#but to end a friendship in anticipation of a boundary? hmmm. idk | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

theresa-of-liechtenstein · 11 months

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‘if your guy friends have girlfriends you need to distance yourself from them, be a girl’s girl first’ unpopular opinion maybe but it’s kind of sad that we make invisible rules to restrict us from the friendships that can organically arise out of situations. and i have no control over the jealousy of another person either. just set your boundaries clearly and concisely and proactively and move on

#also like. i can count the number of girls in my cohort on one hand.#and all my guy friends know very well i’m not into any of them #and i’m not fawning over them either we’re just. chilling #idk if it’s an unpopular opinion but. it rankles that somehow we’re encouraged to end friendships for the sake of preserving someone who #doesn’t have a say in it #bc if they set the boundary themselves that’s another story #but to end a friendship in anticipation of a boundary? hmmm. idk

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