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theeretblr · 5 days
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My cats can be the reason I get out of bed in the morning.... but they can also be the reason I don't get out of bed until the last minute. Send help
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theeretblr · 5 days
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can you share what breast forms you use please? :O
Of course!
Here is a list of some various shapewear things I use as an AMAB Genderfluid person:
Chest Stuff - Breast forms: https://a.co/d/3Ph0LBW - Cheap bra that I use most days: https://a.co/d/08kTI2v - Larger, full coverage bra that is more supportive: https://a.co/d/dtKLRXm
You can just slot the breast forms into the bra. Make sure to measure your band size so you get the right size. I would recommend starting smaller to average size (B/C cup) as larger breasts can be harder to make more casual outfits with (they're also just heavier).
Hip Stuff - The short hip pads I use (though they are currently unavailable): https://a.co/d/8apRadX - Longer hip pads that I use sometimes, they are sometimes too long for certain skirts, dresses, and shorts (also unavailable D:): https://a.co/d/iXXzvPJ - Butt pads: https://a.co/d/0zdzmZv
I can't attest for other hip pads, but I'm sure you can find similar to what I have!
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theeretblr · 6 days
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Eretstrogen has to be my fav!
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Taking Eretstrogen has been proven to give Eretonin
I am holding so much gender in my hand right now
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I'm not starting them just yet, there are some tests and fertility preservation things I've got to do first, but I now have Estrogen! I've been debating getting this for like 4-5 years, I may decide it's not for me after I start. I am still genderqueer/genderfluid and I still use any pronouns. I'm not taking T blockers yet either. We'll see how it goes! :)
If you are wanting to start HRT, I highly recommend Folx. I signed up with them, booked an appointment with a Doctor, and had a prescription for Estrogen within a week! Check them out: https://www.folxhealth.com/
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theeretblr · 6 days
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I am holding so much gender in my hand right now
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I'm not starting them just yet, there are some tests and fertility preservation things I've got to do first, but I now have Estrogen! I've been debating getting this for like 4-5 years, I may decide it's not for me after I start. I am still genderqueer/genderfluid and I still use any pronouns. I'm not taking T blockers yet either. We'll see how it goes! :)
If you are wanting to start HRT, I highly recommend Folx. I signed up with them, booked an appointment with a Doctor, and had a prescription for Estrogen within a week! Check them out: https://www.folxhealth.com/
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theeretblr · 6 days
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Are you open to makeup tips and stuff?
Because as someone who basically figured out how to do makeup fully through experimentation and stuff I learned some handy dandy things
PLEASE! I need whatever make up/outfit tips I can get!
There's a lot to learn, especially when I never grew up with femininity, so I'm learning it all now.
To anyone: Are there any good make up looks/tutorials/advice you would recommend? :o
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theeretblr · 7 days
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I finally updated my Tumblr pfp!
Just so people don't get confused, I changed my pfp on here from this to this!
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I already use this art by @mightbemod on my alt Twitter, but I think it's very gender and looks a lot more like IRL me today. The old one was from 2020 I think... I don't recognise that person as me lmao
Here's the full art. It's from 2022(?), but it is gender goals to this day:
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Thanks again to @mightbemod <3
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theeretblr · 11 days
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I feel bad whenever I make a post that's mostly text because whenever I see a text post, I almost always go "I'm not reading all that"
The reading comprehension and overall common sense on this website is piss poor.
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theeretblr · 11 days
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hi, i saw your recent ask and i was wondering. how do you build an androgynous/femme outfit? especially for AMAB people who tend to have a more rectangular body shape.
thanks in advance!!
I think being able to separate clothing from gender is an important part of being able to present how you want to present.
Of course, there is a lot of cultural pressure around certain pieces of clothing being associated with certain gender presentations. However, I find that clothing is not the main thing that helps me with androgyneity. For me, that would be shapewear in the form of hip pads, butt pads (these are basically boxer shorts with inserts for specifically shaped pads), and breast forms.
Here is how I present most days I go out compared with a more masc look:
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The main differences between these are the makeup and the shapewear for the femme look. Otherwise, the cargo pants are the same, and the vneck t-shirts are the same brand.
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theeretblr · 11 days
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Hi Eret! I was at Tommy's show tonight and I just wanted to say that I'm so, so deeply sorry if us in the vip section pointing you guys out caused you or any of the other ccs there any trouble. It was absolutely amazing being able to see you though, even from the first floor. I hope you still enjoyed the show!
No worries! Let me explain how it was from our perspective
I was invited to TommyInnit's LA show last night with some other creator friends (e.g. Slimecicle, Ted Nivison, RubberRoss, and more). Security tried to make sure that we wouldn't get swarmed, so they brought us in at the back of the theatre and took us away for the intermission.
We were brought back a bit early for the start of the second act. All the lights were still on, and when one person saw us and shouted our names, everyone else started turning around!
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It was so sweet to see how excited everyone was! But I did definitely appreciate that the security was on top of it to prevent it from getting too rowdy! I hope you enjoyed the show!
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theeretblr · 12 days
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This is probably a frequently asked question, but here we go! I’m a guy who wants to try dressing more androgynously (and who also probably isn’t gender cis lol), what’s your advice on breaking that gender barrier for the first time?
This is one of the best questions I have ever received!
I'm so passionate about this! There are so many different ways someone could experiment with AMAB gender for the first time.
Simple ways to "break the gender barrier" could be: - Asking a friend(s) to use a different name or pronouns - Growing your hair out or getting it styled more "femme" - Experimenting with make up > Most days I just clean shave and use concealer and powder to cover up any blemishes or facial hair darkness. I'm only recently learning more about makeup stuff myself, but it works! - Trying on more "feminine" clothes (e.g. bras, v-neck shirts, skirts) - Wearing shape wear (e.g. hip pads, breast forms) > I wear breast forms slotted into a regular bra most days. I can share what I use most of the time if anyone is interested. > Breast forms have the benefit of being removable and come in different sizes. > I've seen breast forms as cheap as $22, but the ones I like most are usually around $60-$70. > From an outside perspective, breast forms are almost always perceived as real in my experience > If you are wanting to try out breast forms, I would recommend starting relatively small (around A-C cup size) and then go bigger if you want. I have found it is much easier to style around having smaller breast forms, especially more casually. > Larger breast forms will need a more supportive bra, especially as they aren't glued to your chest (though those do exist) > When presenting Fem, I am generally wearing some hip and butt pads, these help balance out my silhouette with my breast forms to be more feminine overall. (Again, I can link if interested)
I hope this helps! Those are just some ideas and advice from someone who has been working a lot of this out themselves. I'm sure many people have had different experiences, but these are things that I know have worked for myself and friends. Please let me know if you guys can think of any more! Thank you!
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theeretblr · 13 days
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we win theeeeeese!
I forgot things could "trend" on Tumblr
Is the trending page important on here? Either way, being up there is pretty cool! Thank you for the love!
I want to get into using Tumblr again. Is there anything I should know about that most Tumblr users just take for granted? :o
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theeretblr · 13 days
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YOU
YOU WERE THAT ONE STREAMER
I SAW ONE CHILL STREAM. ONE
AND THAT WAS WHEN I REALIZED SOMETHING WAS UP ABOUT MY GENDER
THANK YOU KING HOLY F••K
Sometimes I feel like a version of Medusa, but instead of turning people to stone, I queer their gender.
Congratulations on being able to find yourself! I'm glad I was able help with that <3
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theeretblr · 18 days
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The original post is from 2014! I would gladly give my facial hair to anyone who wanted it!
sometimes i wish i had facial hair
like sexy stubble or something that would be so cool
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theeretblr · 18 days
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I feel like I am getting better at achieving ✨️ Gender ✨️
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theeretblr · 18 days
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I need more cat content from their royal majesty :0
That can be arranged! Here are some pics of Goose and Mouse :)
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theeretblr · 1 month
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how does it feel to be the reason im no longer cishet
Every day, I grow stronger by harnessing the power of GAY. This is the future conservatives fear! A Gay-pocalypse!
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theeretblr · 1 month
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Are you secretly a flamingo
You thought it was a secret?
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