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[missysippiiiee]

58 days left ☺️💍 from Missy to Mrs Garcia.

[missysippiiiee]

Never in my life, have I been this happy. I honestly have no reason not to be.

For the first time my parents haven't objected one of my decisions. I feel as though I am finally free to let everyone know that I am marrying the love of my life - with my parents approval.

Today I am happy because I have no reason not to be.

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[missysippiiiee]

No matter what you do or where you go, carry a piece of me within your heart. You are my home and always will be ♥️ ily, always.

[missysippiiiee]

The best birthday present.

Since becoming independent, every year, my birthday goes by like any other ordinary day. Last year, I remember the blood nurse questioning my decision to donate blood on my birthday.

This year however, was different, all thanks to my fiancé. It would really be an understatement to say that I am so 'kinikilig' by how he chose to stay up til midnight to sing me happy birthday despite him being 'tur og' and tired from work.

Love, I know you will read this because you are my top 1 stalker. Thank you for choosing me, and choosing to love me the way you do. Our love story definitely isn't a perfect romantic drama on Netflix but our 'palpak' and silly memories are going to put smiles on everyone's faces during story times.

Thank you for loving me when things are good and bad. For taking in every aspect and part of me, accepting my flaws, forgiving my mistakes, and helping me become the best possible version of myself. I love you ♥️

[missysippiiiee]

This world is full of uncertainties but you deserve a love thats sure of you. Someone who'll commit and prove their pure intentions for you.

When you find someone that completes you, you don't waste time. The right person won't give you reasons to rethink or doubt the process.

If their intent is to have a future with you, they will do it.

[missysippiiiee]

I remember our early ligaw days. After endless hours of talking and laughing over phone calls, saying our goodnights and goodbyes, you'd send through a follow up text message to tell me how much you appreciated, that I chose to spend my time with you. You may think from time to time that you might have treated me poorly at the beginning but I remember all the goodness that was there too. The little things you do for me are always done with the greatest love. ily ♥️

[missysippiiiee]

A life without you ain't right without you.

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Home is wherever I'm with you. @jpeg-27

[missysippiiiee]

You may not see it today, or tomorrow but someday you will look back and be absolutely perplexed and awed by every little detail, and how these brought you somewhere wonderful - somewhere you always wanted to be.

Which makes you grateful that things didn't work out the way you once wanted them to.

[missysippiiiee]

After 15 months of ups and downs while in ldr. Finally with my love for our 16th 💍

He changed my perspective surrounding love. Before I met him I had unrealistic expectations. I was always setting myself up for failure because I was a perfectionist.

It isn't about saying sweet words, physical appearances, or how much money you have in your bank account. It's not about material things.

I now know that ..

Love is sending multiple chats, emoji's, and reactions when I don't want to reply. Driving me around and waiting for hours during my appointments or while running errands for my mumma. Grabbing my hand from the passenger seat. Cooking then putting food on my plate to make sure that I eat meat 🙄

Love is saying things you don't want to hear but need to know and realise (the truth hurts nga diba). It's about saying "I got you" when things get tough. It's not always 'I love you' or 'I miss you'.

It's showing appreciation and never making regrets for choosing each other.

[missysippiiiee]

Missy to Mrs .. soon.

[missysippiiiee]

I always knew the words 'and then' were a prelude for something beautiful.

A swift, surprising transition from nothing to everything.

.. and then, I met you.

[missysippiiiee]

I’m not mad at you. Just sad. You’re all locked up in your own world, and when I try to knock on the door, you just look up for a second, but never really get up to answer the door and let me in.

[missysippiiiee]

Is it wrong that the more time that passes, the more I become distant?

Is it unfair that I don't want to talk cause once you disappear again I reset and have to start over again from zero?

Is it selfish that I envy those that get to see and talk to you, when all I have is a recording of your voice from five months ago?

Yes, I miss you but I'm hurting too.

[missysippiiiee]

Sometimes I wish we had some kind of telepathic connection, so that you’d know every time I’m thinking of you.

I miss you so much love. One week palang today, pero mga 180 days nalang left.

[missysippiiiee]

Communicating in a long distance relationship is so damn difficult. No facial expression, voice tone, or body language as reference. It’s up to your imagination to interpret how you perceive a message, and in my experience this is where fights begin.

My boyfriend isn’t showy or good at sweet talking but he does put in a lot of effort to keep me. He tells me that he isn’t a sweet person but I think he is, in his own ways. After all, we are all unique.

We came to a point where he told me that he wasn’t capable of giving me everything and that it’s unfair to me. So I asked if he wanted to end things. He said “no, but the question is if you still want to stay. If you can accept my personality; that I’m not a sweet person”.

I stayed. Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you love them, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all that they are capable of.

After that day, I noticed a change. He doubled the effort to keep me. I love him for who he is and I have watched him transform into his greatest and truest self. Something he believed he wasn’t capable of.

If you love someone, take their love for what it is. And if they love you, they will strive to change — themselves.