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cant get behind mutual thrushblue not for any disdain for thrushpelt but it gets on my nerves when a guy's romantic advances towards a girl he likes are rejected/not reciprocated in canon and then in a weirdly gendered way everybody goes "aw but he's nice :( so here's my au where she does like him back" bitch what's even the point then!!
#it's giving people who hate the ending cutscene of super mario odyssey because 'mario deserves peach after all his hard work'#effort and kindness do not make someone entitled to romantic reciprocation and idk why you are incapable of applying that to like.#straightforward children's media where the characters continue to be friends afterwards (or even put it off till later) LOL#not to be mean bc thrushpelt's ok but isnt being bare minimum chill post-rejection like his whole thing. what's the point of erasing that#i kind of just hate the implication of a wife as a reward basically#which is kind of unavoidable with thrushblue because that's the whole reason people ship them#it's very much more about thrushpelt's happiness than it is bluefur's#wc talking
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“fitz was so mean for paying keefe to paint a gift for sophie”
okay so we’re hating on the idea of commissioning artists now???? would you rather keefe have painted it without being paid????????? literally what is your point here
#oh nooo fitz commissioned a painting from keefe because he knows sophie likes his art. how rude!#and nobody FORCED keefe to do that btw. if it actually upset him that much he would have refused#and for some reason nobody understands that if multiple people like the same person ONE OF THEM IS GOING TO BE SAD ABOUT IT#it’s unavoidable. and fitz IN NO WAY is obligated to deny himself happiness just because it makes his ‘friend’ sad#the double standard here is kind of crazy#are you guys actually for real. have you actually seen an actual human relationship before#sorry pinterest is pissing me off again#kotlc#crescentpost#also for some reason i can’t reply to comments on pinterest anymore either#which is sad
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Classic nechoi spear-hunting scene.
One of the few activities Hibrides and Janeys do alone together entirely of their own free will is hunting.
Hunting is a common pastime of nobility, most significantly in the form of extravagant multi-day social events (of which the hunt itself is only a partial component) carried out by men and dozens of dogs and attended by their wives, children, servants, as well as musicians and cooks. These hunts have functions in social networking and political maneuvering, showing off wives and dogs and khait and wealth, forging ties, maintaining allyships, and slighting rivals (particularly in the division and distribution of any captured game).
Janeys periodically attends these hunts when invited (it's rude to decline) and Hibrides is obligated to come along, and both are rather private people and not particularly fond of these high pressure, highly performative events in the public eye. Janeys DOES like hunting in of itself and frequently goes out by himself, and Hibrides often comes with him. Bringing her along started as a way to make going out alone look more normal (ie 'you bring your wife along on hunts that's what you do I'm not just going out by myself because I'm intimidated by other people this is a normal activity'), but it’s not really about that at this point.
Hibrides likes being able to get outside far away from her day to day life, being both away from the home and away from other people. Janeys just doesn't like being around most people but hates being alone. There's also a level of catharsis for both of them in doing an activity that would normally require tremendous amounts of social performance on their part, but instead being able to be completely straightforward and real with everything: their marriage is bullshit, they don't like each other at all, and they DO both like the killing of mid-sized animals with spears. In this specific situation, both of them kind of Do enjoy each other's company (in a sort of complicated way).
(Hibrides is also fairly certain that at some point Janeys is going to get maimed or killed while trying to take down boar nechoi alone, and would love to be there to see it.)
#They DO NOT like each other but there are some dimensions to their relationship that are not 100% hostility. They've been living#together for over a decade so there's levels of kinda casual intimacy to it. Almost unavoidably so. They know each other much#better than they would like to and know things about each other that VERY very few other people do.#There's something about both of them knowing Exactly where the other stands and not having to pretend to be anything they#aren't that translates into a Sort Of trust between them. Though again I should emphasize they truly dislike each other as people#and would not be in each other's lives by choice. It's an adaptation to being stuck in this situation. Their feelings about#each other are kind of like 'almost like a brother/sister but specifically one that I hate'#hibrides uryashta#janeys haidamane
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i really do despise the proof of concept argument for the "dire wolves" thing. like oh they have no actual ecological function like the company claims. theyre just some vanity object for billionares so the company can get more funding to work on REAL conservation deevolution projects that will actually do something!
alright so barring the fact that they can just focus on conserving EXISTING endangered species instead of bringing back ancient animals with no place in the new world. what kind of life are these placeholder hybrids gonna live. they wont be domesticated like dogs, they cant go free in the wild they're just the circus freaks of the animal kingdom. the way their lives are being treated as a necessary sacrifice to progress is kind of horrifying
#there are like. real unavoidable tragedies in scientific advancement#like doing trials on rats#even if the actual trial doesnt kill them theyre still disposed of afterwards its a necessary evil#but this is just kind of a nightmare!#youre making a Cool Useless Thing because thays the pnly shit people with the money to fund this care about! Hello??
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#“well i guess people change don't they?” is killing me because he attempted to kill crowley in mrs. tran's body like four episodes ago#anyway fascinating conversation that i think leads right into 8.09#“every relationship i have ever had has gone to crap at some point but the one thing i can say about benny: he has never let me down.”#in a 'why wasn't i Enough to Change For' kind of way for sam on two occasions—s4 and 7.03/7.07#like it genuinely does speak to the lack of respect dean holds for sam and sam as a person detached from himself in the sense that#because in the same way season four sam asks dean to trust him on a level that ensures sam's ability to make his own decisions about himsel#and his relationships he asks dean to not trust amy but to trust him... and does dean Does Not. just as he didnt trust or respect sam in s4#but somehow benny is both an exception beyond the things dean verbally berated into sam's values in exchange for his inclusion back into#their dynamic in 7.07 as well as an example of the higher standard that exists for sam in the sense that. sam is expected to automatically#trust benny as an extension of dean. but dean was unable to do that for sam and sam flips that back around onto dean#but the thing is that dean has the authority to have the final say about amy's life or sam's autonomy#trusting sam isn't enough because just that alone doesn't meet dean's standard of his decision making#but trusting dean should be enough for sam to trust benny. like “and you believe him?” just. its suchhh a line#because dean has never believed sam. not when he was monstrous and (arguably just as ethically) drinking blood#not in season five (in fact he says it outright!) not in season seven with his own autonomy and by extension amy#but dean expects sam to believe him after holding sam in their relationship to a higher standard than he does for himself#(expecting sam to be open about ruby amy and amelia... but not doing the same with benny until its unavoidable)#and the thing is that. this was sam's point all along! so much of his relationship with ruby vs dean revovled around the idea that he shoul#be able to have that relationship w/o opening it up to dean. but dean redefines that boundary for sam's inclusion into their relationship#and then expects different standards for himself ie. that he should be able to do so while sam does not have that privileged#speaks very much to the patriarchal structure at play here and how these characters as Third to the samndean dynamic#and their own genders play into how they disrupt the dynamic. it's just as fascinating to me#that sam eventually lets dean have his lower standard wrt his not knowing that dean goes no contact w benny after 8.10#like sam watches benny get stuck in purgatory again with the idea that their relationship had continued#8.06#adflatus
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My youtube is absolutely flooded with these cold ass take drama clickbait its fucking insane. Their apology (from what i saw) was well received. The entire situation wasnt even that big of a deal after things got sorted. Why are these wannabe drama channels so obsessed with such a nothing issue. "Wild apology"???? They gave REFUNDS and free access to patreon supporters. They agreed they fucked up??? And changed their plan accordingly. They still have things to fix but jesus christ move on already 😭😭😭 just saying, there are literal youtubers that were accused of grooming that got treated better by the drama new cycle than a youtube channel that just wanted more income. Im so tired of hearing about it now
#all the other ones are still calling them greedy and obviously just trying to get that moist critkal click engagement#i just hate how people are still trying to inflate the issue when they literally arent involved or werent even fans#watcher#they will find something else to talk about in a few days but jesus its unavoidable#watcher entertainment#there were issues but it was a community issue that was dealt with i hate when this kind of stuff gets picked up by nobodies on the internet#with mothing better to do#they didnt even do anything illegal or evil for fucks sake
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i miss you tomorrow today
#im on a haitus but decided to post this#art has been beyond hard for me lately#i cant bear to draw lately. but i was overcome with so much pain in the form of some kind of concept of unavoidable loss#which ambushes me sometimes. and i almost cried in the dining room over it#late in a dark winter i had fast food for the first time in years when my dad came home from hospital testing#with my birthday coming up it just feels so hopelessly#such a perfect scene to remember a decade from now#will i be thinking#'when you were here?'
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it was time to take this out of the hands of fate and into that of free will KINDA OBSESSED WITH THIS
(context for people who dont read my tags)
THANK YOU THANK YOU //I SKETCH A BOW
#ask#canary continuity#i definitely think leo's very proactive in canon but he represents something different in cc specifically#and there's always this vibe that even when he makes active decisions they're kind of woven into the tragedy#leo is always fated to turn around because he will always make these exact types of decisions out of love#the consequences are unavoidable. they're an inescapable part of the narrative#mikey breaks it! go king
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there's a self-help/mental health adjacent post that's going around and it seems to be really helpful for a lot of people which is very good. I also personally hate it with all my fucking heart
#it's the anhedonia one btw lmao#if i. have to be exposed to one more goddamn cbt-ass advice post in my life. I will start tearing throats out with my teeth#and I will have earned the right to because I've been through the fucking TRENCHES over the years man#I think it's the appeal to urgency at the end however ruefully humorously packaged that ohohoho. really grrrrinds my gears.#this is obviously not what the person is trying to do with that but the unavoidable implication that the reason you might still#be suffering is that you just haven't tried hard enough to change to like things to open your eyes... hey. respectfullly. fuck off#peak advice for mild to moderate symptoms of mental illness thoughtlessly presented as universally applicable#without any consideration for the deeper thing you're saying -- that if someone is in a real bad way and DOESN'T get better#it's their own responsibility and they just haven't tried hard enough. in trying to be kind you are being so desperately cruel#to the people who are struggling the most. bitch I am fucking GREAT at liking things! it's one of my best skills!! I'm generally curious!#my capacity for enthusiasm and intellectual joy over any old thing that strikes my fancy is legendary and often I suspect quite annoying!!!#so when anhedonia completely envelops me I know it's a sign of something else and bigger going on in the background#it's not a choice. the brain is not solely a cognitive machine!! you cannot fix everything that can go awry with it by Thinking Better!!!#cbt must be great for the people it's great for and I'm sincerely genuinely glad for it. less suffering in the world is great#but it is a way of thinking that is a hammer and you just have to hope like fuck your problem is a nail. because otherwise#you're bruised from being beaten with hammers and the additional shame of what's wrong with you that it's not helping#and again I recognize very keenly that this is not a space meant entirely for me. people sharing resources that amn are not about me#is not only fine it's good it's great! however. it'd also be nice to not get thrown under the fucking bus for once#because my presence fully expressed is an uncomfortable reminder of the things we *cannot* control about our own brains lmao#I'm lucky that I've been in the game long enough and have enough resources to start to smell the bullshit here but...#the pain 'losing years' induces in you when you don't have *a fucking choice* -- because it's not a matter of willpower#or positive thinking or changing your mindset. you're just sick. in a way medicine hasn't quite figured out how to help yet.#well. maybe. maybe don't put that on someone huh. maybe don't make their 'lost years' to depression and doomscrolling or whatever#'their own fault'. I kind of think that's possible to do without submitting to doomposting. is all.#(I feel the same about the 'resting vs. rotting' idea. well friend sometimes the best I can hope for is some gentle rotting#thanks for introducing this layer of disgust and condemnation to the general despair. it's added a patina)#this might actually be the first time I've managed to hold on to my own anger about this rather than it getting drowned out by shame tho#which as steps forward go. *sigh* it's not a moon landing is it. but a small step for man nevertheless I suppose
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I am going to be staring off into space for the foreseeable future while I process Yield Under Great Persuasion by Alexandra Rowland.
#like you can just wake up and decide to start again??#look at the things that make you unhappy that you’ve just accepted as unavoidable and inevitable and decide But What If That’s Bullshit?#I also loved that Lyford had been taught so early that he occupied a position of power that he wound up going to extremes to avoid#expressing any kind of negative emotion or feeling to the point where he can forgive tam because HIS feelings are just but LYFORDS can’t be#I know this is about Tam’s journey but I think that Lyford’s part in it and how they help each other was so fucking good#yield under great persuasion#alexandra rowland
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MORE THAN GOD LOVES THEM!!!!! GOD!!!!!!
#also can we talk about the fact that the action of leaving their foodstuff in a pile can be seen not only as an offering but as a sacrifice#an offering to the rest of the crew (as if gods despite their betrayal) but a sacrifice for crozier's loyal team too#since they must give up food that's definitely essential#but also: the food is poisoned. we know this. so this selfless act unavoidably becomes a sign of eventual death and suffering.#both to themselves and the other men.#so in this context the 'more than god loves them' line is almost ironic. yes it is love and the best crozier can do in this situation but#it's a bringer of death too!!! but also that's kind of what god is doesn't it? with the same hand he distributes love and mercy#he gives death and punishment. anyway. too many thoughts and none of them coherent#the terror
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The MCR fandom is freaky as HELL, I’m being traumatized
#I don’t wanna share the things I’ve seen#being reblogged off of my posts#mcr#my chemical romance#my chem romance#gerard way#gerard way mcr#my chemical gerard#my chemical gee#frank iero#my chem frankie#honestly I kind of hate it but I’ve accepted it because if you post pics of gee it’s just unavoidable#(I’d prefer to only see sfw stuff)
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arcane spoilers. not about anyone i follow or interact with but really just a mini meta. another word that fandom has lost the right to use (alongside gaslighting and child-coded) is "fridged".
okay so. when a male character's wife is fridged for his development, we understand that the writers don't want to write her--usually due to their misogyny, or that writing an oppressed character would require research/time/effort that a regular ol white guy does not (in short, their laziness). in the case of fridging, they're using an oppressed class or person (usually a woman) to further the development of the more privileged character who lived (in this example, the regular ol guy who lives). we understand that it's an inversion of the trope when a husband is fridged and the wife lives instead, because it's turning the misogyny on its head; the woman escapes the fridge but her husband does not, and it's her story this time, not his. we understand that it's subversive to have the character who is less socially acceptable to write live. a white cis woman with a dead white cis husband is not typically considered fridging, right? for example, though it's a father-daughter relationship, silco dies for jinx's development (both negative and positive) and we can accept that. another example is vander, who dies for the development of multiple characters.
so with all of that in mind regarding the complexity of a character being stuffed in a fridge. fridging does not apply to viktor and sky. because sky is able-bodied, and viktor is not. narratively, her death is necessary in order for viktor to stop augmenting himself (though season 2 forgot about that tidbit completely but that's another post). do i think we should've had more time with that? that sky should've been allowed to do more? for sure! we can definitely criticize her minimal role in the narrative! but the fact remains that in any other narrative, viktor's death would serve to motivate a character like sky or jayce, because that's often the role disabled characters are relegated to in media: a tragic, untimely death to make the able-bodied characters sad. disabled characters are frequently fridged. we see this in media like me before you, for example, in which the male disabled character is fridged for the love interest's pain. is that reversing the trope because he's a man and she's a woman? of course not. it's ableism and the gender swap doesn't solve that problem.
what is so unique is that in viktor's case, the disabled person lives, the able-bodied person dies. she chooses to do so, albeit blindly, because she loves the disabled character and hates to see him in pain. that is subversive. it's as subversive as a wife who survives her fridged husband. except nuance no longer exists in fandom, so people see a woman who dies in a man's narrative and yell about fridging, without considering that viktor is a disabled, queer-coded character who would be killed off unceremoniously in any other story. there are many many problems with the depiction of disability in the show, but viktor being loved to the point of self-sacrifice by the able-bodied characters around him is not one of them.
tldr sky deserved more in her narrative, and an able-bodied person dying for the disabled person who they love is extremely subversive and meaningful, are statements that can co-exist!
#ooc.#file : viktor.#headcanon : viktor.#i have my own beef with arcane writers but this is not part of it#the unfortunate truth is that sky was always going to be a woman because of the anti-mlm sentiment from the writers#and thats an unavoidable difficulty of a narrative like vik's#someone needs to die to show viktor the hexcore is dangerous. idk if it wouldve been any better if theyd made sky a man#because then its kill your gays#the best thing wouldve been for her to have more to her character in the first place#yeah yeah she comes back in s2 kind of but s2 is a dumpster fire of ableism so we're not talking about that
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i do truly love soulslikes in theory but i play so few of them bc nobody understands that pointlessly killing you in infinitely frustrating ways is the entire appeal like i dont want to wander around undyingly and skillfully i want to randomly die like crazayyyy and be confused and pissed off all the time forever
#elden ring was somehow the worst of both worlds where it was just vast infinite expanses of completely toothless enemies#and then 1 random thing that would kill you in a very easily understandable and kind of predictable but nearly unavoidable way#that was totally interesting and just a further waste of time
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i have a strict moral code for no fucking reason at all actually
#my ten commandments are as follows#1) never regard any other person as inherently lesser or more deserving of suffering than yourself.#2) presume innocence and good intentions from all people. approach issues and disagreements with compassion and do not fight without purpos#3) all art is valuable by virtue of the human who made it and their life. all people are valuable by virtue of their humanity.#4) do not kill animals or people of any kind unless they are either directly threatening you or another person.#5) do not resort to violence unless absolutely unavoidable to prevent the harm of someone who cannot defend themselves#6) never ever under any conditions enact your dominance over a smaller or weaker being purely for the sake of it#7) mind your own fucking business. if you witness a crime or breaking-of-a-rule and it is not directly harmful do not 'tattle'#8) when possible try to help those who cannot help themselves#9) be polite and kind to all. lead with that.#10) the world is not just yours. look after it.#three pigeons in a trench coat
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Rewatched The Old Guard recently in preparation for the sequel and I enjoyed it a lot, but there's a scene right before the climax where Nile tries to leave the group because she doesn't want to be a killer. Bold statement by someone who joined the US military, but she admits that even though they try to train you to deaden your emotions, she hasn't gotten over the first man she killed. Instead, she wants to return to her family and treasure the years they have left together.
Of course, then she realizes Booker betrayed Andy, turns back, and ends up mowing down quite a few nameless baddies in Merrick's office building. She doesn't get a scene later where she grapples with that. Maybe she feels differently since these people hurt someone she knew - and there's something to be said for a film spending more time complicating the death of an unnamed Afghan man wanted by the US military than the deaths of a CEO's hired goons. (Similarly I appreciate the shot where after we see kindhearted Nile handing children candy, one of the children somberly eyes the gun on her hip.) Still, I'm curious to see whether this thread is picked up in the sequel. What's Nile's version of Andy's immortal "army" that goes beyond being a killer? How is she coping with the bloodshed that comes with it anyway?
#you're kind of in a bind bc it's an action movie and there is going to be a big flashy finale#with blood and guts and violence. it's unavoidable#so even if you have your characters voice qualms about it#we all know pretty soon they'll be going 'anyway i started blasting'#perpetual perpetual ladies night#getting a start on ladies night before I go start dinner#the old guard//
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