#problematic kin

[imitative-magpie]

About Problematic Kin

While I take this brief interlude on my blog, I would like to make something abundantly clear that I have had others inquiring about-- I will never turn away problematic or ‘antagonist’ fictionkin and fictives. 

I have seen you pushed to the wayside without anyone allowing you to get your foot in the door, or taking the time to understand your story. It's a shame because I have met so many wonderful kins who hesitate to interact with their own communities, and if I shut them out, I would have missed out on some genuinely wonderful interactions.

 To the HABITs of Everyman HYBRID, the Andys and Ashleys of The Coffin of Andy and Leyley, the Kevins of Welcome to Nightvale,  and the Jonah Magnuses of The Magnus Archives, I want YOUR STORY. I want to understand your experiences, your memories but most of all I want you to know that you aren't alone. Whether you're a slasher from a horror film or a protagonist from a source material that has gained a reputation.. I would like to hear you out, to understand you in your entirety because I too have been marked by something horrific, and it has defined me my whole life. 

I want you to know that while it may feel impossible to stop that feeling, maybe we can all peer into the unknown together, and find joy in this life in spite of previous ones. 

[stemms]

Are you looking for a DSMP Discord server to connect with your fellow systems/kinnies without toxicity and too many harsh rules? If so, I have just the server for you!

Beach Party :) is a safe space for systems, kinnies, and synpaths where they can exchange memories and experiences, as well as discuss DSMP lore, and so much more with no judgement. Whether your fictive/kin is problematic or not, they’re welcome no matter what.

You don’t have to worry about being banned for seemingly no reason and without explanation, because our staff is very lenient, understanding, and always open to communication.

We have PluralKit and Tupperbox for systems and kinnies to keep track of their switches and kinshifts. If you’re looking for canonmates, you can make a canon call on our server, and who knows, perhaps you’ll find the person you’re looking for.

We’re still very new and are willing to adapt to and accomodate our community, so if you have any suggestions, feel free to share them.

If you’re interested, we’ll be glad to have you on our server!

Update: I no longer own the server, so unfortunately, I can’t share more invites. Please, contact @haunted-here instead.

[theeighthstarinthesky]

Not sure who'd care for it, but I drew myself a kinsona(?) so I could get a better grasp of how I looked

[comkin]

THIS IS A PRO/COMSHIP/KIN SAFE SPACE. DISCRETION IS ADVISED AT INTERACTION.

DEAD DOVE DO NOT EAT.

Everything is under the cut! (There's a lot to scroll past)

This is a source calling blog! It is directed for kins, fictives and IRLs alike who may have problematic memories or sources.

This blog provides:

Source calling ; Searching for source mates. - Template will be added at the end of this post. This MUST be followed.

Confessions ; Source/Memory confessions. - These can be used to just get something off your chest, however if you want to rant/vent put TWs/CWs and a vent warning.

Stimboards ; 3 by 3 GIF post based on one theme. - Please be specific! It can be character, source or ship based! Feel free to request something I haven't mentioned, it may be denied though.

Playlists ; you want some bangers with a theme? — State what you're looking for, vibes, theme, genre, and what you may not want! If you do not specify you do not want smooth jazz you are at the mercy of smooth jazz for example!

Classpecting ; Class + Aspect in a Homestuck sense — ever wondered what yours would be? Give us some details on how you handle situations, who you are as a person ( fictive / kin / etc. ), etc. etc. !

Pendulum Readings ; yes or no? — Ask your yes or no question and we will ask one of the pendulums!

Aesthetic Boards ; 3 by 3 GIF/still image post based on one or more themes. - You can be specific or give a loose idea and trust the process. Can be characters, ships, aesthetics, sources.

Web Graphics Boards ; 3 by 3 (sometimes) GIF/still image post based on the prompt given. - Again, you can be specific or give a loose idea. Preferably no characters, but sources are okay. Aesthetics, colors, themes, all good.

Shitty Doodles ; a silly, silly drawing — send in your request for a drawing. 1 subject preferred, 2 max. You can specify your prompt but we do not guarantee good quality ! 5 requests at a time allowed, check the notification below to see if slots are currently open!

CURRENT SLOTS OPEN: 5/5

RULES

#1 ;; Be nice! Don’t harass anyone for any reason. If you DO NOT LIKE THIS CONTENT BLOCK US. This blog is a safe space for those who identify with problematic sources and or views, antis or those who just do not agree have plenty of safe spaces and we request you DNI.

#2 ;; We accept any form of call even if it may be considered problematic. But please keep yourself safe, do not use this blog to put yourself in danger. Anonymous is RECOMMENDED but not necessary. - Not all requests on this blog have to be considered "problematic"

#3 ;; Source/fictional age gaps are A-Okay but IRL ones are NOT. Minors should only be interacting with minors and majors only with majors for safety. (Example; Body age: 19 Looking for: anyone over 18.) If ages are not in calls I will ask for resubmission or it will be deleted.

#4 ;; There is no limit on how many entries you send and you may send them one after the other (they just won't be posted at the same time). Even if you have multiple kins/etc from one source, only one will be tagged. (On the note of tagging, all problematic calls will be tagged as such so they will not meet a super wide audience - this is for the comfort of others and safety of you)

#5 ;; All questions, requests, and calls may be asked in the ask box! Because other people may have similar questions.

Calls should be sent in Asks using the following template.

CALLS;;

Full name:

Source:

Age: (Required)

Who you're looking for:

DNI:

Extra info:

Your @ if you want it included (this may be your main or your alt!)

STIMBOARDS;;

Please include types of GIFs you do and don't want! Eg. Slime, calligraphy, or specific objects/animals etc.

Be as specific as you can! Such as what emotions you want to convey.

Current Mods:

Angel - 🍮

Prince - ⚔️

knight - 🛡️

Banner ;; Avatar by me

Intro post written with help from 🌬️. :)

(Also feel free to DM about helping moderate! Especially if you don't mind us begging for you to do stimboard requests /hj)

[devilshills]

bitches will identify as traumatized characters and then realize they once were an alternate version of one or more mfs who traumatized them or allowed the trauma to happen

it’s me I’m bitches

[the-kinfesssional]

hate when ppl are like "ermmm that character is actually from a really problematic source" like?? tf you want me to do about it?? turn off the . my past lives???

Same. Its like?? Honestly, its pretty rude. Sorry for kinning ig

[incarnate-nation]

Introduction.

The purpose of this blog is to introduce and spread our beliefs to tumblr users! We are here to educate as well as recruit new members.

All questions may be sent to our ask box or commented here. Reblogs are appreciated.

What is incarnate nation?

Incarnate nation is a neo-religion that was created to unite people who identify as a fictional character. While it is created for incarnates, anyone who identifies as/with a fictional character (ex: kins and fictives) are welcome to join our community.

We cater towards those who enjoy things that are deemed "problematic" by the majority, people who are morally dark, people who identify as/with villain characters and people who have a problematic origin/media/source.

What is an incarnate?

Incarnate means: embodied in flesh; given a bodily, especially a human, form.

Therefore incarnates are people who embody a fictional character(or characters) in human form. In other words, they are actually the real life version of one or more fictional characters.

This experience is simalar to and can be confused for as being a kin or irl but they are not the same.

More info on that can be found here.

The 7 Commandments.

One- Form your own opinions. Ignore the feelings of the majority and think for yourself.

Two- Catering to other people's emotions is worthless if doing so drains yours.

Three- Morality is decided by an individual, not by law or societal norms. Do not let others tell you what is an isn't acceptable. Don't let others decide the difference between good and evil for you.

Four- If someone mistreats you, you have the right to treat them however you see fit. Mercy is for those who fear action. Be your own karma.

Five- Respect those that respect you and no one else.

Six- Do whatever you need in order to get what you want. No matter how selfish that thing may be. People, things, resources, etc only exist to benefit you.

Seven- Earth is only a trial. What you do here doesn't matter. Your existence is temporary and so it the existence of those you help or hurt.

Discord server!

16+ | only open to incarnates, kins and systems.

https://discord.com/invite/zpMEY9HVC3

server ad: Intertwined Souls 16+

[darkness-desired]

I will... make a proper post later... it's very late.... umm but. canoncall!!!!!

hi I'm Alois and I miss my demon butler bf fuckbuddy thing Claude! please come back to me!!

im a fictive in a DID system, we're bodily 20, I'm 14 :p. also, I am spiritual with my identity!! I believe my memories are real! ��

[problematic-kin-blog]

Welcome one and all to this blog!

• This blog is exclusively for problematic kintypes or those with problematic media, creators, etc. (Fictives are also included) (I’m sorry if this isn’t worded well aaa-)

Information about me:

Hello, you may call me Cesar or Alternate

He/It/[REDACTED]\Ink

I am a Syakesan/Sal and Vox fictionkin (Other kintypes but those are the most problematic out of them)

I really prefer Radqueers, proshippers, etc. to not interact. I know this seems a bit hypocritical but still.

- Must be considered problematic in some way (I will allow problematic memories and such /gen)(I will say memories that involve anything related to the red text above be kept to a minimum, I apologize if that restricts what can be said.)

If you submit a ask for only me to read either add ‘X’ at the beginning of the ask or send it in my messages

- Do not start/talk about discourse please

- I’m not good at wording things well, please keep that in mind I’m trying my best •,v,•

- I may forget about this blog occasionally, send a message if you believe I forgot

- I will most likely not answer hate anons

- I will try to tag trigger warnings as best as possible

- If you want me to tag something differently (such as fictive instead of fictionkin) please mention it in the ask)

This blog is a mix of confessions, ‘___ culture is’, questions, maybe more

Tags:

• General

#Kinfession (General confessions)

#Culture is (___ culture is asks (Please send in the words ‘Culture is’ with the ask to get tagged with this)

#Questions (Questions in general)

• Anon related:

# ____ Anon (For anons with sign offs)

#Simply an anon (Anons with no sign offs)

• Misc.:

#Cesar Speaks (My own posts)

Nothing much currently, will add more probably

Linked Posts:

[To be added] Anon Sign Off List

[fireflyforrestcare]

Hello and welcome to fireflyforrestcare!!

This is a blog for any problematic fact-based identities: kins, irls, systems etc are all welcome here!!

Things we’ll do: stimboards, moodboards, aesthetics, pendulums, and tarot stuff! Just give us some themes (or questions in the case of pendulums and tarot) to work with! You don’t need to specify who you are if that makes you uncomfortable.

We have a discord too, come check it out!!!

[theeighthstarinthesky]

Introductions

Main blog - @virtue1nvain

The account decor makes this pretty obvious, but Im a kin of Octavia from Helluva Boss.

You can call me Octavia, Belial or Via if you wish, and I don't mind any pronouns at all, but I expect she/her more because it's what i used primarily in source. Im aroace spec, so if you're looking for me with romantic intention I implore you to fuck off.

I'm 15 years old bodily, so yes, that does mean I'm a minor. I don't mind sourcemates above 18 interacting or getting in contact at all, though, so don't hesitate.

I'm not the most sure on how mediamates and canonmates work in terms of 'meeting and matching', but just a forewarning for sourcemates who wish to be friends with me that I have little to no memories of my canon and even if I did, you are still practically a stranger to me.

I don't mind people with memories of me as Octavia being affectionate towards me or calling me certain nicknames, but don’t act offended if I become nervous or scared.

We know each other in theory, but we're still strangers. Even so, don't let this dissuade you, I promise I don't bite. Or peck. I'm also not particular on who reaches out to me, or how they relate to source- fictives, fictionkins, copinglinks, irls, so on and so forth are welcome if they wish to talk.

Idm doubles at all, so dont feel scared if you are- and if you aren't on the little list below, don't worry, I'm still happy to talk.

I've seen quite a few people refer to their close friends who are a sourcemate as theirs? I think? So I guess I'm looking for 'my' my dad. I've got bare-bone memories and no real requirements, I just really want my dad back. Vassago is also someone I'm interested in seeing, I'm not quite sure how we were related, but I know we we're related somehow. And, I guess Loona and Blitzø would be cool to meet again. I'm looking for anyone who's looking for me, no matter who you are.

Dni list, I guess??

Dni lists don't actually work, really, but I'm using this as a list of people I hate personally.

Basic fuckos (racists, transphobes, sexists, misogynists, nazi, misandrists, homophobes, etc), Proshippers/darkshippers/anti-anti's, wilbur soot/iskall/dream supporters or defenders, pro-contact harmful paraphilias (pedo/zoo/necro/etc), weirdo haters, pro-cringe culture, anti-furries, israel supporters or defenders, anti-palestine, pro-harm, pro-ano/thinspo, anti-recovery, radfems, terfs, anti-mspec, people who think aromantic and asexual individuals aren't apart of the lgbtq+ community, intersex fetishisers, intersex haters, religious people who impose their beliefs, people who hate on or stereotype religions (including Christianity) because of the bad eggs.

[clockwork-kins]

LONG SHOT but im feeling quirky today.

Any south park kinnies out there wanna talk it up (18+ cause obvious reasons) I would DIE if could meet some kyle kinnies but I would wanna talk to literally anyone!

*waves red flag* sadly I am cartman so Fair WARNING. I'm also mike (vampir), tweek, and damien :)

[mikael-lotus]

following sources

sukuna from jujutsu kaisen

oh sangwoo from killing stalking

ghostface from scream

those are the main ones. mostly looking for sourcenates from killing stalking.

fictive in a system. body is 18+. problematic

looking for megumi, uraume, bum, eunseo

[devilshills]

the urge to shift realities as some of my kintypes because i want to make up for stuff that i caused back then and to avoid doing the same mistakes all over again

[the-kinfesssional]

i hate kinning a “problematic” character and getting kicked out of kin spaces when im pretty sure i didnt even do a lot of the things canon me did + i cant do anything about them anyways 😭😭

....That's messed up

[incarnate-nation]

⊹ ⁺ ✿ intertwined souls! 16+

⬚ ꙳ incarnate/kin/sys only!!

﹑semi-tox/darker community

https://incarnates.carrd.co

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✯ ` Have you ever wanted to be a part of something big? Are you commonly kicked from servers for having a "problematic" interest or source/media? Are you tired of excessive blacklists and rules? Or maybe you're tired of having to conform to other people's morals. If you relate to any of these then you should consider joining our server!

✯ ` We cater towards people who identify as/with a fictional character in any way and want to be treated as that character!