we carry tampons like concealed weapons
10 years old
First ever sex ed class
The girls and the boys are segregated into separate rooms
So there’s nothing to laugh that and so there’s nothing to blush at
Yet the entire student body still giggles in the halls when someone says the “p” word
Why is our genitalia a legend or a myth that doesn’t exist within the lockers of my PE class
My biology education was built on the foundation of whispered conversations passed down like a game of telephone
By the time the story gets to me it sounds like a skit with a laugh reel
And I can’t tell which story is real
Just a pre-adolescent trying to be present but at least I’m here
13 years old
On summer vacation one trip to the bathroom and now she’s a woman
A spot of red makes her face go red
and when she asks for advice someone slips her a flower patterned pencil bag to carry those tampons and pads in
It’s how our own mothers unintentionally shaming begins
Because everyone’s afraid to say vagina out loud
And because everyone’s using slang phrases and cute nouns in the place of that private body part
The one that’s only a part of our human anatomy
Vagina
You’d swear that those organs were so vulgar, the equivalent to a cuss word
Words so dirty not even our mouths want to hold them
Words we drop to the floor but there’s no five second rule here
16 years old
Leftover rumors from the soccer team that when your cherry pops it will be painful
Suddenly girls my age are giving blowjobs on prom night
I ask if that’s safe and they all roll their eyes
“It’s just oral”
And what’s confusing to me is being more OK with putting your face near a penis
When my high school never taught me how girls can feel pleasure
Please point to the diagram and tell me what a clit is
We have our driver’s license and have also been trained so discreetly to not let anyone know when our period is
Yet boys still claim PMS is the reason for our rage
And chocolate and ice cream can fix that
Close your ears and close your eyes
for this natural cycle is nasty
It’s bodily fluids coming out from “down there”
It’s the reason we carry tampons to restrooms like concealed weapons that don’t belong here
19 years old
If you haven’t had sex yet you’re probably a prude
Too naïve to let a man’s dick puncture your skin in the rhythm he decides
And yet everyone tells you it’s a good time
Bragging about bases and what positions you’ve tried
How come my own reproductive organs still feel like a mystery?
23 years old
Working in an office
80% male
She reaches in her purse pulls out a tampon and shoves it into her front pocket like she’s done 1000 times
How come being a woman feels like committing a crime?
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