#wlw bd/sm

[mommyghostface28]

TW

CNC phrases: 

 “Keep squirming for me, I love when you struggle” 

 “Begging is cute but it won’t save you” 

 “You think I’ll stop fucking you if you tell me no? What makes you think I care?”

 “Little sluts like you get fucked with no remorse” 

 “It’s not my fault you look so good, you walk around like a public fucktoy” 

“Stop crying, you asked for this. You love it anyways” 

“Aww, crying now are we? How cute. Just makes me wet/hard”

“You sound delicious when you tell me to stop” 

 “Go ahead and scream, no one can hear you, now shut up and take my cock/strap” 

 “Awww, did you just say it hurts? Good, it’s supposed to” 

+This post is about sapphic sex+

[tactfullyinappropriate]

This is part rant, part sex advice so read at your own discretion. Also one of those posts I'll get a lot of flak for.

In lesbian nsfw content on tumblr dot com one of the most prevalent sentiments is 'I want to pleasure my partner' (insert any variation on it) which is fair and all, and there are a lot of service tops around so it makes sense really. But. For some of us who have difficulty experiencing orgasm or even enjoying sex at all, making our pleasure the focal point of the experience is the absolute worst thing you could do.

It's a nice sentiment, I guess, but if it doesn't actually produce pleasure, is it really that nice? And before you come at me with 'some people really are just service tops and they get their pleasure from pleasuring their partner' - I get it, I do. As a top (or dom/me) you have the right to your preferences and you may absolutely refuse to tell your partner 'Your orgasm is inconsequential, I'm gonna fuck you anyway'. Not to mention that approach is verging on kinky and getting near mindfuck territory, which not every top (as in the person doing the penetration in this case) is comfortable with. Heck, not every dom/me is comfortable with that either - pretending to disregard your partner's pleasure can be a particular flavor of kink not everyone is into.

Buuut.. a lot of what I'm seeing here comes across more as a lack of real-world experience rather than a self-aware preference to focus on your partner's pleasure. Like for example, the amount of 'overstimulation' posts I'm seeing is just wildly disproportionate compared to the amount of women who can be forced to orgasm again and again, and again. This has never been my experience on either side of the dynamic, nor the experience of any of my friends or acquaintances. More often than not, women have trouble reaching a climax and can't really be "forced" into it.

Orgasms are not just a bodily sensation triggered by a certain type of mechanical stimulation. They require you to be in the right headspace as well. So if you actually want to bring about an orgasm, dropping the pressure may be (I want to say usually is) your best bet.

Look, I get it. I've been with women who come from a 2-minute clit rub. I didn't feel particularly accomplished with them... but they do exist! How wonderful for them and the people who just love pleasuring them. The rest of us however? 'Your pleasure is my pleasure' is the worst approach with us. Like, thanks, now if I don't come not only am I bruising your ego but also diminishing your pleasure? That's A LOT of pressure put on my fickle mental focus and unreliable vagina.

All of this is to say: it's fine to have your fantasies of overstimulating a partner to the point of incoherence. But be prepared that the reality of sex may be very, very different depending on how your partner's body and mind work. And sometimes, if your partner's pleasure really is that important to you, pretending it's the complete opposite might be the key to the castle - if you can get with that of course. Nothing's done a better job at helping me let go and experience actual pleasure than a partner's response to my 'I'm not sure if I can come though...':

"That's okay, baby. I don't need you to come for me to enjoy your body."

Um. Yes, Sir.

*I use the word 'woman' here purely based on my actual real-life experience so far but I'm sure this is applicable to a number of different identities. Even for some cis men orgasms are not as easy and effortless as porn makes it seem, I've been told.

[amommymilf]

bratty sub gf x mean dom gf

[cherryluvss]

“Cmon baby, you can take it” as she spreads me open and slides it in, placing a small kiss on my forehead.

[cherriesodaa]

you want to be in my dms right now btw. you want to have your way with me.

[ohbunnyx]

Cocky little brats who swear they don’t beg are always the ones who are incoherently babbling and pleading you to stop making them cum by the end of the session…..

I said what I said and I stand by it

.

[switchythals-gr27]

Vocal dom who likes to talk their sub through their orgasms 🤝 sub who goes quiet except for gasping breaths, whining their dom’s titles, and begging so cutely

[mommyssluttt]

would you rape me? 🤭

[mymelody-sapphic]

reblog if you would let a 5’2” girl put you on a collar and a leash and dominate you

[cherryluvsss]

Hearing "you're gonna make mommy cum" is like music to my ears. Am I really doing that much of a good job? Am I making you proud?

[missvioletvillainess]

Praise Kink 🫱🏾‍🫲🏽 Degradation Kink

• "Mommy's little Angel whore, taking her toys so damn well. You need to be fucked and filled, stretched out until you can't think, isn't that right, baby?"

• "Such a pretty little bitch in heat, humping Mommy's cock like a good little pet. You're nothing but a dumb little bitch for Mommy."

• "That's it, that's my girl, such a good fucking girl, letting Mommy use her like a little fuckdoll. You need to be used so damn badly, babydoll? Fucking disgusting-"

• "Shhh, shhh you're such a pretty boy, you need to let Mommy finish hurting you, you can't cum without it, can you? Such a pretty painslut, Mommy's best boy."

• "Such a gorgeous little kitten, fucking yourself on Mommy's cock like that. You know you look like a goddamn whore, don't you, babygirl...?"

• "My precious little princess, mommy's best girl, Mommy's gorgeous girl, you look so beautiful all spread out and tied up, all sweet and slutty, like a pretty little present."

• "Bunnies love to bounce, don't they, sweetheart? You're nothing but a desperate little bunny, dumb little bunny baby. C'mere... let Mommy breed you, honey."

• "Good little puppy, sweet little puppy, just get on the goddamn ground and hump my leg like a filthy little mutt, hmm? You know that's where you fucking belong."

[mommyghostface28]

🎂 I just love the concept of birthday sex. I want to open your gifts and then I want to open you up on this kitchen table. I want to blow out these candles and then I want you to blow me. I want your sloppy head. Make It loud and messy. I want to sit on the couch while you stand between my legs, bouncing yourself stupid on my strap. Your hands on my knees, ass putting me in a trance. I want to eat your pussy while you’re pressed against a wall, your leg draped over my shoulder, desperately trying to keep yourself up. I want you to ignore all your texts and phone calls while I’m fucking you in doggy with a fist full of your hair.

Sing happy birthday to me while you cum all over my cock. 🎂

+This post about sapphic sex+

[veilfemme]

sorry I giggled when you slapped me across the face, do you still want to fuck me?

[themistressdomme]

We talk about cute tummy bulges from subs taking your strap, but what about when you shove it down their pretty throat? Throat bulge, anyone?

So pretty when your throat is just so full of me and I can see myself inside you.

[cherryluvss]

Just hear me out....

Maybe we could listen to my favourite sapphic audios together and recreate them.....

Maybe....

[cherriesodaa]

Riding strap with a baby bump 🥺👉👈

oh my goshhhhh please 🥺 i love the idea of being pregnant and having sex. like please i wanna ride your strap with my cute swollen tummy 🥺 😩 💕 💕