#empathtip

[empathessentials]

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[lilaetleloup]

lies are the centre of any manipulation

Yes, I know, it seems fairly obvious.

And you must already be aware that in order to manipulate, one has to lie.

But this goes just far beyond what you could possibly imagine.

We don’t talk here of a simple and erratic lie, the one you could use to avoid telling an embarrassing truth or to get out of a complicated situation. Everybody does that, especially at Christmas!

But the manipulator is doing so much worse : he is creating a parallel universe where truth doesn’t even exist any more.

Because for him, truth is the enemy.

To seduce you, he has already invented a personality you will love.

You’re romantic? He’ll get you tons of roses. When the scent of flowers makes him gag.

You like the countryside? She’ll envision your future in a farm. When she’s got hay fever.

And the best among manipulators won’t be happy with only reinventing their personality, they’ll work on the whole play, arranging the lights, and giving the roles. The spot must be on them and they must always be the hero of the script.

He’s a villain and a fake? He’ll make you believe he’s a victim. And it’s so sad nobody understands his true self... Only you.

In the process, he’ll reverse everything and convince you of the exact opposite of what is real.

Magician, impostor and charlatan he’ll throw glittery powder in your eyes to have you look where he wishes. He’ll gaslight....

And the worst of manipulation, the most dangerous, is the political one, when it touches too many people. Because it can lead to fascism or left extremism or religions extremism: evil doesn’t care which.

Fascism, this old horror show we hoped had disappeared but is coming back strong, consisting in convincing a majority of people that they are victimized by a minority. How contradictory. There is a certain logic, at least, for the left extremism, when the minority they talk about is the elite. But no more soul nor good results. Hello there, China and Russia!

Evil blows over the fires of hate, anger and fear and makes them an inferno of toxic emotions that will shut the brain and transform the voter in a sect fanatic.

One who will now follow the manipulator blindly, giving him all the power. And it’s no coincidence.

Because power, for a manipulator, is the greatest source of pleasure and pleasure is the only fulfilling feeling he can get, as in the absence of a heart, he can’t know love or happiness.

This power he gets in killing truth.

And truth, so precious, so fragile, under attack by Facebook, defended by the ethics of some medias, is essential to democracies.

Without truth, there is no meaningful vote.

Without truth, we fall into the black hole of manipulation, chaos and dictatorship.

[myloveeflows]

If you don’t already know, I consider myself to be an empath. If you don’t know what that is, the Oxford dictionary defines an empath as:

“(chiefly in science fiction) a person with the paranormal ability to apprehend the mental or emotional state of another individual.”

I personally don’t understand why being an empath would be considered science fiction or paranormal besides that fact that it’s not commonly talked about in the media...🙄 but none the less; as a result I commonly find myself class clowning it up or awkwardly distanced in social situations. Usually, It’s class clowning it up lol.

One of the many not so glorious parts of having empathic abilities is the ability to feel the deep emotions those around you may or may not know they suppress.

As a result it seems empaths are left with three options:

1. Ignore the fact that you know people, animals, nature, life is hurting (hint: I suck at that ha)

2. Try to cheer it up! (ME ME ME lol)

3. Get as far away from whatever it is as possible 🥴 lmao (this is not really possible unless you lock yourself in your house and don’t come out lmao not advised)

So seeing as I hateeeee one ☝🏾being upset period...like ever lol and I can feel if something around me is upset😣, I kick into SUPER AMBER MODE🦸🏾‍♀️ 😂. I will do absolutely ANYTHING to cheer people up includingggg make an absolute FOOL of myself 💯 NO SWEAT ! I don’t really get embarrassed so it’s all gravy most of the time lol.

So that’s all fine and dandy. There is however a not so great part of feeling and connecting so deeply with everything around you... Typically, this leaves very little room for an empath to process their own feelings.

This can lead to random seemingly unexplainable bouts of anger or sadness, and cause us to pull away from or be cold to our loved ones with little to no warning.

What I am beginning to learn more and more everyday is :

If you don’t take time for YOURSELF aside from everyone’s else’s problems you may find yourself swimming in a whirlwind of your own unprocessed emotions about your own life! So before it get too far out of hand 😅 :

Remind yourself,

It’s okay to be sad,

it’s okay to be tired,

you don’t have to be strong for everyone all the time,

it’s okay to have feelings that you’d rather not feel,

you do not need to bury them away,

it is good to just be however you need to in the moment.

Process your feelings, let them flow freely, take time alone and worry about no one but yourself, your needs, & your wants🙏🏾💫❤️

Your mind,

body

& soul

will thank you ♾

[rainbowraaja]

Because you are creating your future right here. Right now. In this present moment. Every subconscious though that repeats on autopilot, every trigger and judgement has a vibration. Every dream, good deed and uplifting thought holds a vibration. It is easy to see our thoughts and desires and actions on a scale of good or bad - light or dark. However, as I've come to realize, there is no good or bad. It's a spectrum. The human experience is a spectrum of the many choices and roles and possibilities we can enact. Nothing can ruin your future, because you are always in control. A tarot reader or psychic can't predict your future - unless you believe the future they tell you. Unless that future is an experience your subconscious is curious enough to play out. Don't let others control your energy. Don't let people dictate who you are and what you will be. Use affirming thoughts and words to counteract trolls and negative Nancy's. Be confident in your ability to hold your own vibration and predict your own future. It's the only cards you hold 😉 #psychic #rune #tarotreader #lawofattraction #future #fortuneteller #holistichealer #shaman #abrahamhicks #wisdom #inspiration #prediction #energyvampire #goodvibes #empathtips #empath #psychicability #spectrum (at Seattle, Washington) https://www.instagram.com/p/CgpBdIjrD--/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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[djkredproductions]

Sometimes I overwhelm myself with how many things I decide to juggle but I am developing ways to help myself since I start reading this empathy book #wednesdaywisdom #motivation #empathy #empaths #empath #empathtips #anxietyrelief https://www.instagram.com/p/B3IkyK6JtQE/?igshid=ti3f0mrkmvnf

[empathessentials]

LIGHT UP! . . #sage #smudging #energycleanse #bacteriacleanse #empath #empathtip #empathessentials https://www.instagram.com/p/B5DXpr1nPAa/?igshid=1v2sax8af1han

[lilaetleloup]

the signs that point to a manipulator VI

24. he brings you down

For the pleasure, to have you in his power, to feed his fragile ego and to get from you the emotions he’ll use to feed himself or discredit you.

And also because, well, the manipulator secretly hates you: you have a heart and he hates you for it.

It can be difficult to differentiate between systemic depreciation and valid criticism.

Because everyone can be critical. And sometimes it’s warranted.

How then, can you know the difference ?

Quite simply: you have to ask yourself how you feel.

If you feel bad, that you lose progressively the trust you have in yourself, that you feel like a failure, never encouraged to do something or be yourself... you may have been under too much targeted criticism.

And the true danger is that in living this alternative reality when you are constantly hit while he presents himself as the victim, you can end up doubting of yourself, of your own perceptions, your cleverness and your equilibrium.

Furthermore, one of his classic attack is to say you’re loosing the plot or your mind. That you’re inventing stuff, lying, imagining things, are hysterical, should calm down, are batshit crazy...

The easiest way to send the problem back in your turf as quickly as he possibly can.

And you can come to the point where you wonder if indeed you are still mentally sane.

If this happens, he’ll use it against you.

And will relish telling the world he was right all along.

25. special attention on the passive-aggressive

It’s a two time movement.

The manipulator will attack you verbally, without reason, preferably with innuendos you’ll be the only one to understand. This is the aggressive part.

The ideal is for you to react but for other people around, if there are, to not perceive the intensity of the attack. And therefore to not understand your logical reaction and think YOU are the aggressor.

Because once the aggressive part has been dealt, the manipulator will protect himself behind his victim mask, giving you the role of the bad guy. This is the passive part.

It’s the bully who hits you and then puts his false glasses on. You won’t be so mean that you’d hit someone with glasses, will you?

#bekind

The two movement can be in the opposite order when the manipulator will preemptively present you as the bad guy before going to your throat.

It can look like this: “You aren’t a nice person, you should be kinder, you ugly son of a bleep, selfish, jealous looser, get a life!”

Yes, I know, written like that it seems to be a caricature but just give a second look at the many comments on social media...

Because the manipulator, as I wrote before, can’t bear criticism and will, if submitted to one, bury you under recriminations, blaming you – the irony! - for not being kind.

Criticism is useful when it’s constructive or when there is a manipulator at the receiving end.

You shouldn’t let him be destructive without reacting. And I wouldn’t be surprised to learn that the recent #bekind movement has partly been launched by one or more manipulators: it’s a virtual pair of glasses.

When they get low, he won’t let you go high, though: the manipulator will take it as encouragement and attack you until he hits the mark. He wants to prove you’re bad and meanwhile he can have fun. Pure happiness.

26. he doesn’t want your happiness

At all.

Without a heart, he can’t be happy and can only feed on you or on crowds.  Or know pleasure, this substitute promised to those who abdicated their conscience.

Your happiness is an insult to him.

He can’t bear it.

And then his ego whispers in his head that you have everything HE deserves. That you are robbing him. That you had everything easily when he’s slaving. That it’s soooooooo not fair.

He’s eaten by jealousy, bitterness, envy and hate.

If life hasn’t given him what he is sure he deserves, it’s because you have his job, especially if you are an immigrant. If you are happily married, it’s because you have his spouse. Or the kids she was supposed to give birth to. The money that should be in his pocket. His oxygen...

And he will try to kill your happiness.

27. you don’t feel good

You are depreciated, criticized, attacked, nothing you do is good enough and it’s always your fault.

Your emotions are dismissed, you are not respected.

And after the first love-bombing months, and the subsequent episodes he hopes briefer and briefer when he makes an effort to keep his hold on you, he will do everything in his power to have you feel unhappy.

If this wasn’t enough, the manipulator is an energy vampire.

And I would guess, an inspiration for the bloody one.

Energy is another vital force and as a Reiki master, I should know how important it is to your well-being.

If you live with a intense manipulator, you can feel drained, without enthusiasm, without desire, sad without cause, exhausted without knowing why, and sometimes without any more forces to resist.

The more toxic the manipulator, the more intense the symptoms.

Is the manipulator is only a low range narcissist, you could spend an entire life being slowly eroded,  sustaining him, trying unsuccessfully to please him: daily Sisyphus running behind your stone.

Some manipulators have taken the extra measure to isolate you.

And as you are alone, you feel worse and worse. It can raise to the physical level: you are more easily ill, you gain weight, loose hair...

In some cases, you can go through apathy periods. When you don’t even have the strength to get out of bed. It isn’t necessarily a depression, sometimes getting you out of the talons of the toxic person, can be enough for you to recover.

But it can get you to a true depression.

The manipulator won’t have any compassion for you and will take advantage, again and again, of your vulnerability.

Everything is in his interest and against you.

(to be continued...)

[zenrosegarden]

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[empathessentials]

I love this. It's easy to judge but it's not good for your soul. Plus, you have no idea what that person has been through. What they have survived. What they have overcome. You may be walking in on a difficult chapter where they are mid-battle.. but don't forget there are chapters of celebration and glory as well. Remember that the next time you jump to judgement. We are all human on our rocky rides! #empath #empathessentials #selfcare #selflove #paradise #empath #empaths #empathessentials #empathlife #empathtips #empathproblems #empathsbelike #soulgrowth #awakenedsoul #starseed #metaphysical #infj #introvert #introvertlife #selfcare #selflove #spiritualaf #raiseyourvibe #levelup #glowup #earthangels #spiritualgangster #thirdeyetribe #quotes #empathsofinstagram #lightworkersofinstagram #dearlillie https://www.instagram.com/p/B5ndu5KnZj9/?igshid=1qxo4edc77jsp

[empathessentials]

Exhalllllle.... #empath #empathessentials #selfcare #selflove #stayweird #empathlife #empathtips #empathproblems #empathsbelike #soulgrowth #awakenedsoul #starseed #metaphysical #spiritualaf #raiseyourvibe #levelup #glowup #earthangels #quotes https://www.instagram.com/p/B58C5bAnR6S/?igshid=1ml44l551x0a7

[empathessentials]

Yes! I'd rather be a fruit loop any day! Artist: Brett Wilson #empath #empathessentials #selfcare #selflove #stayweird #empathlife #empathtips #empathproblems #empathsbelike #soulgrowth #awakenedsoul #starseed #metaphysical #spiritualaf #raiseyourvibe #levelup #glowup #earthangels #quotes https://www.instagram.com/p/B55t9JMH9-o/?igshid=ar2rezo4i37o

[empathessentials]

Truth! LOL #astrology #astrologymemes #libra #bathtime #empath #empathessentials #selfcare #selflove #stayweird #empathlife #empathtips #empathproblems #empathsbelike #soulgrowth #awakenedsoul #starseed #metaphysical #spiritualaf #raiseyourvibe #levelup #glowup #earthangels #tarot #tarotmemes https://www.instagram.com/p/B58DCXOnS4C/?igshid=ekkiwu8ja3oc

[empathessentials]

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[empathessentials]

Go easy on yourself! . . #empath #empathessentials #empathtips #naps #meditation #baths #selfcare #selflove https://www.instagram.com/p/B5N8BeaH1ce/?igshid=1cpv0mni25qez

[empathessentials]

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