#keepitkind

[twistedtwinsproductions]

Do you know the art of de escalation? If more of us learned these incredible skills we would be able to better help those who are being triggered without making the situation worse. To verbally de-escalate another person, you must open as many clear lines of communication as possible. Both you and the other person must listen to each other and have no barriers. Barriers to Communication are the things that keep the meaning of what is being said from being heard. Communication Barriers: Pre-judging. Not Listening. Criticizing. Name-Calling. Engaging in Power Struggles. Ordering. Threatening. Minimizing. Arguing. Try to keep it kind next time a dispute breaks out & see what a difference keeping a cool head can make. #WorldMentalHealthDay #KeepItKind https://www.instagram.com/p/CU3qs69lTapW0Ki7RxNU7NZtkqZ4pODoNjWA1I0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[wallflowerextrovert]

[awildflowerspirit]

It costs nothing to be kind ✌🏼 and sometimes that means giving others the space they need to unplug and heal. Credit to: @ohverlee #keepitkind #creativesoninstagram #loveyourself #selfloveclub (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CRHqzGHsITj/?utm_medium=tumblr

[lifecoachrabia]

Stay sweet on the inside, regardless of who may or may not believe in it The only people that you need to explain your kindness to, are those who cannot find theirs. #keepitkind https://www.instagram.com/p/CA8abjWssIH/?igshid=1chicr3pbqec8

[viva-vitae]

keep it kind, always.

[fairylywitchy-blog]

These last couple months have been particularly rough for my husband and I. We have had so much stress and in that stress we forgot to use our usual amazing communication skills and started to get short fused with not just each other, but our kids. After a particular (bad for us) blowout, I went to our room to cool down and think things through. Looking for one of the 5 small jack-o'-lantern container that I purchased at a Goodwill (my love for cheap things and halloween won me over) fr my hair ties, I opened the one thought had them, instead this sticky note was inside. My heart swelled with love and strength. A good deed such as this, something so small, meant so much. Just when I was starting to lose my newfound love for my self and my voice, I got a beautiful surprise. Someone who does something for someone else, someone they'd never meet or even know if it got to someone who would appreciate it and it's beautiful. Good deeds such as this should always be shared and acknowledged in hopes of spreading the love and good thoughts. Remember you're important too. #spreadthelove #youmattertoo #love #beautifulsoul #beautifulperson #itstheinsidethatcounts #soul #struggle #keepfighting #sharethelove #sharethehope #keeplovealive #loveyourself #youdeservecompassion #hope #faithinhumanityrestored #faithinhumanity #kindnesstakesnothing #givelove #givehope #givepeace #keepitkind #comapassion #positivity #beautiful #goodwillfinds #goodwill #pleasantsurprise #thiswasneeded #communication #communicationiskey #innerlove #lovefromwithin #spreadjoy #spreadlove #spreadhope #spreadcompassion #loveyourselffirst

[myhealtyzone-blog]

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[photography-prints]

#KeepitKind phone case http://ift.tt/2GCO5Dq. More Designs http://bit.ly/2gvmj1Y

[glosettesandpowerade]

It has been brought to my attention that the socially acceptable phrasing we use to describe someone who gets a cold and proceeds to act like they are dying has been unfairly named and is sexist (ie the man cold).  Therefore I am opening up to you to help me rename the man cold to something more fitting for 2016.  So far I’ve got Bubola (a combination of Ebola and the Bubonic Plague), and I have also seen Ecolda (A cold that “feels” like Ebola).  However we must be sure not to offend or diminish the significance in Ebola...  

[wallflowerextrovert]

[lifecoachrabia]

In all types of relationships some things cannot be undone, unsaid, or fixed once broken. So think before you speak, before you do, before you accuse or before you take a step that cannot be undone. Some bridges cannot be rebuilt, and once a certain path is taken, there can be - there will be- no going back #businessasusual #keepmovingforward #moveon #keepitkind #thinkbeforeyouspeak https://www.instagram.com/p/CA8ZSXUsO-3/?igshid=1ilvbt2t135bu

[fairylywitchy-blog]

It's been a stressful couple months, things have been #tense and #crazy my husband and I have slipped on our #communicationskills and #anxiety in high gear, we started to get snappy. With everything I am, I #love my husband, as #corny as it is to say, and probably #cliche at this point, but he's my best friend. I love him. I like him. And I started to shut him out, keeping myself in my own head. I felt trapped and unable to get out. This #note was found at exactly the right time. On one of our #goodwill runs, I happened across a bag of little jack-o'-lantern toys, five little plastic containers. Because I love Halloween so much and it was only 99¢, I grabbed them. I've let my girls play with them, and I've already stashed a few rings in one, I thought I've opened them all. Right after my husband and I had a misunderstanding and we both felt crappy, I went to our room to calm down. To my pleasant surprise, I opened one I thought had my hair ties, to see this sticky note. It was a beautiful thing for someone to do, for someone they would never meet. I love kind acts and I love sharing them because I hope it inspires someone else to do something for someone they'll never meet. #goodwillfinds #positivevibes #beautifulpeople #payitforward #goodpeople #stillhopeful #faithinhumanity #faithinhumanityrestored #spreadthegoodword #loveyourself #speak #lovefromwithin #truetoyourself #keepitkind #keepitpositive #keepittrue #faithinyourself #lifeisbeautiful #staybeautiful #itstheinsidethatcounts #love #soul #fulfillment #listentoyourinnervoice (at Escanaba, Michigan)

[wallflowerextrovert]

[lifecoachrabia]

Message for today: Learn to fight clean if you are in the midst of am argument. Learn to recognise when someone is being a bully and stop making excuses for their behaviour. It's NOT okay to belittle and humiliate someone just because you feel upset It's NOT okay to criticize and say things that imply the other person is stupid, irrational, or an idiot- in other words insults should be a hard NO in any argument. Everybody hurts sometimes, but I'd you are the one being a bully because you feel hurt, stop. Bullying the person you're supposed to care for,protect or say you love isn't going to benefit you OR the other person. All it does is drive a wedge between you. You may feel vindicated or avenged , but if that's the feeling you are after then you skipped the boat of fixing, and are heading into the land of destroying. Why? Because people will try to fix things and love you right, but everyone sooner or later understands that being constantly lashed out at isn't love, isn't a sign of affection and most definitely iant kind, and sooner or later you will end up killing the thing you started out thinking you are defending. Arguing is normal in any friendship or even relationship. Between friends ,with parents, with lovers, or siblings. But someone who resorts to bullying as a coping mechanism for their pain is still just bullying. And nothing kills a friendship or love faster than that. It may take weeks, or months, or years, but someone who opts for bullying at the table of love usually finds that they end up eating alone. This is how you destroy thing: lash out relentlessly until they feel the other is adequately punished for any perceived "crime". This is how you fix things: acknowledge your inner hurt, talk about it, and decide if what's more important to you is the relationship or having an upper hand. Remember an upper hand is what you want with an enemy, not a friend. Keep it kind. Fight clean. #keepitkind #fightclean #brokenpeoplebreakpeople https://www.instagram.com/p/CAAKY15gEnk/?igshid=5e7jv2oavf1e