#i love you lesbians wlw sapphics dykes etc

[xanthezhou]

Pat Parker, "My Lady Ain't No Lady"

[gothcoffins]

🦇 hello welcome to my cemetery 🦇

MEN AND MINORS WILL BE BLOCKED. YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE.

this is an everything blog but it's mostly nsfw if I'm being honest.

Must be 21+ for mutuals/DMs/friendship. I wanna make more femme and butch lesbian friends pls feel free to DM me !! make sure that if you DM me you don't be horny off the bat. it makes me uncomfortable. I'm a real person outside of my horny posts.

lesbians and sapphics of all kinds are more than welcome here ! Just make sure that if you're non-lesbian and you reblog, make sure your blog is wlw/sapphic focused. otherwise I don't want you to interact because I don't want the men from your blog to interact with my posts. I don't give a fuck about men and don't want them engaging with my stuff. This is my lesbian sanctuary and I need you to respect my space.

trans and gnc lesbians are welcome and cherished here. this means both transmascs AND transfems.

About me:

🦇 fat femme lesbian

🦇 strictly femme4butch

🦇 strictly bottom

🦇 lover and defender of all butches and studs of all gender identities/races/body types/etc etc

🦇 real life vampyre + goth

🦇 I love to play video games + watch cartoons & anime + I love to draw

🦇 canadian

🦇 black

read my full post and check my dni before following:

Kinks & stuff:

🦇 daddy kink (i love calling butches daddy)

🦇 pet play

🦇 breeding

🦇 overstim

🦇 edging

🦇 impact play

🦇 im a switch (in terms of bdsm not top/bottom) but im exploring this dominant side of myself more

🦇 there is definitely more im forgetting but just scroll through my blog and you'll see lol

You will be sent to the royal dungeon if you are any of these things:

( this is the dni list ) ( I block freely ) (i will block if i just don't fw you also )

a man

center men in any of your posts/your blog/let men interact with your posts/if you reblog posts from and about men

Lesbians who only care about/rb skinny people or white people or both (you're cringe and a loser)

fat fetish/feeder/feedee

DDLG/age play

Rape play

Race play

goth fetishizers (im just a girl- im not your "big tiddy goth girlfriend" or "goth mommy")

believe bi/pan/mspec lesbians are real and valid (you're not real nor valid)

a huge fuck off to people who like dyke breaking. you're not actually lesbian, go cry about that if it bothers you.

politically neutral and overall weak minded individuals who think they can separate themselves from politics (you're a loser)

taylor swift , elizabeth woolridge grant , and harry potter fans (hard block for hp, side eye for the first two)

fatphobes, cop apologists, zionists, racists, colourists, right wingers, racists, ablest, transphobes, people who don't think covid is real (cant believe I even have to put the last one here. Get a grip)

My Tags

askbox: #askcoffin

appreciating my mutuals pics: #lovely mutuals

talking about my personal life: #coffin time

pics of me: #open the coffin

bad at tagging this one but my writing: #coffin writes

when I'm in the mood to yearn: #lesbian yearning hours

anons: #🌼

[fuglyjeans]

1-35 faggot

Yay ❤️thanks fag ❤️

1. are you beating the uhaul allegations?

I moved across the country to live with my gf after 2 years long distance. So, kinda? We only visited each other I think 6 times before the move. Idk if that's fast or not

2. Do you identify as butch, femme, masc, and/or gnc?

I've been considering the label femme. I find a lot of joy through playing with makeup and fashion, and my style is very girly.

3. How did you realize you were Sapphic?

When I was a teen I always in the back of my head kind of thought yeah I'd do a girl. But that's cause of my sin nature! Then during college I fell in love with my best friend(thats u 42069gay), lost my faith... then tried to date some men but every interaction made me want to rip my eyeballs out. I started to ID as a lesbian after a date with this guy that went really well, but I just felt so uncomfortable thinking about becoming his girlfriend. We hugged goodbye and I felt so scared of the idea of him kissing me. I cried all the way home on the train... and that's when I knew in my bones. i was lesbo

4. Who is/was your most intense Sapphic crush?

My gf! :3

5. Do you consider yourself a dyke?

Umm ig that depends how you mean it, I'm not sure if that's a label I'm allowed to use tbh. I'm a lesbian. I'm not masc, but I rise and put my right hand over my heart when anyone mentions dykes supporting fags.

6. Are you good at picking up when people are flirting with you, or do you tend to be more oblivious?

I can definitely tell, but my anxiety causes me to second-guess it.

7. Have you ever crushed on a straight girl?

There was this girl I went to church with during my college years, who started making out with me whenever we got drunk. (That shit kind of hurt 😕)

8. What's your relationship status? Are you happy about it?

I'm in a long-term relationship 💕 Our 4 year anniversary is next week, and I'm very happy.

9. Do you have a "type"? If so, what is it?

I've always been most attracted to women who are very feminine, but have some kind of odd or punk edge. women with bangs energy I guess. Brittany Murphy, Bjork, Lady Gaga, SZA, Kathleen Hanna. etc

10. Did you do anything gay as a kid that makes sense when you look back on your childhood?

There was this time in middle school when I was sleeping over at my friend's house. we were lying side-by-side in her bed, tracing circles on each other's backs and I got super turned on. She kind of prepositioned me in a joking way and I flipped out, but for years afterwards I wished I had reacted differently and fantasized about how that night could have gone. I have no idea how I didn't realize this was very gay

11. What are some good Sapphic songs/music artists?

Chappell Roan is my fave. Bikini Kill, Lady Gaga and Hayley Kiyoko r also very special to me. Also check out suspected lesbian Connie Converse she's so cool. Here's 3 random wlw songs I love too: -> Kissing Lessons by Lucy Dacus -> Don't Try Suicide by Team Dresch -> Pynk by Janelle Monae

12. Good Sapphic books/poems/authors?

I'm the worst for this bc I don't read enough :( but: -> The Color Purple by Alice Walker ->The Well of Loneliness by Radclyffe Hall ->My Lesbian Experience With Loneliness by Kabi Nagata

13. Good Sapphic movies/shows?

-> Revolutionary Girl Utena -> Portrait of a Lady On Fire -> But I'm a Cheerleader -> Heavenly Creatures -> Jennifer's Body -> Steven Universe sorryyy

14. List five things you look for in a partner or five things you love about your current partner.

1. Her honesty. Our biggest strength is communication 2. Her creativity and excellent taste in all kinds of art. She reminds me not to worry about the things I can't control!! Which I really need. Repeatedly 3. She doesn't believe in cringe; she's the most non-judgemental person I know. 4. When we get delusional and insane over the same character 🫶💕

15. Are you the gay cousin?

Yes lmao and the gay sister and the gay aunt.

16. Do you consider being Sapphic a big part of your identity?

Yes very much so!

17. How many people have you dated? Talk about them if you want!

Like 2. I have really bad social anxiety and was a totally weird late bloomer. I went on a few different dates but only *dated* one person before I met my s/o. It was super awkward, she was sweet but we were both very inexperienced and shy and I guess there just wasn't enough chemistry. we kind of hung out for 6 months, never kissed or made anything official, then I moved out of state and we ghosted each other... v awkward time but I do have some fun memories

18. Thoughts on e-dating or long distance? Have you ever done it? How did it go?

I totally support it. I think anonymity is what some of us need to allow ourselves to be vulnerable... I met my partner on tumblr, it was the only place I felt safe being my whole cringey self at the time. I always used to think it was weird to date someone you've never met, but once I found her I said what the hell, I have nothing to lose. Luckily it went well!! It's unconventional, but so is everything about my life.

19. describe your fashion sense. do you "dress gayly"?

I would say no, most people assume I'm straight. I have a somewhat basic wardrobe... My fashion sense is much campier and more colorful than my wallet allows.

20. do you consider yourself to be a good kisser?

I have no idea. I try my best

21. are you generally "out" to people?

Most of the time I try to be. I'm not out at work, because the vibe there is rather conservative (like, Bible tracts on the wall) so I don't feel safe just telling anyone.

22. how do you feel about valentine's day?

I like it a lot more, now that I'm no longer an adult virgin :)

23. do you like being referred to with masculine adjectives, feminine adjectives, both, or neither?

She/her I'm very cis

24. thoughts on marriage?

I like the idea of having a ceremony, but I don't know if I'd want to be legally married. I would need to read up on the ramifications of that a bit more.

25. have you ever gone to a pride parade?

yes! I marched in my hometown once, and I went to Boston Pride in 2019. I haven't been to any since but I mean to

26. do you read yuri manga?

nope

27. do you fit any sapphic stereotypes / other stereotypes related to your identity?

I have short fingernails and too many cats

28. what's a canon sapphic ship you enjoy?

Petra Solano x Jane Ramos, from Jane The Virgin. It wasn't the best written imo, BUT I'm just a huge Petra fan, and I was so happy to see her find gay love.

29. how about a non-canon sapphic ship?

Hinata Hyuga x Sakura Haruno from Naruto. I will die on this hill. They would be so soft and encouraging for each other. I used to be so fucking invested in this, it was all I would ever draw in my sketchbooks

30. who's your favorite sapphic character?

Anthy Himemiya. She's just. a kaleidoscope of trauma and love and bitterness. also, this isn't canon but I truly truly see Bev Keane from Midnight Mass as a lesbian. She just reminds me too much of myself when I was younger and I feel for her and I love her lots

31. LEAST favorite sapphic character?

Molly Bolt from Rubyfruit Jungle. I guess she's not that bad, but I just fucking hated this book

32. tell a funny story about something really gay you've done.

convinced myself I was in a queerplatonic relationship so that I wouldn't have to confront the fact I wasn't straight

33. do you get crushes/fall in love easily?

not really, I've only had a small handful of those experiences

34. who's a sapphic person you look up to? they can be someone in your life, a historical figure, a celebrity, etc!

Lady Gaga. She's so smart and so weird and so HERSELF. even when I disagree with something she does/says, I appreciate her sincerity and her gumption.

35. if you could tell your younger sapphic self anything, what would it be?

Girl you are allowed to trust your gut. Your feelings are holy, don't hold yourself hostage. If there is a God, and if he really is loving, he wouldn't want that for you.

[bratdykebarbie]

📌 please put your age in your bio/pinned before following me!

💖💕💖💕💖💕💖💕💖💕💖

hi I’m bratdykebarbie 🍒🐰

(formerly cherryykitten, cherryybunny)

welcome to my little corner of tumblr, you can call me cherry, Barbie, or anything nice 🍒

I’m a 26 y/o lesbian femme dyke from the US 💖

not a girl but not, like, NOT a girl 🖤🩶🩷🤍🩷🩶🖤

she/her, they/them, or a combo work for me ☺️

I’m single, monogamous, and dreaming of wife life 💖

98% subby bratty baby bottom 2% demon switch 🥺💖😈

every single thing I post is for the sapphics, lesbians, wlw, dykes, fags, sluts, girlies (gender neutral), homos, carpet munchers, cocksuckers, whores, queer babes—all of you pls consume all of my content with the utmost disrespect 💖

trans women are 100000% included in the above groups, and I post a lot of content about trans lesbians. as I figure out my own gender I feel an intense emotional connection with trans women, and it is so important to me to love on y’all 💖

attn: non-cishet men and/or ppl who identify partially as male or masc in any way—you absolutely can follow, this isn’t rly a “men dni” space, I love you funky gender ppl 💖 if you’re questioning if you’re “too” male/masc to qualify then you probably aren’t cishet in which case come on in 💖 (also welcome: anyone who previously identified or still feels like/presents as a cishet man and are figuring out their gender! I love you! good luck in your journey! 💖)

I follow/send asks/like from @sapphobystarlight ✨

header art is “When the butterflies are just warning signs” by Relm of RelmArtist 🌸

“my gender is just left of girl” post by the lovely @femmeidiot 💖

feel free to ask me anything 💐

love y’all 💖

(updated 3/17/24)

ADDENDUM UPDATED 7/19/23

I will not tolerate TERF shit, “gender critical” nonsense, or other transphobia/transmisogyny on my blogs. get the fuck out of here with that shit, you are not welcome. also shove glass in your eyes and drink bleach pls 💞

rules/dni, kinks/likes, and tags under the cut ⬇️

basic rules

❤️ put ur age in ur bio ❤️

❌ no minors/TERFs/cishets/Nazis/gross old men w/ stolen porn blogs/etc ❌

❌ no non-transfem sissy/cd/trap blogs ❌

❌ pls don’t follow if you post any extreme cnc/violence, actual non-consent, the word r*pe, gore, thinspo, self-harm, anything with blood (vampire stuff is fine), “icky kiddo” stuff, actual incest, abdl, scat/emeto, gun play, drowning/suffocation, necro, bestiality (furries incl sexual are fine), or gaslighting/kidnapping/extreme psychological stuff ❌

❌ also pls don’t follow if you PRIMARILY post fauxcest, M/s, feet, or piss ❌

(those last ones aren’t major triggers so if you post a variety of other things it’s probably fine, I’ll evaluate on a case-by-case basis, I’m generally ok with you following me, if you’ve been following me and are just now seeing any of this then you’re fine. also, if I follow you first, then you’re good obvs)

❌ again for the court, absolutely no fucking TERFs/rAdFeM/“gender critical” bullshit, get the fuck off my blog and go eat shit and die ❌

💚 kinks/things I like & post fairly often 💚

—“good girl”, brat play, breeding*, sucking girls’ dicks, cum/swallowing/facials, teasing, dirty talk/talking me through an orgasm, overstim, “mommy” as a title, gentle/soft domination, loving degradation, hickeys/bruises/marks/scratching, the words “cunt”/“pussy”/“cock”/“dick”/“hole”, a hand on my neck (not choking), the word “little”**, being gagged, being called “baby”, using the vibe during, collars

* NOT pregnancy but “I’m gonna put a baby in you/knock you up” is 🥵

** “little slut”, “little pet”, “little angel”, “[perfect/precious/sweet/good/etc] little [noun]”

⚠️ things I like a little/in concept and want to explore/do more & don’t post as much ⚠️

—face slapping, free use, spanking, bondage/shibari, biting, bigger toys, gentle breath play, service topping, giving prostate orgasms, being used by more than one girl at a time, somno, leashes, being recorded/photographed, “daddy” as a title

tags (need updating)

horny text posts - #bratdykebarbie.txt; also #cherryykitten.txt and #cherryybunny.txt 💞

miscellaneous personal text posts - #bratdykebarbie.misc; also #cherryykitten.misc and #cherryybunny.misc ✏️

any pics I post - #bratdykebarbie.jpg; also #cherryykitten.jpg and #cherryybunny.jpg 📸

asks and submissions—

#bratdykebarbie asks / #bratdykebarbie subs

old asks/submissions—

#cherrybunny asks / #cherryybunny submissions

&

#cherrykitten asks / #cherryykitten submissions

〰️ this section was last updated 3/17/2024 〰️

[shankreligious]

xoxo oooooohkay ! so it's been a very unexpectedly busy couple weeks or so, my queue's been emptied, so i'm gonna come on back & attempt to... assimilate with all you lovely people!

xoxo as i browse the dash to send memes, reblog some of my own, read rules & return new follows, etc. , i got a few questions to ask of y'all since i'm like super new around here and rp communities can be super different ! so ! ( & pls feel free to reply to this post with answers to any or all of these if you can spare the time ♡ )

① which of the following muses ( please be honest ! ) do you think would be best to get interactions with?

tsunade

jashinist oc ( s ? ) of varying ages

fandomless oc with many aus

this homocidal maniac i'm on rn

② how do y'all best start interactions?

inbox memes

starter calls

wishlist posts

greeters?

③ are sapphic / wlw / lesbian ships popular around here in general? asking for your friendly neighborhood dyke ( me )

xoxo thanks sm for helping me out !! i have very limited time / energy to go about settling into a new community here bc i'm training to become an emt & in the midst of trying to move out of an abusive living situation, so any advice to get around the naruto rpc is very much appreciated ♡

[petewentzisblack1312]

Re slur discourse because I have THOUGHTS and no one irl will listen to me lol.

Queer slur discourse is very much competing to have a cool word only I can say <3 And I think what especially bothers me about it is. It isn't historically how gay communities functioned? Like truly. What's the harm in a gay man using the word dyke to describe me/other lesbians/me and a group of friends/etc etc. Especially if it's not done with malice?

Like I know other friends of mine have been called dyke in a derogatory way so their opinions will be different then mine, but I truly couldn't give less of a fuck if another queer person said dyke. Double so if they're also wlw/sapphic.

That being said I tried to change a burner twitter of mind to a name with dyke in it as an experiment and that account got banned so,

sorry i didnt answer this immediately bestie but youre right, like its understandable if someone outright doesnt want to be called that but i dont really mind if another queer person calls me a slur ive made it clear im okay being called. i just woke up so this isnt going to be the most in depth thoughts on this but like you said its very much about having a cool word thats just for them and not about the actual political act of reclaiming a slur where you are embracing an identity that is hated by society by wearing a word that has been used as a weapon against you. its not about being able to exclude people, its about being able to love yourself.

also one time this youtuber i like was making pride dice and i wanted to request next time they make the lesbian flag so i said "i want dyke dice!" and it got filtered :(

[yuribalisms]

Hey so I hear you about the complexities of identity language! I'm a queer trans man and have struggled a lot with how others have used certain terms (like bi vs pan).

And I'm not here to tell you how to feel or claim that I'm an expert on queer history because I am *definitely* not.

But I did want to say that people using the term 'lesbian' while being attracted to men is more than just a strange Tumblr/teen phenomenon. Reading up on Leslie Steinberg and queer lit like Stone Butch Blues taught me a lot about labels have been used, oppressed, erased, and (eventually) reformed among the younger queer community.

This included some interesting history about lesbian, dyke, and butch identities acting as sort-of fluid gender identities. A lesbian could be someone who took a masculine role in their relationships - that of a butch girlfriend (wlw) or that of the "more masc" person in a wlm relationship.

When I was figuring my shit out, "like a lesbian but also a gay man" was a phrase I used. I didn't have other words at the time. For me, the phrase expressed "relating to the woman experience as someone who was afab + loving women fiercely bc of it + but being feminine in a way that is NOT typical for people afab + also loving men but only gay men (which feels weird since I'm allegedly a girl???"

Eventually I was like "aha! I'm transmasc and bi, and I enjoy feminine people regardless of gender labels!" but it took me a decade to figure that out, you know??

I'm not saying it's easy, and it's definitely challenging for me still. But learning that people have combined and redefined queer labels to try and find themselves for the entirety of queer history... well, it's made me less frazzled and helped me to be more accepting of others.

🌈

So like.... I get what you’re saying, and I get where you’re coming from. A lot of labels have changed definitions and the way they’re used throughout lgbtq history, but um..... I just do not think that lesbian should or needs to change to include an attraction to men, no matter how people are trying to conceptualize their attraction. (Especially when terms like sapphic, butch, wlw already exist and are free for anyone to use, whether they happen to be a lesbian, bi, pan, queer, what have you).

There are so many terms and labels and sexualities that encompass attraction to both men and women, so I just cannot fathom why these people are insisting upon trying to use literally the one label used to define the experience of attraction that doesn’t include men.... to describe their attraction that ultimately includes men

I am a non-binary lesbian, I am afab and trans but a lesbian. I understand how difficult it can be to try and understand and conceptualize your own identities, but I’m getting so defensive over this because lesbians really can’t have shit.

It’s such an alienating experience, only being attracted to women when you are not a man. Lesbian is the only word we have to claim. Why do these people (who can just say they’re bi/pan/omni) just have to insert themselves into that narrative and community when they ultimately don’t belong and aren’t going to understand?

Again, I’m not denying that they feel like a wlw or sapphic, but if they are still attracted to men, regardless of their gender identity, they are still bi (or whatever sexuality falls under the bi umbrella). They are not a lesbian.

So many lesbians have struggled so long (of all gender identities and experiences) in a world that expects and operates as if women are attracted to men. Almost all lesbians still struggle with men insisting they just need to try one, or that they’re secretly attracted to men, struggle with comphet, etc. There is just context, sometimes, when it comes to these labels and communities.

Lesbians have struggled for so long with a male dominated society, we have our one word, our one label, to describe how we feel, to voice that we are not attracted to men and will not center them in our relationships.

So why do these bi people insist upon trying to take it for themselves when they already have so many other words to describe their attraction, if it’s not because they can’t fathom that there is literally one space that was not meant for them, or they just don’t care about the context or the way this makes actual lesbians feel?

(Because our feelings are invalidated over and over and over again, both by cishets but also within the lgbtq community)

Like I said. I do not believe lesbian is a label that should ever be “redefined” or “reclaimed” in anyway that implies attraction to men. Certainly not at this point in society. And the people who try and use it when they are attracted to men either just do not think about anything for longer than two seconds, or are just selfish enough not to care about how lesbians would feel about this or how it would affect us

These people are bi. There is nothing wrong with that. The lesbian label just is not for them, lesbian only spaces and discussions are not for them. And they need to learn to fucking respect that

[feliicityrampant]

the problem with reading lgb narratives in history is that sexuality is simultaneously a behavior (something you do), a state of being (a moment in time outside action), and an identity (something you feel) and when we talk about real people we can only ever access one, maybe two of those experiences without their personal accounts. like it's not unworthy of our time to look at history and say "x woman was interested in other women" but you can't make the next step to "x woman was a lesbian/bisexual" even though that feels natural because those are words laden with so much personal meaning. one is "displayed interest in" and one is "was" definitively. (the same is true for words like "queer" or "fag" or "dyke" which have taken and continue to take such huge shifts in meaning and signifigance over such a short time.) which is not to say that "lesbian" and "gay" and "bi" are bad no no words or that the social behaviors attached to them are things we can't talk about or that we can't ever say "so and so never participated in prevailing social narratives of sexuality i.e. performed straightness" i just think that a lot of ppl get hung up on the words and the meaning being so attached that they can't detach them from each other. like, henry louis gates jr. talks about signification in AAVE and how words can have simultaneous prarallel meanings and i think this is where a lot of ppl (esp white westerners) get hung up because we're so used to words meaning a single thing in a single moment. but i think y'all (we) have to let go of that in order to have any kind of productive dialogue about sexuality, historically or in the 21st century and especially both. what i mean (tl;dr i guess) is that we as a generation (era) are very into brevity and there are a lot of short hand terms that get floated around (lgb/sga/mlm/wlw/sapphic/achillean/etc. and Especially queer) but in order for conversation to move forward ever i feel like we need to abandon brevity for the sake of specificity because none of us are ever talking about the same fucking thing. which is to say, when we talk about who we love and how and how historical figures loved and how, i would very much like if they could be conversations both aphra behn and a contemporary high school could understand regardless if wether or not they "Agree" (and consensus between contemporary and historical narratives re: social behavior/norms/morals/values is something that also needs to be abandoned but that's another post entirely)