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Stop trying to be a girl’s girl in a world full of narcissistic women.

In a world that conditions us to believe women are naturally safe, kind, and nurturing — many of a naive woman’s deepest heartbreaks… come from other women.

We assume that because we’re the same gender, we must be the same.

But a woman who is deeply in her ego, disconnected from her heart, and obsessed with image…

will never be able to hold space for you.

While you’re trying to connect — she’s competing.

You thrive off lifting others — she thrives off dragging others down.

You are authentic — she is curated.

A lot of women fail to recognize the red flags early, which leads to deep self-esteem wounds and energetic damage.

High value women don’t form bonds based on gender — they form connections based on alignment

🔍 How to Identify Narcissistic or Toxic Feminine Energy:

1. Self-Absorbed

She constantly talks about herself, exaggerates her achievements, and rarely shows genuine interest in others. Her world revolves around her.

2. Disconnected from the Heart

She lacks softness. She doesn’t have nurturing energy and often embodies unbalanced masculinity — aggressive, guarded, and emotionally unavailable.

3. Hyper-Competitive

She views life as a race. Even friendships are a competition. She will one-up, humiliate, or undercut others just to feel superior.

4. Lack of Empathy

She’s unable to feel or understand your emotions. She doesn’t put herself in others’ shoes. Everything is filtered through her own ego lens.

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You are a luxurious woman, claim it.

We’re taught as women that the love for luxury is selfish.

That to desire wealth makes you shallow, irresponsible, bratty, or dumb.

Why pay for first class — don’t we all land at the same time?

Why spend so much on a car — they all move anyway?

Marry a rich man? He’ll control you.

Hire a nanny, chef, or driver? That’s lazy.

These are fear-based lies meant to keep you small, obedient, and easily controlled.

They hate your audacity to desire ease.

Because to them, life is supposed to be hard.

But luxury is not evil.

The frequency of luxury is peace, overflow, elegance, and abundance.

Unlike popular belief —

The more you have, the more you have to give.

You don’t need to suffer to deserve beautiful things.

You are worthy of a soft life.

You are allowed to have more.

You are a luxurious woman — and your life gets to reflect that.

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Break The Generational Cycle Of Abuse With Toxic Men.

A young girl who grew up witnessing her father disrespect her mother, putting her down at every opportunity and verbally and physically assaulting her, often grows up to attract men of a similar nature.

Society often blames these women, asking why they don’t just leave or why they tolerate abuse. However, unless you've experienced this situation yourself, it's difficult to truly understand.

Expecting a woman to gravitate toward healthy masculinity when all she has known are unsafe men is nearly impossible. That is her only reference point, and anything else feels unsafe and unfamiliar.

It’s ironic how someone may feel safer with unsafe men, but that reflects our wounds.

We often see these women move from relationship to relationship, which causes their self-esteem and sense of worth to diminish with each experience.

If you resonate with this, I want to offer you some hope. You are repeating a cycle, but cycles can be broken.

This can end with you if you choose to do the work. There’s already enough trauma from the first part of your life with men like this; you don’t want to spend the rest of your life in the same situation. Your children don’t deserve that, and neither do you.

My first piece of advice is to avoid romantic relationships right now. The truth is, you are not in a state to choose healthy masculine energy at the moment. Opt for celibacy and focus on working on yourself. Start by developing your own inner masculine energy—building structure, setting boundaries, establishing standards, and learning about protection and provision.

Inner work can be complex. I own a brand, @vivaciousofficiall, that specializes in women's inner work healing to help release these wounds and attract the life you truly deserve.

Don’t wait until you find yourself in a bad situation to wake up and change. Don’t wait until you have kids to begin your healing.

Yours truly,

Jamila Audi.

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YOUR PAST DOESNT MATTER.

I don’t care if you come from a broken home, have made a ton of mistakes, or dated the wrong men. That doesn’t mean you can’t go after the life you desire, and it certainly doesn’t mean you can’t become a high-value woman.

it’s not about the family you came from; it’s about the one you consciously choose to create. You have the power to break generational cycles and build a new legacy.

Don’t let society tell you that you’re damaged or you can’t strive for something if you don’t come from it or you’ve never had it.

The fact that you desire it is enough to pursue it. Lock in.

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How To Date Like A Goddess.

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How To Date Like A Goddess Blog Post.

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