The Mental Connection - Chapter 9: All the things HE said (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1361691788-the-mental-connection-chapter-9-all-the-things-he?
Number Fifteen just sits on his bed and can't stop thinking about his specific relationship with Elf.
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Love flees from those who chase after it, and those who run away, throw themselves on the neck..
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avoidance
Avoidance is one of the tactics of behavior in conflict.
There is a widespread opinion that it is the worst tactic, but in fact the best way always depends on the context of the situation. Each conflict is unique. We can make hundreds of classifications of conflict, but none of them will be universal. So there isn't one best way to resolve it.
Avoidance is the refusal to participate or continue to participate in a conflict.
When:
solving this problem isn't too important to you
you know you're wrong
your position is hopeless (for example when if your opponent has a power that you don't have)
you need time to think about the problem
you want to cause problems for the other person
the problem doesn't need an immediate solution
How:
Phrases:
"I'm not going to waste my time on this right now"
"I think *someone* can handle this better than me"
"I don't have enough knowledge and skills to comment on this"
and etc, you should to explain you don't consider the problem is serious or you don't think it concerns you.
Actions:
Don't interact with a particular person
Don't visit a certain place
Show your indifference
It's important to understand that avoidance can make the situation worse and worsen the person's attitude towards you. However, if you don't care, avoidance is a good tactic. Sometimes avoidance can solve the problem because if you refuse to participate, the conflict cannot escalate. A conflict is an interaction between two or more people.
Even Hurrem Sultan used it sometimes! Do you remember the situation when she kept silent in response to insults?
Firstly, when she did this, she understood that the person insulting her was more powerful, so she could not enter into a direct confrontation with them. it gave her time to think about revenge.
Secondly, the avoidance can show the aggression of her opponent to bystanders. The episode when Hurrem did not react rudely to Mahidevran because, unlike her, she knew that the Sultan was beside them.
Avoidance is also pretending you don't know something you do. You can use this for your own ends. Or pretending not to know something to avoid conflict. When a wife pretends not to know about her husband's mistress. She does this either to save the marriage or to get back at him later.
next is accomodating tactic.
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ЗАГОЛОВОК БУДЕТ
сейчас хочу сказать, что изменения возможны. изменения всего и что касается всего, то изменения возможны двум, вместе - сила. и этим двум нужен бог и каждый из них отдельно вместе с богом тоже что-то могут построить, две личности - изменят мир. одна личность - только подумает, что может.
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The Mental Connection - Chapter 10: A long time ago (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1391835533-the-mental-connection-chapter-10-a-long-time-ago?
A cramped room with high walls and dim flickering lights, toys and a drawing table, pencils and paints scattered on the floor and... the two of them, still children.
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Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.
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