#yoonohnct

[yoonohnct]

NCT 127 as JJK Memes

NCT Dream

WayV

Taeil:

Johnny:

Taeyong:

Yuta:

Doyoung:

Jaehyun:

Jungwoo:

Mark:

Haechan:

I made a ppt of this to teach my friend who loves JJK about the NCT members - thought I'd share here too, in case anyone else finds it amusing lol! Comment your faves from NCT and JJK! 💚

[stray6ix]

@stray-but-okay And so it began... LOL. Happy 1-year anniversary Wifey!! I can’t believe that aside from a few special circumstances, we’ve talked literally every day for the last 365 days. I talk to you more than anyone 😂 We’re legit bffs now, so you’re stuck with me. XD Thanks for putting up with my insanity, and I’m always here for you girl.

I can’t tell you how happy I am that I made that post a year ago, and that you responded. 💚💚

Also don’t forget to unsub from the Wall Street Journal lmao

[sluttyten]

I hate when guys aren't clear and you can't tell if they're into you or just joking around. Hopefully if he does like you, he owns up and just tells you xD - YoonohNCT

Yeah exactly! Like I mean some of the stuff he says he says to me on like a daily basis every time we work together but I’ve also heard what he says to like one or two of the other girls and that’s flirty too

[yoonohnct]

@oh-xiut 😍😍

127 seconds of jaehyun // neo city : seoul

[yoonohnct]

As someone who has been a K-pop fan of over 13 years, the veil of idols’ “perfect” images was lifted long ago.

May today’s news serve as another reminder (or new lesson) that at the end of the day, idols are just people - people we don’t know anything about. This is the second time someone from one of my ult groups has been involved in something like this. It’s no longer shocking, but will always be disappointing. I’ve followed NCT from the first SM Rookies announcement in 2013. This hurts.

To anyone defending Taeil, SM dropping him before this went public speaks volumes. I hope the victim(s) are safe, healing and receive the justice they deserve.

To any fans who biased Taeil and/or are experiencing this kind of realization for the first time, I’m sorry and I promise that with a bit of time, you will be able to enjoy NCT again.

(I will not be removing him from previous posts, but will no longer post/reblog content with him.)

[sluttyten]

I feel like the anon is questioning your age because you're a virgin?? I could be wrong lol. But if I'm not, I just want to say that it happens people, lol. I'm 23 and haven't been with anyone yet. And a lot of my close friends (male and female) haven't either! It'll happen when it happens, and I hate how society has normalized "losing your virginity" as something that should happen as a teenager. - YoonohNCT

that’s what I’m thinking lol and yeah, like most of my friends didn’t lose their virginity until they were in their 20s or they still haven’t

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Ego and Empathy: The Two Essential Needs of Great Salespeople and Leaders

1 Thought:

In today’s fast-paced, hyper-connected world, the lines between sales and leadership are more blurred than ever. A great salesperson is not just someone who closes deals — they lead, inspire, and influence. Likewise, a great leader is, in many ways, always selling: ideas, visions, decisions, and values. So what’s the secret sauce that binds these roles together?

It comes down to two seemingly opposing traits: ego and empathy.

At first glance, ego and empathy appear to be at odds. One is self-centered; the other is other-centered. But in truth, both are vital, complementary forces that drive effectiveness in selling and leading. When balanced correctly, they form a powerful foundation for influence, trust, and impact.

1. The Power of Ego: Why Belief in Self Matters

Let’s start with ego. Often misunderstood, ego isn’t inherently negative. When healthy and aligned, ego is the source of confidence, drive, and resilience. It’s the internal engine that says, “I can do this,” even in the face of setbacks and rejection — something every salesperson and leader faces. You remember the "Little Engine That Could" children's book....same idea.

A salesperson without ego won’t survive long. Rejection is a given. Clients will say no. Quotas will be missed. Competitors will outmaneuver you. Ego is what keeps you standing, showing up, dialing the phone, presenting your pitch with energy even after a string of disappointments. Ego whispers, “You’ve got this,” when no one else does.

For leaders, ego is equally critical. Leadership requires vision — and vision demands courage. Whether you’re steering a company through a market downturn, leading a startup through uncharted terrain, or challenging your team to rise higher, you need an unshakeable belief in your ability to influence outcomes. That belief comes from ego.

But here’s the catch: ego must be anchored in purpose, not arrogance. It’s not about being the loudest in the room or the smartest on the team. It’s about being grounded in your value, your mission, and your capacity to make a difference. Tough ask for many heavy on ego currently.

Healthy ego fuels:

Confidence in your value proposition

The courage to take risks

Resilience in the face of failure

The ability to assert without being aggressive

A magnetic presence that others trust and follow

Ego gives you presence. It allows you to hold the room, make bold asks, and lead with conviction. But ego alone is dangerous. Left unchecked, it leads to hubris, tunnel vision, and disconnection. That’s where empathy comes in.

2. The Quiet Strength of Empathy: The Ability to Tune In

If ego is about belief in self, empathy is about understanding others.

Empathy is not just a feel-good quality. It’s a strategic advantage. It’s the secret behind great rapport, deep trust, and effective influence. In sales, empathy means understanding your customer’s world — not just their pain points, but their motivations, fears, aspirations, and unspoken objections.

It’s the difference between pushing a product and offering a solution. Empathy allows you to listen beyond words, to read the room, to sense when to push and when to pause. Empathetic salespeople ask better questions, build stronger relationships, and earn trust faster. They don’t just sell — they serve.

For leaders, empathy is non-negotiable. Without it, you’re not leading — you’re commanding. In a world where employee engagement and retention are more challenging than ever, leaders who can understand their teams, communicate authentically, and care deeply stand out.

Empathy allows you to:

Build psychological safety.

Resolve conflicts without collateral damage.

Inspire loyalty and discretionary effort.

Create inclusive, high-trust cultures

Tailor your leadership to different personalities and needs

The best leaders aren’t the ones who speak the most — they’re the ones who listen best. They don’t just understand strategy; they understand humans.

3. The Balance: Ego Without Empathy is Tyranny, Empathy Without Ego is Weakness

You’ve likely met leaders and salespeople who lean too far into one side of the spectrum.

Too much ego and not enough empathy leads to a “pitbull” mentality. These are the hard-charging types who push their agenda without listening. They might win in the short term but often lose the trust and loyalty of clients and teams. Their confidence becomes arrogance. Their boldness becomes insensitivity.

On the flip side, too much empathy without enough ego results in people-pleasing. These individuals are great listeners, kind souls, and deeply caring — but they may lack the courage to assert, challenge, or drive outcomes. Their kindness becomes avoidance. Their concern becomes passivity.

True greatness — in sales and leadership — comes from balancing ego and empathy. You need the confidence to lead and the compassion to connect. You need to believe in yourself and genuinely care about others. You need to speak with authority and listen with humility.

This balance is rare, but when it shows up, it’s magnetic.

4. Developing Both: Practical Tips for Growth

So how can you cultivate both ego and empathy in your personal and professional growth? These traits are inherently natural for everyone, but they can be developed.

To Build Ego:

Keep a success journal – Document your wins, big and small (white paper your day). This reinforces your belief in yourself. Practice positive affirmations

Remind yourself of your value regularly.

Take bold actions – Put yourself in uncomfortable situations. Confidence grows through challenge.

Surround yourself with supporters; people who see your potential and reflect it back to you (surround yourself with winners if you want to win)

To Build Empathy:

Practice active listening

Listen to understand, not to respond

Ask more questions

Replace assumptions with curiosity

Read fiction – Studies show reading novels improves empathy by helping you see through others’ eyes (I struggle greatly with this one; low on fun imagination sadly).

Get feedback

Ask others how you impact them; learn to see yourself from the outside

5. The Ego-Empathy Equation in Action

Imagine this situation: A top-performing salesperson is meeting with a client who seems hesitant. The ego gives them the confidence to lead the conversation, ask for the sale, and project belief in their solution. But it’s empathy that picks up on the subtle hesitations, that pauses the pitch to ask, “What’s holding you back?”

Or think about a CEO announcing a bold organizational shift. Ego allows them to stand firm, communicate the vision, and rally support. Empathy lets them acknowledge the uncertainty, listen to fears, and bring people with them — not just drive them forward.

This is the power of ego and empathy together. Alone, they’re incomplete. Combined, they’re unstoppable.

Conclusion: Lead and Sell Like the Best!

In the end, the best salespeople and the best leaders are simply the best people. They blend confidence with compassion, assertiveness with understanding. They lead with strength and kindness. They close deals and open the doors to relationships.

So whether you’re dialing for dollars, managing a team, pitching investors, or setting a vision — don’t choose between ego and empathy. Choose both. Build a bold belief in yourself — and a deep concern for others.

Because that’s where real influence begins.

1 Quote:

"The highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another's world."

- Plato

Athenian Philosopher, former student of Socrates

1 Question:

Are you open to learning about ego and empathy - and ultimately engaging with both?

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[softkyuhyunie]

Donghae: Hey Kyuhyun, what does ‘y/n’ mean?

Kyuhyun: Your name

Donghae: [turning back to his laptop] “Donghae looked into Donghae’s eyes.”

[yoonohnct]

@oh-xiut the top middle omfg

jaehyun doing jaehyun things :/

[yoonohnct]

NCT Dream as JJK Memes

NCT 127 (w/ Mark and Haechan)

WayV

Renjun:

Jeno:

Jaemin:

Chenle:

Jisung:

I made a ppt of this to teach my friend who loves JJK about the NCT members - thought I’d share here too, in case anyone else finds it amusing lol! Comment your faves from NCT and JJK! 💚

[sluttyten]

Girl I got tix to see NCT in Vancouver and Im still shook. Im so close too 😭😭 - YoonohNCT

congratulations!!!! I hope you have a great time and get to see the guys really well

[luvelytheo]

5 mutuals, 10 pictures (Girl Group ver.)

New (kpop) game: post 10 pictures of your bias(es) that you like the most and then tag 5 people to do the same

Again, this isn’t all my female biases I have missed a few.

Irene (RED VELVET)

Dara (2NE1)

Chungha (SOLO)

Mina (TWICE)

Taeyeon (SNSD/SOLO)

Gahyeon (DREAMCATCHER)

BoA (SOLO/A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN)

Hyoyeon (SNSD/SOLO)

Seunghee (CLC)

Solar (MAMAMOO)

This had been going round ages ago so I decided to bring it back bcos it’s fun and it’s nice to see how your bias list changes.

I tag; @starryjunhees @uselessvalshit @thisisgospelofthehorizon @taeilmeyourw1sh @yoonohnct (and I know it says 5 but I tag anyone who wants to do it! I’m interested to see!)

[yoonohnct]

@oh-xiut This is so cute and you tag me in the best Jae stuff wow 💕💕

jaehyun in details

[nc-ten]

Jaehyun x black ::: for @yoonohnct

request a moodboard for your nct bias/ship and favorite color!

[keeping-it-rosey]

Tagged by @minyoongspyjs @pilot-kun @sunnpils to post my lockscreen, homescreen, and the last song I listened tooooo. Sorry it took a bit to do it haha, I'll tag @ethereal-chanracha @yoonohnct @djjiahn @frithdom @jaidynspaghetti @royalsam @umiwomitai @ma-lemons @mauloveskpop @maindancersungjin @its-simply-me19 and yeah I tagged a few cuz :D Do if you wish 💕

[yoonohnct]

WayV as JJK Memes

NCT 127 (w/ Mark and Haechan)

NCT Dream

Kun:

Ten:

WinWin:

Xiaojun:

Hendery:

YangYang:

I made a ppt of this to teach my friend who loves JJK about the NCT members - thought I’d share here too, in case anyone else finds it amusing lol! Comment your faves from NCT and JJK! 💚

[ilyunoh]

tag game!

i was tagged by @mamajohnny

How tall are you?

5'9

What colour and style is your hair in?

black and i have faux locs installed so it looks like i have dreads

What colour are your eyes?

brown

Do you wear glasses?

no

Do you wear braces?

nope

What is your fashion sense?

keywords: comfortable, unique, smart, colour synchronization

Full name

future mrs jeong

When were you born?

december of 1998

Where are you from and where do you live?

nigeria and nigeria

What schools so you go to?

university

What kind of student are you?

i study averagely but put a lot of effort into tests and exams so my grades are excellent

Do you like school?

most times no, especially when i think of the coursework but when i think of having my own place and having friends close by i enjoy it and miss it when i go home

Fave subject?

film

Fave TV shows?

got, what's wrong with secretary kim?

Fave books?

redeeming love by francine rivers

Fave pastimes?

reading webtoons, watching asmr cooking videos, listening to music and dancing to kpop

Dream job?

being paid to travel around the world

i omitted some questions (a lot of questions) and answered just the ones i thought were less invasive and easier for me to answer :)

now ill be tagging as many people as i can to play to and if you see this you're tagged as well! it's not compulsory however it's a bit of fun :)

@yoonohnct @ouryoonoh @yuto-non @taurusjaehyun @lustfuldevils @tygotmyback @wxxjae