Also I currently have a person willing to offer me a room, for free, in Wrecsam. And like
Do i go back to Wales again? The gender services are better. I have Some friends there. But I also have some friends in Leeds and like. It's Leeds. There is. More there. And the trains are better. And my parents would be closer, and I like my parents. And the kink scene is better. And I'd rather live alone, much as this Wrecsam friend is lovely.
But it's free. And Wrecsam isn't Not nice.
If girlfriend did a masters in Hereford I'd probably take the Wrecsam room. That is the waiting option that she'd probably prefer.
I also kind of like the idea of renting in/close to Leeds and also spending time in Wrecsam. Summer Home for poor polycules lmao. No but it would be nice. And I would be lucky to do it still.
I don't know.
There's a flat in the village we could probably afford right now
🏳️🌈2024 PRIDES 🏳️⚧️ BALCHDER 2024 🏴
Again, here's a schedule of the Prides that will be happening in Wales this year!
Eto, dyma amserlen o'r digwyddiadau Balchder yng Nghymru blwyddyn 'ma!
April/Ebrill:
20 April/Ebrill - Pride in Aberystwyth/Balchder yn Aberystwyth @prideinaber (Instagram, Facebook + https://www.prideinaber.co.uk/)
May/Mai:
12- Colwyn Bay Pride Bae Colwyn @togetherforcolwynbay
18 - Swansea Pride @swanseapride (Insta, FB + Twitter)
+18 -Balchder Machynlleth Pride @balchder_mach_pride (Insta + FB)
June/Mehefin:
1 - NPT Pride, Port Talbot @nptpride (Insta, Twitter + FB)
+1 - Torfaen, Pontypool Park https://www.torfaenpride.co.uk/
10 - Cowbridge Pride @cowbridgepride (Insta + FB)
13-16 - Pontardawe Pride @pontardawepride (Insta + FB)
15 - Barry Pride @barry.pride (Insta, Twitter + FB)
+15 Pride Caerffili @pridecaerffili (Insta + FB)
+15 Llandeilo Pride @llandeilo_pride (Insta + FB)
+15 Rhyl Pride, The Bodfor (The Bodfor FB)
22 - Big Queer Picnic @bigqueerpicnic (Insta, Twitter + FB)
+22 - Pride Cymru, Cardiff @lgbtpridecymru
+22 - Flint Pride (Flint Pride FB group)
23 - Ystrad Pride Picnic (Ystrad Pride FB)
29 - Abergavenny Pride @abergavennypride (Insta + FB)
July/Gorffennaf:
6 - Hay Pride @hay.pride https://www.haypride.com/
13 - Llanelli Pride @llanellipride (Insta + FB)
20 - Monmouth Pride Trefynwy @monmouth.pride.trefynwy (Insta + FB)
+20 - North Wales Pride Balchder Gogledd Cymru @northwalespride (Insta + FB)
+20 - Pembrokeshire Pride @pembspride (Insta + FB)
27 - Wrexham Pride Wrecsam (FB + Twitter)
+27 - Brecon Pride Balchder Aberhonddu @breconpride (Instagram)
August/Awst:
3 - Glitter Pride @glittercymru (Insta, Twitter, Facebook)
10 - Caldicot Pride @caldicotpride (Instagram)
17 - Merthyr Pride @merthyrpride (Insta, Twitter + FB)
23rd-25th - Cardiff Trans Pride @transpridecardiff (Insta, Twitter + FB)
September/Medi
7 September - Pride in the Port Newport @prideintheport.newport (Insta, Twitter, FB)
28 September - Tywyn Pride (Facebook)
TBA: Carmarthen Pride @carmarthenpride (FB + Insta)
Let me know if I've missed any! Do click through to the individual Prides' pages for more details - they also may need more support!
Gad i fi gwybod os mae unrhyw un ar goll! Ac edrychwch ar dudalennau'r digwyddiadau Balchder am fwy o fanylion - efallai mae angen cefnogaeth arnynt!
enough about english North/ South divide time to talk about Welsh North/ South divide
Gender services located in Cardiff (south) cos thats the capital city and thats where the money is, everything rolling along smooth, get my appointment, have my 1hr zoom call that's all cool, she sends me my blood test forms almost immediately
Ring my shit fucking GP (north) to say "hey i have these blood test forms can i get a blood test please?" Why "base hormones levels and to test me for PCOS" we dont do that. Either ring the hospital phlebotomy department or go private -_- (there are basically no other GPs in the area [no money for the north unless its making shit nice for the tourists] so i dont have a choice)
Fine. Ring the hospital. "Phlebotomy department shuts at 5 and queue is now full, please ring a different day or book online." Okay. I look online: hospital doesn't seem to do it either, meaning nearest place i can get my bloods done is either Fflint or Wrecsam which - to be clear - are both around 2 fucking hours away, cool i guess, i dont rly have the money to travel that far though which means Josie's gonna have to drive me which also costs petrol
Also, trans services have always been a bit shit around here but the fact they won't take my bloods for PCOS? im in pain a lot of the time....
Top left: ca. 1762 Elizabeth Rushout (c.1730–1772), Mrs Myddleton by Francis Cotes (Chirk Castle - Chirk, Wrexham/Wrecsam, Wales, UK). From cutlermiles.com/elizabeth-rushout-francis-cotes-r-a-francis-cotes-r-a/ 1006X1280 @72 314kj.
Top right: 1762 Lady Cecil Rice by Sir Joshua Reynolds (Frick Collection - New York City, New York, USA). From Wikimedia 3200X4006 @72 4.5Mj.
Second row: ca. 1762 Lady Alston by Thomas Gainsborough (Louvre). From wga.hu/html_m/g/gainsbor/040alsto.html; enlarged to fit screen & filled shadows 40% 1872X2542 @144 6.7Mp.
Third row left: 1762 Mrs. Robert Froude, née Phillis Hurrell by Sir Joshua Reynolds (Minneapolis Institute of Art - Minneapolis, Minnesota, USA). From their Web site via pinterest.com/NevaKoda/18th-century-adoration/ 2130X2730 @72 1.8Mj.
Third row right: 1762 Lady from the van de Poll Family, possibly Anna Maria Dedel, Wife of Jan van de Poll by Guillaume de Spinny (Rijksmuseum - Amsterdam, Netherlands). From their Web site; erased obvious spots & cracks w Pshop 2888X3590 @72 4.1Mj.
Fourth row: 1762 Madame Sophie de France (1734–1782) with a fur muff by François-Hubert Drouais (Metropolitan Museum of Art). From Wikimedia 3151X3890 @150 4.7Mj.
Fifth row left: 1762 Herzogin Charlotte Amalie Wilhelmine von Holstein-Sonderburg-Plön by Stefan Torelli (location ?). From fripperiesandfobs.tumblr.com/image/13279211821 731X1022 @72 427kj.
Fifth row right: 1762 Olive Craster (d. 1769), half-length, in a blue dress with ribbons and a lace shawl, with a pearl necklace and flowers in her hair, holding a squirrel by Sir Nathaniel Dance-Holland (auctioned by Christie's). From their Web site 3369X4151 @150 8M.
Sixth row: 1762 Sofia Charlotta, Princess Mecklenburg-Strelitz, Queen of England by Georg David Matthieu (Nationalmuseum - Stockholm) From the-athenaeum.org 726X1024 @300 255kj.
Top 5 @Wikipedia pages from a year ago: Sunday, 23rd April 2023
Welcome, welkom, dobrodošli, hoş geldiniz 🤗
What were the top pages visited on @Wikipedia (23rd April 2023) 🏆🌟🔥?
1️⃣: Gervonta Davis
"Gervonta Davis ( jər-VON-tay; born November 7, 1994), also known as Abdul Wahid and by his nickname "Tank", is an American professional boxer. He has held multiple world championships in three weight classes, from super featherweight to light welterweight, including the World Boxing Association..."
Image licensed under CC BY-SA 4.0? by WikiWikiSkylar
2️⃣: Ryan Garcia
"Ryan Garcia (born August 8, 1998) is an American professional boxer. He held the World Boxing Council (WBC) interim lightweight title in 2021. ..."
Image licensed under CC BY-SA 4.0? by Ryan Garcia
3️⃣: Indian Premier League
"The Indian Premier League (IPL), also known as the TATA IPL for sponsorship reasons, is a men's Twenty20 (T20) cricket league held annually in India. Founded by the BCCI in 2007, the league features ten city-based franchise teams. The IPL usually takes place during the summer, between March and May..."
4️⃣: Wrexham A.F.C.
"Wrexham Association Football Club (Welsh: Clwb Pêl-droed Cymdeithas Wrecsam) is a professional association football club based in Wrexham, Wales. Formed in 1864, it is the oldest club in Wales and the third-oldest professional association football team in the world. They compete in EFL League Two,..."
5️⃣: 2023 Indian Premier League
"The 2023 Indian Premier League (also known as Tata IPL 2023 for sponsorship reasons and sometimes referred to as IPL 2023 or IPL 16) was the 16th season of the Indian Premier League, a franchise Twenty20 cricket league in India. It is organised by the Board of Control for Cricket in India. In the..."
[Biting and hissing and sighing and clawing at my hair HIRE A WELSH TRANSLATOR TO TRANSLATE YOUR WELL-MEANING ADS I STFG]
Let's do a lesson in my most frequently seen Welsh Translation Error, shall we?
What it says in the images:
"Os nad yw rhywbeth yn teimlo'n iawn, Gofyn am Angela wrth y bar."
What that literally means:
"If something doesn't feel right, [to ask] for Angela at the bar."
What they should have said:
"Os nad yw rhywbeth yn teimlo'n iawn, Gofynnwch am Angela wrth y bar."
In this case the word "gofyn" does get the point across, since it does literally mean ask in a neutral form, but here I think it is appropriate to use the Imperative form of the verb instead of the neutral form.
In Welsh we have an entire seperate sort of ¿tense? for when we are commanding, instructing or suggesting that someone do something, called the Imperative or the Command form. In formal situations like the one seen here this involves simply shoving an "-wch" on the end of the word. (Informally you might use a single "-a" suffix)
Example here from the same initiative in Wrexham:
Headline in image: "Tafarndai yn Wrecsam yn cefnogi ymgyrch 'Gofynnwch am Angela'"
Without using the Imperative it's sort of like you're throwing verbs out there with no indication as to who is meant to be doing them. "Gofyn wrth y bar"? But who exactly is asking at the bar? Is it in the past? Future? It feels clunky.
Of course if it was just an actual Welsh speaker talking informally or a learner saying this I wouldn't bat an eyelid, but I really expect better from ads, signs and Official Communications you know? I see this shit fucking everywhere and it drives me bananas.