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[wise-falafel]

a guide to modern feminism:

1. classes don’t exist. the oppressors and the oppressed don’t exist. each person can only be viewed as an individual.

2. a person cannot be influenced. each action and decision exists in a vacuum. avoid causal relationships, patterns and parallels.

3. avoid generalisation like the plague. if it seems like a group of people can be generalised based on their actions, come back to points 1 and 2.

4. under no circumstances you are allowed to hurt someone’s feelings.

5. staying inside your comfort zone and not trying to change anything is feminism. feminism is about doing what you like.

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“He’s not a rapist” but he is friends with one.

“He’s not a rapist” but he doesn’t care that another man is.

“He’s not a rapist” but he thinks every accusation is probably a false one.

“He’s not a rapist” but he believes rape isn’t the worst crime.

“He’s not a rapist” but he asks what clothes was she wearing.

“He’s not a rapists” but he says “She was drunk, what did she expect”.

“He’s not a rapist” but he makes rape jokes.

“He’s not a rapist” but he is into CNC.

“He’s not a rapist” but he watches porn.

“He’s not a rapist” but he IS a rapist.

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a male actor could look like a literal wrinkled rat and still have a huge female fan base.

if bella ramsey from the last of us, who, by the way, looks completely normal, was male, she would be worshipped the way timothee chalamet is.

but being “ugly hot” is only for the boys.

Starting a list of hideous men who are psyops from Big Ugly:

Glen Powell

Barry Keoghan

David Tennant

Matt Smith

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calling men that express their disgust with women’s bodies (cellulite, body hair, different shapes of breasts/vulvas) gay implies that:

1. homosexuality is shameful and can be used as a gotcha

2. hating women’s bodies makes a man less heterosexual.

males have always combined the two - thinking our bodies are gross, malformed, unclean, and wanting to fuck us. this tradition seems to be old as times. there’s no magical “love” that makes a straight man see women as people just because hes attracted to them.

their sexual attraction, disgust and hatred go hand in hand.

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your boyfriend isn’t texting you back? girl that’s just his avoidant attachment style. actually you should work on your anxious attachment style, wanting your partner to talk to you is definitely not normal.

also, why are you expecting him to do the dishes or give you presents? you know acts of service or gift giving aren’t his love languages. his love language is physical touch, aka sex.

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non-american gyns, does the gender fandom in your country also solely exist off parroting and copying whatever american “queers” do?

it’s so funny to watch. no, “they/them” doesn’t work in our language🥺

talking about “homonormativity” is ridiculous, being gay is still a crime in our country🥺

“who threw the first brick at the stonewall” discourse is sooo interesting, but i recommend learning at least a little about lgb history in your homeland🥺

it becomes so clear that these people solely exist online. they don’t even consider that american realities - maybe, just maybe- are slightly different from ours.

american “queer” community is ridiculous by itself, but trying to mimic and recreate it results in a full blown circus.

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i’m so done with feminist slogans being appropriated by everyone who isn’t too lazy.

“my body my choice” is about abortion. women are being forced to give birth to their rapists babies, underage girls are dying because they have no access to abortions. but yeah they cut off a useless piece of skin from your smelly dick so that’s basically the same thing.

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is hijab a choice? let’s ask muslim men. let’s ask muslim women from usa and western europe. let’s ask converts whose families aren’t even muslim. let’s ask non-religious men.

time to ask women in afghanistan. oh, yeah, i forgot. they have no right to speak.

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time to bring this back

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telling women to “suck it” is so feminist!

other than that, radfems absolutely support infertile women, women who had hysterectomies and even trans men. stop making up our beliefs. trans women aren’t “women who can’t give birth”, they’re MEN.

Radical feminists only hate transgender women because they only see you as a woman if you can reproduce. Only thinking a woman is a woman if they can give birth is not truly revolutionary and ahead of time. If you think womanhood is defined merely by being able to give birth, you need to get with the times. Suck it.

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i low key love it when women straight up go “i wear makeup because i feel ugly without it and people treat me better when im more feminine” or “i shave before going to the beach with my family because i’m not ready to defend myself against them”.

admitting that your actions are influenced by patriarchy is so much better than pretending it’s your own unique feminist girlboss impowering choice. i’m tired of “if a woman chooses to do it then it’s feminist” bullshit.

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do women that comment “but it’s itchy🥺i don’t like the feeling of prickly hair😔” under anti-shaving posts and videos realise that the itchiness and prickliness is a result of shaving? if you don’t shave the hair is soft, you don’t feel it at all. have they forgotten what it feels like to be unshaven? have they ever experienced it?

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i was never really a harry potter fan but i will watch the series. just to support a very brave woman.

You CANNOT separate art from the artist when the artist is still alive and producing new media to profit off.

So on that note, do NOT watch the new Harry Potter series. Do not hate watch it. Do not watch it because “it’s going to be my childhood remade”. I do not care. Do not watch it. This is a direct move to erase the original trio who have all stood against jkr.

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i low key feel the same way about labour scenes in movies. the “realism” seems to be “a woman moaning and screaming in extreme pain”, nothing else - no epidurals, no c-sections, no contractions that last for days… i’m convinced it’s a fetish for male directors