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detectivebambam · 5 months

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you ever block someone super funny bc they won't stop posting about how life is terrible and it never gets better and there's nothing to live for? yeah same

anyway life will always get better and there's always something to live for, even if the only thing you can think of right now is your dog or your favorite video game

#dude grow up #idk #almost 30 and acting like that #at your grown age #anyway lol #rant post #a little bit

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saturdaynightghostclub · 26 days

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This is totally just about my personal life and I can’t necessarily generalize it, but I do feel like I’m encountering a certain sort of insecure standoffish behavior more and more in people my age and it’s really bugging me.

So many people I know approach new acquaintances and social situations with this attitude of “Well, they probably won’t like me anyway, so I won’t even try,” which I find both really juvenile and really unkind. And don’t get me wrong, I do think there’s a time and a place for not caring what people think of you, but when it comes to your attitude and the way you treat other people, you absolutely SHOULD care what they think. You SHOULD want people to like you, or at least not actively hate you, and assuming that everyone you meet is the type of person who won’t is frankly pretty mean. Obviously not everyone is going to like you or want to be your friend, but that doesn’t mean you get to enter every potential relationship like an antisocial ghoul and then be mad that you have no friends? Make this make sense.

It goes hand in hand with this super annoying deal where people throw all their energy into resisting whatever’s popular for the sake of being interesting, failing to realize that not only are they unoriginal but they’re a complete bummer to be around as well. I really assumed we’d all grown out of this, but I’m well into my twenties and encountering people relatively frequently who cannot stand to have anyone think of them as “basic” or “like the rest” or what have you, and I can’t help but wonder if they’re happy with themselves. It’s so corny to say, but the most interesting people are those who like what they like, wear what they want, etc without feeling like they need to justify it to everyone. Nobody is paying close enough attention to you to judge you for half the shit you’re convinced you’re being judged for, I promise.

#sorry this is half-baked and i’m frustrated #and social dynamics are complicated and everyone is different etc etc #but seriously can we drop the act it’s 2024 #i know a woman in her 30s who is so actively hostile to everyone she meets that people just avoid her and she wonders why no one likes her #baby it’s because you suck #and don’t get me started on this other girl #‘i wrote that i don’t like the beatles on my tinder profile because i think it makes me more interesting than other people’#that is almost fucking verbatim folks #NOBODY CARES #shut the fuck uuuuuuup #same asshole who told me she was glad dolores o’riordan died because apparently she just hates the cranberries that much #you’re fucking lame and when i told my friends about that every single one of them gasped because it’s an INSANE THING TO SAY #I swear I’m fine y’all lmao i was just talking to my baby sib about this and it got me thinking

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creativity-deficient · 2 months

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Soooo what are y’all’s hcs on the Tweak family 🤔🤔🤔

#lowkey I like to hc it as a generational trauma type of thing for Mr Tweak #I feel like Richard was a LOT like Tweek when he was little #very anxious and unsure of himself #he mentions in the gnomes episode I believe that his business has been going on 30 years #and was passed down to him by his father by his father before him #growing up I think that he too was given a lot of this coffee by his father #and over the years he was conditioned and manipulated into accepting this as the norm #in hopes that he would one day take over the business #when he was finally old enough his father shared the family recipe with him and at that point he had pretty much been brainwashed #I think he sees a lot of his younger self in tweek which is why he’s so condescending towards him and so determined to steer him down the #same path. Repeating the cycle and all that #and when Tweek is old enough he plans on sharing the family’s secret as his father did with him #MRS Tweak on the other hand is an interesting one #we know so little about her but I feel like her personality also says a lot about her #she’s definitely better than Mr Tweak but she’s still very complacent and neglectful #I think what stands out to me the most about her though is the way her personality can completely switch up at times #most of the time she has this eerily calm almost docile personality #but other times she’s a LOT more attentive and caring #yk like a normal mom #COMPLETELY different from how she usually acts #but the episode that gets me the most is “Gnomes #where she actively goes against Richard’s attempt to manipulate the kids and use them for business ventures #yet this is the same mom that actively poisons her son? presumably for the business??#like it doesn’t make sense to me #I’ve seen someone suggest that Richard has been drugging her too #and BOY would that be a twist #definitely would explain the sudden shift in personality #i definitely think it would be interesting if she was in the dark about a lot of this too #not using this as an excuse as I still do think she is SOMEWHAT negligent on her own but I do think it could explain some things #south park

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mylonelydreaming · 4 days

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People here on Tumblr are so scared to acknowledge that people do in fact get pregnant in their 20's and that it isn't inherently always a bad thing

#zelink #and like it can be late 20's you know #when you're almost 30?#stop acting like grown ass adults having kids is somehow exactly like teen pregnancy #genuinely why are you infantalizing whole ass adults #''people should only have children when they are middle aged'' is a nice idea but kind of idealistic and not necessarily realistic #some people are also just ready to have kids at a younger age than you or I would be yk 🤷‍♀️#please grow up when it comes to this topic #also hot take but if someone wants to depict zelink having kids in their 20's good for them idc

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umemiyan · 18 days

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good morning i have rage flowing through my veins <3 how are my sweetie peas?

#rambles.#crazy how i have to sit here and suffer while my doctor piddles around lol #i confirmed 24 hrs ago that another pharmacy had my meds in stock #and i showed up in person to speak to someone at the doctors office to have the scrip sent over. and still nothing <3 #i also called multiple times this morning and left a voicemail. i'm not above being fucking insane and annoying 😃#i'm trying to be so chill rn and refrain from committing acts of violence #there are like no other good options for doctors here but i'm about to find one 30+ minutes away because this is ridiculous #they haven't even called me back about my gallbladder test results or anything either. that was almost a month ago.

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random-meme-bot · 1 month

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GUESS WHO JUST FUCKING FINISHED HOMESTUCK!!!!

#GOD #I can't actually belive i'm done #FINALLY #Like It was not at all what the internet had let me to belive #I was shock at how long it took for the trolls to show up I was led to belive they were like the main characters #Overall I have VERY mixed feelings about it #I don't want to say it's bad #I would actually say like 70% or so it's really enjoyable #But that 30% is so boooooooring and bad #Like ACT 6 for as many highs as it has it also has some incredibly low lows that almost made me give up #Like it got to a point where me not reading text and just going on from the images and random phrases stoped being an exception and started #to become the norm #AND I READ IT DURING THE DURATION OF THE WHOLE SUMER HOW THE HECK THERE'S PEOPLE WHO READ THROUGH IT IN UNDER A MONTH??#I don't regret reading through it but I doubt I will go for a second run anythime soon...#I also doubt I will read the epiloges or Homestuck2 #Maybe I will play the Friendsim/Pesterquest games one day since I've alredy played (and enjoyed) Hiveswap #Who knows #But for the time being I think im burned out on Homestuck

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waywardvagabonds · 1 month

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“Umremarkable.” Thank god.

#and in my 1AM research spiral last night i found that no cysts by age 30 #means it is almost completely certain i do not have it #‘almost’ of course so the worry will likely live in a corner of my mind until i’m 40 #technically mom was diagnosed at 35 so i’ve still got a year before i have a 1-to-1 comparison #and even then it could be slower progression (see: i’ve never smoked/never pregnant/significantly more physically active)#but for now my kidneys are ‘unremarkable’#imaging-wise at least because function-wise they apparently still act like they’re 20 #you’d think that knowledge alone would have put me at ease weeks ago #but you see my brain is very unwell and likes to freak out about anything and everything #and is also very good at finding actual scientific literature that says function doesn’t say a whole lot until years down the line

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ojamayellow · 8 months

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I actively avoid YouTube videos with titles or thumbnails like "when (media) got DARK" like yes Dragon Ball gets dark. Yugioh gets dark. the Simpsons gets dark. you know what else gets dark? The bags under my eyes.

#kit.txt #Like I get it but also.#Esp with ygo gx they act as if it's the darkest kids show they've ever watched which like. arcv was pretty brutal too #Also with plot driven shows I get it I'm just. Wait is this an old person thing. I'm like almost 30 is this me being old

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benevolentcannibal · 2 years

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clears throat watching wci i've been thinking. what if sanji is a bitch to zoro because: he reminds him of his brothers.

sanji isn't bitchy to the rest of the male crew but it almost pains him to be nice to zoro. now, zoro is a very chill dude and doesn't have static with anyone but sanji (which sanji escalates tbh) . sure this could be played as a joke but oda is good and wouldn't come out and have sanji say that.

on top of that zoro is also very very far from how his actual brothers are and that could piss sanji off more. zoro is physically stronger than sanji, masculine, ribs him about cooking and skirt chasing but he doesn't mean any harm.

It's very interesting seeing this play out without zoro there because his job is the crews protector and that includes sanji. gestures to thriller bark

#this isn't a zosan post dni (jk) unless #seriously this ain't a zosan and i'd need to see how sanji acts post wci because i keep seeing that something happens in the manga so #cannibal speaks #tbh i like pudding and sanji alot cause they are both just odd balls and it's so funny seeing them interact #i don't really like talking about fandom meta because i'm not about to spoon feed ppl screenshots cause i'm almost 30 #literally analysis is fun and i've always been good at it

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writterings · 1 year

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love working at a food pantry and getting to know people that come in. literally we have these three women who live together and they LOVE vegetable oil so much that they take like three bottles of it when it's in stock and we have extra. i'm going to donate huge gallon jugs of veggie oil and save it just for them before i leave in a month.

#service year almost over....almost over....a #and of course the nonprofit that is acting as my boss offered to hire me part time for like $30/hour so.....yeah i didn't say no to that so #im still stuck here after my service year ends but at least ill be paid more for less work lmfao

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quarklynx · 23 days

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Casually flirting with the idea of fucking around and getting a master's degree. The time will pass anyway, right?

#lynx thinks #oh nooooooooooooooooo #nooooo i can feel the urge to be crazy and act on my hubris #ive just been talking to the grad students in the theater program and theyre taking like 9 credits a semester #and its all stuff that seems interesting or fun or at the very least useful unlike my undergrad degree #and im like... i can already sew as well as if not better than these grad students. i can for sure draw better for any designs i come up w #heck i can draw better than the current head costume designer faculty member for the university #so the little overcommitting gremlin in my brain is like ''yoi could totally do it. do it.''#and the other part of me is like ''im already so tired just from working again after needing to recover from burnout. how would i even?#so I'm sitting here Thinking about it...#a masters degree in theater might be better for finding work at a pre-existing institution than just a bachelors in art #and it might be better than a masters in art too #I'd have to stop taking commissions completely probably if i did it for the sake if time #but if i somehow got an assistantship position? then maybe?? i could do it?#oooooooh i hrm so hard y'all #its only been a week since moving and ao much is still in boxes. im only working part time but I'm tired now so much #idk if its just because my stamina levels have atrophied or what but im so. tired. these days #and by these days i mean in the last week.#maybe a week isn't long enough of a sample to work from.#im hoping my energy levels will even out a bit but with the time zone change and the fact that I'm almost 30 I'm not sure if it will?#so thats worrying #i actually kind of see why people seem to drink coffee every day now #I've definitely been eating a lot more normally since i started. both in timing and quantity #i still have projects of my own to work on i cant afford to be so eepy orz

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scoobydoofenshmirtz · 4 months

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I still think there's a lot of missed opportunities from not casting a younger actress as resurrected Mary. The biggest is obviously the fact that she's actually younger than Sam and Dean and doesnt look it but I also think there's a big missed opportunity with Jody in Asa Fox. Irl Kim rhodes and Sam Smith are the same age but Mary is of a whole different generation (baby boomers) as Jody (Gen x) but more than 10 years younger than her. I think that would be such an interesting dynamic to see them interact as women, as mothers, as hunters and I think Asa Fox is written well in this regard but it loses something when it looks like two people in their forties rather than their actual age gap which is not extreme but would still be very noticeable. I think Kelly would be another interesting example as she's also supposed to be quite a bit older than Mary. The dynamic between them comes across much more "motherly" on Mary's side but I think it would be much more interesting if they came off more as peers. Mary in her own timeline of things gave birth like a year ago. She was still breastfeeding an infant when she died. Also it would be funny to have her give Kelly terrible outdated pregnancy advice from the 80s lol.

#i always feel weird criticizing an actress for her age i dont want it to seem like sam smith looks bad or is too old to act or something #but she simply doesn't look 29 #which she shouldn't have to but when the storyline has this element of a young woman out of time it doesn't work as much when she looks #older or the same age as these people #not even to mention how it would change how things look with john and bobby #like Bobby's almost 70 and john was like 50 in Lebanon vs a 30 yr old mary

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corvikari · 4 months

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Finished listening to the Puppetshade Chronicles Part 1

I LOVED IT

everything from the worldbuilding to the characters and music was amazing, I may or may not be back in my Paul Shapera Era

definitely some fanart coming

#paul shapera #the puppetshade chronicles #so good #L3x is my favorite I was so scared when he died #y’all I will kid you not I almost shed actual tears during the end of act 1 song #so sad it’s over #also #the way I was kinda angry at Jes for leaving the bunker 23 gang #then Lauren Osborn #Lauren Osborn is some type of Siren i swear #30 seconds in to Jes’s song she started to grow on me #Also Oliver Marsh killed it like always playing Yery #The new people singing were also really good!#the guy who sang for stringless Oki killed it as well #everyone killed it #definitely adding some of these songs to my Lore playlists for future animatic use #shaperaverse

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softgrungeprophet · 4 months

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so the downside of giving kaine a cane when he gets older, it turns out, is that i keep spelling "cane" wrong in my notes because i keep writing his name instead 😂😭

#arghwrites #by older of course i mean like. 43.#it is a white cane —i almost just did it again!#it is a white cane but it's a support cane AGAIN not the long kind #peter probably also gets a cane in his late 40s but it's not for all the time like it is with kaine.#peter has a bad knee but can generally get around fine. it's just when it acts up that he very occasionally grabs a cane.#it's also not like a joint problem per se it's a nerve problem from when he got that burn at age 21 (fic not yet written LOL)#yet he refuses to retire from spider-man :/#kaine retires when he's like 40 or maybe earlier... mostly because of the whole ''going blind'' thing #but also his other health problems and disabilities #the fact that he makes it 30 years is kind of a miracle

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shizukais · 1 year

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Someone please save me from the embarassement of being myself ASKDSDAKFOHDFKOSHFISDDFIGASDFDKOSASDOFIYHSDJFUASFJDFIDJIFJIASDFSDFJIASSF GOD

#i cant believe im almost 30 and still act like thissss #its funny until i remember its not really #DASIJKDHUFSADJFGAWEHURDUFDEWRHUUHEWHURE #AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA #losing my mind #relationships are hard #idk how to act like 90% of the time #how do you even make friends in adulthood!?

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youremyonlyhope · 7 months

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Can I stop being so forgetful and disorganized... please brain...

#i misplaced a check i got almost 3 months ago and i'm pretty sure it expires after 90 days #and now i either need to TEAR apart my apartment (and i already spent like 30 minutes searching my usual spots)#or i need to accept defeat and email the person to get another #and worry about him judging me for not cashing that check sooner AND losing it #plus that might mess up my taxes since it was payment for something last year #but will re-cutting the check make it count as this year? so yeah i really wanna find this check tomorrow #since i know for a fact next week is officially 3 months and therefore probably the 90 day mark so i NEED to find it. or email.#...maybe if i'm lucky the act of posting and complaining will make the check magically appear #since often once i make someone else aware of the thing being missing it just suddenly pops back into existence #purely to make me look dumb for not having seen it when i was actually looking

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