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i didnt know you were allowed to do things for the sake of wanting to do things. i thought you were just supposed to keep that locked inside your ribcage and let it rot you inside out until youre limping around as the desiccated corpse of who you could have been

[thenotme]

Read the whole thing ffs

Everything is like “QUEER history” and “List of QUEER young adult books” or “Top 10 QUEER movies” and queer this and queer that and for the love of god please just say LGBT.

[thenotme]

invented a game called “I throw dice at the cat”

[thenotme]

I had THE most impeccable dream last night.

[thenotme]

I think I speak for a lot of people when I say this:

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[thenotme]

big fan of stories that, while undoubtedly being about the power of friendship, acknowledge that the power of incredible violence is just as important

the love was there. the love changed everything. the crowbar helped also

[thenotme]

Do you ever lie down in a bath and think: "wow, this is what it must be like to be a sardine. A little wet, a little tight, and surrounded by friends."

[thenotme]

btw if you’re fat and your partner doesn’t love you wholeheartedly, if they’re attracted to you “despite” your body, if they avoid touching you, if they look away from certain parts of you, you’re allowed to break up with that person. look at me. you can do better. you are not unloveable and you don’t have to settle i fucking promise.

[thenotme]

normalize flopping. it’s ok to fail baby. sexy even

[thenotme]

does anyone wanna hold hands until we feel a little braver

[thenotme]

I feel like in the rush of “throw out etiquette who cares what fork you use or who gets introduced first” we actually lost a lot of social scripts that the younger generations are floundering without.

[thenotme]

this is fred, the dot.

fred wants to grow into a beautiful tree, but sadly has no branches

reblog to give fred a branch

i will post fred status updates as he grows

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[thenotme]

You guys just have to trust me on this one and click here okay?

[thenotme]

Gonna chill out the rest of May and then change my entire life in June. Possibly July if that doesn't work out. Certainly no later than September or October.

[thenotme]

I'm rewatching Legally Blonde, a movie that shortly turns 24 years old and that I haven't seen in many many years and it's still great... but why is discount Matt Mercer in it???

What the hell...

[thenotme]

Sometimes you know it's gonna happen and you let that piece stay there forever on purpose

kind of weird how parts of your soul are left in various locations without any warning… like yes i’m always at the top of that hill, sitting at the bus stop, in the cool light of the Japanese restaurant, standing at the pier etc etc