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I went on the ULTIMATE guided tour of Tokyo's LBGTQ+ area, 'Ni-Chome' and had the BEST night ever! If you're going to Japan, check this out, so you can have the perfect queer night out (and hopefully a cute kiss!).

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I always thought intimacy had to be grand — a kiss, a look, a bedroom.

But the most emotional part of this experience?

Her hands on my feet.

It felt so careful. So present.

She wasn’t just “doing” the massage — she was feeling it too. And somehow, that made me feel… wanted.

Full video here →

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when I put on the blindfold

She offered me a blindfold. I joked about makeup.

But then I tried it on.

And something clicked.

Without sight, I stopped trying to look relaxed — and started feeling relaxed.

I wasn’t performing anymore. I was just… there. With her.

Watch the shift →

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How to get over your fear of touch?

Before this shoot, I was nervous. Like, really nervous. Touch is my love language, but I’ve always felt awkward initiating it. Even with friends, even with lovers. I wanted to explore that part of myself. So I hired a professional cuddler. She started slow — just holding my hand. I remember squeezing back. It was the tiniest gesture, but it felt like a whole breakthrough. That moment cracked something open... Full video →

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Vera S is a tiny bit nervous. It was her first time ever having sex with other girls, and there are three gorgeous ladies in front of her! An overwhelming but incredibly exciting position to be in!

Luckily, Ava, Daniela and Linzi are super friendy and happy to show Vera how it’s done, plus they even give her some tips from their first time with women. They make her feel so comfortable that Vera barely has any time to be shy.

Turns out Vera’s a natural, but who wouldn't be with such a lovely group of women! 

Watch their video here: https://ersties-spot.com/videos/vera-s-first-time-lesbian

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I'm a bisexual girl with hardly any experience dating women, so I rented a girlfriend in Japan, and it was truly such a beautiful, affirming experience! She was warm, affectionate, super funny, and we instantly hit it off. Honestly, I was so shocked by how it made me feel!

Would you rent a girlfriend for that kind of experience?

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I'm on the search for sapphic/lesbian/queer love around the world! From Berlin to Japan, I want to show what it's really like dating as a queer woman, how to connect, how to be intimate and where to go to meet people like you!

Don't miss the full videos on Youtube and let's create a supportive sapphic community here, so we can all find more love together!