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the-patrex · 3 months

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I have seen a LOT of discourse about the finale so here is my final opinion on it: I Liked it I thought it was Very Bad

#shut up patrex #it made no sense at times the resolution was bad #but also: i dont care it was bad I had fun i like that Ruby is not an Important FigureTM it worked for me a lot #the real mom thing was trash but since rtd apparently already said Ruby was Wrong when she said that sure im willing #to give that plot its time #the ms floods thing lmao I love we still dont know actually! Keep us bitches guessing #I had FUN!!!!!!#Memory TARDIS is a Banger Mel was awesome 15 MY BABY 1555555 my princess with a disorder!!!#the only real COMPLAINS I have now and they are actually a rtd2 problem #is the militarization without any push back or criticism of UNIT and russy for the love of god let new people write episodes #<- this coming from someone that really likes rtd and moffat #Must Doctor Who be Good? Isnt it enough that Im having fun?

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foxx-queen · 11 months

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i keep thinking about the datamined conversation between halsin and minthara and what gets me about it is that if you side with halsin and turn minthara away, thats objectively the bad choice.

like at this point, you've rescued minthara from moonrise. you know now that she was being controlled to act against her will. you've gone to the trouble of rescuing her from her tormentors, and you've experienced what it felt like as they tried to destroy her mind. you know what will happen to her if you turn her away. and if you do, you're willingly condemning her to that fate. you've essentially allowed her to experience freedom, to regain her sense of self, only to tear that away from her again.

whereas if you side with minthara, and halsin leaves, that's the only consequence he experiences. that he's not a companion anymore. at this point, we've saved the grove, we've saved him, and we've lifted the shadow curse. we've helped him achieve what hes been hoping to do for over a century. leaving your party won't see him lose his free will. he can return to the grove and live his life.

the choice is essentially either condemn someone to a fate worse than death, knowing exactly what that entails vs not letting someone travel with you anymore. its pretty clear cut to me.

its just interesting to me that they've switched the morality of it around given that minthara is considered the 'evil' companion by so many.

#baldur's gate 3 #baldur's gate 3 spoilers #bg3 spoilers #minthara #minthara baenre #before anyone comes at me and says that halsin is allowed to have his prejudice and his trauma. im not saying hes not #not sure about someone being allowed to have prejudice but yes thats part of human nature i guess #my point isnt that hes not allowed to react like this #my point is that hes wrong.#sure he can be struggling with his trauma and his prejudice over minthara being a lolth sworn (even if shes not anymore)#BUT. at this point we as a character /know/ theres more to her. we know that hes making an unfair assessment of her #which is even more jarring if you're a drow/lolth sworn drow #and at this point. you've saved the grove youve saved him youve helped him break the curse. he tells you its a debt he cant repay #and that hes so thankful. but he wont trust you or your decision. he won't even attempt to #and u know what thats fine. he doesnt have to. but if you're siding with him you're condemning her. you're killing her #if you side against him. he can go back to his responsibilities as an arch druid rather than leaving it in someone elses hands (which was?)#that is the lesser of the two evils here #yes you can call minthara the 'evil' character because shes a lolth sworn but thats just buying into the prejudice halsin is showing #and its wrong #anyways. my point is good for him if he wants to demand you make a ridiculous choice #but turning her away is the bad choice and tbh i feel like the game wants u to know that #and sure if you want to boil it down to which character u like more than the other and u prefer halsin. ur obvs gonna side with him #but in that case u probably wouldn't even get this conversation #because why would u have bothered to spare / save minthara in the first place?

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partyinthecloudkingdom · 5 months

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some of you guys posting dungeon meshi discourse need to reread the list of autism symptoms (especially how the symptoms present in girls) bc some of the shit youre saying isn't in the text at all

#dungeon meshi #dungeon meshi discourse #i guess that tag exists #but like. guys. falin isnt socially unaware even if she is autistic coded #shes literally laios's social middleman to translate the rude shit that comes out of his mouth into understandable shit for other people #shes the 'had to learn every social rule' autism #quit saying toshiro only likes her bc shes 'socially unaware enough to express joy' you sound like fucking assholes #and also you're literally wrong about her characterization

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landoffreaksandfrogs · 1 year

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im one of the biggest aranea fans out there. i love her. have been for years. BUT.

i do often toss around the idea of araneas role being replaced with feferi, who i think couldve served this role for several reasons...

feferi has probably the closest thematic ties with the dream bubbles, both helping create them and being our first real exposure to the afterlife. she could have easily remained relevant in the story as a ghost.

act 6, esp early act 6, is about the condesce. yes we get plenty of meenah but she doesnt actually do much outside of the intermission. i think having the three iterations of peixes in major character roles wouldve been! interesting!

then theres feferis classpect. witches are among the most powerful classes, and feferi as a witch of life (even an unrealized one) would have massive potential over the outcome of the new timeline and the new universe.

feferis coddling and slightly manipulative nature (YES she does have flaws and i love her for it) could easily be exacerbated by circumstances to manifest as a savior/god complex for the new timeline. paaarticularly if the horrorterrors are getting killed left and right by lord english.

just. agh agh agh. feferi you have so much potential you are like an egg to me.

#FRUSTRATED but like. in a *well i like aranea so i guess its fine* sort of way #and YEAH I AM SAYING FEFERI CAN BE MANIPULATIVE. SHES 13. SHES NOT EMOTIONALLY MATURE YET #god im making a lot of justification for saying *hey feferi isnt perfect* when i remember in the Old Days #feferi was VERY fandomized into two categories: sweet girl who did nothing wrong or huge bitch #when actually she was just 13 #sigh. feferi....

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empty-blog-for-lurking · 1 year

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Ok so i havent seen the actual movie yet but i just want to ask does anyone have a clear pictures of Inspector Singh cause from what i have seen he looks like a sikh man and if he were than that means that Gayatri would be named as Gayatri Kaur instead of Gayatri Singh

#And i can be wrong though cause Singh itself isnt an exclusively sikh surname #But from the turban and all i am guessing they were inspired by them #But that being said if he is sikh than his daughter's surname would most likely be kaur #Sikhism has different surname conventions #(if you are a guy you are Singh and if you are a girl than Kaur and the first name is a gender neutral name)#(So technically she shouldnt be even named Gayatri which is a hindu name)#Look i am not asking fans or the writers to do full scale research on ethnicity of what is essentially a bg bg character #I just saw whom i thought was Inspector Singh and was just really confused #inspector singh #gayatri singh #pavitr prabhakar #across the spiderverse

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foccaccia · 6 months

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does anyone have recommendations for fictional media that has like. actual lesbians in it. not like supergirl Two White Skinny Girls, One Blonde and One Brunette Kiss media, or "its implied lesbianism!!!" but just regular fucking lesbians

#i say lesbians but i guess i mean sapphic #im just like. tired of gnawing #and of men also. sorry men in my life i love you but on god if i have to pretend one more man is butch just to get #content that isnt m/m or m/f im going to turn into a horse and run into the wilderness until im saved from the glue factory by a plucky #young woman except instead of letting her have her formative summer where she trains me and bonds w me and wins a competition w me #im going to commit horse suicide in front of her & change her life forever. just because im so tired of bland CW-marketable women kissing &#digging for scraps in a refuse bin while brushing aside 7002993829292929939292929399394 gay and het romances #m text #i will also take nonfictional lesbians if its like a story #not to be whiny on main but one of the hardest hurdles i had to jump wasnt realizing i was a lesbian. i came out to myself and to friends a #lesbian multiple times. but i would always walk it back when a friend would express doubt or a male friend would ask me out #bc i dont and especially then didnt know very many lesbians in person. and so i had to turn to examples #and all i fucking had were fictional women who liked men. or fictional lesbians who were so cleaned and sanitized and prettified #(you all know what i mean right. the 2 skinny white girls one blonde one brunette. im not crazy right)#and i would be like. i dont feel things when i look at these fictional lesbians so i guess i belong back here #(this is also bc my gender ended up being fuckier than i realized but shhhhh)#I WAS GOING SOMEWHERE WITH THESE TAGS but theyre too long and im lost.#anyway the point is if people werent so fucking weird abt fictional or onscreen lesbians maybe thered be a lot more people comfortable bein #out as lesbian #like sorry but this awful ouroboros of 'all lesbians onscreen have to be cute and sanitized' meaning that people write and believe wlw has #to be cute and pure and sanitized (OR a 'badge of honor' bc good for u u doodled two women together or had it as a background in ur fic)#meaning that therefore all portrayals of lesbianism continue to be like this. is just #and im also gonna be honest theres probably a lot of good sapphic media im just in the wrong circles to have stumbled into lol. so #yknow. personal viewer bias here #but i still like swing wildly between overly brandishing my dykeness as a badge to feel like im proving im lesbian #and like. backing up under a blanket bc i dont wanna be weird or annoying or freak people out #but if people just Saw Normal Ass Lesbians. aough.#im going to watch revolutionary girl utena one of these days even if i struggled w the writing style the first few episodes #I JUST WANNA SEE AN OLD BUTCH ONSCREEN GET SOME PUSSY.#like it also doesnt help im mostly femme4butch so seeing 2 femmes on screen is like. okay cool so what. but only femmes are 'marketable'

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termagax · 6 months

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u know at the beginning i kind of thought kfp4 was gonna do something with shifus whole. deal. but they didnt like at all which is a shame

#the plot was extreeeemely thin and formulaic as it stands imo #kind of held together by the strength of the action sequences which i liked #but idk it just felt weird that po said an objectively correct thing (why isnt shifu the spiritual leader hes clearly better at it #) and i kind of expected that shifu would have something to do where he learns not to be so. idk #i guess faith in his own judgement rather than like. just kind of Accepting His Destiny or whatever. they make gags about how #hes clearly kind of upset about this whole thing #especially with tai lung having a speaking role its just like. well i wish shifu was here so you guys could talk this out #given how the idea of destiny kind of shapes their worldviews #i think what i wouldve done is a destiny is not so set in stone thing #bring shifu on the quest but when po has his vision he sees zhen betray him and decides to trust her anyways while shifu advises against it #because The Universe Said So and po is like what if..the universe is wrong. or what if we can change its mind :D she seems like a good kid #maybe she just needs some good influences :D and shifu is like -'_- thats fucking stupid po <- thinking abt his shitty son #and maybeeee they could even have tai lung be more involved in the latter half because his dad is here. and they can talk #idk i dont know if this is anything i just kind of wish the movie was giving More

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no-light-left-on · 1 year

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hot take but taking every hearsay or rumor or book in a fictional universe for fact is bad understanding of the world as the story presents it, actually

#li.txt #this is both about dishonored and elder scrolls #propaganda exists! artistic interpretation exists! lie exist! people make shit up!#you cant take anything literally unless youre seeing it for yourself imo #if someone is telling you a story about their life they might omit information or make themselves look better! thats how people work!#or if you hear idk some musicians singing in the streets about an ancient myth from 4k years ago maybe dont take it for fact #this is a direct callout to people shitting on born in the month of darkness #if anything they were trying to make the outsider sound like a pathetic wet cat in need of a warm blanket and food. a poor meow meow #unless stuff is confirmed by the characters themselves Im not gonna believe it fully #the books are also often just. not true. theyre scientific speculation Just Like Real Life #or full on propaganda. just like - you guessed it - real life!#the best example that I can think of is how theres two books on the war of betony island in daggerfall. political!! propaganda!!!#not to mention: people will deceive you on purpose! omit details or full on Lie in your face #like Im sure theres stuff we completely misunderstood cause the one thing we were told about it was by someone bullshitting #like with delilah talking about her tragic backstory. like dont get me wrong I 100% believe that it all happened #but also I doubt she was as pitiful and that the Very Quick Summary was all there is to it #I should probably specify that if youre down to believing absolutely everything when there isnt any other sources thats fine #esp if you want to believe it for the reasons of Oh This Is Cool #like people absolutely eating up the angsty backstory for the outsider (me included cause yes. angst.)#have fun with all that #this is mostly about all the people throwing a temper tantrum online about disliking something about canon #'why do the musicians know the backstory why cant they leave anything vague anymore:/' theyre artists melinda its their job ur doing the sam #unless this was confirmed by the outsider in the books idk I cant find those damn things #if something is Stated by a Character or Written in a Novel that is in the world theres always some doubt #like I genuinely doubt that the events of Young Prince of Tyvia happened the way they do in the books #so like yknow. if you hate stuff so much just. ignore the canon established by literal in-game fiction

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expfcultragreen · 4 days

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I bet piss works, dont waste the more drinkable liquids

#to clarify antisemitism is real but its not 'whatever every last jewish person said was' 1) a bunch of that is bad faith bs from fash agents #2) every last jewish person isnt in agreement and if its not unanimous its subjective. weaponizing such subjectivities for fascist aims....#.....is old hat by now and SHOULD be transparent to true progressives #regardless of the avenue of tactical deployment/issue at hand #genocide being conducted by gods chosen favorite most-human people is the same no matter who the ppl making the claims of choseness are 🤷#guess what IM gods favorite she just decided and she told me and IM saying youre wrong AND i have a beard so like...#...whatre you gonna say now? im like ANY guy youve ever bought that shit from #if absolute conviction is the metric stand the fuck back because its me the most correct guy on earth sent by god etc etc etc /schizobabble

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rexbolt · 2 months

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that is. kind of comforting if I'm real. whole life I've just been a failure of a girl in every way. I was always hypercritical of and ostracized by how Wrongly my body functioned. I get so much shit every time I go outside still. tween girls make sure to point and laugh at my big hairy body at the pool. I spend an absurd amount of time grooming myself to minimize harassment on the daily, but it's never enough, and the hair grows back within 24 hrs anyway

#did i finally consciously pinpoint the reason i always end up watching trans women youtubers talking about the things they have to do to be #left alone #like my situation isnt THAT dire but irs not good either. i wear a mask everywhere i go so no one can see my facial hair #i havent worn shorts in uh. yeah 11 years because my hair grows all the way up to my stomach #and regrows within 2 days #it's truly impossible to keep up with it #idk i guess it relieves some of the constant pressure on being Abnormal In Public #feels like slightly less of a me problem when there is framework to categorize it as significantly divergent from the average experience #i feel lighter:)#Did the nonbinary come from my personal independent musings or from my persistent inescapable othering #chicken egg #i hate she/her im removinf it no more consideration pronounce. if someone gets it wrong i will not wipe their ass anymore

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imflyingfish · 4 months

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#mmmmmm debating buying a new pc #theres nothing wrong with my pc atm lol its just i have the opportunity to rn #and my pc isnt quite powerful enough for some of the things that i want to do like 3d modelling and larger games and video editing and such #esp that i'll be doing increasingly more of over the years #plus if i do get one then my current one wont go to waste i think id give it to my sibling since hes always mentioning #how he'd like to get a setup like mine #whenever shes over she goes on my pc to do speedruns lmao #like its good mid-teir pc its worked well for me #so its not desperate #i am debating getting a new laptop too this one is like 4 years old and is starting to show it #but idk im very much a 'use it till its dead' guy #like my phone's power button has been broken for like half a year so it hasnt turned off in months..... but i cba to fix it #like i GUESS i could get a new phone but ughhhhhh do i really have to it works fine #anyway i guess i should ask some tech guys about this i found some good ref websites #em if u see this lmk what u think i should do lol im pondering #i think tbh i might hold off for a bit before i get any new big purchases but i may get some small things like new clothes that #i need and such idk lol #that or id sell my current pc idk but im sentimental lol

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microfeelings · 7 months

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I finished reading Dungeon Meshi in a week...

#i am crying.. the amount of times this manga made me sob #i am an emotional bitch tho so its not like its hard to make me cry lmao #i have many thoughts #spoilers in the tags i guess #good ones regarding the manga itself #bad ones regarding the fandom but thats normal about every fandom so im not even surprised #youre telling me that marcille has such a complicated backstory regarding her lifespan #and having had to watch her father. her only friend. wither and die before her eyes #and shes terrified of her loved ones dying and leaving her alone and that fear is what kickstarts everything #and all the fandom reduced her to was cringe fail lesbian? :)#dont get me wrong i love when shes pathetic but the more i read the manga and the more we were revealed my first thought was #'why did i see like five essays for laios and not a single one for marcille?'#i see more posts of people paying attention to chilchuk cause hes a divorced dad and making angst about that #than about everything marcille has been gone through #god shes such an interesting character #AND I NEVER WOULD HAVE FOUND OUT IF I HADNT READ THE MANGA #not a single post about marcilles character thats isnt talking about how shes cringe fail or a lesbian in the tag #ended up giving up scrolling through it #i swear if this tags attracks people with no reading comprehension

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lion-buddy · 1 year

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being the resident nezuko liker is such a challenge sometimes

#ooo these tags contain complaining if u dont like that then see ya around <3 #i would love to scroll through the tag without being bombarded by. awfulness. both bot and fandom posted #yknow. yknow. that is a 12 yr old #it has become!!! genuinely frustrating! it always has been #and i dont mean to complain but. man. im just disappointed #and.while kinda begin the kny mascot she is barley present in fan made content. with meaning. and its all mostly reposted art ugh.#and even official stuff has her only as little child nezuko and!! i get it its cute whatever but it feel so pandery and wrong all the time #i just poitn. that is not her that is a facet u r choosign to hyperfocus on show me the real her #and lets be honest the og stroyline isnt kind to her etiher she is nonexistent after swordsmith #i remember for a time when idid post abt her i was one of the inly consistent nezuko artists who wanted to like. put her in scenarios #and i want reiterate again that drawing cute art and gifs of her is fine it doesnt hurt anyone. i love to see it actually #but like. in a fandom as big as this youd think. youd think they like her more!!!! but no #and. the last thing i want to insinuate is “if u dont like my fav character then u suck” cus thats is not how fandom content works. at all #fandom is a experience for u to cultivate for yourself. and sometimes it just comes up short!!! i guess #it jsut felt weird being lonely in your liking of an aspect of the series where there are so many ppl. yet they all only like the hot men.#which again. u do u. nothign wrong with it. its anime afterall. it can just be frustrating sometimes.#idk! im also not very social so maybe its just my fault but. man. id love to find some other resident nezuko likers that. isnt just shippin #i feel interacting would be so much easier if my fav was like. one of the main boys like everyone else. or i made ship content or somethin #but like i said fandom is for u and u only if that makes sense. the point is to create things u want to see. which is what i do and enjoy #just with nezuko specifcally. i dotn want to put my stuff of her in the tags anymore cuz i just. dont trust the fandom with her. its weird #but also. appreciate those who did interact. i hope ur all doing alright <3 ty for talkign with me :]#i just needed to get this out cuz its. kinda why i dotn post abt kny anymore. especially the s3 fandom im sorry i just dont vibe with it </

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mainfaggot · 6 months

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i had a really terrifying sleep paralysis slash bad dream situation last night so 1) i, half asleep and freaked out out of my mind, went to my mom's bedroom asking for water while trying not to fall over 2) got water and also my mom did a bunch of duas for me LMFAO 🤕😔 3) woke up 45 mins after my alarm and was 15 mins late to class

#i never go to my parents when i have nightmares or sleep paralysis #like i stopped doing that once i turned 14? 15?#because it became so fucking frequent and bc i started distancing myself from them near the end of middle school and especially #at the beginning of hs #anyway theres a lot. of. um . parental figure troubles history that i have .... theres a lot of lore #all that to say. i guess i have subconsciously come to trust my mom in the last half year or so bc instead of #half sleepwalking downstairs to the kitchen i just went to her room across thr hall #it wss super uncomfortable once i realised what i had done tho #like i was 1/2 reeling from yhe effects of a really trippy dream in a dream in a dream in a dream (nightmare ver.)#and i was 1/2 like “omg my mothrr is holding me and praying for my well being and she used to do this for me all the time until i was like #11 or whatever and this feels wrong im not supposed to hsve this this isnt right i dont deserve this i want to crawl out of my skin“ etc etc #anyway!#lol #z.post

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caffeinatedopossum · 2 years

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Events of last night:

Me: *crying*

My girlfriend: what's wrong?? :(

Me: *struggling to form words* intrusive thoughts are bad... I don't want to talk about them because then I'm scared that they're true and you might think I'm awful

My girlfriend: ah I actually get that. I have those a lot. It doesn't mean anything though, intrusive thoughts are just like dreams. Like the things you do in them aren't really things you want to do, it's just stuff your brain comes up with.

#we then very heavily related over having the same intrusive thoughts and now I'm suspicious #thinking about when i told her i might have ocd and she said i didnt #and starting to feel like thats because... what if we both have ocd #it seems like she was basing her entire knowledge of conditions on people shes known with those conditions. which makes sense #but the person/ people with ocd had severe cleaning compulsions and the like #where as me and her obsess much more over morality #like its very clear we think about it so much. and idk what to do with that information #we both feel like the intrusive thoughts and obsessive ruminating are the only things that keep is from being bad people #or that prevent us from being bad people i guess. idk why that wording is just slightly more accurate #like people who dont think about these things (apparently all 'normal' people since this could be *an actual disorder*)#they're not constantly analyzing. trying to be aware. asking themselves questions about their true nature. judging those answers #theyre not really doing that with other people either. of course i could be wrong since im very clearly not a normal person.#but this is what i mean! im speculating about other people and acknowledging the ways i could be wrong and just trying to figure it all out #but it seems like no one does that and it doesnt *make them* bad people. it just doesn't prevent them from that happening either #like theyre just as likely to hurt people as the 'bad' person thats thinking the same way they are #and i cant ever be comfortable with me living that reality even when *this reality* is a waking nightmare #sure im tearing my skin off (good ole skin picking disorder) when im thinking about these things. sure im crying. sure i can't sleep.#sure it makes me feel like im constantly a horrible person and need to attone for everything ive done and havent done #sure. but then i turn around and say its helping me. because why else would my brain torture me? isnt it always about protecting me?#i don't know. all i know is who i dont want to be and what i dont want. so that exactly what my brain convinces me is real #i guess what it kinda comes to do is #would you rather live a reality where everything around you is superficial. your thoughts behaviors and thoughts. your reactions #all of them are things youre never aware of. you could be hurting people or you could be helping themm #you could even be hurting yourself. but you would never know. its a comfortable reality that youre never really aware of #OR would you rather live a reality aware of all those things. seeking answers and sometimes finding them.#trying your hardest to help others and better yourself and fix the broken things in this world #your reality is one where you recognize every threat that no one else does and it kills you inside because they wont always listen #theyre comfortable and you're stuck in a reality where you try and try and try but even when you succeed #your brain forms its own reality. a metaphorical jail. where you never get to experience the reality you fought so hard for #instead you exist in this sort of purgatory where you live out your own worst fears and the worst ways you could have failed

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nostomannia · 1 year

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It's kinda funny.

I talk about how I don't want people to misunderstand Solita as a character. There's no easy answer to her. Where do the sins of an abuser end and the sins of the victim begin? There's no simple path forward. You can't just separate Solita from Deity, there's a long, convoluted path she has to walk to be able to walk away.

But Solita is also meant to be misunderstood. She's purposely misleading. She's a habitual liar, and not even honest to anyone, not even herself. She's confusing and unpredictable, and shapes herself to what others want her to be. A friend, an enemy, or anything in between. She's approachable and yet unreachable. An actress in life.

#I Cut My Teeth on Secondhand Sentiments || Character info #i guess people just misunderstand her the wrong way #which is a weird thing to say but like??#i was thinking about where the sins of the parent end and the sins of the child begin bc thats something thats really prevalent in one of m #favorite characters #and i realize its a theme i find myself drawn to #and also i finally watched vio.let ev.ergarden recently and the whole thing with vio.let having to carry that guilt she has whether or not #she did it willingly/fully understanding is a theme that resonates a lot with Solita #just because deity forces her to do stuff doesnt mean that there isnt blood on her hands.#What happens to the people she had to step over without Deity's prompting? The lives she took of her own volition?#but anyway thats rambling about that one specific part of this post #Solita is complicated to her core and should never have an easy answer #if my inspo i get from O.shi n.o ko says anything lmao #A.i is not a simple character and just gives big sol vibes. a girl who wears a mask and lies as a twisted form of love

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