What it takes to be a goth?
So recently I’ve seen a rise of popularity of the goth subculture. Mainly bc of the wednesday netflix series. Many prople think taht its just the style and clothes you wear and ignore all the history behind it. I’ve seen a lot o pozers and so called goths who just wear long black skirts and corsets proudly. And man im tired of that. So heres some basics you should know about this subculture.
1. You must listen to goth music
Goths are listening mostly to post-punk, waves that came after (new wave, dark wave, cold wave etc.), goth-rock (which is very controversial to mention bc many goths dont agree that such thing exists), ebm. Of course if you are goth you can listen to other genres such as punk, metal and rock, but to call yourself a goth you should enjoy mentioned earlier genres the most. The most popular bands that are goth are: bauhaus, alien sex fiend, horror vacui, sisters of mercy (they werent identifying as a goth band and didint wanted to be seen as one, but the music is perfect example of what goths listen to), the cure, joy division, voodoo church, specimen, christian death, new order, scarlets remains, death cult, depeche mode, siouxsie and the banshees, clan of xymox etc. Personaly i dont take people who tell me that they are listening to post punk and kpop for example seriously. Mixing genres is ok, but things like kpop arent related to what goths listen at all. Mixing it with punk music is resonable bc it is from what it all came, but it depends of person.
2. Clothes
Many people will tell you that you dont need to dress as a goth to be one, wich i dont find true. Clothes are a big part of this subculture. You dont have to look like trad goth everyday, band shirts, some black pants, maybe ankh jewlery and you are good to go. There are many different type of goths and thier clothes that you will for sure find something for you. Some people are mixing goth subculture with metal for example. And thats okay. You can look more gothly one day and one day more like a metalhead, you dont have to close yourself for only one and can enjoy whatever you like!
3. Concerts
Concerts and events are a big part of goth subculture and to be a real goth you should attend these. Of course it can be kind of hard at the beginning, these can be expensive sometimes or happen not frequently, but if you search good enough you will find something eventually. You dont need of course to rush to the castle party at the beggining of your goth journey but try to attend as much as you can to the local concerts, and events.
4. Literature and movies
There are a lot of goth movies with this specific dark atmosphere. You should watch some of them to really sink in that subculture. The most popular are of course tim burtons movies, „the crow”, „the craft”, „only lovers left alive”, „let the right one in”, „the addams family” etc. It is really easy to find them so i wont write down all. It would be nice if you watch some of bands documentaries as well. For the literature edgar allan poe is the most basic and popular goth author, besides him you can also read mary shelley, lovecraft, bictor hugo. These are only some of the most popular, as before there are a lot of more authors you can find. I recommend also to get to know about goth athors from your country or more local community. Its nice to know them.
5. History
To really call yourself a goth you should know from where the whole subculture came from. Read about this or watch some videos, it is a really interesting topic and its important to know.
Of course these are some basics i will be talking more about these things in the next posts. This is to get a bit of a view what it takes to be a real goth. If you have any questions i will answear to them happily.
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part 6 of that weird long bzoink survey
Have you ever mowed the lawn?
>> A couple of times long ago.
Do you get an allowence?
>> No, I get an income.
Where do your parents work?
>> ---
Did you ever know your great grandparents?
>> No.
What does family mean to you?
>> It doesn’t really mean anything to me. For all intents and purposes, Sparrow is the only person that counts as “family” because once we’re married that’s literally what we’ll be, legally. I have no connections to the people I’m blood-related to, and I’m not even interested in having “family” at this point because it’s been such a source of bullshit for me. I don’t even want “in-laws” lmao because her mother is always like “you’re part of the faaaaamily” meehehfhhhhhhh fuck that.
What does friendship mean to you?
>> I don’t know. I’ve always had a hard time really understanding what a friend is supposed to be for me, which is partly how I ended up in so many bad friendships. I would like to be in a mutually beneficial friendship, but I’m really not sure how they work, and no one I’ve asked about it seems to have had any insight except, you know, “don’t be a dick”-type advice, which is largely general.
What does true love mean to you?
>> Love is just behaviour, for me. A way of treating people that shows compassion, appreciation, and interest. I don’t really know any other way to think of it than that.
What's your favorite band/group/singer?
>> I don’t know, man, I have a million.
What's your favorite movie?
>> The Fountain. Also, Interstellar. Also, Sunshine.
TV show?
>> I like a lot of tv shows, I don’t really have any stand-out ones.
What radio station do you listen to most often?
>> I don’t listen to radio.
Do you get snow days often where you live?
>> Yes, unfortunately.
Do you try to run from things that are bothering you? Does it work?
>> I try to distract myself from things that I can’t do anything about, or feelings that aren’t productive. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.
Can you smell fear?
>> I’m guessing not.
Would you ever pet a lion?
>> If I had an opportunity and could guarantee not getting eaten, sure.
What's your favorite perfume? What's your favorite cologne?
>> I like oils. Like from Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab.
What's your favorite overall smell?
>> I don’t have one.
What's your favorite sign? (star, heart, rainbow, skull)
>> I’m not sure.
Do you know how to play marbles?
>> I didn’t know there was a specific game related to them.
Do you know how to play jacks?
>> I do now, but when I had them as a child no one taught me that there was a game you’re supposed to play, so I kinda just fiddled around with them.
Do you know how to play poker?
>> I’ve forgotten by now.
Tape or tacks?
>> Depends.
Plastic, wood, or wire clothes hangers?
>> I prefer wood, but they’re more expensive.
Do you have a light in your closet?
>> There’s a light in the main bedroom’s closet.
Do you collect spare change lying around the house?
>> No.
Do you like the taste of Tums?
>> Not particularly, but it’s not terrible.
How about Pepto Bismol?
>> I’ve never tasted it.
Do you have a fast or slow metabolism?
>> I don’t know. I’m guessing it’s average.
Do you drink coffee?
>> No.
Is the room you are in right now a mess?
>> Not really.
When you slip and fall do you laugh it off or freak out?
>> I definitely laugh. Especially if it seemed like it probably looked comical to an observer (which a lot of falls really do).
What is your definition of feaking out?
>> I don’t know, there’s a lot of ways to freak out.
Have you ever played in a refridgerator box?
>> Nope.
Do you still draw with chalk?
>> Nah.
Have you ever finger painted?
>> I don’t recall having done so, but who knows.
Have you ever had a pie in your face?
>> No, thank god.
Ever bobbed for apples?
>> No.
Ever hit a piniata?
>> No.
Played pin the tail on the donkey?
>> No.
Have you ever been on tv/the radio?
>> I’ve been on television.
What's your favorite number?
>> 9, or 19.
What's your favorite letter?
>> V.
What's your favorite color?
>> Gold.
(>0.0)><(0.0<) <- Is that cute to you?
>> Sure. Looks like two Kirbys.
What's your favorite onomatopoeia? (Crash, bang, zoom, meow)
>> Hmm... zoom is fun.
Have you ever been fishing? Is it really all that much fun?
>> I’ve never been. I figure it’s probably more relaxing than fun, but I wouldn’t actually know.
Ever been minurature golfing?
>> Yeah.
Are you a tennis geek?
>> No.
Computer geek?
>> I don’t really consider myself any kind of ‘geek’.
Video game geek?
>> ---
Anime geek?
>> ---
D&D geek?
>> ---
Are you one of those people who watch Naruto?
>> “One of those people”, lol. Okay. Anyway, no, I don’t watch it.
Do you agree that even Pokemon is better than naruto?
>> I really don’t have an opinion.
Ninjas or dinosaurs?
>> Hm.
Do you watch stand up comedy?
>> Sometimes.
What's your favorite tv network?
>> I don’t know. I don’t usually watch regular television.
Do you have one night that you could play on repeat forever and ever?
>> Nah, I’m good.
Is there one dream you wish you could just live through once?
>> Any of the ones I’ve had about Idris Elba, lmfao.
Do you think people with a British accent are hot? How about Australian? Irish?
>> I’m really attracted to the cadence of some Irish accents. A person still has to be otherwise attractive to me for me to be attracted to them, though; the accent isn’t going to override everything else.
What is your ethnic background?
>> As far as I know, Black American, Native American, and Haitian.
Do you eat ramen?
>> Sure.
How about microwavable pot pies?
>> Not so much anymore, but I do like them.
What's your favorite topping on popcorn?
>> I like kettle corn.
Sweet or regular pickles?
>> Regular. Every time I think I want a sweet pickle, just one slice is enough.
Have you ever tried pickled eggs?
>> No.
What's the grossest thing you've ever tasted?
>> Whatever it is, I don’t remember it now.
Have you ever lied about your age?
>> No.
Do you look your age?
>> Apparently not.
What age do you look?
>> According to people I’ve polled in random places over the past few years, I seem to look somewhere between 21 and 27 to most.
What kind of dreams do you have most often?
>> I don’t know, anymore.
Do you even dream a lot at all?
>> I’m not sure. I don’t remember upon awakening. I guess this is the tradeoff -- I haven’t had sleep paralysis in months, but I also feel really distant from my dreamself now.
What is the name of your favorite teacher of all time?
>> ---
What is your mom's name? Dad's?
>> ---
Do you have any siblings? If so what are their names?
>> ---
When was the last time you threw up?
>> I don’t remember. Probably at Gardella’s like 6 months ago or whenever it was.
What's the worst part about throwing up?
>> The anticipation, I guess.
What do you do for personal growth?
>> *shrug*
Do you wear jewlery a lot?
>> I’m usually wearing it.
Would you rather die burning or die freezing to death?
>> I don’t know how either feels, so how could I really choose?
In other words do you prefer the hot or the cold?
>> At this point in my life I prefer the heat, even with my sensitivity to it.
Do you really believe that in 2012 we're all gonna die?
>> Oh, so that’s how old the survey is.
Where do you think the Mayans went?
>> I’m sure there are anthropologists and paleontologists that have some idea about this.
Who do you think built the pyramids?
>> The people that lived there at the time...? Is there evidence someone else did? Or just conspiracy theories, as always?
If you could read anyone's mind who would be the first person you'd read?
>> No, thanks.
Who's your number one on your friends list?
>> ---
Do you know what the word Mollycoddle means?
>> Yeah.
Do you think it's cheating to put questions on here that aren't real Qs?
>> No, I just delete them.
Have you ever been dizzy without spinning?
>> Yeah.
Do you like to make yourself dizzy?
>> No.
Do you agree that milk cold is the equivilent of butt warmth?
>> What.
Do you believe that if you want something enough you'll get it?
>> No, because there still needs to be some effort put in, not just really hard wishing. But I do think that desire can be motivation to put in that effort, so in that sense, sure, yeah.
Have you ever wished on a star? Did it ever come true?
>> No.
Have you ever thrown a penny in a wishing well?
>> No.
What was your favorite mall ride? (mini carousel, pony, helicopter)
>> Hmm.
Do you take care of your cuticles?
>> No, I just leave them alone (which is better than young!me, who used to pick at them constantly).
Do you even know what a cuticle is?
>> Yeah.
Do you believe that everyone has a soul mate?
>> No.
If you could keep any person in the world as your pet who would it be?
>> LOL nah, I like my inworld pets best.
How would you treat them?
>> How I’d treat a pet would be determined by both their desires and their limits, and my energy level lol.
Would you put them on a leash when you went out?
>> No, because I think that’s kind of... uncouth. Doing that sort of thing in public, I mean. There are plenty of discreet ways to be kinky without having to like... advertise it like that.
How would you punish them when they were naughty?
>> That depends on what was agreed upon.
Are these inappropriote questions?
>> For many people, they certainly would be. I just happen to not care.
I'm sorry. Have you ever seen Scary Movie?
>> I’ve seen #3, but that’s it.
Which is bigger? The Godfather or Star Wars?
>> Er...
What are your views on the second Godfather movie?
>> ---
It sucked I think. Anyway are you inbred?
>> Well, no.
What's your favorite text word? (lol, wtf, brb, g2g)
>> I don’t know.
PC or Mac?
>> I use PC.
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