#perdevmidtermpt

[issaaab]

Most people, they want a love that’s ideal and perfect - where there is no wrongs, no pain, no error and rejection. This is why some people are not satisfied with the love they receive. That’s not the kind of love i want. I don't aspire for a love that’s perfect, because i know that human as we are, we are not capable of carrying out things that are flawless and ideal.

I’m hopeful for a love that can accept not only what is beautiful and pleasing - like good looks and a great personality, but also the flaws and blemishes that make a person unique from everyone else; that not only cherish the bliss that is shared but can also withstand downpours. A love that can be put into trial and would still work out and become stronger and better; a love that makes all the inevitable pain and aching that comes with loving worth it.

I aspire for a love that makes me feel alive - something that can make all typical notions feel special and important; where suddenly all that was once dull and grey is now bright and full of life - maybe even magical.

I know that there is only one person who is capable of giving love that is eternal, perfect and true - our Saviour. Only God is capable of loving fully and unconditionally - without error.

But in this temporary world, we are given people that are capable of loving us and that we should love in return - our family and friends (and maybe in the future, someone more significant than others :) )

All I hope for is to love and be loved as much as we humans were made to love.

[smbmperdev]

A GOOD LEADER:

Inspires and motivates others

Displays high integrity and honesty

Solves problems and analyzes issues

Drives for results

Communicates powerfully and prolifically

Builds relationships

Displays technical or professional expertise

Displays a strategic perspective

Develops others

Innovates

A GOOD FOLLOWER:

Think for themselves

 Carry out assignments with energy and assertiveness

Are self-motivated, self-starters

Take calculated risks

Receive high ratings from both superiors and peers

Taking initiative and not waiting to be told what to do

Having a broad view of what your job entails. A good follower never says, “that’s not my job,” but pitches in and helps out where needed.

Mentoring, teaching, and helping co-workers

Having strong support for the mission of the organization or group

Encouraging a sense of fairness in the group and organization

COLLABORATION WITH: Mera Limpao II

[juliahpaler-blog]

How to manage one’s emotion beh? *Admit your struggles *Overcome emotionally stuffing&exploding *Changing your thought patterns *Check your motives and assumptions. 😭😭. Emotions is dangerous and deadly💣

Perhaps i could be like Mr.Spock, his responses to all situations seem to be purely logical 😂 k genius.

[mimingkaw-blog]

[airakng]

The Emotion Challenge

They say that the key to happiness is to always have control of your emotions. Emotions are a scary thing and we experience a lot of emotions as a person. They are the most present, pressing and sometimes painful forces in our lives. We are driven day by day by our emotions. We take opportunities and chances because we are excited of the outcome. We cry because we’ve been hurt. We risk and sacrifice because we love. You see, our emotions dictate our thoughts, intentions and actions. 

Emotions are valuable, and they may be able to offer a lot of benefits. Once we are able to control and cope with them efficiently, we can learn about ourselves and our needs. But when we act because of our emotions too quickly, we often make decision that we’ll regret later on. Managing your emotions in an unhealthy way can sabotage your job and even your health. But mostly it can sabotage your relationships with other people. In difficult situations your anger, fear or desire sometimes tend to overwhelm you. Emotions are best met with a sense of logical view. But it does not mean that we should stop falling in love or cry tears of joy after hearing great news. These truly are the finer things in life and we have every right to feel them. It is negative emotions that must be handled carefully. Negative emotions like rage, jealousy or bitterness tend to spiral out of control. So how can we avoid acting on the wrong types of feelings and manage them? 

As for me when I’m in a difficult situation where my emotions are quite hard for me to control, first I always stop and think before I act. Sometimes when we’re feeling a strong emotion we tend to act automatically like lashing out or insulting the person that hurt us. Take note of your physical feelings and thoughts that are associated with the specific emotion. So that next time when you notice the signs you’ll immediately start thinking more consciously about your feelings and what your response will be. Second is I reduce the intensity of my emotions. When we’re feeling a very strong emotion we cannot think clearly and rationally. Before you begin taking action you should at least first calm yourself down. You can do this by breathing deeply or doing things that diverts your attention calmly on what you’re doing. Lastly I think about it. I identify my feelings and the source of it then think of the best way to respond and proceed.

It can be very hard at first but it will be the best thing to do in order to keep a healthy relationship with other people. Work on managing your emotions every now and then. Happiness will eventually come to you.

[autumnrho-blog]

MY KIND OF LOVE

My kind of love is love that is thoughtful. The kind of love that cares and thinks of the well being of each other. The kind of love that yearns for me every single day without getting tired.

My kind of love is a love that is never dull. A love where you get to laugh to new things. A love where you never get tired of each other. A love that is exciting everyday.

My kind of love is a love that is full of passion. That love where you’re comfortable with each other. That love where you can tell each other anything. That love where you accept each others flaws. That love where you can make silly faces and still be madly inlove

My kind of love is a love that trusts. Where both of you are at ease when apart. Where no secrets are to be kept from both of you.

My kind of love is a love that is God fearing. To put God in the center of the relationship. To put God as the reason of being together.

My kind of love is a love that gives. The generous kind of love that lets you share what you have with the other. The generous kind of love that even time, you are to give.

My kind of love is a love that is full of happiness. Being happy to be together and have on another. Being happy to have found your lifetime partner.

My kind of love is a love that is patient. When one is at the verge of exploding, the other understands. When one is difficult to handle but you choose to stay.

Because love conquers all. A person may have many flaws, but when you love you are able to accept the person as a whole.

Yes, that kind of love.

[seyruhdesquitado-blog]

MY KIND OF LOVE

As a teenager, As I am.

As a person and as a constant observer.

I have seen and experienced different kinds of love.

Love to one’s family  or even the love to one’s friends.

But i think the most important kind of love, is the love for oneself.

They say that love conquers all,

Love is a connection of a person to another.

It is an untamed force that we cannot control.

It is a sacrificial effort that we do.

But love always starts from within ourselves.

Loving ourselves leads us to love others. 

Self love is necessary for acceptance and respect.

This self love is the foundation, and the beginning,

To start building a love for other people.

A love that relates us to the whole humanity.

So we must love ourselves first.

That’s the kind of love that we need.

That’s the kind of love that we are looking for.

A love, not just for other people,

But most importantly, A love for ourselves.

[jubydooh-blog]

“The Emotion Challenge”

What is Emotion?

 A natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others.

Emotions as organized responses to internal or external events that may have positive or negative effect.

My six steps to control my emotions and regain rationality in any challenging situation:

Don't react right away. Reacting immediately to emotional triggers can be an immense mistake

Ask for divine guidance

Find a healthy outlet

See the bigger picture

Replace your thoughts

Forgive your emotional triggers

[smbmperdev]

[juliahpaler-blog]

And eat more WATERMELON 😉

[mimingkaw-blog]

DEAR ATE/KUYA,

     Dear ate Sarah thank you for being there when I was down and also thank you for being my second mom although I had my original, I really don’t like her because of her machine-type mouth and she will not listen to my side because she is close minded person and she is also over protective tom me always and I really hate that. HAHAHAHAHAHA don’t mind my letter cause this is the first time I wrote a letter for you HAHAHA

                                                                                                 Sincerely yours,

                                                                                                 Joshua Bokot :)

RESPONSE:

Dear BOKOT/DOKOT,

        HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA amaw jud oh.. english2 pang buang bitaw oyy pasagdi nang emong mama kay kabalo ko tanang gepangbuhat ana niya para sa emo maka-ayo so, don’t mind ang yaw2 gumikan niya kay kabalo ko love kaayo ka niya sobra!!! I hope dong mag-binut-an naka kay grabee kaayo ka kabadlongon. mao ra oyy salamt sa letter nga gehatag nimo HAHAHAHA!!

[scpantillo-blog]

How The Dog Loved The Cat

Once there was a dog who was afraid of mice. That these mice would chase the poor dog instead. Days passed and the dog met a cat. They became friends that the cat would fend off those mice with her sharp claws. The dog loved the cat so much that he would carry the cat behind him everyday as they walk through the alleys of the city. One evening, the dog and the cat found themselves trapped on a mesh in a construction site. The dog made it out first. The cat was struggling as her sharp claws were caught up badly. The cat made it out afterwards. Both panted and continued their stroll. As they entered a dark alley, a group of mice was dining over a spilled trash bin. The dog was startled and ran behind the cat. The cat did her thing but the mice just stared at her blankly and continued their feast. The dog then saw that the cat’s claws were busted. The dog got more hysterical and ran away. The cat looked and waited for her friend. She waited for days and nights. The cat sighed and said, “I guess he only loved me for my claws”

Sometimes we only love someone from a chunk of who they are. We tend to focus on the things they could primarily give without thinking that these “givings” could not last. We often find ourselves indifferent towards them after we realize that they can no longer give what we need from them. In my story, the dog never loved the cat. He just needed it. My kind of love is the love that accepts everything about you.

[airalaoo-blog]

“THE EMOTION CHALLENGE”

-When I’m Happy, I  smile and laugh. I don't let anyone's insecurities, emotions, or opinions bother me. I know that if I am happy, that's all that matters to me. -When I’m Suspicious, I look at the person who I suspected. I’m more likely to notice problems WHEN they really exist.

-When I’m Curious, I really want to know what is that thing that I’m curious about. i want to know and find out what is it. Because according to the famous line "Curiosity kills” It might kill me when I don’t find out things i’m curious about.

-When I’m Bored, I just surf the net, play with the cats, I’ll look for food or the worst thing that I will  do is annoy my siblings.

-When I’m Excited, I don’t know what to do or act. I will experience mental block because the feeling that I can’t suppress.

-When I’m Sad, I can’t stop myself from crying . I just wait for spontaneous dribble my tears want to come out because of the sadness I felt.

-I’m such a moody, bipolar or what other term you call similar to those word. Most of the time I’m not Impress because of the people and persons that I meet,encounter and talk. I know that It’s bad to be a choosy and judgmental person but when I  heard a story  that it’s not good about the person my impression will be different. But it’s not only the person that I’m not impressed with  is the food,clothes and other things

[maesterarryn-blog]

I don’t even know whats the connection between this photo and what am about to discuss this photo i guess is the only photo that i have that can relate to what is emotional management is. for me its maybe pulling yourself together, knowing how to control your emotion especially when feeling strong emotions, and how to counter it, or doing something that will make you forget about things, maybe for me the way i manage my emotion is by listening to music and watching the kind of view behind me at the same time in this way i feel completely nothing i feel so relaxed 

[nicolememaybe]

MY KIND OF LOVE

Love that is...

Not selfish But selfless

Not jealous But patient

Not illusion-based But a reality

Not blinkered But full of understanding

Not callous But sensitive

Not obdurate But cordial

[issaaab]

This is my family, It’s little and broken... but it’s still good.

Just kidding my family isn’t broken. I just wanted to make a Lilo & Stitch movie reference *laughs*

On a bit more serious note, our family is composed of people of different quirks  who constantly fight and love each other through every day. 

We’ve been through all the up and downs, and we’re still here for each other.