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“LEAD AND FOLLOW”

So what does it take to be a leader? Well base from my experience, I was a mayor since i was grade 8-9, a student council president when I was grade 10, and is now assigned to be one of the mayors in our homeroom. When I was younger, I still couldn’t imagine my life serving people in the community. And in my long-term service, most of the feedback I heard is, "Having the position or not, you are really a leader.”

If we relate it to the 4 major types of thinking, being analytical, practical, relational, and experimental are also essential and important to be a leader, to lead oneself and others.

For me, leadership is when someone will walk the talk. True leaders are serving for all, not for their own benefits, thus they are selfless and they rise by lifting others. They guide, motivate, inspire, and make more leaders, not followers.

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My Kind of Love?  😍💘💖

Well if you’ll ask me what’s my kind of love and shall I also say my Ideal man is just simple, someone who would be able to love me, but will love God more than me. I want someone who’s more matured than me, a man who is kind, thoughtful, and wise. Someone who’s loyal, passionate, and committed. My kind of love is having the essential elements in a relationship, 1. maturity, 2. time & readiness, and 3. communication skills. And lastly, what’s perfect is to have a consummate love.

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Proper Breathing Helps Control Emotions  

According to Vijai P. Sharma Ph.D, When we are emotional, breathing is on the "automatic pilot."  As we are focused on the object of our emotion, we hardly every consciously register the close relationship between emotions and breathing.  When we are angry, fearful, or anxious, we over-breathe or as one would say in common parlance, we "huff and puff".

Take a preventive action! Don't let ourselves get too stirred up by the emotion.  When an emotion begins to get hold of you, take a mental note ho how you are breathing and right away go back to belly breathing. You will be in control of the situation and think clearly. It can prevent you from saying or doing things that you might regret later.  

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I decided to choose these daily doings. Some are not practical and the month is not specified. Actually this is my dreamed happiness, all in a month. After that, it’s okay for me to die haha because most of my happiness are fulfilled already. To go back, because of my acquired emotions from these experiences, it would give good effects on my EQ; using the key components of EI: thinking, planning, attention, and motivation.

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So obviously, pizza is one of my special stress relievers. Well maybe it's been my comforter already when I got so much tasks. Probably I couldn't say that there is a scientific explanation for that but actually there is something in a pizza that makes it special. The smell and taste of the pizza makes me relieve from my stresses in a while. It is beside me together with my work/tasks especially when I got problems with emotions that I couldn’t explain why it happens to me. Basically it's just in my brain behavior that wanted the pizza to take care of my stresses in life even for a while. Because I believe that people will come and go immediately, and i don't want them stressing out with my problems also, looks like i'm transferring my problems. So that's why I want pizza because it doesn’t have stresses in life & it can be with me in just a call.

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WHAT I FEEL ABOUT THEIR EXPECTATIONS TO ME? I feel pressured if people are expecting something more extraordinary from me. They assume me to be the person full of thoughts and ideas. That’s why sometimes I would be adjusting my performance level based from others expectations.

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Letter to self: Dear self, I would just like to remind you always that you are a strong girl. You can always do the impossible possible. Always trust yourself. Never let negativity put you down, and always remember to pray and talk to God always.  Letter from a friend: Dear Tanix, always remember to give your best in everything that you always do. Trust the decision you make. Never lose hope and just keep going, we’re just here to support you all through out. Remember to offer everything to God. Continue to do good in your studies. I am looking forward to see you achieve your dreams someday. I want to thank you for always being there for me. God bless yang! -Iza Marie P. Ortiz Letter from  a classmate: Hi tanix! I have seen you strong in life’s ups and downs. I know there will be more good things that will happen to you. Think positive and be happy. Continue your journey to become a successful person someday. You are smart, independent, responsible, and talented. Stay who you are and ask God for guidance. God bless! -Shairalyn Badelles

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My career goal is to be an entrepreneur someday. Or maybe a CEO, Manager, HR, business woman or anything that is related to business. My dream goal when I was a child was to be part in a company, working in my own office, then report presentations in a conference room with the board members haha lol. I dont know, I just like it. working with leadership. 

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I choose this Mandala because it fits with my taste. I find this simple yet has a deeper meaning, and not complicated. From my mandala, the color signifies my personality. All colors that I have used are just simple and light. The color of the outer part is their impression towards me. From its one simple color, people would be able to get curious about the mystery of the inner part of my mandala. The inner part is when people get to know deeper about me. It is when I am vibrant, comfortable, and confident to show the real me.

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Hola! I'm pretty, beautiful, fabulous, gorgeous, char lang. Welcome to my tumblr! 😊 My name is Ma. Tanya A. Tupac, 17, lives in Brgy. Bagong Silang Iligan City. I am currently studying at La Salle Academy Senior High School. Since I am turning 18, I know most ladies want to have some simple or grand debut. But to tell you, I would just like to travel and do my adventures. My passion is to travel, do adventures, drive a vehicle, do paintings or arts, photography, and serve people. Well I would say, I’m a person who doesn’t share a lot about myself, maybe I would just like them to discover me hehe 😊