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#ive been eyeing e/em pronouns for a while and tbh i think it would be cool to use that pronoun set
theygender · 2 years
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I finally got up the nerve to ask my spanish professor if I could use the nonbinary pronoun elle in class and I was worried the answer would be no since it's not an official pronoun, but he said yes! I got to use the correct gendered words for myself on my test today, and I didn't know just how much gender euphoria writing out the phrase "cuando era niñe" and ending my adjectives with -e was gonna give me but I'm gonna be happy for the whole rest of the day now. I'm also glad bc like... now if any other nonbinary students want to use a pronoun that matches their gender in their spanish class it should be easier for them. I've already done the hard part of coming out to my professor at a community college in the bible belt, explaining the movement for a gender neutral spanish pronoun to him, and providing him with resources from a spanish LGBT organization. And I let my pride club know what he said so now if any other students ask the organizer about using nonbinary pronouns in their spanish class she'll be able to tell them that the prof is okay with it 💛
#rambling#i just keep repeating the phrase 'cuando era niñe' in my head#no era niña o niño. era niñe <3#ive used the elle pronoun in online spaces already but like. for one thing im not involved in a lot of spanish spaces online#and for another thing theres a difference between referring to myself with a pronoun on the internet#and getting to refer to myself with a pronoun in real life in my class and have it recognized as correct by my professor#its very gender affirming#tbh the euphoria im getting from using elle for myself in spanish is making me consider using a neopronoun in english even more#like. they pronouns dont exactly give me gender euphoria. its more like the absence of dysphoria#i only ever really notice if someone gets it wrong. if they get it right my brain just interprets it as normal and glides right over it#and i think it may be bc they isnt specifically a nonbinary pronoun? its just gender neutral#same with all the words that describe me in english. kid/sibling/partner/etc. theyre all gender neutral#they dont tell you much about what my gender IS. they just avoid gendering me#which is correct! i generally do not want to be gendered#and i do notice and appreciate when my family uses gender neutral words to talk about me now#bc its a welcome change from the previous daughter/sister/etc and tbh gendered words give me more dysphoria than gendered pronouns#but when it comes to pronouns specifically... maybe i might. want? gendered pronouns?#ones that at least when theyre used in lgbt spaces would communicate not just 'this person has a vague gender'#but 'this person is specifically nonbinary'?#ive been eyeing e/em pronouns for a while and tbh i think it would be cool to use that pronoun set#bc it would match with the first letter of my name AND the pronoun i use in spanish#i think i might bring it up to my partner and friends to see if they can help me try it out#i dont think i would get rid of my they pronouns but maybe i would use they/them publicly and e/em privately#my business pronouns and my party pronouns
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neighborlywelcome · 10 months
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i am a 5'5 - 5'6 18 year old kinda maybe girl ( lol im still figuring that stuff out :> ) i identify as a demigirl and use she/it pronouns.
looks wise i have brownish greenish bluish eyes ( im told lmao ?) and long curly brown hair. i'm a bit what i call pudgy as i love to eat like alote pfffft, and style wise i adore alternative kinda wismy looks, my fashion is mixed but i give off a sorta angelcore etheral vibe on my best days :D other days ( most days lol ) i rock the pj look like all the time. mostly my fave pair
Hiya!! i hope you are having a lovely day <3
i'm here for a tadc matchup if you please ! :>
my pronouns are it/she ( lol ichee ) my gender identity is like girl but not? i'm still figuring myself out tbh
i'm still questioning my sexuality but ik i'd be comfy with any character except kinger ( still love em but platonically like a silly dad/grandpa figure lol )
personality wise i am a bit 💫quirky💫 lmaO i try my best to be kind and understanding of others but if someone disrespects me iv been through enough to b like ok f i g h t m e GVBFVVFG jkjk , alas i am to squishy for that and will just seeth, i love talking and listening abt anything really but as an introvert i go quiet at times and go b by maself for a little while, i am a w k w a r d at first as i get a lil shy and junk but i open up pretty quickly tbh, anyways ummmm interests yeah ! i love any cartoon really-my favorites are arcane, mlp , and rwby along with collecting do dads like lil figurines and such, i enjoy learning abt the universe and just how things work to!
Now as for my type and favorite date ideaa- i kinda go for my opposites tbh those i compliment well , its also a big plus if there protective tbh gvhfbfbgh, i'd love to just have a quiet day together watching movies and snaking as a date or maybe going for a walk with ma s/o and talkin abt evreything and nothing :)))
hmmmm now just the extras ! my zodiac sign is leo, i am a bit short, i l o v e pink like id say honestly anything pink is my aesthetic lol-well pink cybercore + etheralcore really but yeah !
And lastly heres
anywaysssssss !!-byeeeee ✌️
Thank you for the request, I hope you're having a lovely day too! I think your ask got a bit mixed up in the shuffle, but it's no trouble!
YOUR MATCHUP IS...
RAGATHA!!!
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I think you and Ragatha would be a perfect pairing! You balance each other out since Ragatha is a bit more extroverted than you and you’re more shy. But both of you are sweethearts and that kind/compassionate energy draws you to one another!
Ragatha loves the fact that the two of you could talk all night and all day about anything together. She’s a great listener for whenever you want to say something and likewise is not afraid to give her two cents whenever she’d like to ramble.
Besides your endless conversations about anything and everything, Ragatha would love the fact you get shy and she is very gentle and patient with you, especially on your more quiet days.
She’s nothing but attentive to your needs and happily indulges you in your hobbies like watching cartoons and movies. Ragatha is a pretty chill person and doesn’t mind going on relaxing dates between the excitement of the adventures and whatnot.
Of course, she’s also super protective and reliable. Spending eternity with Jax has made her tough and her only real fear is centipedes so if you ever need her to step in, she wouldn’t hesitate to.
And she thinks all the pink you wear is adorable! She likes everything about your looks, especially that you’re on the shorter side so she can pick you up and carry you around easily (if you want her to)!
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dreadsful · 7 years
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tagged by @roecompany love you boo
rules:  answer these 85 statements and tag 20 people
tagging: @fuckyeahspirk and @weneedwhiskey
THE LAST
1. drink: pepsi 2. phone call: deadass corsettis 3. text message: a skype to heidi  4. song you listened to: shot in the dark - within temptation  5. time you cried: uh like last night full blown sobbing because im w e a k 6. dated someone twice: no because ive been dating heidi since fifth grade 7. kissed someone and regretted it: no 8. been cheated on: idk brighten pissed me off for a little while 9. lost someone special: yes my kitty ♥ 10. been depressed: probably yes 11. gotten drunk and thrown up: i did drink two two liters of pepsi in one night and threw up 
3 FAVOURITE COLOURS 12. blue 13. orange 14. dark red
IN THE LAST YEAR HAVE YOU 15. made new friends: purposefully i have not  16. fallen out of love: maybe with a fandom or two  17. laughed until you cried: “we made her eat a combination of all the expired foods in my fridge. she was still awake and turned over with her ipod light. punched in the back of the head, that one girl last year who slammed into my forehead, “why is that ross from friends”, “ - adding on, the reaper that definitely got possessed mid-game, the people on video chat that recognized eren, the message i got from the porn bot on ps4, every time we almost got separated, ‘you cat pushed down on my vagina’ 18. found out someone was talking about you: uh yes? but mostly from people i’d expect it to be from lol 19. met someone who changed you: literally me and heidi suck each other into fandoms so much it wouldn’t be fair to say anyone else changed me.  20. found out who your friends are: ive happily been in a single committed friendship for like 7 years so i know  21. kissed someone on your facebook list: no thank god 
GENERAL 22. how many of your facebook friends do you know in real life: p sure all of them besides some african kid that sent me a friend request 23. do you have any pets: yes, id like to have more tbh another puppy  24. do you want to change your name: yes my name is way too common 25. what did you do for your last birthday: just like- ate cake 26. what time did you wake up: usually around 6:50 if im being honest 27. what were you doing at midnight last night: im not even lying i was deadass crying  28. name something you can’t wait for: friday  29. when was the last time you saw your mom: just now  31. what are you listening to right now: my dog’s ridiculously long nails on the floor 32. have you ever talked to a person named tom: i don’t think so  33. something that is getting on your nerves: the fact that i always have so much shit to do but do none of it instead 34. most visited website: tumblr, youtube, character wiki pages 35. hair colour: naturally brown but i’ve colored it so sometimes its like- more brown/blond or brown/red  36. long or short hair: fairly long  37. do you have a crush on someone: no 38. what do you like about yourself: i honestly- am so good as procrastinating but still getting everything done it’s impressive  39. want any piercings: i would like to have my ears pierced but they always get infected when i do  40. blood type: i think ab something but im not sure 41. nickname: people always call me ‘em’ and it drives me insane i hate it, but i dunno if that really counts as a nickname  42. relationship status: single (thank god) 43. zodiac: gemini 44. pronouns: she/her 45. favourite tv show: bates motel, ahs but really just the freakshow and asylum seasons, used to be game of thrones before they killed off my boy, (tokyo ghoul and snk if animes count), star trek the original series, btas, gotham sometimes i have a love hate relationship with it 46. tattoos: heidi and i should get matching tattoos but i want a small one for my birthday  47. right or left handed: right handed 48. surgery: no, but i did have stitches on my chin & have fucked up my ankle and foot a bunch  49. piercing: none  50. sport: i say horse back riding out of habit but honestly i cry off 30 pounds a day  51. vacation: im supposed to go to florida to see my dad but he also didn’t evacuate for irma so is he even alive idk  52. pair of trainers: are those sneakers? 
MORE GENERAL 53. eating: soup 54. drinking: pepsi  55. i’m about to: sit here until i go to the movies  56. waiting for: also to go see IT like damn i liked the original but the remake is more my speed + eddie’s & richie’s jokes are the best  57. want: to get back into fucking platinum in overwatch  58. get married: i sometimes think i want to but then i remember how much i sincerely hate people 59. career: crime scene investigator but im also lazy af 
WHICH IS BETTER 60. hugs or kisses: personally i don’t like either but when it comes to characters i have a weakness for the hugs 
61. lips or eyes: pfft eyes  62. shorter or taller: tall people are scary tbh  63. older or younger: i hate old people  64. nice arms or nice stomach: both  65. hook up or relationship: uh- for me i don’t even,,, care, but for them otps you know relationships  66. troublemaker or hesitant: there’s such a thing as in between 
HAVE YOU EVER 67. kissed a stranger:  no 68. drank hard liquor: no 69. lost glasses/contact lenses: i don’t have those lol  70. turned someone down: not technically but when people feel the need to remind me that they’re straight i do stop talking to the, 71. sex on the first date: no 72. broken someone’s heart: uh no  73. had your heart broken: when any favorite character dies  74. been arrested: i should have been  75. cried when someone died: literally any character ever  76. fallen for a friend: 😏😏😏
DO YOU BELIEVE IN 77. yourself: ha 78. miracles: nope 79. love at first sight: not realistically no  80. santa claus: no ? who does anymore? 81. kiss on the first date: its just a kiss 82. angels: heidi is one 
OTHER 83. current best friend’s name: heidi ofc  84. eye colour: blue 85. favorite movie: IT is really good, the star trek movies are all good even if some of them are like romantic comedies. avengers, psycho, the dark knight and wonder woman (though i hate the dceu with a burning passion tbh), batman animated movies are literally the best, fucking brother bear and open season my childhood favorites, mad max fury road, honestly so much more i just can’t remember
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not again
i got tagged by @capri-sunqueen
i tag
@petalstripe @spoeeeee @mangledfox33 @ifanclover and anyone who wants to do it just say i tagged you and weird side note: my doge smells
[The last…]
Drink: soda
Phone Call: what
Text Message: eridan pyrope ( @petalstripe made me find out about the most precious bloodswap ever a few months back go follow @another-kidswap-bloodswap-au plz)
Song You Listened To: the judge by twenty one pilots
Cried: uh when i cried for no reason in the car
Dated Someone Twice: uh no. if we break up i have no reason to go back in a relationship with you sorry but no
Kissed Someone and Regretted It: tbh ive never had a real kiss :T
Been Cheated On: i havent really dated anyone :////
Lost Someone Special: my grandpa about a year or so back
Been Depressed: today when i woke up
Gotten Drunk and Thrown Up: im underaged and dont plan on ever gettin drunk 
Favourite Colours: purple blue and green :3c
[In the last year, have you…]
Made New Friends: yee
Fallen Out of Love: yeah once
Laugh Until You Cried: yeah (damn fire eyes)
Found Out Someone Was Talking About You: yep. tbh i dont care *shrug*
Met Someone Who Changed You: uh yeah @petalstripe and @mangledfox33 and all my frens have influenced me in some way
Found Out Who Your Real Friends Were: ohhh yeah. im currently in the process of unfriending them
Kissed Someone On Your Facebook List: wf??? how do you kiss someone over the internet??? 
[General]
How Many Facebook Friends Do You Know in Real Life: uh two i guess
Do You Have Any Pets: A DOGE MY SON
Do You Want to Change Your Name: nah i like it but i would prefer to be called zane most of the time
What Did You Do For Your Last Birthday: uh had a sleepover and a mini party
What Time Did You Wake Up: around 10:30
What Were You Doing At Midnight Last Night: sims
Name Something You Can’t Wait For: hiveswap tbfh
When Was The Last Time You Saw Your Mom: a minute ago
What Are You Listening to Right Now: crystalmethequins
Have You Ever Talked to a Person Named Tom: no unless one of my mutals’ names is that
Something That is Getting on Your Nerves: many things but mainly when people yell at me for something when they could do it politely and people who contradict themselves waaaayyy to often
Most Visited Website: youtube and tumblr
Hair Color: a dark brown
Long or Short: suer short
Do You Have a Crush on Anyone: hhhhhh yeah?? i think i talked about her once and just.. god i dont go one moment without thinking about how much i love her??
What Do You Like About Yourself: my eyes 0w0
Piercings: used to, but uh,,, stuff happened and now im waiting until im older to get them back
Blood Type: fuck how am i supposed to know that??
Nickname: kk kale zane zuzu turtle kai...
Relationship Status: singly but i have that one person im aiming for. she just wont,,, bleh
Zodiac: libra 
Pronouns: she/her
Favourite TV Show: uhhh black butler i guess
Tattoos: no but maybe i will get one someday :T but im a lil wimp so probs not
Right or Left Handed: right
Surgery: once or twice
Sport: i have played soccer for a while but im gonna try to get on the schools volleyball team
Vacation: hah whats vacation
Pair of Tennis Shoes: uh idk the brand but i like em
[More General…]
Eating: wtf does this mean
Drinking: wh a t
I’m About To: scream because of my edgy af music
Waiting For: death
Want: a hug,,, a real life hug
Get Married: well yeah
Career: something in the arts
Hugs or Kisses: why not both??
Lips or Eyes: eyes?? i guess??
Shorter or Taller: im kinda tall for my age so taller i guess :/
Older or Younger: huh
Nice Arms or Nice Stomach: i got arms and a stomach what else do you want from me
Hookup or Relationship: what does this mean?? i want a relationship that is stable with a nice person
Troublemaker or Hesitant: troublemaker by default lol
Kissed a Stranger: and why would i do that?
Drank Hard Liquor: ??? im underaged
Lost Glasses/Contacts: neither i dont need thats tuff
Turned Someone Down: uh no
Sex on the First Date: for one im to young for that shit and probs not
Broken Someone’s Heart: probably
Had Your Heart Broken: once
Been Arrested: no im not that bad
Cried When Someone Died: i cried because my mom cried
Fallen For a Friend: LMAO YEAH TWICE IM DEMI
[Do you believe in…]
Yourself: ofc
Miracles: mIrAcLeS
Love at First Sight: nah. i usually want to get to know somebody + im demi + i dont believe in that + i dont fall for everyone i know
Santa Claus: even though i was told he wasnt real i still believe
Kiss on the First Date: ?? i guess??
Angels: well yeah of course 
[Other…]
Current Best Friends’ Name(s): to many to list lol
Eye Color: blue/blueish-gray
Favourite Movie: hm... wall-e probs
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