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So giving each other more space looks like:

Living in different houses for a while

Me going to lesbian parties here in Barcelona

Morning calls where at the end my wife gets off to get off with our Satisfyer

Chatting about cute girls

Loving her so much more when I have space to love myself

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“If you promise to stay alive just a little bit longer I promise that we are going to make this world a place worth living in by any means necessary. I ain’t giving up. I swear.” 

Spotted in Clackamas, Oregon

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I never even thought of this. I hate that I didn’t think of this.

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I am agog

and before the clowns show up:

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Watch: John Cena continues, “So, let’s try this one more time. Close your eyes.” 

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The Nashville Tennessean, Nashville, Tennessee, April 7, 1920

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Same

From the first episode I thought Eloise and Penelope were going to be a thing, then I was sure Eloise and Benedict were gay (no other conclusion could be drawn after the conversation on the swings) and finally the minute Henry and Benedict interacted I said they were going to be lovers

But then none of that happened and now I feel like my gaydar needs more practice

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2020 Gay Year in Review

It's so nice that we're beginning to see variety and diversity in the lesbian/wlw entertainment offerings of the year.

On the diversity front, The Prom is about an interracial lesbian couple and The Half of it focused on a POC lesbian with a Latina love interest. Summerland had a POC lesbian with a white love interest. Same with Get Even and Never have I ever. The owl house had a latina bisexual lead. In Deaf U we got to see a deaf bi woman date a deaf lesbian and in New Mutants a native American lead with a white girlfriend.

Variety was also more obvious than ever. We got the usual oscar bait period dramas with Ammonite, Summerland and The World to come (3 of them!) but we also got a musical (The Prom), a Christmas movie (Happiest season), a superhero movie (New Mutants) and a teen dramedy (The half of It). Over on the TV side we had some variety left over from other years: crime dramedy killing Eve, animated Shera and the princesses of power and new episodes of Adventure Time on hbomax, superheroes on The boys and legends of tomorrow, a bi badass detective in Brooklyn 99 and teen puppy love in Atypical. 2020 added to that with the Harley Quinn animated series giving Harley and Ivy the awesome, hilarious romance storyline they deserve, The haunting of Bly Manor giving us a ghost story with lesbians (the Halloween story we deserve), The Wilds over on Amazon Prime giving us the fantasy, survivalist adventure we didn't know we needed and The Owl House giving us the animated bi witch show we always wanted. We had fantasy shows like Warrior Nun and Wynonna Earp, mystery solving teen shows like Nancy Drew and Get even and more realistic offerings like Hightown and Never Have I Ever. Plus whatever Motherland fort salem and Ratched are 🤣

We definitely experienced some loss along the way (goodbye One day at a time, Teenage Bounty Hunters and I am not okay with this) but overall 2020 was a very good year. The things we were given were far from perfect but, in a rare turn of events, they were about us, they were ours. And I really can't emphasize enough how important it is to go out of your way to watch these movies and shows and to watch them in a way that matters to those who make them. The future depends on it. There's still a lot more ground to cover and more options are desperately needed. Let's do our best to make sure 2021 will provide!

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vTasty- Visually Tasty Food Blog Earl Grey Bergamot Lemon Tart via Tumblr

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Baked cheesy potato croquettes

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Stoicosm;

One thing That’s for sure in life is that shit’s flying. Somehow, all the time, shit is just flying around, and we’re standing in the middle of this storm, quite often in the line of shit fire. Stoicism is a shield used to deflect shit. Or rather, to lessen the shit’s impact on on us, as we still feel it when shit comes our way. And it can get awful tiring when a whole lot of shit keeps coming your way. And maybe, if we can figure out how, we might try to go to a place where the shit doesn’t come as fast and furious, so we can relax between shit deflections.* Or maybe, we are standing too close to someone who keeps deflecting all the shit that comes at them towards you. They don’t mean to, and they have to be told, or moved away from.

Keep on deflecting shit, but don’t stop looking for ways to keep it from coming at you to begin with.

*as a punster might say, defecation deflections

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If you’re interested

End of the year Asks

Song of the year?

Album of the year?

Favorite musical artist / group you started listening to this year?

Movie of the year?

TV show of the year?

Episode of tv or webisode that defined the year for you?

Favorite actor of the year?

Game of the year?

Best month for you this year?

Something that made you cry this year?

Something you want to do again next year?

Talk about a new friend you made this year

How was your birthday this year?

Favorite book you read this year?

What’s a bad habit you picked up this year?

Post a picture from the beginning of the year

Post a picture from the end of the year

A memorable meal this year?

What’re you excited about for next year?

What’s something you learned this year?

What’s something new about your place of residence (room, home, or general location) now vs the start of the year?

Favorite place you visited this year?

If you could send a message to yourself back on the first day of the year, what would it be?

Did you keep any New Year’s Resolutions?

Did you create any characters (in games, art, or writing) this year? Describe one

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Happy st stevens day, usually celebrated with a family meal here in spain!

The quarantine, and moving 4 hours from Barcelona just afterwards, has made me value spending time with my wife’s family in a way I didn’t before.

In a world full of strangers, it is amazing to have people who were once strangers accept you into their circle, love you, take care of you. Even if it is in ways you don’t fully understand. The point is that having a family to spend time with, even if they’re not my personal family, has become something I missed and needed.

Posting a lot of personal stuff lately, as tumblr is now my only social media that I can be fully 100% as open as I want to be about what’s really going on in my life, so I’m preferring it these days.

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💖My Etsy store has been updated with lots of Sapphics, Sea-Creatures and Shiny Pins.💖

Are you looking for some Sapphic inspired gifts to treat yourself or someone else OR maybe just a fan of gay mermaids? 😍

Search me on Etsy @Mayticks    

Or help a lesbian out by showing your friends ! 

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I love processing with pen and paper. This morning’s reckoning.