#marshy speaks

[marshmellowtea]

um i'm not going to reply directly to that post because that's a stupid idea so instead i'm making the differently stupid decision of subtweeting it here lmao but

look. no one should be treating hbomberguy as the next coming messiah. he's not that. he's a person, a person who probably has (and probably will!) make mistakes. but saying he has "bad vibes" and "probably will be exposed for something bad" is not a valid criticism and is in fact antithetical to critical thinking, and just makes you sound like a vindictive motherfucker who hates some guy who's popular right now and wants a valid reason to hate him. which is not only unproductive as fuck when it comes to making valid criticisms of his work, but also just straight up makes you an asshole. dressing it up in progressive language doesn't really do anything to hide that fact, alright?

[marshmellowtea]

sooooo fucking telling that jack’s team and various members of the discord have gone out of their way to condemn people being unnecessarily nasty toward lia, are actively reporting people who are trying to dox her in revenge, and are trying to make sure that any action taken against her is going through the proper channels……while people defending sssniperwolf are name calling and making sexist comments about how jack should just suck it up or how it’s “weird” that he’s a man afraid of a woman, and various nastiness along those lines. really, really fucking telling.

[marshmellowtea]

memory and identity based horror my beloved <3

[marshmellowtea]

“jack is so weird for going after sssniperwolf like that as a man” he should be meaner to her actually

[marshmellowtea]

sorry for fixating so much on the gender thing regarding the jacksfilms v sssniperwolf situation but the thing is that is the ONE thing that her defenders have. it’s the only defense! and to be frank it’s terfy bullshit! they can’t conceive of the idea that she, a woman, can have power over him, that she, a woman, can be a danger to him. they can’t conceive of the idea that the reason he was focused on targeting her specifically is because she’s a HUGE channel on youtube who’s been ENDORSED BY THE PLATFORM ITSELF. no, clearly he’s just a gross man who’s going after a woman cuz misogyny, obviously! /s

it’s fucking bullshit! especially since she put his life and family in danger! this is not the time to play the goddamn sexism card! she’s an abusive person! stop defending her!!!!!!

[marshmellowtea]

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[marshmellowtea]

okay but to make a real post about this it's real weird for people to act like before wkm happened damien, william and celine hated actor like no dumbass, william and damien were his friends. celine fucking married him, and apparently, according to the stream tyler did as ben, they were even happy at first (i still haven't gotten the chance to see it, so i'm just taking people's word on it, but still). hell, even during wkm, damien still seems to like actor! at the very least, he doesn't have bad things to say about him! that's part of the tragedy for god's sake, the fact that people liked actor before everything started going to shit is part of the fucking tragedy and i'm sick of this weird revisionism where because y'all don't like him you act like fucking no one did. they did, and that matters.

[marshmellowtea]

actually while i’m talking about aro stuff, i wanna say that while i am an aro who does enjoy love and considers it, particularly platonic and otherwise nonromantic love, important to me, the MINUTE someone dares to suggest that love is what makes us human, or that all humans must feel SOME type of love, or talks about love as if it’s the same thing as kindness or compassion, i instantly become love’s number one enemy. i personally like love as a concept but you will NOT fucking disrespect my fellow aros who are uncomfortable with love in all its forms that way, i’ll fucking fight you!

[marshmellowtea]

i think one of my favorite dumbass ways people talk about nope is when they treat jupe not being healed from the gordy incident as a plot hole or something like lmao. what kind of support system as a child actor in the notably exploitative hollywood system in the 90’s do you think he had exactly

[marshmellowtea]

oh no, a two year age gap, whatever shall we doooo

[marshmellowtea]

“nobody’s disagreeing that fiction affects reality” i mean i’m not disagreeing with it per se but i do fucking hate that phrase for how reductive and infantilizing it is lmao. i feel like it makes it sound like fiction is just some mysterious force acting upon people who just passively let it wash over them when in reality fiction is something created by human beings that human beings then consume and interpret for themselves according to their own worldviews/values/interests/what have you. i think conversations of the ways fiction and reality can influence each other are important to have but i’d fucking love it if we could just retire the phrase “fiction affects reality” indefinitely when we do have these conversations because it’s not contributing anything meaningful to the discussion

[marshmellowtea]

ngl the hbomberguy video makes me wanna rewatch that brain games episode about how humans are hardwired to believe people they perceive as knowledgeable/authority figures, even when they're saying absurd shit

[marshmellowtea]

all these "who is hbomberguy" posts in the tag are starting to get really fucking annoying lmao. it's fine to be out of the loop but y'all if you literally just scroll through the tag for like five minutes you will be able to piece together what the video's about people are literally talking about it as you make those posts it is literally not that hard

[marshmellowtea]

is there a malewife pride flag. asking for reasons

[marshmellowtea]

can’t believe youtube both sided this shit. sorry jack did nothing wrong and i know you know this because if he HAD y’all would’ve done something about jjjacksfilms ages ago because god knows you LOVE to protect your precious fucking cash cow. fuck off with that shit and actually take responsibility and get her ass off the Fucking Platform NOW

[marshmellowtea]

also ngl i do think transmascs should just start using transmisandry again. these people don't respect us no matter how many hoops we jump through to use "acceptable" language for them so who fucking cares about making them more comfortable by avoiding the use of misandry lmao