#the biggest lie in here is the word platonically imo

[mydoctor]

Ted Lasso + Reductress pt 4/??? more roy and jamie and royjamie edition

[dreamonminecraft]

Actually about ur pin post mark is actually very actiony when it comes to love. A lot of his friends claims that hes very flirtatious n stuff. U can see this come out whenever he plays egos n stuff. Thats why yancy and the newer egos like Illinois and even dark and wilford seem to be in love with y/n. So i dont think mark was lieing when he said that imo or at least not completely. Idk if u already knew that sorry if u did lol i just wanted to share that tidbit i knew.

Gonna be honest, I have no fucking clue what you're try to say in that ask.

Someone with an action love language means that they like when people do things for them and go out of their way to do things, like chores or minorly inconvenient tasks without being asked.

What you described is a love language of words (specifically of affirmation, meaning they like to be told they're doing a good job. This is probably Mark's second biggest love language)

Someone with a love language of quality time (what I fully believe Mark to be) wants undivided attention (lol) from the people they care about and wants to spend time doing memory-making activities with the people they love.

And hey what the hell, I'll include Ethan's in here too, cuz why not.

Ethan's love language is physical affection. He needs touch, generally in the form of hugs, to know he's valued and appreciated in relationships, whether it's romantic or platonic. He's not only stated that it's his love language, but it's very clear even from an internet goers perspective. He wants to touch and be touched, in any form.

[augustheart]

🔥 one more for the road

lets talk about kv and why i don’t like it, shall we?

(a bit of background: when i was younger, i got bullied. like, a lot. so much. and this…gets seriously into some of that. there was a girl, lets call her A, and we were best friends for…three years, i think. like, very very best friends. us and another girl, S. they lived on the same street so they were a lot closer to each other than either of them were to me. looking back on it, i’m sure i had a baby crush on both of them, but a stronger one on A. 

i wanted her approval so, so badly, but she was toxic and manipulative and shitty so i tried to cut myself off from her. (S wasn’t so lucky but thankfully transferred from the school a year before i did.) she retaliated by turning everyone in the school against me. i dont know how she managed to get the whole school and not just our class, but she did. i had one friend left. there’s more, but…yeah. that’s the background i’m approaching this with.)

so let’s take a look at the friendship between cisco and caitlin, shall we?

outside of some offscreen interaction that we hear about (caitlin staying over at cisco’s house after dante died and things like that), cisco is pretty much the only one consistently putting in the work to keep their friendship alive. he believes in her, he loves her (that’s something i won’t deny, though imo it’s platonic love), he trusts her, and he wants to help her.

caitlin’s tried to kill him several times.

and it was 100% intentional, too. remember when cindy had to push cisco through a breach so that caitlin wouldn’t stab him through the heart with an icicle? yeah, me too. that’s the biggest example i can think of, but there are others (all of them in season 3 thus far, of course, since we’re hardly into season 4).

(now, i know the flash fandom likes to pretend that caitlin is a system and it’s not her fault because killer frost did it, and to that i say wow! here are some helpful links for you to learn what the fuck DID and OSDD/DDNOS are! (x, x, x, x, x,) always been how it’s been in the comics, too. it’s one person.)

cisco consistently lets caitlin back into his life no matter how many times she hurts him or even tries to kill him. because caitlin says that she’s changed (a lie). to me, someone who’s had those words said to them over and over again by people out to hurt me, that does not sound like a very good basis for a romantic relationship. or any relationship at all.

if you think i’m making cisco out to be an innocent victim, i’m not. he also outed caitlin’s powers to the rest of the team without her consent to it, which was…deeply uncomfortable to me as somebody who has had that same threat held over my head before with regards to gender/sexuality. 

also, it’s very suspect that kv shippers like to say it’s racist if you don’t ship it even though they’re erasing cisco’s canon love interest who’s a woman of color but whatever, that’s a topic for another post.

tl;dr it’s a toxic and borderline abusive friendship and a pairing where one person has tried to kill the other multiple times without any remorse.

also i’m exhausted so this post probably doesn’t make any fucking sense but oh well!

[embur]

all evens 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀

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2: What’s your dream pet? (Real or not)nice cat
3: Do you have a favorite clothing style?v lazy n comfortable
4: What was your favorite video game growing up?honestly i have no clue what games i played or what i did for fun At All until the age of 9 so imma go w that game: wow
5: What three things/people do you think of most each day:idk i only ever think abt what's immediately pertaining to me
6: If you had a warning label, what would yours say?idk
7: What is your opinion on [insert person/thing here]?no person
8: What is your Greek personality type? [Sanguine, Phlegmatic, Choleric, or Melancholic]idk
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10: Are you allergic to anything?Dust and Dogs and Cats
11: What’s your sexuality?lèsbian
12: Do you prefer tea, coffee, or cocoa?cocoa
13: Are you a cat or dog person?idk imma say cat even though i never had one
14: Would you rather be a vampire, elf, or merperson?elf, they seem the normalest n i don't wanna change into the other 2
15: Do you have a favorite Youtuber?cārlsāgān42 minus the -'s
16: How tall are you?5'8-9"
17: If you had to change your name, what would you change it to?i already changed it to colleen so idk that was all my creativity
18: How much do you weigh? [Only ask this if you know the user doesn’t mind!]like 200 + tax
19: Do you believe in ghosts/spirits?sure
20: Do you like space or the ocean more?space
21: Are you religious?idk
22: Pet peeves?my mom
23: Would you rather be nocturnal or diurnal [opposite of nocturnal]?diurnal bc that's what everything is based off of for hyumans
24: Favorite constellation?idk
25: Favorite star?idk
26: Do you like ball-jointed dolls?not if they he creepy ones
27: Any phobias or fears?bugs, trýpóphóbíá, loud people esp men
28: Do you think global warming is real?ya i don't have to Think it though
29: Do you believe in reincarnation?i hope it happens but idk
30: Favorite movie?imma say wreck it ralph
31: Do you get scared easily?ya
32: How many pets have you own in your lifetime?2 dogs but they died
33: Blog rate? [You’ll rate the blog of the one who’s asking.]99999999/10
34: What is a color that calms you?pastel colors idk
35: Where would you like to travel and/or live?everywhere for both of possible
36: Where were you born?gretna
37: What is your eye color?grayish
38: Introvert or extrovert?introvert
39: Do you believe in horoscopes and zodiacs?sure
40: Hugs or kisses?hugs
41: Who is someone you would like to see/visit right now?christina
42: Who is someone you love deeply?christina
43: Any piercings you want?some on ears, maybe something more idk
44: Do you like tattoos and piercings?piercings mainly
45: Do you smoke or have you eiver done so?no
46: Talk about your crush, if you have one!nice
47: What is a sound you really hate?my moms bfs dog whining at my door when i didn't ask to be left home alone w her
48: A sound you really love?silence
49: Can you do a backflip?into/in a pool ya
50: Can you do the splits?nope
51: Favorite actor and/or actress?idk
52: Favorite movie?wreck it ralph didn't they alrdy ask this
53: How are you feeling right now?kinda bad as usual
54: What color would you like your hair to be right now?a darker brown
55: When did you feel happiest?idk
56: Something that calms you down?asmr videos
57: Have any mental disorders? [Only ask this if you know the user doesn’t mind!]idk What but imma say yes, at the least i know i got depression
58: What does your URL mean?i like it bc it's short
59: What three words describe you the most?bad bad bad
60: Do you believe in evolution?don't have to
61: What makes you unfollow a blog?almost anything
62: What makes you follow a blog?a lot of people i follow follow it
63: Favorite kind of person:nice
64: Favorite animal(s):cat dog idk
65: Name three of your favorite blogs.idk
66: Favorite emoticon:💕
67: Favorite meme:idk specifically
68: What is your MBTI personality type?intj
69: What is your star sign?capricorn
70: Can your dog roll over on command, if you have a dog?no
71: What outfit out of all your clothes do you like to wear the most?t shirt n gym shorts
72: Post a selfie or two?nei takk
73: Do you have platform shoes?nope
74: What is one random but interesting fact about yourself?i have no life
75: Can you do a front flip?on a trampoline or into/in a pool
76: Do you like birds?sure
77: Do you like to swim?sure
78: Is swimming or ice skating more fun to you?swimming
79: Something you wish didn’t exist:evil
80: Some thing you wish did exist:more goodness
81: Piercings you have?none
82: Something you really enjoy doing:laying down
83: Favorite person to talk to:idk abt picking favorites between friends feels bad
84: What was your first impression of Tumblr?sux
85: How many followers do you have?23
86: Can you run a mile within ten minutes?ya
87: Do your socks always match?ya
88: Can you touch your toes and keep your legs straight completely?ya
89: What are your birthstones?blue topaz
90: If you were an animal, which one would you be?human
91: If a flower could aesthetically represent you, what kind would it be?idk
92: A store you hate?costco, i never been there but it feels Wrong
93: How many cups of coffee can you drink in one day?as many as i'm given idk
94: Would you rather be able to fly or read minds?fly
95: Do you like to wear camo?No.
96: Winter or summer?winter bc it doesn't get That cold here n all the bugs die
97: How long can you hold your breath for?idk i rarely test that
98: Least favorite person?my dad i guess
99: Someone you look up to:anyone who's taller than me
100: A store you love?idk
101: Favorite type of shoescrocs
102: Where do you live?nèw òrlèàns
103: Are you a vegetarian or vegan? If so, why?no
104: What is your favorite mineral or gem?alexandrite
105: Do you drink milk?ya
106: Do you like bugs?No.
107: Do you like spiders?No.
108: Something you get paranoid about?if i'm a bad person
109: Can you draw:yes, but def not well
110: Nosiest question you have ever been asked?idk
111: A question you hate being asked?idk
112: Ever been bitten by a spider?nope
113: Do you like the sound of waves at the beach?not particularly
114: Do you prefer cloudy or sunny days?cloudy
115: Someone you’d like to kiss or cuddle right now:christina
116: Favorite cloud type:i can't remember the name but the puffy ones
117: What color do you wish the sky was?the same color as now
118: Do you have freckles?i guess
119: Favorite thing about a person:how nice they are
120: Fruits or vegetables?neither bc i'm unhealthy but fruits of i had to
121: Something you want to do right now:i'm not gonna put that on here
122: Is the ocean or sky prettier?sky
123: Sweet or sour foods?sweet
124: Bright or dim lights?dim
125: Do you believe in a certain magical creature?idk
126: Something you hate about Tumblr:everything
127: Something you love about Tumblr:mine friends
128: What do you think about the least?idk i barely honk abt whatever it is
129: What would you want written on your tombstone?rest in peace
130: Who would you like to punch in the face right now?myself
131: What is something you love but also hate about yourself?being trąns and lęsbįąn, or i guess i'm Made to hate myself for those things
132: Do you smile with your teeth showing for pictures?ya
133: Computer or TV?computer
134: Do you like roller coasters?sure
135: Do you get motion sickness or seasickness?ya
136: Are your ears lobed or attached?lobed
137: Do you believe in karma?idk
138: On a scale of 1-10, how attractive would you say you are?1 or 2
139: What nicknames do you have/have had?collie
140: Did you have any pretend or imaginary friends?i dont think so
141: Have you ever seen a therapist/shrink?ya
142: Would you say you are a good or bad influence to others?i hope good but idk
143: Do you prefer giving or receiving gifts/help?both
144: What makes you angrya lot
145: How many languages do you speak fluently?one
146: Do you prefer boys, girls, and/or non-binaries?girls
147: Are you androgynous?i would rather be
148: Favorite physical thing about yourself:nothing
149: Favorite thing about your personality:nothing
150: Name three people you would like to talk to right now in person.trent stephanie christina
151: If you could go back into time and live in one era, which would you choose?this one?
152: Do you like BuzzFeed?no idk
153: How did you meet your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/partner? [If you have one.]
154: Do you like to kiss others’ foreheads or hands for platonic reasons?i think head kiss is better
155: Do you like to play with others’ hair?ya but more so them playing w my hair
156: What embarrasses you?everything
157: Something that makes you nervous/anxious:everything
158: Biggest lie you have ever told:idk
159: How many people are you following?156
160: How many posts do you have on your blog(s)?idk
161: How many drafts do you have on your blog(s)?105
162: How many likes do you have on your blog(s)?idk
163: Last time you cried and why:i don't remember when/why
164: Do you have long or short hair?long for a boy short for a girl
165: Longest your hair has ever been:however long it is now
166: Why do you like, dislike, or have neutral feelings about religon?idk
167: Do you really care how the universe and world was created?no
168: Do you like to wear makeup?idk i've never worn it yet
169: Can you stand on your hands or head for more than thirty seconds?i don't think so
170: Did you answer the questions you were asked truthfully?i hope i did