#atinyphobe

[choisanii]

wait for the enneagram thing, what are the enneagrams of each type of stans (as you've observed) if you know ? im genuinely curious.

ok so a little disclaimer before i start rambling: i’m by no means an expert on enneagrams i just find them absolutely fascinating and i think they’re really helpful overall! like if you know what type you are and what type someone else in your life is, you are evidently able to better understand yourself, them, and therefore better your relationship with them! also considering i have <15 ateez moots, some of which i unfortunately do not know that well, i’m going to try to keep this pretty vague and i’m also going to mostly base it on what i’ve observed in the members themselves (what types i think they may be, but again, i don’t know them personally so take it with a grain of salt!), as I think that one of the reasons our biases are who they are is because we identify with certain aspects of their personality. 

general note about the enneagram system: there are 9 types––one of them is your “basic personality.” this is your “core”, dominating personality, something predetermined partially by genetics and pre-natal factors, but also by your childhood (parental figures, significant events/experiences, etc.). however, since one’s personality is fluid and cannot be confined to just one “box” or “type”, everyone inevitably identifies with other types as well (this is where “wings” come in but that’s too complicated so i’ll stick with the core type). no type is “better” or “worse” than another; it’s literally just an explanation of why you are the way you are and how that contributes to how you see the world and interact with others. 

hongjoong stans: type 1 (the reformer) or type 3 (the achiever) -> in the most basic sense type 1s are perfectionists. conscientious and ethical. they are set apart from the other types due to the existence of a self-critical “internal voice/monologue”. one may even call them workaholics due to the fact that they’ll often suppress their personal needs/self indulgence in favor of productivity. high standards. a very very strong moral compass. incessant desire to be “right”. fears corruption. type 3s are also known to be workaholics and they struggle with competitiveness. they’re extremely driven and ambitious though they are often overly concerned with their self image. gets wrapped up in their problems; tends to neglect their personal needs and the needs of others. strives to gain love and approval through performance. usually regarded as popular and well-liked among others, the “class president” or “homecoming king/queen/monarch” type. aims to be a role model who inspires others. 

seonghwa stans: type 2 (the helper) or type 9 (the peacemaker) -> type 2s at their best are unselfish, altruistic, and maintain an unconditional love for others. extremely warm-hearted and empathetic. great listeners. kind and nurturing. self-sacrificial and people-pleasing. issues with possessiveness and acknowledging their own needs. bases self worth on what they give to others and what they’ll get back in return. may become overly dependent or manipulative. values relationships above all else. embodiment of the “good parent” everyone wishes they had. type 9s avoid anger and conflict at all costs. the mediator. merges with others and makes sacrifices in order to gain a sense of peace, belonging, and harmony, sometimes at the expense of their own feelings. can be very passive-aggressive when upset. trusting and gets along well with others. tendency to be overly complacent. can be very stubborn. maintains a generally optimistic point of view; likes to see the “bright side” of things. 

yunho stans: type 4 (the individualist) or type 7 (the enthusiast) -> type 4s want nothing more than to “find themselves” and create their unique sense of self. inspired and creative, they view themselves as unlike any other human being; not in an arrogant way––in a way that makes them focus on their own personal deficiencies as well as hone in on their personal talents. honest and self-reflective. fears abandonment and loss. struggles with negative self image and low self esteem. type 7s epitomize the motto “don’t worry, be happy.” hate being bored; moves towards excitement, freedom, and a variety of interesting experiences. always willing to try something new. difficulty with commitment. extroverted, optimistic, and playful. struggles with impatience and impulsiveness. aims to maintain their freedom and happiness at all costs, never wanting to miss out on worthwhile experiences. spontaneous, agile, and exceptionally fast learners. book smart and impressive mind-body coordination. 

yeosang stans: type 4 (the individualist) or type 6 (the loyalist) -> like i said with yunho, type 4s uniquely talented and expressive. gift for healing and the creative arts. always looking for more meaning in things. intense emotional highs and lows, difficult to find a happy medium. can be moody and self conscious. wishes to connect with people who understand them and their feelings. honest with themselves; do not attempt to rationalize their states, only accept them, which enables them to endure suffering with a quiet strength. easier for them to process painful experiences that may overwhelm other types. type 6s are reliable, trustworthy, and hardworking. when they are internally stable and self reliant, they become able to champion themselves and others. seek security and support from others in order to fight against anxiety and insecurity. friends for life. beliefs sometimes go against the “status quo” but they will defend and fight for them fiercely, more so than they’d do for themselves. 

san stans: type 2 (the helper) or type 3 (the achiever) -> maybe this is me just projecting since i’m a type 2 wing 3 but these two types really stand out to me in terms of my san biased moots as well as san himself. as i said with hwa, type 2s at their best are unselfish, altruistic, and maintain an unconditional love for others. people person and people-pleaser. extremely empathetic and give good advice. self worth depends on the love and approval of others. considerate, generous, helpful. fears becoming worthless. does not want to be taken for granted. may become overly involved in the lives of others. energetic, romantic, and sensitive to other’s needs and feelings. and like i said with hongjoong, type 3s believe that only through performance, achievement, and success will they gain love and approval. can be very self conscious and self critical; wants to appear their best. motivated and motivating, constantly on a journey of self-improvement. their unwavering belief in themselves and desire for self development inspires others to do the same. a role model. 

mingi stans: type 7 (the enthusiast) or type 9 (the peacemaker) -> like i said with yunho, type 7s are constantly seeking out new experiences. playful, optimistic, versatile, and extroverted. can be “scatter-brained” and end up undisciplined or over-extended. become satisfied when they are able to focus their talents on worthwhile goals. approach to life is not unlike “a kid in a candy store”. able to pick up skills and talents with relative ease, though when confronted with too many, they are unable to choose one to focus on. balance is key. like i said with hwa, type 9s are the mediators, the ones to avoid anger and conflict at all costs. passive aggressive under stress. seeks peace through acquiesce and acceptance. able to bring people together and solve conflicts. very in touch with their inner selves. goal-oriented but not aggressive. do not do well under pressure. struggle with finding a strong sense of identity. “spiritual seekers”, yearns for a connection with the cosmos as well as other people. 

wooyoung stans: type 7 (the enthusiast) or type 8 (the challenger) -> like i said with yunho and mingi, type 7s hate being bored; they are constantly seeking excitement, freedom, and a variety of interesting and new experiences. an avoider; they avoid pain and fear by escaping into fun and pleasure. often have difficulty with commitment and following through. easily distracted and can become exhausted from being constantly on the go. do not attempt to control. brain works at a mile a minute, much faster than anyone else is able to comprehend. aims to stay upbeat and look forward to a bright, positive future. type 8s are proud, confident, powerful, and strong. not afraid of confrontation. extremely self assertive and independent, might be intimidating to others. have difficulty with allowing themselves to be vulnerable. quick to anger but easy to appease. fears being harmed or controlled by others. denies weakness or fear. refuse to “give in” to social convention. 

jongho stans: type 5 (the investigator) or type 8 (the challenger) -> type 5s are visionaries, able to see the world in an entirely new way. focus on complex ideas and skills, sometimes to the point of detachment from the real world. relentless in their pursuit for knowledge. believe that they will eventually figure things out from the safety of their minds. hate feeling useless or incapable. compartmentalize people and situations. minimalist lifestyle; holds back strong feelings and desires/needs. like i said with wooyoung, type 8s are confident, impulsive, and aggressive. not afraid to go after what they want. difficulty being vulnerable. courageous, make good leaders, and protective of the weak. feel the need to control their environment (people as well) which may end up coming off as intimidating and domineering. want to be self reliant by proving their strength and resisting weaknesses. seek total independence and do not like being indebted to anyone. exercise an enormous amount of will, endurance, and persistence in their day-to-day lives. 

[closer-stars]

Absolutely beautiful

[lzffyarchive]

sage!! did you remake? :0

oh yes hi i did 😔😔💖 sorry i did make a post n rb a few times but it was small. also this weird url doesn't help sbdndnf

[1eos]

ma'am you are So Cute your video had me giggling the entire time 😭 you have such a warmness about you omg. i started laughing so hard at "WHO THE FUCK IS THIS why the fuck so i have a HONGBIN photocard"

im love u. being called warm >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> any other compliment. nd look i was SO OFFENDED when i saw that hb card in my leo album like..........that was an actual nightmare

[beserkerjewel]

atinyphobe replied to your post: Hello, everyone!

omg your smile is so beautiful! :(

Thank you! :D

[bixiaoshi]

basically he posted on his story saying rip george floyd no one should be murdered cuz of their skin colour yadda yadda but the post he gave on his story was a police officer and he qas like "thank you to our noble police officers" as of the whole outrage w this isnt Literally about police brutality............

are you fucking kidding me

[dejune]

fucking scream at*ny on twitter quoting sunrise and posting those we will always support u banners under everything ateez tweets...... brain rot

[jonghogf]

I try to stan ateez with their cbs and like as soon as the music video drop hard stans will like go crazy abt the music video for like what a day and then go right back into writing a little weird sexual fantasies about who did this in the music video and that like Ik it’s with a lot Kpop groups but it’s so known in ateez like these ppl have no shame because like how can you be proud of that I just know if the boys were to read some of that stuff they’d be so uncomfortable

god i know 😔😔 you and many others in the tags of my post have said that theyve tried/are trying to stan ateez but its so hard to move past all the sexual stuff associated w the fanbase like ?? theyre literally stopping ppl from stanning the people they claim to love like man cmon

[sasukecore]

i follow like 15 ateez blogs yet none of them ever show up on my dash .... homophobic

[1eedonghun]

@atinyphobe

[barsformars]

Appreciation Post

i just wanna start off by saying that i have a lot of moots that i don't talk to regularly but it's very heartwarming and comforting to always see y'all on my dash. though im not the best at holding conversations, i wanna try and interact with y'all more too huhu anyways i love y'all

(im sorry if i miss anyone out)

to my tumblr family that i definitely need to talk more to; very grateful for this bunch for being here with me since the beginning

@kesmonster @mooneylooney1 @yangcaffeine @waterfallsandrosebuds @daybreakx @vicapuleti @bangteen @randomkpopfiction (& @justasouthernlady @astrohawritings @aveluant1a)

to the moots that im grateful for for all the interactions (or attempts so far); <3 thank you for initiating the convo because i suck at it

@s1ardusk @oh-my-vocal-unit @theredcarat @a-tiny-8iny @seongghwaa @thelargefrye @lilyunhowrites @seoultraveller

to the moots that used to just be someone i looked up to; im still a big fan

@hereisleo @legit-kpop-trash @sidereal-fantasies @yunhoway @rosy-wooyoung @jungyunhoed @closer-stars

to the moots that i always see on my dash but we barely interact; i still love you a lot

@ojo-mii @changbinniez-princess @atinyphobe

to the moots i absolutely miss; i don't see y'all on my dash often but i miss you and think about you often

@moonchildsaurora @floraisann @sugarrimajins

to the moots i wanna interact with; but am too shy

@toffee-hwa @yeocult @starteez @sweetheart--sannie @dimpledsatan

[choisanii]

mmm yunho and seulgi

pass for both 😔😔 i only want to be yunho’s best friend and seulgi... she’s so stunning i’d be way too intimidated lmao besides i think i’d rather be like her bc i mean. have u seen her. if i were as talented and as hot as her i’d never shut up

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40: Do you bite your fingernails off or clip them more often? 41: Any birthmarks? 42: Thoughts on freckles?

40: Do you bite your fingernails off or clip them more often?

♧ i have a terrible habit of biting my fingernails. Fortunately not to the point where they look terrible but the habit is still pretty much there.

41. Any birthmarks?

♧ I have one on my thigh!

42. Thoughts on freckles?

♧ They're interesting, I think? Nothing to be ashamed of. It's just rare for me to see people with freckles aha ^^;;

[lzffyarchive]

ooh i love these even tho ive only done it once skfjfkf 🍁

success, peace, a positive outcome to a situation- whatever it is, its coming to a head. keep moving forwards, what u deserve is going to meet u at the end. don't forget to allow urself breaks, bc what u seek won't go anywhere. this last bit of darkness will soon be met with the light 💖

[1eos]

so which photocard you buying off ebay?

i was tagged by @beserkerjewel to do the 'if i were your bias which pc would you want' thing! uhhh tagging @dumhdurummv @comintoyoulive @zit @atinyphobe

[barnesbabee]

brishtii aka atinyphobe can you stop sub posting about me it's kinda ridiculous the way you make your blog about me and stalk my blog all the time thanks