#honestly i should probably just delete most of these tags but im too lazy now....

[dazais-crab-addiction]

Happy Valentine’s Day! He brought you a bear that will detonate in 5..4..3..2..

Gdlajdkahd, breadsoup you are amazing. Thank you. Being blown up by a Valentines bear has been a 10/10 experience :D

[theunconcernedembalmer]

Toko! I was thinking of creating an ask the character blog for IDV or Genshin Impact and wanted a few tips on how to start off. Anything you can share?

ey yo my dude!! thank you so much for this question, now im lowkey tempted (again) to make a genshin ask blog sjadhlkshgkahshglsaj anyway my 1.5 cents is under the cut, yall know how much i talk here HAHAHAHAH

uhhhhhh so i guess we start with picking a character u really Vibe with tm? I KNOW THIS SOUNDS LIKE COMMON SENSE BUT LIKE ive been considering making a genshin ask blog for a while now but i never really got to it cos i couldnt really decide on a character (plus the fact that their outfits are. so intricate. is also a hmm since i try to follow details to a t) (at first i wanted to do zhongli, but i feel like to be able to muse him well u need to know the lore super super well, which i dont n im too lazy to research on that aha. n u know how much i respect characterizations, especially for such a complex character like him. i also considered xiangling for a period of time mostly for guoba but also like i have 2+1 blogs here n having one more might not be a very good idea aha) (as for aesop he was my Hyperfixation Character tm also cos i looked at his kit n went Yep i could work with this. probably)

so assuming ur not a dumbass like me n u kinda know who u wanna pick, id actually say to snoop around here for other ask blogs n kinda get a feel of the... scene? is that the word? or like u know, other blogs that u can potentially vibe with. ive run a couple of ask blogs before this current one (both that have died for different reasons) n from my experience interacting with other blogs (if theyre okay with it, i think most should be) is pretty fun. it also kinda helps get ur blog around to other ppl on other blogs so they can go Oh whats this cool shit n check u out, n its also a reason why we kinda reblog promo posts for other blogs (also cos we’re always excited when someone new comes on, its really the more the merrier. we see all :eyes:). interacting with other blogs is also an option when ur inbox is looking real roomy too

another reason why i havent exactly done a genshin blog is that idk i cant actually seem to find genshin ask blogs around (i have seen rp blogs, or those that answer asks with mostly text instead of art, but thats. not my thing since i hate my own writing aha) (i did find one aether blog some time ago, but for some reason i hardly see them around anymore??? idk man i might be wrong). its not like im trying super hard to find them ask blogs, so im sure they exist out there (hopefully?? im not sure but im being optimistic). i mean theres nothing wrong with just starting an ask blog without others around, but for me i do find a difference when i interact with other ask blogs n when i dont, n i prefer when theres others to have fun with (unfortunately i couldnt find any ask blogs to interact with in my previous fandom. i tried, but the blogs i approached seemed to go inactive shortly afterwards...) plus u get to meet friends that way too :D (i made a lot of friends via idv askblogs n its really been a joy vibing with others)

as for the idv scene. gestures around me. unfortunately there are a lot of ask blogs that arent that active anymore, but theres still some of us who are alive n kicking empty inboxes, n im sure everyone would love to see a new face around. winks at u. also there seems to be a lot more blogs popping up lately, which is really heartening to see.

then u kinda just. make ur blog? n a starting introduction post so ppl can reblog it n spread the word XD n yay u have a blog i guess??? XD

i gotta say tho. dont expect ur blog to take off immediately (especially for smaller fandoms like idv, tvbh i didnt think my blog would even get half this far when i started cos of how non existent idv tumblr seemed to be) n ur inbox will probably be looking pretty empty a lot of the time (or at least filled with some that u havent quite thought of how to reply to yet aha) (but also like empty inboxes happen pretty often, im sure most of us here have experienced this problem)

in the case of the first ask blog i ever started, it never really took off at all. ngl it was kind of demoralizing n depressing but to be fair i had picked one of the more obscure characters in the series, so obscure that many ppl in the fandom would have never heard of this character before. if u wanted to know, i took a character that only appeared in the 2nd musical of the series, who also made a very brief cameo in the manga to acknowledge his existence within that universe. thats how obscure my character was, but i went with him purely because he was my favourite character. i will say though i did enjoy it while it lasted n i learnt a lot from the experience, n i think thats whats important really.

i guess this kinda leads on (not really but let me digress) to the whole uhhhh thing where if u choose a more popular character, u get more attention. which is fine i guess? if u really vibe with the character, i mean theyre popular for a reason. n choosing a more popular fandom (like genshin) would objectively also get u more viewers n numbers. but like honestly i believe that ask blogs are meant for u to have fun with, n like trying to get popular gets tiring pretty fast (this shouldnt be like a main goal, but u know sometimes u subconsciously also want that gucci follower count n bomb ass notes or something. i used to be guilty of this until i realized it isnt worth it) especially if ur not enjoying yourself in the process. (case in point: my previous fandom was considerably larger n my blog got about 700 followers within a year or so, but it got very tiring n stressful to maintain after my interest in it died, n no one was really interacting with the blog even though i tried which kinda made it even more depressing despite the so called success n popularity of the blog)

anyway on a less serious note, theres a lot of fun stuff u can do with the ask blog, like some ask blogs have really fancy tags that i really like n try to do but also like not really HAHAHAHA. i kinda just channel what i want to see in an ask blog into my own ask blogs (good art is one, i try very hard for it to be good :,DD another is characterization, n others is just extra miscellaneous arts n stuffs like au ideas or memes. these are also somethings u could work on during ask box downtimes perhaps)

uhhh another side thing is like a posting schedule i guess? like ppl would be more likely to interact (i think) if ur blog is relatively active, n this is usually determined by the last post u made (i think XD). but like generally for blog maintenence id say try to kinda find a frequency that ur comfortable with?? cos i know my once a day posting is kinda insane if i wasnt so hyperfixated on all of this n fight the urge to dump all ur replies when u finish them XD (though ive seen some blogs do that n they do it pretty frequently so its pretty nice to know once u see their post u can spend some time going through the latest batch of posts XD) the queue function is pretty useful here even though i truthfully have never really used it, i kinda just post from my drafts really but it also helps to space out ur content to seem somewhat active especially when u dont have the time to be working on replies sometimes. i hope u know what im trying to say here aha

ANYWAY that was like my 1.5 cents cos i dont even think its worth 2 cents HAHAHAHAH these are just my thoughts from running all my blogs up till now, some that are still running n the others that have just died a natural death. i wouldnt actually delete them (theyre still around actually XD) cos theyre kinda like archives n i can look back at what i did last time. cos ngl i made some high quality stuff back then, n i dont even know how i managed to do that aldhflhdsgk. also ppl do look at archive blogs every now n then for the content thats there yknow

BUT YES anyway if u do decide to join the idv ask blogs hmu, ill be sure to give u a lil shoutout here. winks

[fleeblesim]

first off, i just binge read through all of the barker legacy and omg they're all so cute!! secondly, im a brand new simblr and was wondering what your tips are for starting out? thanks so much <33

Thank you! I’m glad you like them!

As for advice I’m not entirely sure what to say, or if I’m the best person to ask. 

I guess what I can say is to take inporation from some of your favourite blogs. What are things you like about their posts? Their gameplay or whatever you’re looking at. (Just make sure to not copy anyone.) And eventually you will have cultivated your own style, if that makes sense. As time goes and you get more adjusted or whatever you want to say you might notice that you’ve changed significantly from your first few posts. 

When looking at my old posts (which I have to admit doesn’t give the full experience since I had to repost a lot of them) there is a pretty big difference. Everything from simstyle, to editing style, the kind of gameplay I do, and even how I tag and write posts. It’s the kind of thing you get better at as you keep doing it, I think. Everyone starts from something.

Like whrn you look at the first post (originally from like 2017) next to late 2019 / early 2020 and then to 2021 there are improvements and changes. Like the editing, which hasn’t changed that much from 2 to 3, but I do crop my pictures differently. Especially you can see how I take screenshots now compared to then. This might just be the photographer in me, but I like trying to get good looking angles and shots.

I think being able to take good looking screenshots is a good selling point. If it looks good people are going to like it. Personally I like it brigth and colourful, but at the end of the day it’s each to their own. But i have been told I’m good at profiling lol.

As much as we like saying “don’t judge a book by its cover” people do a lot of judging. And honestly, having a pretty cover for your book is really nice. Graphic design isn’t something you have to be really good at, but it might be a good idea to keep in mind. You don’t need to of course. You don’t really need anything to run a simblr except a blog and some screenshots to post at the end of the day.

With editing you really don’t need anything fancy. I just use what’s already on my pc and I just brighten it and adjust the colours a bit. and then I just tweak it slightly after that if I feel it needs it. It’s a very lazy way to do it, but I think it works for me lol.

When I lay out posts I don’t like making them too long, so often times I’ll take a lot of screenshots while playing and then just delete what I think I don’t end up using and think is unneccessary.

You kinda just have to find something that you like and that works for you.

I tend to have my queue on 3 posts a day, but how many you should do is up to you and how good you are at keeping up with it. 

Tagging posts is probably one of the most important parts of growing your simblr. Finding the best tags can be difficult, and I’m honestly not sure if I’ve found the optimal tags. Generally I think keeing the amount of tags low is a good idea.

I like having the basic tags first. Then I usually have the name of whatever I’m playing before adding legacy and gamplay. Lastly I have gen5 for navigational purposes on my blog, and i like to add simblr at the end.

I don’t know the exact science behind the tagging system, but I do believe I’ve heard too many tags is a bad idea.

I’m not sure what else to say except be nice, make friends, interract with people etc etc. It’s something I’m not super great at atm, but I am trying a little at least. Build up your “brand”, be creative, and just have fun. Don’t take it too seriously. Just enjoy yourself.

I hope any of my rambling here is helpful lol

[charmspoint]

Author Interview

Saw this on @prince-liest and did it cuz i needed a pick me up today, they said to tag them so there ya go I hope it’s interesting <3

Fandoms: Very much mostly BNHA, though I’m getting back in Bungou Stray Dogs and already have fics I wanna write there too. Other fandoms I dabbled in: Promised Neverland, Promare n Forest of Drizzling rain

Where I post: on AO3 at CharmPoint! ….don’t be…don’t be fooled by my tumblr name I’m just sacrificing a brand for a bad joke

Most popular one shot: The crown goes to Far too young, I think this one was just in the right time and place while Promised Neverland high was at it’s peak. It’s the only one shot I have that broke 100 kudos so I’m p proud of it.

Most popular multichapter fic: ….it’s…it’s Ignite me, god I wish it wasn’t but it is. I’m not gonna link it cuz I honestly don’t want ppl to read more of it. Like there’s nothing especially bad about it….aside from the writing. The writing is just down right awful, I wrote this two years ago with a coauthor (hi Tati) and it went on a hiatus and then I went to reread it to remind myself how to continue and aaaaa I couldn’t get through chapter 3 it was SO BAD. The reason is that we adapted it from a rp and…we did so pretty badly. I really don’t like it but I don’t wanna delete it cuz 1. It’s not only mine 2. A lot of people seemed to really really like it…somehow, they are so strong. My ultimate mission is to one day rewrite this fic and make a good Ignite me, one day…

Favorite story written so far: That would definitely be Call of the Wild (at least of ones posted rn, Red String of Death just might overtake it). I think this was the first time I reread one of my own fics and felt genuine pride. Like complete unabashed pride. I kept going :0 I did that, her mind!! Especially the first chapter, which is one I use for all my zine apps lmao. I think I got the atmosphere just right, I think I got the foreshadowing just right, I really like what I did with silence vs dialog through the story. I’m just so proud of it. I’ll probably never write anything for Kiribaku again but if I gave them one fic, I’m glad it was Call of the Wild.

Fic I was nervous to post: That would be The suffocating quality of your dying breaths (And the effect they had on me). I really liked this fic, I really vibed with it and I had a lot of fun writing it but I was afraid that what I was trying to say wouldn’t come across right. It’s a fic about suicidal tendencies not from the perspective of the person having them but the person closest to their side…that kinda hates their guts. I’m not sure how well I managed to get it across the 3 chapters it has, but it’s supposed to be about realizing your boundaries and that sometimes you just aren’t a person for the job and that sometimes you really shouldn’t torture yourself over what you can’t do and just do what you can instead. Some things require professional help and you shouldn’t beat yourself up for not being able to offer that kind of help. I was just afraid that ‘you have limits to what you can do to help’ would be misinterpreted as ‘so you think you should just not help suicidal people huh??’ I received a positive reception for it so if nothing else it went over well with some people!

Do you outline?: I just learned to properly outline this year ;;; I used to just go with the flow and that…ended up pretty bad. But now I found an outlining style that suits me and it helped a lot to make my writing better!!

Complete: 15! Most of them oneshots and staggering 9 from this year alone. I had a very bad creative drought for such a long time but now I’m back n yall there’s no stopping me

In progress: If we go by what’s not posted yet rn I’m working on 7 fics in various stages of done. I also have two more fics in WIP folder but they are waiting till I have time n motivation to write them. Also my notes are overflowing with future story ideas hbjbhj there’s a LOT.

Coming soon: Drumroll, three big bang fics (DabiHawks, ShinKami n TodoBaku) , one secret santa fic (it’s a surprise ;3c) and eventually three zine fics (>;3c) . Ya girl is head deep in events rn jjknjk HELP (jk I actually have them all under control believe it or not). These events played a large part in getting my motivation ball rolling again so I’m pumped to be a part of them, though also looking forward to more none event works after this.

Do I accept prompts?: Sure, if I’m vibing with the idea n have the free time (which I don’t ever;;;)

Upcoming works I’m most excited for: Red String of Death, my upcoming DabiHawks big bang fic! Honestly I’ve had a wild ride with this one, a real roller-coaster. I was really excited by the idea, then I was afraid it was boring actually, then I got a great beta who encouraged me a lot and provided a lot of valuable feedback and now im PUMPED again, I think it’s p good if I do say so myself and I’m super excited to see how people feel about it. It’s not the happiest story I’d say, it follows in the footsteps of Call of the Wild by having a sorta bittersweet ending and in being like a fic that’s about a commonly used sort of magic trope (werewolves vs reincarnation n soulmates) being given a little twist that makes it oh so painful. Anyway if it’s spiritual successor to Call of the Wild then you know my hype is real, I just hope others like it as much!

Tagging: Uhhh do it if you want to its late and im lazy to tag!!!

[plueschpony]

Aaand I got tagged again by @blueeyeschina :))

The rules: you must answer these 83 statements and tag 20 people. (I probably won’t tag 20 people, but since I got time I hunted down the statements @blueeyeschina deleted and I’m going to answer them as well I think ^^)

Last…

1. drink? green tea (or Mai Tai if you meant alcoholic) 2. phone call? a very good friend of mine 3. text message? message to another friend 4. song you listened to?  Ariana Grande - Side To Side ft. Nicki Minaj (I got YouTube on autoplay ^^) 5. time you cried? probably sometime last week or sth...

Have you ever…

6. dated someone twice? no 7. kissed someone and regretted it? no 8. been cheated on? no 9. lost someone special? sort of... 10. been depressed? yes 11. gotten drunk and thrown up? nope ^^

Favourite colours:

12. black 13. (dark) green 14. blue

In the last year, have you…

15. made new friends? quite a lot actually! 16. fallen out of love? no... 17. laughed until you cried? absolutely ^^ 18. found out someone was talking about you? not really, no... 19. met someone who changed you? no... or maybe a little 20. found out who your friends are? nope, had that one sort of ages ago ^^ 21. kissed someone on your facebook list? nope ^^

General:

22. how many of your facebook friends do you know in real life? seriously? I’m too lazy to count/look it up right now, but I’d say apart from 2-3 people I know all of them irl 23. do you have any pets? a horse! <3 24. do you want to change your name? my first name? Idk, I don’t really like it, but I got used to it, so I think I’m just gonna keep it... (for now ^^) 25. what did you do for your last birthday? Nothing *lol* I got cake, went to work, went to see the horse and nothing else xD 26. what time did you wake up? first time at around 8:30, the next time around a quarter to noon ^^ 27. what were you doing at midnight last night? went to get drinks with friends, then watch “Spiderman - Homecoming” then finally sleeeeep ^^ 28. name something you can’t wait for: that’s a lot of things really xD But I guess, finally managing to fully implement my daily exercise plan without having to postpone it because of vet appointments, putting on new bandages on the horse or anything else disrupting my daily plans -.-’ (ohhhh and finally getting a new camera and lens!!) 29. when was the last time you saw your mom? around 1.5 hours ago... 30. what are you listening to right now? just switched to “The Chainsmokers - Closer ft. Halsey” 31. have you ever talked to a person named Tom? I think so... 32. something that is getting on your nerves? atm? Nothing pressing, but in general lots and lots of things ^^ e.g. people giving “advice” although you never asked them for some (and they know nothing about the topic), people stopping right after getting of the escalator, Trump, (unnecessary) violence, people contradicting themselves when berating you etc etc. 33. most visited website? ao3 ^^ although no, it’s probably google, jisho and wadoku, but ao3, youtube and tumblr are up there as well ^^ 34. hair colour? light brown 35. long or short hair? medium I’d say? Like I know people with longer hair but also with shorter hair... 36. do you have a crush on someone? idk tbh... it’s... idk, it’s complicated xD 37. what do you like about yourself? hah... good question ^^ I guess physically I like my hair and my eyes, and in personalty things maybe that I’m not someone to quit sth easily? And I pick up new things quite fast and seem to have a talent for languages? Idk... sometimes I feel like I should be proud of those and sometimes I’m just like “arg, I like nothing about me” ^^ 38. piercings: do earrings count? 39. blood type: AB I think... 40. nickname: Caro 41. relationship status: single 42. zodiac: libra 43. pronouns: she/her 44. favourite tv show: hm... atm probably GoT, but Shadowhunters, Outlander and Criminal Minds are great as well! 45. tattoos: none 46. right or left handed: right 47. surgery: Not that I can remember ^^

48. sport: I try to do some form of exercise daily and I’d love to start running/jogging again, but my stamina is currently non-existent, so it might take some time before I feel fit again to start running ^^ but I do go on walks with the horse (when she’s not injured that is -.-)

49. vacation: last or next or dream vacation? last vacation I can’t actually remember, unless you count my trip to visit a friend in Dortmund. Next one will be to Greece at the end of the month and my dream vacation is still New Zealand, Iceland or Scotland!

50. pair of trainers: what? Idk, but I’m a huge Puma fan ^^

More General:

51. eating: last thing was veggies with rice 52. drinking: didn’t we do that already? 53. im about to: stop messing around on tumblr and start studying (or editing some pictures ^^) 54. waiting for?: right now or in general? in general probably for the horse to finally get well again... 55. want?: lots and lots of things, move out, successfully finish my degree, get a good job etc etc. (oh, and the Canon 5D III if I can find it somewhere ^^) 56. get married?: not really? I mean, I would do it if my partner really wanted to I guess, but otherwise idk... 57. career?: honestly? I’d like to work with languages in some way but I’m “shallow” enough to say that as long as the pay is good, the colleagues are nice and I can get a decent work-life-balance I’m up for almost anything...

Which is Better

58. hugs or kisses?: that’s just mean! I can’t decide!! ^^ 59. lips or eyes?: eyes! 60. shorter or taller?: depends on the situation, though I would willingly give up about 4cm or sth ^^ 61. older or younger?: again... depends on the actual person, age is just a number after all I think ^^ 62. nice arms or nice stomach?: idk ^^ 63. hook up or relationship?: depends on the other person I’d say 64. troublemaker or hesitant?: since I’m very hesitant maybe a troublemaker wouldn’t be too bad - but maybe with a hint of hesitancy sometimes?

Have You Ever

65. kissed a stranger: yes 66. drank hard liquor: also yes 67. lost glasses/contact lenses: don’t need to wear them, luckily (although I lost my sunglasses somewhere on a parking area once and either me or my friend drove over it with the car because it was dark and it had fallen somewhere between our cars -.- ^^) 68. turned someone down: nope... 69. had sex on the first date: well... it wasn’t technically a date I think? (Not sure if that makes it better or worse xDD) 70. broken someones heart: if I ever did (hah, so unbelievable) I don’t know it... 71. had your heart broken: yep.... 72. been arrested: nope 73. cried when someone died: yes 74. fallen for a friend: nope...

Do You Believe In:

75. yourself? on very rare occasions ^^ 76. miracles? let’s say I want to! 77. love at first sight? not love, but”something at first sight/first encounter” definitely 78. santa claus? no ^^ 79. kiss on the first date? yeah 80. angels? Again: I’d like to believe...

Other

81. current best friend’s name? I don’t really thing I have someone I’d call my one best friend tbh... 82. eye colour: green 83. favourite movie: I could write you a list, but it’d be a very, very long list and it’s known to change depending on my mood and stuff, so I’m going with: don’t really have a favorite movie ^^

Puhh... that was a lot xD Tagging @puck-kate-connolly, @clickerpunk, @flammenmeer, @matthewbane if you want to do it - and of course anyone else who wants to do it! ;)

[duelingdestiny]

☠ ♥ ♦ ♢ ✮☄ ☯ ☀ ☁ ☂ ☢ ☣ ❀ ✧❥ ❦ ❧ ✖ ♒❣

☠ What does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you?

Start public shit on my dash. I literally cannot handle it. I don’t want to be involved. I don’t want to see it. I’ve been a part of it before. I’ve screwed up and started it myself before, and at this time in my life I’m avoiding it like the plague.

 ♥What's the WORST thing that has happened to you rp wise?

Oh my god. Uhhhhh. Wow so okay the thing I actually regret rp wise is losing one of my favorite partners due to something really stupid that could have been handled WAY better on both sides but it’s really helped me to handle things better as a person. Still, I regret losing that person as an RP partner, and I probably always will. 

♦ What was a mildly annoying thing that has happened to you rp wise?

I mean the really big thing that messes with me is because of character bleed. When people just leave Atem. It really messes him up. Or when any relationship he’s in just ends. It’s like he has no closure and it messes with me to have to deal with his pining ass. 

♢ Has anyone ever tried to steal your blog? Your headcanons? Icons? All that jazz

In short Yes. I’ve been around possibly the longest at the point and I’ve seen a lot of my hcs migrate to other Yami/Atem blogs, but it doesn’t bother me. I’m flattered, besides most of them aren’t so far fetched that people couldn’t come up with them on their own. I will however flip shit over my icons Masaya90 made them for me as a commission and I will absolutely fight someone over them, but you know how I feel about stolen art anyways

✮ Have you managed to stay away from drama?

AHAHAHAHAHAHA. I’m sorry give me a moment. Honestly yes. Other than the drama I have caused for myself in the past? All and all I am very careful about who I interact with. I just don’t deal with it. I ignore the “discourse” and just do what I’m here to do. That’s all I can do. 

☄ Have you ever been in the middle of drama?

Yes. I have been in the middle. And I’ve handled being in the middle badly, and I’ve tried my best to rectify my mistakes which is all anyone can do. I’ve made amends to the people I feel like I needed to make amends to and as a general rule I just ignore drama altogether now. 

☯ Have you ever tried to bring peace to a situation?

I have. Sometimes I succeed, others I have failed miserably. I’ll tell you this. I will generally always try to bring peace to things. I don’t like being at odds with anyone. It’s too much work and I’m too lazy to hold a grudge. 

☀ What's your rp pet peeve?

Oh this is a tie, between people just putting Atem in a situation he would NEVER be in, in a starter (without discussing it with me prior) or people who don’t cut their posts and use mobile as an excuse. I am on mobile some times and I just make a new post and mention my rp partner in it so we don’t clog the dash. It’s not rocket surgery. 

☁ Have you ever forgiven a partner when you shouldn't have?

I don’t think so mainly because if two people can work through something I think they should. I used to not think that but I’ve learned a lot and some times people just fuck up you know? So no. I don’t think I’ve ever forgiven someone when I shouldn’t have because everyone deserves another chance. 

☂ Have you ever been forgiven when you knew you shouldn't have been?

Again, see post above

☢ What fads/trends are you so over?

CONTAINER BLOGS!!!!!!!!! Seriously, I have fucking unfollowed people for this shit. I understand that you want your blog to be pretty, but holy shit. Just font that’s a size 7 and I have to blow up the page like 9 times in order to read anything and most of them have the practically non existent scroll bar and AUTO PLAY fucking terrifies me. Like just please know every time I have to go on your blog and music starts out of no where you are giving me a HEART ATTACK. Just I know you think it looks pretty but before you decide on the things like that go on your blog and look at it. USE it. User friendly is a REALLY important thing guys. 

☣ Have you ever rp'd with someone you knew for a fact was abusive but tried to give them a chance/to make up your own opinion on the roleplayer? Did they change or did you understand what people were talking about?

Due to past personal experiences I like to make up my own mind about people. Honestly the best relationship came from that. Making up my own mind. A lot of really good friendships have come from that so yes, I always try to give people a chance no matter what I’ve heard, because what you hear is probably only half of the truth to being with. 

❀ What has made you completely lose your chill?

People being shitty to others on the dash publicly. And yes before anyone points a finger, I have been in on that once and it was an awful stupid idea. It doesn’t help anything. It literally doesn’t. Tearing someone up in public makes you look like a giant asshole. We have Inboxes and IM systems and a plethora of other social media so if you have an issue with someone you can talk to them like they are a person and explain your grievance and if it’s THAT big of a deal just unfollow them and block them if you need to, but there’s no reason to be Captain Asshole on the dash. No one really wants to see it and it makes everyone’s experience really uncomfortable so bottom line? Just don’t call people out publicly. 

✧ Do you agree with reblog karma or is it forced interaction?

I’m up in the air with this. I have WAY too many followers and it’s extremely frustrating to reblog a meme get 30 reblogs off said meme and get literally not one thing in my inbox from said meme. But I remind myself timezones, and maybe people don’t feel like that will work for our muses but here’s the really easy thing that you can do if that’s the case. REBLOG FROM THE SOURCE. Then people don’t get the hit that basically looks like “I don’t WANT to interact with you.” and it makes everyones lives a little better. But I REALLY support sending memes in. I have days where I will just make a post that is MEME HOUR which is if you post a meme as long as I think Atem would be down, I will send you in an ask for it. It’s really fun and it makes up for the times when I’m not on to spam peoples assboxes. 

❥ Has someone ever ruined an FC or character for you? 

Honestly someone has ruined every character for me at one time or another lol but FC I’ve got a good one. Now it wasn’t from RP but Gina Torres who is one of the prettiest people imho was RUINED for me by the show Angel. Because (SPOILER ALERT) She’s a giant pile of maggots okay? And she’s in some of my fave shows: Firely, Any Day Now, Suits. But I cannot unsee her face on Angel. She just shows up in shit and I scream. She popped up on Criminal Minds once and I just shut it off. She’s in Hannibal and I REALLY want to watch that. DAMMIT. 

❦ Has someone been jealous of you? 

Maybe, but I wouldn’t know why...I mean I’m just me. Oh! Maybe when I go to cons and meet awesome people? I’d be jealous of me then too. 

❧ Have you ever been jealous of anyone? 

Yes. There are people I get jealous of. People who get more interaction, people who are here all the time, people who are in a better time zone. So yeah, happens. 

✖ How has Tumblr RP changed since you started?

Like I said before, I think I have been here longer than most in this fandom at least the rp side and HOO BOY, things have changed a lot. Remember when we had to tag a post on the side? Remember when Missing E was the extension we all had? No? That’s because I’ve been here forever. Before this I was in the SPN fandom. So yeah. I feel like I’ve stuck around a lot longer than a lot of people. What kills me is that things have changed but not really improved? When are we going to be able to lock a post so people’s art can’t be stolen? When are we going to be able to delete a post and all clones of that post are deleted as well so someone who made a mistake 6 years ago and LEARNED from it doesn’t have to wake up with hate in their inbox every morning? 

♒ Thoughts on the fandom you're currently rping in?

I actually really love both the fandoms I’m in right now, though both have some issues. Voltron is fucking unhinged about some shit I won’t get into because no one really cares in this fandom but HOO BOY I’m glad we don’t have that here because we literally have the same thing going on here. HA! I just thought of that. But yeah age gaps man. Just fuck everything about it. Okay done ranting about this before I get my first hate mail

❣ How salty are you feeling right now?

Ask Sophie she’s had to listen to me rant for the last hour about everything on this list. I just screamed about the SPN fandom confusing reality with porn for 20 minutes and then the Josh Keaton thing with his kids so yeah, pretty fucking salty that people can’t just get the fuck along.