#recovering antishipper

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Recovering Antishipper Pride Flag “for those who are recovering from being an anti-shipper. emoji combo for recovering antishippers is 🌷🍵🍬 (tulip tea candy).“

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Recovering from anti shipping flag/former antishipper flag

💢 ANTIS DONT FUCKING INTERACT WITH THIS POST 💢

Definition

This is a flag for proshippers of the like who were formerly antis and are now recovering from past policing as an anti. This can be used for proshippers, comshippers, anything that are like them or those who choose to be neutral. Antis cannot use this flag.

Meaning

Darkest purple: Anger and hatred

Dark violet: Excessive violence

Violet: Harassment

Black line: Unnecessary policing

Red scribbles: Border of realization/separation from past beliefs

White: Kindness

Light pink: Love for all/preferred ships or ship dynamics

Pink: Passion of ships

Yellow: Acceptance of state of mind

(Anti flag originates from anti extremist flag and lower flag is based on comship flag since so many proship flags exist and it would be too much to obtain all elements of them.)

Alternate w/o red scribble

💢 ANTIS DONT FUCKING INTERACT WITH THIS POST 💢

[ship-discourse-confessions]

ive seen this take going around and i wanna throw in my two cents.

"No survivor has ever experienced healing while jacking off to incest porn"

hi i am a survivor who had one of my most cathartic breakthrough moments while cumming to incest fic. i achieved the ability to feel safe in my own body despite the full knowledge of what had happened to me living inside of my bones every day. I know it probably sounds crazy to survivors who are just starting their journey to recovery, but it's possible to feel okay and it's possible to feel safe. It's even possible to be so recovered you no longer have to avoid your triggers because they no longer trigger you. THAT'S how recovered incest fic can let you be if you use it responsibly. But don't listen to jackasses online like me, trust your feelings and don't lie to your therapist. Your journey is your own, and your recovery is under your complete control. Congratulations!!!

When engaging with art written by a fellow survivor it's very common to find that one's experiences and emotions are reflected very accurately. That can be scary! Seeing as sexual assault is a broad umbrella that encompasses many acts and experiences, it stands to reason that victims of sexual assault will have an equally varied set of experiences. This means that if you are a survivor of sexual assault, it is common and likely that you will encounter a fellow survivor who has completely different experiences, and different reactions to those experiences.

Because we are all so different, it can feel difficult to feel understood, or to feel as though one has found solidarity. I understand where the upset comes from, I really do.

However, antis, just because you do not relate, just because you feel bad or gross reading/seeing someone's work, does not mean you are allowed to be mean to them. It means you are supposed to block them.

If every depiction of my abuse were to be scrubbed from the internet then how would I know I wasn't alone? Who would I talk to? How would I know I hadn't been "broken"? How would I know that other people reacted the same way that I did? How would I know I was still worthy of love? Would I be able to feel "understood"?

(These questions are designed to provoke thought. The answer to these questions in my experience has been that support networks of others who have experienced similar abuse does not match my experiences, and that only others who have experienced abuse that is Very Very Similar To My Own can evoke this catharsis euphoria, or "belonging". My experience is that in order to find those with similar experiences, one must locate posts describing those experiences, or one must make those posts oneself.)

It is understandable if an anti finds themself feeling alienated in certain spaces. This is a sign that they have not found a community supportive of them! They should and deserve to find that community and feel connected and happy!! They are not allowed to send mean messages to other survivors! They are not allowed to decide who is and is not a survivor! They are not allowed to make posts telling lies about other survivors! I do not understand why so many antis are comfortable treating other humans this way. I can't understand why so many antis are proud of treating fellow survivors this way.

Incest fic was there for me in my darkest moments, whump as a brutal reminder that i wasn't alone in what had happened to me, fluff as an unrealistic wish fulfillment fantasy of how my abuser SHOULD have treated me, multichapter for exploring the long term behavioral impacts of abuse, and porn without plot for when my body is being hypersexual due to flashbacks. i just really don't get antishippers man, you can block tags and block users who post untagged. you don't have to see anything that you do not want to. I get where the upset comes from, but i never understand why it stays to be vented at fellow survivors.

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( don't be sorry for sending long asks anon! that's the point here: to send whatever you're thinking or feeling. my audience is whoever wants to send me stuff which includes stuff like this, you're okay anon <3 )

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Mod is literate.

Interaction is highly encouraged! Feel free to send an ask!

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[mechagic]

People who are "recovering" from antishipping are so weird

Like what are you recovering from being hot and sexy? You didn't want to get any bitches but got too many as an antishipper? You don't want a shitton of bitches so you became a proshipper?

[aroaceacacia]

Are we still talking about 2019 Hermitcraft fandom? I think I was on Tumblr momentarily for a bit making a post against antishippers but I spent most of my time jumping around Discord servers with a bunch of wattpad fanfic writers and

it was so frickin toxic. I don't even remember the majority of what the arguments were about? I feel like most of them were petty arguments and people were overreacting. It doesn't help that there was one super toxic person who intentionally antagonized people.

I felt scared to exist online in the hermitcraft fandom, and I still kind of do, because one person who a lot of people liked got really mad at me and I reacted poorly. And then I continued to get into a lot of drama afterward in unrelated situations.

Now I feel uncomfortable watching Hermitcraft and I feel so jealous seeing everyone in the fandom have so much fun now but I feel like I haven't recovered fully yet. Maybe one day.

I keep looking back wondering what went so wrong so I know how to stop it from happening again. Though my memory is blurry, I feel like most of us were innocent in the drama we got mixed up in.

I just

Even off of Hermitblr the 2019 Hermitcraft fandom seemed like a toxic mess.

I'm sorry that happened to you, anon. I'd like to think we're (at least the tumblr community is) a bit better now; I hope this sort of. Cathartic airing of grievances will help explain to new arrivals why we don't want discourse to start up again.

I hope one day you'll feel comfortable watching Hermitcraft again, if that's something youd want to do.