absolutely normal until like the day after socializing a lot & then I begin to reflect & start to think that my friend’s autistic girlfriend might have been right about me being a little autistic lmaoooo
#me#I don’t think the benefits outweigh the trouble of getting assessed#but I will say I’ve taken the diagnostic quiz more than a few times & scored higher than I expected#it’s in key areas mostly but maybe I don’t see how I’m coping in other ways#extremely touch sensitive & can’t wear synthetics#I can touch a shirt & accurately guess the fabric content#I do dishes & cleaning with organic rubber gloves on#I take things super literally#I have a mental list of social shortcuts so I can interact more seamlessly#a histamine intolerance#I love routines#I carry earplugs bc I can’t handle loud noises#but mostly I notice my differences when I socialize a lot#& when I don’t socialize seamlessly I get a lot of anxiety about how I communicate or the information I share#as though if I have enough data points I can ‘fix’ how I interact with others#which is not a concept that I think a lot of people worry about??#maybe they do??#everything went well yesterday but I still caught myself analyzing my interactions#like I’m preparing for the next mission lol#idk IS that normal? what do you think??#basically I met her & out of nowhere she asked me if I am autistic#I said I didn’t know#she was quiet for a few moments watching me wash dishes#& then she said ‘you are autistic’#lol peer reviewed#oh and I LOVE TO ORGANIZE INFORMATION!!#it’s like my favorite thing to do
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i cant see posts cos my app is borked but i can still MAKE posts so you all can still see me complain!
it is so fucking impossible to search for fucking anything at all on the goddamn internet and if you want any amount of specificity at all you are well and truly fucked
#toy txt post#me: ceramic gooseneck kettle#borosilicate glass gooseneck kettle. does this exist? even one? etsy: google: wayfair: amazon: one billion listicles with amszon affiliate#links: here are metal kettles? cast iron kettles? thats what you want? best gooseneck kettles of 2024#i dont want that. theyre all gonna be fucking metal bc thats easy to make that shape ig and ppl dont Taste it except for me ig#and its like low cost and not fragile compared to other materials? theres glass kettles that i should probably just go for but i thought id#check if there was even a possibility of a really nice controlled pour with a material i cant taste. but whatever. ive even capitulated to#having to do it on a stove at this point somewhat just fuck i want one that boils the water and pours it nicely that doesnt have fucking#metal touching the water at any point bc i can Fucking Taste It and it tastes bad#and it also doesnt even taste metallic which is cool. love that. just tastes like maximum grody. no one else can taste it. i feel insane#the water vessels were so clean and yet still tasted so fucking bad i was wondering if i even still like coffee. i did and do. i just dont#fucking like water thats interacted with metal i guess#anyway this is just me complaining about how impossible it is to fucking gind anything#find* also im Exploring Black Coffee. im in my coffee era. im trying to taste and unlock and understand and explore the Complex Flavors#i bought a chemex. its fun to watch it brew...imagine if i could control the water flow better. rn im pouring#from a pyrex bowl out of the microwave and its impossible to control the pour. it pours so bad. im going insane
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