#and had to stalk myself

[aropride]

this post was a game changer for me. thank you ryan reynolds

[baravaggio]

not the kind of thing I usually share, but I came across the CDC's national intimate partner and sexual violence survey and their 2010 findings on victimization by sexual orientation, and some of the statistics for women are really shocking (tw for rape and assault)

anyway I wanted to share these because I hear vague stats about queer women and sexual violence being thrown around constantly, but we rarely take a step back and look at the actual numbers these days. direct pdf download of the report here: 2010 Findings on Victimization by Sexual Orientation

[angelnumber27]

You lost true friends due to being a crazy person

Uh ma’am this is a mdcdonalds…

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

phone calls my detested

[averlym]

HI I DIDNT KNOW YOU WERE INTO ADAMANDI HOLY SHIT. Can’t believe so few people know about this masterpiece of a musical

:OOOOO hai i agree it is criminally (haha yknow bc there are crimes..) underrated!! and really brilliant!!! discovered it literally midway through the week and akdfjgsjhdsjhjgdf

have a doodle of the saints :3

[sensitivegoblin]

Another update: here's some of the good days💕✨💫

Admittedly I'm spiraling again, it's better than last time but I can feel a decrease, for that reason Im just trying to draw even if I think it's not perfect or finished looking

The purple one is how I got the idea to draw Fortnite models (I know she looks like raven just shush😭)

The pink one is a variation of the green one :3

Headshot hunter and heart throb headshot✨💫

[hollyhomburg]

Where do you shop for your clothes? Are there any particular brands you look out for?

OH SO- this is kinda gonna be a frustrating answer.

i shop almost exclusively at this re-sale/second chance/excess store that puts together the unsold clothing from places like free-people and anthropology and the indy brands that they carry. It's INCREDIBLY local to my stretch of the woods- it's called retail 101 in naugatuck connecticut. i got a 350$ dress new with tags for 30$ and that was the most expensive clothing item listed in the store. it's definitely worthwhile to make the drive. it's about an hour for me, at least two if you're in nyc.

shopping there helps me feel better about getting clothes- because they're generally a lot bit better quality than like h and m or primark (which is what i can reasonably afford). it's also not directly supporting like- all those big businesses and keeps unsold clothes out of the landfill ect. It's helped me get some very very nice clothing for very cheap. it's a very overstimulating experience because it's basically just a football field sized warehouse filled with clothing.

i greatly recommend it if you're overly small or overly large because their greatest selection is in the Xs and Xl range like- I think i saw a size 14 jeans that were originally 400$ on sale for 14$ so- if you're more middle sized it definitely requires some hunting.

but tbh i also hit up the target clearance section for most of my jeans because they have really reasonable sales. i got my favorite pair of ripped jeans there for 6.50$. Target just for some reason happens to fit me pretty reliably- which is honestly rare because i have a 28 inch waist but a 40 inch booty.

[incelsyd]

casually thinking of how natural it is to humans to so easily reject and feel utter discomfort and disgust at something like pedo/zoophilia (rightfully so) to the point that, even the idea of a non-offending zoo/pedo makes us still feel disgust and rejection towards the person. Even as they had the chance to go to therapy and deal with it and never offend in their life, it is two subjects so extremely hard to tackle and have mercy for because of it's inhumane and repulsive nature. It's bittersweet to me, because even i am affected by this natural bodily rejection and disgust, even though it's absolutely moral for me to feel like that. If they haven't offended, aren't they just incredibly damaged people who deal with those immoral, intrusive thoughts? I don't know. And i think i'll never entirely accept someone with those philias due to that fact alone. It will never not intrigue me and make me feel repulsed, and nothing will ever take that away.

[punxsutawneyfilth]

Kinda funny how I was so scared of It Follows I had to leave my horror films class early the day we watched it but I didn't realize WHY until like 3 years later when I was mentioning it to someone and she straight up asked me if I'd been stalked and I was like Oh. Well Yes.

[camgoloud]

the magicians book series confirmed eligible for yuletide nominations longest yeah boi ever

[yabagofmilfs]

If we can’t w*n tonight can we please at least be as funny as the last kings game.

[cadavercorvus]

Vent in tags <3

[pondslime]

my spooky lil october tbr

[floral-hex]

So this chick has been on-and-off again stalking me since high school. I could go into paragraphs of detail (I was about to), but no one wants to read all of that. Suffice to say, I guess she’s had some kind of crush on me for about 15-20 years or so (why??), and every few years it seems she pops up somewhere contacting me to try to persuade me to give her a chance. I should mention we never talked in high school, I actively avoided her, told her I didn’t like her, etc. nothing doing.

Anyway, somehow she’s been on one of my social media pages and saw I was having a hard time lately, so she found my phone number (what?? I hate that you can just find that online) and texted me out of the blue yesterday. Usual protocol is ignore and block so I don’t piss off an unstable person, but they decided to be gross, so

I wasn’t planning on posting anything about this before. If they were creeping around on my pages, mentioning it would only feed into them. Maybe. I don’t know. But this just kind of made me really uncomfortable and their response was shitty. I could have been a lot meaner. I wanted to be. But whatever, that wouldn’t have helped. So I just blocked them and hope that this time it sticks. If they see this, then hey… not cool.

[skitskatdacat63]

Watching something that's just come out and despondently checking the ao3 page for some ultra specific pairing to no avail

[lightgriffinsect]

audbejfbr what kind of an ask is that /nsrs

both of them actually. I think they've caught on bejabfjej 💀💀💀