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Leaking pen to a Bleeding heart

Life is a reflection of our attitude. The day would be unforgettable when one is left with no choice other than to attempt an examination with a leaking pen, patches of ink all over the paper and difficulties in writing in the examination. There are few factors that are overlooked by many which enforce a bad performance in life.

When one is expected to understand about their strength and weakness oneself, depending on someone else’s opinion can only spoil the success or degrade the performance.

The best way to give great performances would be to when one is keeping at the best of health. Neglecting physical and mental health results in deteriorated performances

Going ahead with challenges should be taken sportively, to open the doors of opportunities

Being protective about oneself towards toxicity in relationship or following the liberal paths towards abstinence from distractions or degrading elements would by itself be hindering the journey to success.

Reluctance to take positive efforts for self-development would be the factor for one's failure.

Building blocks such as above in life would widen the distance from the achievement to dreams, leading to depression, loss and failure in life.

Voice yourself, as to which of these factors would be the most influential in achieving success for an individual?

And

STAY WATCHFUL ALWAYS

WHICH OF YOUR MOVES GOT YOU OUT OF THE BOWL FULL OF CHOICES OPPORTUNITIES AND PROMISES?????

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EMBRACING SELF

The great message by John Maxwell says “Leaders become great, not because of their power but because of their ability to empower others” reflects on why we need to focus our attention to self development. When an individual is the best judge of their capacity and limitations, self awareness would help in making informed decision that align with true desires. We have better clarity of the goals, ambitions and the targets we are focussed on achieving.

Self awareness also comes with balancing other factors like, emotional management. Keeping a check on emotional triggers can enable an individual to embrace the journey of progress and development.

Keeping a check on individual limits also would enable to judiciously use one’s strength and chanellise based on weaknesses to focus on one’s goal.

Let us ask ourselves few questions:

Would I depend on someone to define my goals

Will I work to upskill myself based on my goals

How far will I reach with the transformations or adaption that I make in myself or my output

Getting an answer to these querries would take you closer to your GOAL.

Share one instance where being dependent lead you to struggles…

Get awakened NOW

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Acknowledge the inspirers

Guidance is to be selectively taken and knowledge selectively absorbed by us in our journey of life. Keeping senses open. The one who sets the right examples and guide us through our success overcoming failure. One’s intuition and perception and goals would guide us through identifying our mentors of life.

Let us not ignore the people who enhanced our efficiency, gave us better perspective , encouraged us through our journey, holding us accountable for our actions and constantly motivated us.

Drop down a word for them, with your story of INSPIRATION...

Let us be grateful to them – OUR MENTORS OF LIFE before we take our next step to our future from NOW

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MINDFUL LIVING

Some lessons in life are learnt at the wrong time. Life moves through a journey of success and failure, happiness and sorrows. What is the real purpose of life? Do we just roll on each day to thrive without being aware of our being?

 Changing lifestyles have echoed to us the need to balance between work, health and relationship? Did we give a deaf ear to those sounds? Looking at self, makes one realise the echoes are also from within when our senses reflect on the need of our wellbeing. Physical health indicators, the blood pressure, or imbalances in metabolic processes leading to conditions including diabetes mellitus or a system failure were the ways the body communicated to us to lead a mindful living.

It's time that proves how ignorant you were about those echoes and indicators, which could have led to a low stressed, emotional wellbeing of a strongly defended system.

This is a message communicated early enough, however the language seems incomprehensible, remains a lesson learned very late.

How far we human can go to ignore the skill of Mindful Living?

Embrace mindful living before it’s too late—start now.

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The Mountain I Wished To Climb

I wished to climb up the mountain

for I wanted to be there at its peak.

Those clouds were so low, the birds were so small,

As time went by I felt like a pique

And then I grew,

I decided I would climb the hill.

clear from the top to the base, draped in green

laced with those glittering rivers and streams.

I could still be atop

with life thriving above and below and around me.

I looked down, on the ground there were ones like me,

Chatting and clapping asif they were all crowned

I cried, I shouted, I waived

for my voices were carried by the wind around.

Then I wished I would be on the ground,

stepped down as myself to be greeted all around

Be True to Oneself NOW

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WHAT BELONGS TO US

Desires take us miles and there we are always travelling. An international degree, an international tour, maybe something better. Let the imagination fly higher and higher with the realization that the limits go by what one has and what one gets. Extend the limits keeping track of what one has. It's time that shapes our destiny.  

Being time conscious improves efficiency at work, by balancing work, rest and personal growth.

Why take all the last-minute rushes and anxiety if one can keep track of the time.

Working efficiency increases as one gets definite time which can be focused on achieving a particular goal and prioritizing them.

Schedules would create an accountability towards our progress and a particular goal enhancing adaptability and ending procrastination. Scheduling time is a skill that helps one in socialization and better communication.

Society respects those who respect time.

Is it time you realised you have more to gain. Keep track of your actions with time.

You will gain in time, relations, respect work and success.

How did time help connect you with someone-share your story with this message -

Let your story inspire someone THISTIME.

Take your action NOW - BEFORE ITS TOO LATE

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Chasing Dreams – Mannerisms That Promote and Hinder Success

Did we ever ponder obtaining the soft skills which may take us higher in the ladder of success?

Are we lacking on the understanding of developing soft skills for success in our lives? WAKE UP-we need to groom ourselves into better beings to embrace the value of success.

As we try to improve on our achievements, skills and hard work always get complemented by our mannerisms. The subtle behaviour and attitude as we interact with others effectively promotes a smoother conversation.

Our bearing of responsibilities, challenges and ability to engage others silently shapes the opportunities that come our way.

I am taken through the moment of gratitude to my copassenger who stood by me at the time of need. I found myself in an unfamiliar city, and was struggling to find my way to my destination. As I stood by the taxi stand, scanning my surroundings, a kind lady approached me sensing my confusion. Upon realising that I was totally unfamiliar with the directions, she took upon herself to guide me through reaching my destination, also explaining how I could get to nearby facilities in case I needed any.

As I continued my enquiry with utmost humility, she went to the extent of taking the extra time for guiding me though before she proceeded to her destination.

She guided the taxi driver, who then drove me clearly to my destination. Once I reached my destination, I was getting ready to check-in but then I received a call from an unknown number but a familiar voice which had sounded so comforting for me in that situation.

We often forget our strength to keep someone at ease in their time of need.

Let us be a blessing to someone through our words and ways.

Chase your dreams NOW...

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Learning Music as a Relaxation Technique

Why are people passionate about learning or excelling in various art forms or taking music lessons?

It gives pleasure, reducing stress, increasing self-worth, and maybe much more than these.

One elevates the normal emotional status to obtain better emotional well-being. Is it just about engaging time and effort? Much beyond the apparent benefits, it synchronizes mind, body and emotions creating positive distractions from stress.

An ideal poised appealing state of one’s being, it helps to grab the support and encouragement overlayed with encouragement and appreciations, expediting the process of socialization.

Its noteworthy to understand how the body is boosted in performance with playing music.

Keeping oneself focused on your notes would help the brain to be occupied, focused and enhance the coordination, and even breathing in case of playing wind instruments.

Musical notes create harmonious sounds, with expressions in a periodic manner, giving a complete occupancy for mind to keep it distracted from non-harmonious thoughts or messages.

The player of instruments or singer would have already mastered the new language of communication, which is appealing to the mass. It not only helps the individual to present themselves at the best of their emotions but also synchronizes the thoughts of audience with the presenter.

The coordination of the body, including vocal, hand, eyes, motor skills , auditory processing provide the right movement for the brain and the body of the musician and is the best form of non-verbal communication that can connects people indifferently across the globe.

Master the art of rendering music vocally or through instruments – for oneself and the benefit of all – should be the best way one can connect and socialize in the society.

Master this art to connect better to oneself and society naturally.

Follow your passion, NOW IS THE TIME