Between Ladiva and Logia we sure have the best parents
oh my god we need them to meet asap
the dedication! the way they want to help so bad that they end up taking care of everyone in our surroundings as well! the way they both felt depressed by the way we've been abandonned by our parents! That they pushed themselves to their limits by wanting so bad to ease our pain! and how they both disregard their own health to help people around them!
Except that Ladiva works at a smaller scale and actually had people that could ground her back to the reality that she doesn't have to handle everything on her own. While Logia basically self isolated and then only went to Lu Woh to go "btw i'm going to die soon bc i tried too hard hope you kill me ok bye <3" and the dragons had to prevent their suicide attempt before being able to take care of them. Raduga Regular Team having to hear the woes of the 6 dragons in horrors and then sharing tips on how they help Ladiva out when she spirals, if it can help handling Logia once in a while.
(also funny how the other thing they have in common is having taken care of Seox at some point as well. Bonding over fussing over him when.)
I feel like we can have a NRNR2 where Logia joins the Raduga team to try to help out Ladiva (and using their power to try to make it easier to see all the different ways this could be going) and Ladiva has to remind Logia to take breaks and focus on themself while Logia, who probably already saw a few things about Ladiva in simulations and stuff, trying to uno-reverse it like "WELL. YOU TOO."
(like how Jamil and Ladiva's whole dynamic in NRNR is them constantly telling at each other "hey rely on me i'll be fine :)" "no YOU rely on me i'll be fine :)" "HOW ABOUT /YOU/ RELY ON ME I'LL BE FINE". except this time at least Ladiva should have learned her lesson.)
now i really want to see it, out of all the crewsmates we have, Ladiva is really the one Logia should meet. hey cygames do you hear us,
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I agree NRNR has such an important message I am going insane over it.
It's so easy to fall into this "I'll help everyone and run myself ragged because my only value is in helping people" but no!
You only have the one body. Be gentle with it. You can't help anyone if you're suffering. It's not selfish to put yourself first.
Treating others as you would want to be treated includes you yourself as well. Treat yourself as you would others.
If you care deeply about these people and always go out of your way to help them, chances are they care about you as well. So let them help you in return! There's no shame in that. They love you too and they don't want to see you suffer. The magic word is reciprocity.
Even people as strong as Ladiva need help sometimes and that's okay. Nobody holds it against her. They're grateful for all the things she always does. But people tend to turn a blind eye on their own accomplishments and push themselves harder than they would others.
It's such a nuanced and important message and I'm grateful for it. God, I love Ladiva.
Sorry for the rant, but a lot of my friends also have tendencies to set themselves on fire to keep others warm and that's noble, but just. Don't. I used to be the therapist friend in my teens and I was burned out by the time I was 20. Take some time for yourself, nobody will begrudge you the break. And if they do, they didn't deserve your care in the first place.
Thank you SO much for this rant are you kidding me, you're putting into words so beautifully why this event had such a beautiful message and then you apologize as if it didn't make me teary 😭
But honestly, yes, 100%, i don't even have anything to add you really nailed how to explain this message so well.
And same as you, i'm honestly so grateful that this message exists. And it was expressed in the game with so much care and love. This event really felt like a warm hug in that sense.
and i relate to what you say in your last paragraph, though i do not really wish to elaborate on my own experience, but therefore this message did really hit like a ton of brick.
I'm really glad you could relate to this message as well and feel as strongly as you do about it. It's a very important lesson to remember and to hold close.
it was such a good event 😭😭 i'm so so grateful for gbf for this....
thank you once again for elaborating in my dms, it brought back all the good feelings i got reading NRNR and i truly appreciate it <3 and i feel really lucky that you came to share it with me to start with.
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