"old man yaoi" and the characters are 28 and 30
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i do think its sad when people dont make an effort to try and understand something from another persons perspective LOL like yes maybe going ”well i cant relate to that” is a fairly basic human reaction but it just feels like base level compassion to at least try to push through that be it in online or irl communication
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sometimes the ache in my chest for friends I've lost to distance and time just won't go away 👻
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one thing my mum taught me was generosity
my parents grew up dirt poor, they've ended up with a lot of money via being lucky with well paid job + workaholicism lmao
my mum used to tell me, there's no point in having big numbers in your bank account. it's just a number. if you can make you and your friends lives easier and prettier, you should do it, because in the end it's just money! it's just money, and the people you love (and yourself!) are more important
ik saying 'its just money' is very privileged, but it comes from realising that money has a purpose, yknow. I'm not great with money, and I do have an issue with not seeing my money as my own, so that mindset had some drawbacks (my dad also used to lecture me about how I shouldn't buy things for myself, only for others, but he buys hoards of useless shit for himself so. yknow). it's also hard when all your friends are struggling and you see donation posts every day and people on the streets, and it's like.. what do I do with this?? I'm on government money, but I know if it's bad my parents will always be able to support me. i still buy myself stuff.
idk what I'm saying in this post. just thought wandering I guess. I guess I'm saying, I appreciate my parents for teaching me this, even if it's a bit maladaptive.
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mayday pls come to california. im begging uuuu. i didnt get to see yall in tw. pls. pls plsssssss
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Companies shouldn't be allowed to hire managers from outside. Train and invest in your own entry-level staff or go bankrupt.
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