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Imagine person A and person B as Peach and Luigi from the Starbomb song Luigi’s Ballad.

OT3 Bonus: Person C as Mario.

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im jealous of people who joined tumblr in more recent years. they get to blog blissfully unaware of all the horrors of olden tumblr. fandom vs hipster wars. “can you make that ask rebloggable”. forever alone memes. the solid year or so where benedict cumberbatch and tom hiddleston were considered the hottest guys ever. mishapacolypse. nightblogging. the absolute horror that was the homestuck fandom. it was a dark era. i think those who were not there to witness it personally should familiarize themselves with the commodities of these dark days, to ensure that they are never repeated. “history, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again” - maya angelou

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So Twilight Princess is getting an HD remake right and all I can think is that…

…this thing is going to in HD

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Okay.

Princess Zelda, Impa, Nabooru, Ruto, Ashei, Aryll, Beth, Illia, Midna, Telma, Link’s grandmother, Medli, Uli, Saria, Cia, and Lana. Those are just the ones off the top of my head.

Strong female characters are not just ones who can fight. Trying to suggest there’s a lack of them is completely ridiculous.

Get Linkle away from me holy shit

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The LoZ games have absolutely no shortage of strong female characters. Try again.

Get Linkle away from me holy shit

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Get Linkle away from me holy shit

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higher education

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dark on me

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Why Mental Illness Doesn’t Excuse Abusive Behavior

Back during a time when my mental illness was at its worst, I was extremely emotionally, verbally, and physically abusive to my now husband, then boyfriend. Behaviors I would exhibit (and am not proud of):

Slapping him

Name calling

Throwing furniture

Guilt tripping  him

Shaming him

Becoming extremely possessive over him, checking his messages, emails, and becoming irrationally upset when he would communicate with any female

Become extremely resentful when he would spend more time with his family than me

Text or call him at inappropriate times and would become suspicious angry when he wouldn’t respond ASAP

Blame him for all of my shortcomings (if he wasn’t so _____, I wouldn’t behave this way!)

That’s just a SHORT list of the things I put him through, not even taking into consideration the eating disorder part of my mental health.

And to make it perfectly clear, there was nothing my husband ever did to warrant or justify any of my behavior. That man has never hit me, yelled at me, manipulated me, shamed me, called me names, become jealous, kept me from spending time with other people, etc. He’s treated me like a queen for the last 11 years, and it wasn’t until I did some deep recovery work that I realized 100% of my behaviors had all to do with me and nothing to do with him. I’m surprised he stuck with me, and although I am eternally grateful that he did, it took a long time for me to not only make amends to him, but to change my behaviors in order to finally come to a place of sanity within my relationship.

Here’s the thing:

Even though a large part of my behavior had to do with mental illness, my husband deserved 0% of it. Regardless if you are sick or not, your behaviors affect other people. If your illness “makes” you abusive, you are still abusive. If my husband decided to press charges for me slapping him in the face, telling authorities, “BUT I HAVE A MENTAL ILLNESS!” would not absolve me of the fact that I physically assaulted another human being.

People are hurt all the time due to the shitty things people do because of their illnesses, and they can’t just tell themselves, “Well, they are sick, so I have to deal with it.” or “I can’t let it affect me because I have to understand they are sick.” Like, no. People do not have to do that. They are not obligated to support and/or stay with you if they cannot deal or cope with how you act within your illness.

People are not obligated to be punching bags just because you are sick, especially if you do nothing to change or manage your behaviors.

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when a ship so violently repulses you that you catch yourself making a face whenever you read the two names in close proximity to one another

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DISNEYISMYESCAPE’S DISNEY PRINCESS CHALLENGE

Day 9: Favourite solo song - Colors of the Wind

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Being a procrastinator with a violent fear of failure is almost hilarious because like 80% of the time I’m like “I’m not even going to think about this” and then there’s like a distinct moment when everything switches and it turns to “I can’t fail oh my god I need to turn this into an A in like a day why am I like this”

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People are demanding #FreedomForKesha: Here’s what accusing a powerful producer of rape has cost her

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DISCLAIMER: all i do is talk about my favorite characters. somehow. in some way. that's it. that's all i do. all the time