It’s funny how people call ENFPxINTJ or ENTPxINFJ “golden pair” while in reality…they’re not. For example, ENTPxINFJ. Their dominant functions, Ni & Ne, and their inferior functions, Se & Si balance each other out, while conflicts start to occur when their aux and tert (parent and child) meet. ENTP’s Ti parent may find Ti child’s usage of logic childish while Ti child deems that Ti parent is way too irresponsible (aux and inf can shut down easily because using them decreases one’s stamina and stresses the user out , while using dom and tert continuously won’t draw off their strength). However, these conflicts can help sharpen their abilities: Ti -> to use logic, to value truth and Fe -> to notice others’ emotional state, one another’s ethics, ect.
Therefore, the right term for these couplings are “pedagogue”. Golden pairs are duo whose function stacks balance and complement each other out: ENFP (Ne Fi Te Si) x INFJ (Ni Fe Ti Se).
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I must be honest here, no hate to real INFJ x ENTP couples, but one thing I hate the most about how INFJ is represented in a ENTP x INFJ relationship on the net, is how INFJ is not actually INFJ. The chaotic one is never INFJ. INFJ is the boring "no fun allowed" one with the scariest anxiety issue that needs to be protected and always cry. ENTP? "Well, umm.. asshole?"
While, ENFP x INFJ is represented in a more genuine way. Both authentically ENFP and INFJ. Both unusual in their own way, both rational when they have to, yet balancing each other out, somehow, regardless.
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Doing MBTI relationship pairing examples!
Soooo I was thinking about doing film/TV relationship MBTI pairings. The goal is to eventually have a couple of examples for each type in a relationship with all 16 of the types! I’m going to be doing it on basis of request-so basically first in first served kinda thing.
- Note: you MAY include the characters you would like in the example, however, if I haven’t seen the show or film I will either pick another, or just watch the movie (but this might take a bit of time)
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I love your blog!! please do more entpxinfj they're adorable
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ENTP x INFJ
Certainty of my type: I’m never sure about anything, but I’d say 97%. I’ve read up on cognitive functions and taken quite a few tests, some of them years apart and never come up with anything else (I’m actually kind of a stereotypical ENTP)
Certainty of their type: 85%. I can sort of see her as an INFP as well, but I’m fairly sure of her type because not only one of the most accurate online tests type her that way, before she even took the test, I predicted that she would be an INFJ, it’s pretty clear if you know her.
Anyway, I don’t really have a story to share, just an account of a friendship. I’ve been friends with her for more than a year and half now, ever since I ended up in my current geographical location. She’s one of the most marvelous friends I’ve ever had.
I think the reason why she’s such a great friend is because we balance each other out so well. She’s quiet and introspective, and sometimes I feel that I help her come out of her shell sometimes. I tend to be over-the-top and always in a rush, but when I’m talking to her I feel like the world slows down and I can slow down my frantic mind as well. Every time I get in over my head with something, or get too emotionally invested in something, she somehow understands and can help me figure it out. I know that I can always rely on her and how she just seems to understand.
We have the most marvellous discusssions. I know I can debate a topic with her and have her be a worthwhile debating partner as well as, I think, understand that sometimes I can be mean without realising it. Other people are often offended by me without my knowledge or understanding, but I think she understands that I really don’t mean to hurt anyone.
There are some things that worry me though. For example, she’s very self-critical, about her physical aspects as well as her personality. I think she’s perfect though, and I try to tell her that, but I just don’t know if she listens, or believes I mean it. I’m usually good at reading people, and sometimes I even find myself manipulating people emotionally without even realising it, but she’s a closed book to me. I don’t know how I can show her how much I care about her, or even if she wants to know.
I’m also kind of a domineering person, and I feel like in our friendship it’s always me trying to persuade her to do things. She’s very solitary and reserved, and so I feel like it’s always me saying ‘come on, let’s go outside’ or 'let’s do this, it’ll be fun!’ Because of this, sometimes I wonder if she doesn’t even really want to be friends. Maybe she just doesn’t want to tell me to bugger off because she’s nice. I can’t stop worrying about whether I’m pressuring her into doing things, but I know that if I don’t try and help her see the world outside her head in all of its beauty, she’ll retreat into her own world completely, and I think she gets lonely there. I think one of the things we have in common is that we’re both prone to feeling insecure about what other people think of us. I could never admit it to anyone, but I’m not very self-confident behind the facade I project, and I worry about things like this.
I’ve realised that this has become very personal, and not as much about how the types work together, but I think our types have an effect on all of this. I’m extroverted, and she’s introverted, and I try to bring her out of her own head but sometimes because I find her hard to understand. We work together well because of our dominant Ni and Ne, and her auxiliary Fe leads to an emotional knowledge that’s beneficial to our friendship.
Writing all of this out has actually helped me make a few things clear to myself. It’s common, the idea that ENTPs and INFJs work well together as people, and if I’m honest with myself I think I may be starting to fall in love with her. I just wish I could know how she feels towards me.
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