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cascadianights · 1 year

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Absolutely baffling that when I talk about my partner (who is clocked as a cis male by the general public 90% of the time) the second some people realize he's trans they start using they/them?? Despite clear usage of he/him and their grasp of it before?

Then they struggle ENDLESSLY with using they/them for me bc even though I cut off 3/4 of the hair on my head and have more chest & body hair than the cis men I've dated, my hips and chest still clock me as female no matter what

#gaaaaqqqhhhh!!!!!#queer #trans #nonbinary #i just hate it lmao #he passes so easily and transitioned into a full ass beard and people now assume we're a str8 couple #they see an obvious guy and an obvious women and then they hear its more complicated than that and they short circuit #'oh so??? he they now they trans trans they pronoun'#people always misgender me unless i straight up cover all my hair #i pretend it doesnt bother me but my family never uses theythem and friends of years habitually get it wrong #and i was never ever ever Correctly Woman either like i always had too much facial and chest and leg and arm and beard and mustache hair #i always Acted Not Womanly and thar was immediately perceived but REGARDLESS they still call me she #bc of the chest and hips #i literally cannot be more androgynous without hormones and binding and there are so many reasons those are complicated #& like switching to they them the thing you cant remember to use for me the second you hear my partner is trans #even tho you exclusively knew him as him?!?!?!?! are you KIDDING me #it does feel really good every time someone who gives a shit does use my pronouns tho #my partners certain friends my ex lmao i told him and he never once got it wrong again even tho he knew me for most of a decade as she #my friends mom who i help in the garden and constantly tries to improve when she does make a mistake #anyways yeah

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