На каждую положительную черту своего характера я смогу назвать по две отрицательных.
Наверное.
На самом деле, я не знаю, как так вышло. Скорее всего, здесь что-то пошло в неправильном направлении. Ну, что получилось, то получилось. Ниче поделать не могу.
Но сегодня я хочу поговорить с тобой немножко о другом. О любви к себе.
Понимаешь, без этого очень трудно жить. Ты себя не любишь и не уважаешь, ты вечно критикуешь себя и просто мечтаешь вылезти из собственной кожи, только бы не жить с таким поганым человеком, как ты.
Тебе трудно. Жить, дышать, есть, спать, общаться с людьми. И так быть не должно.
Без принятия себя практически невозможно быть настоящим человеком, заводить друзей, жить в принципе.
Все начинается с самого простого. С любви к себе. Эта та отправная точка, после которой становится легче. Наверное. Я не волшебник, только учусь, поэтому тоже прохожу путь любви к себе.
И действительно происходит именно так. Понимаешь, солнце, если ты сам себя не уважаешь, то и другие не будут уважать тебя. Отношения с самим собой читаются очень легко. Поэтому помни одно простую вещь:
Ты важен и значим. Ты не пустое место. Ты самый прекрасный человек.
Полюби себя, начни уважать себя и заботиться о себе. Просто осознай, что никто не сможет помочь тебе именно так, как нужно, кроме самого себя. Люди - эгоисты. Чаще всего они ставят себя на первое место. Так и ты пойми, что сначала идёт твоё благо, твоя жизнь, а только потом что-то чужое. Нельзя теряться среди старания ублажить , сделать как лучше другим людям. Все начинается с тебя. Никто не поможет тебе повысить самооценку, если не будет какой-то почвы. Ты сам должен это сделать. Маленькими шажками, каждый раз по чуть-чуть. После упроной работы (ведь для всего нужно прилагать усилия) ты достигнешь своей цели. Главное, начать. Да-да, прямо сейчас. Похвали себя прямо сейчас за что-нибудь. И абсолютно не имеет значения, если в пределах мира то, чем ты гордишься, будет пшиком. Мы все - всего лишь пшик здесь, к этому пора привыкнуть. Так пусть то, чем ты гордишься в себе, будет пшиком для человечества, но целым миром для тебя. Просто попробуй.
Гармония в душе проецируется на гармонию в жизни. А это именно то, к чему человек должен стремиться. К гармонии с собой и миром.
Я просила любить то, что ты делаешь. Теперь я прошу любить то, кем ты являешься.
Не ради меня, я ради себя. Ведь ты значим.
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💚 We are timeless (WIP!) (64k)
“These are the ones I was telling you about.” Niall leant into Harry’s ear. “Write all their own stuff. Lead singer is a natural.”
Harry nodded, tilting his head to listen to the sweet rasp of the singer’s voice. The song started off soft and lilting, giving Harry shivers, the back of his neck prickling as the song picked up tempo. He loved it, bopping his head and tapping his foot. Niall nudged him, smiling and Harry gave him the thumbs up. Harry watched them, he couldn't quite see the singer because of a spotlight in his way, but as he moved a step, the light hit his face and Harry blinked. He gripped the chair arms and leaned forward. Was it him? Was it? His hair was longer, his face no longer soft and boyish, instead angular with heavyish scruff, but the eyes, that mouth, were still the same. A rush of adrenaline flooded his body, heat creeping up his spine. It had been over four and a half years since he’d last seen him. He slumped back into his chair. He’d never given up hope of finding Tommy. Never.
Or
Louis and Harry meet as teenagers and have a sweet encounter in Ibiza. Years later they meet up again...
💚 Can I just be the same? (17k)
“Are you skint?” Louis studied his face. “I can give you the bloody bus fare home, Harry. You don't have to walk.” His voice was soft. Caring.
Harry stopped, his body tingling. Fuck. He shouldn’t have crossed the road. Keep walking. Always keep walking.
“I’m not skint, but thanks for the offer. There’s not many kind people like you around. You’re lovely, you know that?” Harry reached his hand out tentatively, cupping Louis’ elbow and squeezing. “Thank you.” His voice hitched a little.
He’d roamed the country for centuries, coming in and out of people’s lives, never able to forge bonds. Or, if he did, breaking them and suffering the pain of lost love. That was his life forever. Stuck in this limbo with not one other person in the whole world who cared about him. So the kindness of a stranger really hit home, and this stranger with the bluest eyes and brightest smile was making Harry feel alive again. Reminding him of what he was missing
OR
Harry is a two hundred year old Vampire with no one in the whole world and Louis is the kind hearted stranger who comes into Harry's life bringing something that Harry had missed. Love. But Harry is forever running, can Louis be the one to change all that?
💚 King of wishful thinking (38k)
“Don't umm don't get on the bus, come inside.” Louis blurted the words out, speaking quickly.
Harry looked startled.
“Just. Look I don't know if I want..” Louis scrubbed his face with his hand. “I'll pay for your time. Just come in.”
Harry stepped away from the bus stop and the bus sailed straight past.
“What's umm what do you guys make these days?”
Harry shuffled his feet. “Depends. Like two hundred an hour.”
Louis hummed. “Reasonable.” He gestured towards the hotel. “Come up for a drink or some room service or something.”
Harry scraped the toe of his already scuffed boots on the floor. “You don't have to do this, I feel like… like you're a nice person who feels bad but it's fine. I get it. You don't have to make it up to me.”
Louis stared at Harry. It'd been so long since he'd even spoken to a guy let alone hung out with one. He'd enjoyed the banter and the flirting.
“Come up.” Louis’ voice was soft.
Harry’s face bloomed into a smile. “Ok.”
💚 Day 25: Are you mine? (4k)
And the thrill of the chase moves in mysterious ways
So in case I'm mistaken
I just wanna hear you say you got me baby
Are you mine?
Louis hands over the reins to Harry to organise a night away from the kids. Harry wants to watch Louis in action. Watch him dance, flirt, attract other men. But it's Harry who gets to take him home at the end of the night.
💚 Rise up like the sun (41k)
“I wasn't taking a sneaky pic.” Louis blurted out, the guy stood at one of the urinals taking a piss.
“You were.” The guy answered coolly. “I would've taken a pic with you if you'd just asked.”
“No I didn't want a pic with you.”
The guy turned his head, quirking his eyebrow sardonically. “No you're far too cool for that, you just wanted to violate my privacy.”
Louis squeezed his eyes shut.
“I'm sorry. Look..” He walked towards the guy flicking his phone out.
“Hey.” The guy hunched over, hiding his junk.
“Oh no no, I wasn't gonna take a pic. Fuck.” Louis threw his hands up, stopping in his tracks.
“Look I'm going to show you I'm deleting it.” Louis turned his phone and the pic disappeared.
“You looked familiar, I was going to send it to my friend and ask who you were, I'm sorry, dick move.” Louis sighed, smiling apologetically.
The guy zipped and walked to the basin.
“So you invade my privacy then insult my level of fame by pretending to not know who I am.” The guy was turned away from Louis.
“Look I'm...shit.” Louis inhaled noisily.
The guy turned, a grin spread over his face. “I'm fucking with you.”
💚 Sail away with me (47k)
“It’s inhumane putting four blokes in one cabin.” Louis stripped off and climbed up into his top bunk. “And why did we get the smelliest twat on the whole ship and bore of the century?”
Harry shrugged. “We clearly pissed someone off along the way.”
Louis snorted softly. “Who do I have to bend over for to get us an upgrade?”
Harry barked out a laugh. “If only it were that simple.” He rolled his eyes wistfully at Louis.
“The only way I’m going to get a two berth is to throw Payno overboard and be next in line for the deputy cruise director's job.” Louis leaned up on one elbow to look over at Harry.
“Would you help me weigh his body down so I don’t go to jail?”
“Only If I can share your cabin.” Harry shuffled about, tucking the duvet between his legs, sweeping his hair up into a bun and securing it in a band. “I’m not being an accessory to murder and then still having to share with them two, no fucking way.”
Or
Louis and Harry are part of the entertainment team on board a luxury cruise liner. They hate sharing their four berth cabin with two other guys and would do anything to get a cabin of their own.
One drunken night the solution was simple. They'd just get married...
💚 Looking down from the clouds (18k)
“He's funny and cute and hot and he's not like the other young VIP’s that we get, he's like…” Louis wafted his hand. “Kind and he seems genuine and he has these legs that go right up to his bum.”
Anna sat watching Louis with her usual bemused smile. They had this conversation at least once a week.
“So what are you going to do about it?” Anna asked for the hundredth time.
Louis groaned loudly. “Nothing, as per usual. Just come and have a meltdown to you.”
Anna pushed her chair back, filling both their cups from the coffee pot, handing Louis his and leaning in his desk. “What's the worst that can happen? He can only say no if you ask him out.”
“Go-ddd you make it sound so simple. Excuse me, Mr wonderful, I'm crazy about you and can't stop talking about you, you're perfect to me so how about slumming it down to South Beach for a big dirty delicious empanada? No? You like napkins and real food with beautiful interesting people? Oh ok, yes of course you do.” Louis banged his head against the wall.
Anna despaired of him. “Try,” she pushed.
Or
Louis is security officer at Miami airport and regularly has to escort Harry through. Will they ever go on that date?
💚 Soul wiped clean (91k)
The door to Harry's left opened and in walked a man, slight frame but managing to fill the room with his presence. Harry stood up and turned towards him.
“Boss.”
The man nodded at Paul, his eyes whipping over to Harry. Harry’s lungs somehow lost every ounce of breath, like a suckerpunch to the gut, winded. The hairs on Harry's neck pricked with what he thought was fear.
He held the back of the chair to steady himself, trying not to stagger, eventually remembering to breathe.
Paul cleared his throat.
“Tommo, this is Harry, the journo who is joining us. Harry, this is Louis Tomlinson.”
Can Louis, an ex convict with secrets and lies, keep hold of them when he has to share three weeks with a journalist. And does he want to?
💚 The light to guide me home (65k)
He was mesmerised by the guy on the bar.
Laughing and singing along to the song, grinding and thrusting in time to the music, shaking his cocktail shaker.
“Relax, don’t do it when you wanna come . Relax, don’t do it, when you wanna suck do it, relax don’t do it, when you wanna come..”
Harry’s throat felt constricted, rooted to the spot.
“When you wanna come…”
He came to his senses and edged through the crowd, not taking his eyes from the guy, gyrating and tossing his shaker. He flipped it down to a girl behind the bar and concentrated on his moves, grabbing his crotch, throwing his head back, tongue out.
Harry could feel himself getting hard in his pants. It was the most erotic thing he had ever seen.
The guy was standing on the same spot but stamping his feet, arms aloft, rolling his hips suggestively.
He brought his head forward to the crowd and locked eyes with Harry.
His jaw fell open, mouth slack, pupils blown.
Or the one where Harry and his friends hit Vegas for post Uni blow out, he meets a bar owner called Louis who rocks his world. Pure lust overtakes them both but it's more, it's just so much more than that..
💚 Can I lay by your side? (59k)
"Harry, tell me what you are going to do when you leave here."
“I’m going to drive to a hotel, drink some of that vodka, enough to give me dutch courage." Harry looks down at his feet, colour blooming in his cheeks. “I’m going to find a bar, find a man who wants to sleep with me, find some weed and lose myself for a few days.”
“Look, do you even know your way around Manchester, do you know anyone here?”
He shakes his head.
“So you are just going to pick up a random man and sleep with him?” Louis huffs out incredulously.
“There’s a first time for everything.”
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Fate brings Louis to Harry. Alone, Harry's buying vodka in Louis' local shop. He takes him home, this beautiful stranger, giving him his undivided attention and the weekend of his life. Together they tick off Harry's 'to do' list and fall in love at the same time. Harry has secrets and despairingly, on Monday morning, he has to go back to his old life. Louis and Harry meet up six months later by accident in quite different circumstances.
💚 If this feeling flows both ways. (72k)
'You're a massive flirt Tommo, you were practically shagging on skype.' Zayn punches me playfully in the arm.
'Did you fucking see him? My god he is so my type. Thank god I chose that agency, he's hot, it will be great fun, can't wait.' I squint my eyes at him.
'You're actually doing this then yeah?'
'Yeah I am Zayn, I have been dreading turning up at that wedding alone. I can stop worrying now and just enjoy it. He seems cool, think we will hit it off and if he's used to this kind of thing then I'm sure he will be a true professional and ace his role.'
'Mmmh, I just worry Lou that all. Me and Liam, we just want you to be happy.'
'I know love, I know and I'm sure Prince Charming is just around the corner.' I eye roll at him. 'But until then, I'll act it out with a hot dude.'
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Or the one where Louis hires an escort to go as his boyfriend to Lottie's wedding and to affirm his sexuality at several work engagements. Louis is very rich and very successful, Harry is an escort, hired to attend to your every need.
From the Sony winter ball in Vegas to the Grammys. From Malibu to Miami, the Bahamas to London, follow the journey of Louis the songwriter and Harry the male escort.
💚 We will find a way (54k)
Shag, Marry, throw over a cliff...
'Ok, Kate Upton, Emma Watson, Nicole Scherzinger?'
'Aww shit, ummm Ohhh this is hard Haz, umm ahhhh shag Emma, marry Nicole, chuck Kate over a cliff.'
'You'd chuck KATE UPTON over a cliff, whats the matter with you?'
'I know I know but that was impossible.'
'Hmmmm, ok come on hit me with my 3.'
'Ok ok I'm thinking ummm gay men gay men ermmmmmm.'
'Louis..'
'Mmm?'
'They don't have to be gay, you can hit me up with straight men too, I have an imagination.'
Cheeky grin.
'Ok Becks, ummmm Chris Hemsworth and ermmmmm me.'
'Ok well this is easy, I'd shag Hemsworth, marry Becks and you'd be head first over that fucking cliff.'
Or alternatively...
Harry Styles, fresh out of Uni, his first job is assistant tour manager to 17 Black, join them on their tour of European Summer music festivals. Temptation takes over and Harry and Louis become a thing, but can Louis handle this thing? He's not even into guys so why is he in Harry's bed?
Some angst, lots of fluff and sex and music.
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