#wish terfs understood this but they cant

[indianchindian]

JKR stooped to a new low by literally denying that the holocaust had a detrimental effect on trans people and saying that she won't consider Emma Watson and Daniel Radcliffe's apologies as if they even apologized to her lol (and why should they?)

Literally Daniel, Emma and the rest of the Harry Potter cast don't owe her anything. She made the books but Tom Felton said that she was very less involved in the making of the films if I remember correctly. How is she standing up for women if she spends five years belittling transwomen and transmen?! She has a huge platform and she's putting it to good use by making a marginalized community feel even more unsafe. Please don't prove me that she isn't a transphobe because there is ample amount of evidence that she is a huge one and she's not even a feminist lol.

Literally feminism started with gender being performative by Simone de Beauvoir saying that no one is born a woman, but they become women. Yet JKR and other trans exclusionist claiming to be feminists stress on "biological sex" as a way to exclude transgender people! Why?? Thank God I don't use X anymore, or stopped following JKR after her "people who menstruate" tweet, or have never been a crazy Potterhead and only was interested in Harry Potter through the movies. But I really admired her when I was younger! Why JKR WHY??!!

In all honesty I can't stand terfs! I don't want them or even hear of them because they're so dumb and unbearable! Do they even know that transgender people KNOW about their biological sex and they don't transition out of a whim! Transitioning is a very lengthy and difficult process for fuck's sake! And there are even many transgender people who don't transition medically, maybe because they don't have the money or their bodies aren't suited for it. Still terfs love to misgender them and put on their dumb logic of "biological sex" on them. There was one proud terf who called a content creator who was a transwoman a "man" and constantly misgendered her on her YT channel! I'm not gonna name that terf or that transwoman because I don't want to promote that terf's content and her comment-section seems culty because there are hardly any people (or no people) disagreeing with her or even calling her out! Maybe because she deletes comments? It's fucking scary! And she basically boot-licks JKR and Posie Parker (urgh this woman!)

Plus there WERE fans who were transgender that connected to the Harry Potter books on such a personal level and admired JKR so much, only to find out that she's such a big transphobe and would stick to it! Can't imagine what they went through or are going through!

Anyways, thanks for reading through my rant if you did. If a transphobe is reading it, please back off.

[candypiccolo]

I wish thickheaded gendies understood some women use the T3Rf label ironically because there is SO much incoherence rabidness and surveillance in their activsm that so many women all across the political spectrum (even stanch conservatives) have been accused of being one. Even Men have been called such for making gendies insecure dspite fact being RF is a specific type of leftist activism and only for females so they cant be one. They made the label meaningless and women got tired of it

yeah terfs aren't real and i try not to even use it ironically too much cause i dont care to promote that its a meaningful label for any movement or ideology but....i dont want gendies following me so hopefully the big words TERF ONLY FANBLOG will make them go away. they get so uppity when you try to explain your actual beliefs or say "terfs arent real" and stop listening and start flaping their ignorant mouths so i just like to say TERF IM A TERF RUN RUN HURRY GRRR SNARL cause they are not using their brains anyway. im done arguing.

[22degreehalo]

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh feel rly inferior to lesbians AGAIN because they can love women properly and I can’t........ :’)

and literally everything to do with not being attracted to men adds stuff about ‘overcoming internalised homophobia and learning to love women is hard!!’ and ‘but once you realise how great it is to date a woman you’ll never want to go back! :)’ and the like and it’s just..... h aha............

and then there’s this weird subtle resurgency of biphobia on this site where bi women are okay but ONLY IF they hate that they’re attracted to men and constantly put men down and are only attracted to like two men anyway and constantly go on about how much better women are.

ughhhhh it’s just cause my silly happy subaru/hajime post from recently got a like the other day from someone with a bi icon so I got really pleased to come across another cool person in the fandom but literally four posts down theyd reblogged something super aphobic... all about how aces need to be ‘’’’’super careful’’’’ at pride (as tho we’re constantly being homophobic or something) and then when someone got angry and suggested they respect aces in turn they got super fucking mad like that was so unreasonable??? and it especially pisses me off because the ace was literally just talking about overy sexualisation which is literally what exclusionists complain about kink at pride all the time?????

but nooope I literally cant even make happy fluffy shippy posts anymore without being exposed to aphobes. 

and it just makes me so angry and bitter that there’s like NOTHING out there for people like me and yet there are thousands of people on this site getting frothing mad over ‘why are y’all including the asexual flag and not the lesbian one!!!’ when a) the lesbian flag has only existed for like 2 years and almost no-one outside tumblr knows it, b) it was repurposed from the lipstick lesbian flag so plenty of non-femme lesbians don’t like it c) this isn’t a zero sum game... you can include both.........

I just ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! I just wish I could just be a lesbian so fucking much lmfao it would be so much fucking easier just to love girls and not be into dudes and everything would make sense and I would have a place I could actually go to that would at least be mostly inclusive of me (given all the ableism on this site I can’t hope for FULLY but at least I don’t commonly come across people in my likes/reblogs making posts about how they hate all neurodivergent people or whatever lol) and I could know that there was more than like 5% at best of the population that knew what I was and understood and I had a good chance of seeing them expressing them support out there... but at the same time there is sooooo much toxicity in the lesbian community on here right now (not just exclusionists but terfs, anti-sex-workers and anti-porn people, and just straight up women who think oppression against women is the ONLY important oppression and everything else is just inconvenience) so. yeah.

but thinking all that is really mean to the lesbians who are really hurt by all that too... especially ace lesbians....... (tho id still rather be an ace lesbian than whatever i actually am :////)

lmao this is why I was dreading this month.