Reminder that I am not always a safe for work blog and I'm in my 30s... I am starting to see quite a lot of minors following me now and its starting to get a little weird... so just be forewarned that i could at any time post straight up BDSM style NSFW material and you might not want to be around for that. bc the shit I like could easily scar someone else phytologically. So I am just warning you I won't censor any of my posts or tag them.
I think I would prefer no minors follow me but I am also not your mother so I'm not going to tell you what to do.
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and in my experience, once you hit certain levels of engagement, the joy you get from it kind of plateaus and it becomes a bit difficult to grasp those numbers. 20k likes on twitter is :D for like 3 seconds, after that those 20k likes are on par with 3 fun replies i get like it's all relative, which is to say that these small interactions mean to me as much as those big numbers, which is why i'd rather have fun and interact in the confines of this blog and under my terms than have thousands of strangers see it and come up with assumptions about my mind palace and such
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actually maybe its kind of weird to expect transmascs to immediately start saying transmisogynist shit when presented with a useful transmasc resource. im not saying there arent shitheads like that out there, there are shitheads of all stripes on the internet and some of those stripes are transmisogynist trans people, but pre-emptively going on the defensive on a post that contains nothing except resources for DIY is maybe a little telling about your assumptions of how transmascs act
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"if i isolate myself and just focus on doing my own thang free from the pressure of the eyes of others, then I become more comfortable w myself and gain some semblance of being assured in myself" okay good BUT ->
"if i spend time alone doing my own thang without the pressure of eyes of others for very long and let myself just exist, then i will indulge in things that make me happy, and the things that make me happy tend to be outside of the general view of "normal interests", and this will make me into a very strange person who has very specific interests and is annoying to others bc they became too comfortable with their weirdness and forgot they have to be normal"
so basically i have to just. hate myself a little bit all the time because if I like myself then I annoy people. argrgrhgrghh
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