#kazh is prideposting

[jokobub]

Probably the most gender-affirming experience I regularly have rn is how many names I have. I get called my birth name. I get called Kazh. I get called my streamer name, and I got people in my life that’ll look me in the face and call me Jokobub. Or Bub. It’s really fucking awesome. That’s why I don’t like to answer people who say “well what would you prefer?” Because the answer is

Well

Yeah.

I know people are trying to be considerate in this growing world of ours, but for me? Whatever you can think of. Whatever I am to you. Call me that, that’s my name.

[jokobub]

My brain being scratched by the practicality and functionality of most of this list is not helping me fight the allegations

Polyamory Admin Core

I asked my PCP for standing orders for STI/STD tests, so now my chart has an official diagnosis of "high risk sexual behaviors."

She was fascinated and impressed that the whole polycule has a standing expectation for getting tested every 3 months. So here are the other things we've implemented that I think would blow her mind:

A polycule Google calendar, color coordinated per person

A Calendly account to schedule dates

A set question list for monthly relationship check-ins

A polycule Discord server with channels including: status updates, requests, and spicy

A Google form for requesting unprotected sex

A spreadsheet with "stats" for each polycule member, such as allergies and dietary restrictions

The Sextionnaire

A frequently updated whiteboard tracking the different relationship types and configurations of the polycule

[jokobub]

If I was your boyfriend I’d be greasy as fuck w my tiddies out in the matching pastel rainbow sweatsuit, unbothered, unshaven, on my way to go make mashed potatoes in the microwave and STILL asking for a “hell yeah”

[jokobub]

Oh yeah happy pride month to this

Living Legend

Their coming out lead to a discussion that gave me the confidence to talk about my gender with my partner for the first time. Thanks for that, happy pride, I wish them the best.

💛🤍💜🖤

[jokobub]

Tumblr thank you for acknowledging that yes, my gender does ebb and flow and occasionally does indeed wade heavily into something more masculine.

However…

I do not have a meat twinkie. Stop advertising to me like I do.

[jokobub]

Ok science if you’re so smart where are my genderfluid pills :/

[jokobub]

Sorry almost every post I’ve been making lately is either about my sexuality, gender or mental illness I’m both a. Constantly masking and b. Not out to my family yet so this is literally the only place where I can scream and shout about how

I LOVE BEING BISEXUAL AND 🏳️‍⚧️NON-BINARY🏳️‍⚧️ AND ADHD

[jokobub]

This is so. Aggressively empowering.