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been going a little bit insane about this sentence from Ace by Angela Chen for the past week
#replace this with any other type of significant relationship too#also! this book actually rules btw i really recommend it#i didnt read it when it first cane out bc i was like. well i am already pretty familiar with asexuality and not rly interested in 101 stuff#but it turns out it doesnt feel 101-y at all its a super awesome piece of queer theory and also chen has Good opinions#and not weird watered down ones that i am sometimes wary of in aspec communities (frankly especially ace ones)#i think maybe if more people approached asexuality the way chen does (including and maybe even especially ace people)#i would be more inclined to still ID as ace#but anyways!#aro#aromantic#<- tag selections that reflect how i personally engage with this quote#also#described in alt text#also also#j tag#:/#aro media
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Wrightworth isn't even a ship to me at this point I'm sure they got married off-screen
#wrightworth#phoenix wright#miles edgeworth#ace attorney#trucy wright#apollo justice#athena cykes#doods#I HAVE SO MANY THEORIES FOR THIS DONT EVEN ASK. <- please ask
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Asexual theory 101
Right I keep getting asked on most of my asexual posts 'What does this mean OP? Where's the sources?' so imma make a quick ace theory 101 post so if anyone says they don't get it I can say I tried. Let's go:
'What does being ace have to do with race/racism?/There's racism in the ace community???'
Pretty much everything as people of colour experience various forms of sexualisation and desexualisation at the same time, which is why POC are rarely included in asexual representation:
Asexuals of Color Still Seek to Validate Their Asexuality by Ebony Purks
Stereotypes & media about Black masculinity made it harder to come out as asexual by Tyger Songbird
Your Assumptions About Black Queer Masculinity Are Erasing My Asexual Identity by Timinepre Cole
It's Time To Start Celebrating Black Asexuality in Media By Tyger Songbird
Yasmin Benoit: ‘People had a hard time believing that I could be Black and asexual and at Pride’ by Alastair James
Brown and Gray: An Asexual People of Color Zine
'What do TERFS/transphobia have to do with asexuality?'
There's a growing TERF conspiracy theory that asexuality is the side-effect of transitioning. The LGB movement believes the community is exclusively for 'same-sex attracted persons' and so identities that don't involve attraction e.g. the TQIA should be removed. Most backlash towards Yasmin Benoit, aroace activist, is from white TERFs and conservatives:
Acephobic conspiracy theories have transphobic and fascist roots by Sherronda J Brown
Anti-trans movement has a new target: The asexual community by Yasmin Benoit
'But how can conservatives hate asexuality if they hate sex?'
Because they don't and never did. If the term 'puritan' was used correctly in modern internet discourse, it would be known Christian puritans believe heterosexual sex for reproduction is a gift from god and mandatory so being asexual doesn't exactly fit with that worldview. Their beef is with any form of sex and sexuality that falls outside of cis heterosexual marriage, including asexuality. They're not anti sex but anti sexual autonomy:
"Anti-Sex" and the Real Sexual Politics of the Right by Lee Cicuta (ButchAnarchy)
The religious right is now targeting sexless marriages as “selfishness.” They Want to Ban Those Too by Tyger Songbird
Asexual people targetted by right-wing pundits following landmark report by Harriet Brewis
'What does being ace have to do with gender?'
It's commonly assumed that because patriarchy shames women's sexualities and considers all men's sexuality as biological and unavoidable, that ace women only and exclusively experience desexualisation whilst ace men only and exclusively are pressured into being sexual beings. This can true as a broad overview but it can vary based on race, disability, class etc. This also becomes complex for asexuals that exist outside the gender binary. This is known as 'gender detachment'.
Impossible for Men, Unremarkable for Women by Canton Winer
My Work on Gender Detachment and Asexuality Strikes a Nerve by Canton Winer
'There's asexual studies now?'
Yup. On the general experiences of asexual people in the UK, including discrimination in education, the workplace and healthcare:
The National LGBT Survey (2018)
Ace in the UK Report (2023)
Asexuality in the UK: Public attitudes towards people who experience little to no sexual attraction (2025)
Specific names:
Asexual theorists: Ianna Hawkins Owen, Michael Paramo, Julia Sondra Decker, Canton Winer (non-ace), Sherronda J Brown, Angela Chen
Asexual activists: Yasmin Benoit, Tyger Songbird, Marshall Blount (TheGentleAce)
Asexual artists: Kimberly Butler (TheAsexualGoddess)
And I'm gonna update this with more if they're worth adding. I don't wanna hear any excuses anymore or blame towards aces of colour, gay aces or trans aces for not being specific enough anymore. Read!
#i won't be surpised if this post gets aired#asexual#ace#asexuality#asexual community#compulsory sexuality#ace tings#queer theory#aroace#alloace#ace theory#asexual theory#black asexuals#black asexual#trans asexual#lgbtqia#lgbtq#lgbt
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YOU MANIFESTED THE TWEEL CARDS CONGRATS
YOU'RE WELCOME EVERYBODY!
seriously though I was probably like. 60-80% thinking we'd get at least one tweel for chapter 10. but I was NOT expecting it so soon! both of 'em! in August! a shame we're not getting a Coral Sea event after all...but I guess I can be resigned to that and ALSO excited for getting shiny sparkly glowing(!!!!) mertwins along with Azul fighting his inner demons and going right for the eyes! AHHHH I CAN'T WAIT
(also heeeey I recognize that rowboat... 👀)
#art#twisted wonderland spoilers#twisted wonderland episode 7 spoilers#twisted wonderland book 7 spoilers#twisted wonderland episode 7 part 10 spoilers#twisted wonderland book 7 part 10 spoilers#omg they're real#hey twst as long as you're pandering directly to me#che'nya card for riddle's chapter??????#it's not going to happen. but. WHAT IF#anyway i suppose they could get this one out a bit faster since the tweel sprites already exist#let's hope for a non-ob octozul cameo too! 🤞#as much as i want to see him though i do think it would be extremely funny if his dream were just#everything's the same in the coral sea except he's in human form the entire time#no real reason he just feels like it#chapter 10 though! the hype!#floyd is one of the characters i can't even begin to imagine what his dream might be#(the other one is ace) (i got a couple theories for him but floyd i just have NO idea)#i know it might just be for the diptych but i am VERY intrigued by the implication that the twins might be having the same dream#they're both dreaming about the time they teamed up to ruin some couple's cute rowboat date#and you know what. i believe it.
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#animal crossing#nintendo#new horizons#acnh#switch#nintendo switch#pascal#celeste#stars#astrology#astronomy#space#conspiracy#conspiracy theories#gaming#video games#villagers#animals#animal crossing new horizons#funny#lol#humor#meme#ac#memes
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No matter what people say about Trey, Ace is The Most Normal Character. He plays basketball. He's good at card tricks. He likes eating hamburgers. He's used to getting a lot of attention because he's a youngest child. He teases everyone constantly but sometimes he can be nice. He's 5'8". He had a girlfriend in middle school and the relationship failed immediately. He could transfer to my school and I wouldn't blink an eye.
#of course this is assuming the traitor ace theory isn't true#you're telling me a shrimp typed this post!?#twisted wonderland#twst#ace trappola#twst thoughts
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MORE SPOILER PHOTOS + A THEORY
(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BE WARNED THE SPOILER IS HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
So, if you've seen the yesterday's photos, Michael's hair looked a bit dark? But it was inside and from the distance so there were doubts. :)
But now there are closer pics...
obligatory gif :D:
THEORY:
This theory was cooked up by czech good omens fans :D. Might be completely wrong :).
So,
we have:
Aziraphale with darker hair, working in a bookshop but not a Soho one, his clothes are a bit Aziraphalish but not exactly.
Crowley with ginger hair, his clothes while darkish is not quite traditional Crowley, he has jeans, grey shirt - buttoned up, a waitstcoat. He doesn't seem to have Crowley's eyes (tho they might have been added while filming) and a tattoo on his face is on the other side.
Their hair though... they look a bit weird, right? Like wigs? Do you remember a fan whose auntie saw a blonde Michael? And another fan showed us a photo with David with S2 red hair. Yep, it looks like these are just wigs.
So why would there be a storyline with such Aziraphale and Crowley? ... Do you remember Rob Wilkins Christmas sweather, where there was a slightly taller ginger haired angel and a smaller dark haired demon?
What is there is some kind of plot line with Fallen Aziraphale and Not-Fallen Crowley? David's tattoo is on the wrong side and it doesn't even have to be a snek, it can be one of those angel decorations we saw.
But why and how? Is this some kind of Metatron's doing? A sacrifice of them to prevent second coming? Someone getting to the Book of Life? Hmmmmm. But yeah, those might be just wigs they will remove to shoot other things as our Azi and Crowley.
Another thing is that apparently Crowley speedily left the bookshop holding something - a book? Did Aziraphale sell a book?!
So whatever happened there also might be involved an amnesia. And Angel Crowley remembers since he was a high level angel, dons dark clothes, tries to go to Aziraphale but he doesn't... *enter dramatic music*
But what is Metatron doing there? Has he Fallen? Does he have amnesia and works in the bookshop? Or is he there as a part of his plan?
Perhaps we got some of it right, perhaps all wrong. :)
But I trust that there will be a happy ending in a cottage for our cuties :) ❤.
#good omens#gos3#season 3#david tennant#michael sheen#derek jacobi#aziraphale#crowley#metatron#spoilers#gos3 unofficial#gos3 spoilers#theory#ac#bts#bts photos#photos
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Sisters :]
#og post#my art#Ace Attorney#AA#The Great Ace Attorney#TGAA#susato mikotoba#iris wilson#iris watson#dgs#dai gyakuten saiban#look away spout#slapped a grayscale down and played around with gradient maps and then fine tuned it definitely the weirdest method of coloring ive done#then i threw on halftones for funsies#a really funny thing happened in my playthrough of dgs with my friends. they formed a. conspiracy theory. wherein.#mikotoba fathered both iris and susato.#we just finished blooming attorney theres no reason for them to think this they just went omg mikotoba and wilson knew each other#to be clear they think mikotoba gave birth#and jigoku is susato's other father#i just started sobbing. like how. did they get so close. to an actual twist. by throwing darts in the dark#they have no idea#highlight reel#1k
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Freindly reminder that you can't hate men without being queerphobic. You can't think men are inherently more dangerous, violent or sexual, or any of the other things people say about men without being inherently queerphobic.
You can't think these things about men without branding mlm as outsiders who will always be unwholesome and dangerous without women to "civilize" them.
You can't think these things about men without thinking of wlw who are more masculine as being inherently lesser for being like men.
You can't think these things about men without making most transfems seem suspect for having masculine traits, or forcing trans women to prove themselves female enough to be valid.
You can't think these things about men without telling transmascs that they are inherently degrading themselves by transitioning, or forcing them to deny their transition to be supported.
You can't think these things about men without basically calling all enbies female, and then calling all masc enbies dangerous.
You can't think these things about men without easing aspec men and/or calling their identities into question.
You can't think these things about men without basically telling intersex people they don't exist, and making intersex women feel lesser for having male traits.
If you hate men you will hate every letter in the LGBTQIA for having traits in common with men. Feminism that views men as the enemy will inevitably be Feminism only for cishet women.
#196#my thougts#queer rights#queer theory#feminism#mysandry#queer#lgbt#asexual#ace#aspec#enby#non binary#nonbinary#bisexaul#transmasc#transfem#trans#transgender#trans rights#transgirl#intersex#bi#mlm#wlw#gay#lesbian
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Franmaya nation rise!!!!
#karuma mei#ayasato mayoi#maya fey#franziska von karma#redraw#myart#my art#loner vociferation#ace attorney#me things#fanart#this is the redraw if my old franmaya piece from 2k22!!! its still bad cuz i didnt bother finding references for this ahahaha#lazy#doodl#quick doodl#i tried the blending modes in procreate :D#colour theory and lighting aint accurate ig but im trying!!! id but im trying!!!#wahoooo#ive left tumblr dormant for a long time so thanks for still sticking around and liking my stuff!!! y'all r the best <333#I'll try my best to improve and post regularly!!!#anygays its 1.24am so byeeeee#franmaya
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Secrets
#ace attorney#gyakuten saiban#phoenix wright#apollo justice#athena cykes#trucy wright#i have a lot of thoughts about phoenix's tendency to do things behind the scenes#loosely based off dd#(my theory is that apollo went rogue because he wanted to go off and be secretive too lol)#qiuart
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aspec terms for beginners!
since it's trending right now, i feel like it might be helpful to clear up some basic aspec (but particularly aromantic, as we are the center of attention currently) terms. if you have absolutely any questions, i would be happy to answer, either in the replies, dms, or my inbox!
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the split attraction model (SAM): a model of human behavior that posits that, for some people, romantic and sexual attraction are not the same.
[most often this will come in the form of someone being aspec on one axis and allo (not aspec) on another. for example, a biromantic asexual may be romantically attracted to two or more genders, but sexually attracted to none. some people may even use SAM for allo identities– a bisexual lesbian may be sexually attracted to multiple genders, but only romantically attracted to women (note that this is not the only way that someone can be an mspec lesbian, just one way!). the SAM does not apply to everybody, not even all aspecs! there are non-SAM aros, for instance, who do not differentiate their aromanticism from their sexuality.]
aspec: a collection of queer spectrums centered around the lack of a certain attraction or identity. the most common spectrums under the aspec umbrella are asexual, aromantic, agender, and aplatonic, though there are many other ways to be aspec.
asexual: experiencing little to no sexual attraction.
[aces can still have sex– whether its because they experience some amount of sexual attraction or they just want to participate in sex because they find the act appealing in some other way. that being said, there are still plenty of aces who have not and will never have sex. it is a spectrum.]
aromantic: experiencing little to no romantic attraction.
[aros can still have romantic partners– whether its because they experience some amount of romantic attraction or they just find relationships appealing in some other way. that being said, there are still plenty of aros who have not and will never be in a romantic relationship. it is a spectrum.]
agender: having no gender or little relation to any gender.
aplatonic: experiencing little to no platonic attraction.
[similarly to aros and aces, apls can still form friendships if they so desire– whether its because they experience some amount of platonic attraction or they find friendships appealing in some other way.]
aroallo: combination of aromantic and allosexual– allosexual being someone who fully experiences sexual attraction. an aroallo, then, is someone who is aromantic but not asexual. aroallos often do not have a standard relationship with sex due to its romantic connotations and the stigma against loveless sex. someone having sex with someone else they do not love does not inherently make them aroallo, much in the same way that having a nonsexual relationship with a partner doesn't inherently make either participant asexual.
aroace: someone who is both aromantic and asexual. because aro and ace are both spectrums, an aroace may still experience some amount of attraction on either or both of those spectrums, or they may experience attraction of some other kind (platonic, tertiary, etc.), and that attraction may be only for a certain gender or genders– these are known as oriented aroaces.
queerplatonic relationship: a type of relationship that is defined only by the people within it. i have a post dedicated to explaining this in larger detail.
partnering: an aspec (usually aromantic) person who has and/or desires to have a partnership or multiple partnerships– romantic, queerplatonic, or otherwise.
non-partnering: an aspec (usually aromantic) person who has no desire to form a partnership of any kind.
romance/sex/plato favorable: an aspec who desires or would not reject a romantic, sexual, or platonic relationship. they are also generally not particularly bothered by seeing these relationships in their day-to-day.
romance/sex/plato repulsed: an aspec who does not desire a romantic, sexual, or platonic relationship and generally does not like seeing those relationships in their day-to-day. [x] repulsed people are not necessarily judgemental towards people who desire or participate in those relationships, they just do not desire them for themselves. repulsion often takes the form of discomfort or annoyance. [x] repulsed people are not necessarily cruel sticks-in-the-mud– they are perfectly capable of being respectful, and they very often are. repulsion does not always stem from trauma, though it certainly can.
romance/sex/plato positive: not to be confused with favorability, [x] positivity is the belief that romance, sex, and platonic relationships are human rights that should be supported and uplifted. someone can be [x] repulsed and [x] positive at the same time, because favorability/repulsion revolves around the self, and positivity/negativity extends to others.
sex/romance/plato negative: not to be confused with repulsion, [x] negativity is an inherently judgemental and harmful ideology. most commonly in the form of sex negativity, these ideologies are centered around the opposition to or personal judgement of people who engage in romance, sex, or platonic relationships. sex negativity in particular is embedded in western white supremacist societies and it is important for aspecs not to play into that.
those are the basics, but i have more information below the cut!
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> how are aspecs queer?
aspecs are queer because "queer" does not only mean LGBT. queer theory is about far more than just LGBT people– though they are undeniably a large part of it– queerness is any subversion of the traditional cisheteronormative standard. this includes things that cishets may take part in/identify with, because you do not have to be LGBT to subvert those standards. cishets who are gender-nonconforming are queer, for example. a good rule of thumb is that if you have to explain what you whole deal is to cishets, you're queer. queer does mean strange, after all.
traditional cisheteronormative conceptions of attraction, gender, and relationships do not account for aspecs. it is expected that everyone will one day form a traditional partnership with one other person, and that relationship will include sex (even if only for procreation, under some dogmas). virginity past a certain age is seen as a point of shame and something indicative of a larger problem in someone– in men, a red flag even. people past 30 without a relationship are pitied. our economic structure is build for couples and families– it's near impossible for someone to live comfortably alone. romance, friendship, and love are placed on a pedestal, treated as the meaning of life, the best thing anyone could ever experience. "love is the point of everything," as many posts on this site like to claim. people who reject these ideas are undeniably queer.
> i can get behind aros and aces, but the whole "aplatonic" thing feels like a stretch to me. how is not having friends queer? "platonic attraction" isn't even real.
aplatonicism is more than just "not having friends," and many apls have friends anyway, much in the same way that aros can date and aces can have sex. someone who does not have friends is not inherently aplatonic, they only are if they identify that little-to-no platonic attraction in themselves and choose to label themselves that way (just like how virgins aren't inherently asexual). still, apls who don't have friends exist, and they are all queer. what is a greater subversion of traditional cisheteronormative relationship structures than an outright rejection of what's seen as the most basic, fundamental relationship our culture has to offer?
you may not feel that platonic attraction is a distinct phenomenon in your own experience, and that's fine! ultimately, a lot of aspec terms exist for the utility and comfort of aspecs themselves. the SAM isn't for everyone, and platonic attraction isn't for everyone either. you do not have the authority to tell people what their own experiences are, nor should you care.
> i think it's sad that you're limiting yourself with these labels. you'll find someone one day!
for the broad majority of aspecs, our identities are not self-disciplinary, nor are they necessarily permanent. all queer people are capable of misunderstanding their identity or having a fluid identity– it is not a problem unique to being aspec. that being said, a lot of us may always be aspec and completely happy with it. being aspec is not a tragedy. the only thing i don't like about being aromantic is the judgement i receive from other people about it. non-partnering aspecs are not "missing out" on anything, because we don't even want the things we're rejecting in the first place. many of us are romance/sex/plato repulsed and are far more happy engaging with the world and with other people in different ways, because there is so, so much more to life than relationships, and it's wrong to presume that relationships are universally fit for everybody. telling an aspec that they'll find "the right person" one day is no different from telling a lesbian she'll find "the right man" one day. there is no "right person" for an aspec just as there's no "right man" for a lesbian. a lesbian is not "missing out" on a heterosexual relationship just because it's culturally perceived as superior and more fulfilling.
[disclaimer before anyone tries to do a "gotcha," i'm talking about a lesbian who is fully not attracted to men in any way. it's not like homophobes know the intricacies of gender identity and nonconformity as it pertains to homosexuality anyways.]
lastly, i wanna give a special shout out to the loveless aros and the relationship anarchists.
loveless aros are those who either feel little-to-no love as they understand it, or they are someone who supports the de-centering of love. they're worthy of a whole post of their own, but in summary: the loveless experience is all about finding joy in yourself and the countless things our world has to offer that are not dependent on the vague idea of love.
relationship anarchy is another concept worthy of its own post, but in essence it's an ideology aimed at abolishing the standard hierarchy of relationships (in the USA, depending on who you ask, its typically friendship < family < romantic partnership or friendship < romantic partnership < family) and allowing everyone the autonomy to define their relationships for themselves.
if i made any mistakes, let me know! and of course i'm willing to answer any questions anyone may have. :-3 thanks for reading my long ass post!
#barking#aromantic#aspec#romance repulsed#aroallo#aplatonic#asexual#aroace#loveless#queer#lgbt#queerplatonic#alloace#queer theory#relationship anarchy#split attraction model#aro#ace#apl#agender#long post
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diagnosing the twst boys aka putting my psych degree to good use. wrote these on discord mobile at like midnight last night so forgive any weirdness.
Riddle: C-PTSD (his mother was/is very clearly abusive and extremely controlling. he has been experiencing trauma his whole life.), possibly on the spectrum as well
Trey: probably neurotypical and mentally well. the teeth thing is pretty weird though.
Cater: Major Depressive Disorder, but he masks pretty well.
Ace: honestly? Probably neurotypical and not mentally ill but if i were to diagnose him, perhaps ADHD Inattentive Type??
Deuce: Before i read his dorm vignette i may have said he has a learning disorder like dyscalculia or dyslexia, but he clearly shows that he doesn't struggle with academics due to disordered thinking so much as it's due to lacking the fundamentals. He picks up math pretty well just from using riddle's textbook. He may have had conduct disorder in his youth, but that also could have been him acting out for other reasons and i honestly think it's more likely the latter. Maybe has some form of ADHD but I'm not certain.
Leona: very clear case of Major Depressive Disorder.
Ruggie: C-PTSD (extreme poverty is, in fact, traumatizing)
Jack: bro is carrying the mental wellness of savanaclaw on his well-built shoulders
Azul: Body Dysmorphic Disorder and EDNOS (Eating Disorder Not Otherwise Specified). He has some serious body image issues to the point that i would definitely classify them as disordered, and he exhibits restrictive eating habits that also fall within the bounds of disordered eating. I wouldn't say he's anorexic or bulimic, so EDNOS is probably the best diagnosis.
Jade: okay. So. If Jade were over 18, i would say he might have a cluster b personality disorder (cluster b includes antisocial personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, and histrionic personality disorder. Yknow. The most stigmatized ones.), but you CANNOT diagnose anyone under the age of 18 with a personality disorder... and also i don't think he quite meets the criteria? Maybe on the spectrum. He's a freak but idk if he's diagnosable.
Floyd: ADHD, either combined or inattentive type. people like to throw around the word "bipolar" with floyd but they have a fundamental misunderstanding of bipolar disorder. BD mood swings are not even close to the frequency of floyd's. They can last for weeks or even months and are far more extreme highs and lows. He matches ADHD symptoms far better (constantly seeking stimulation, emotional dysregulation, trouble maintaining focus, etc.).
Kalim: ADHD combined type and C-PTSD. Listen. It is not fucking normal to constantly be in fear for your life and it will leave a person traumatized. Also he matches the classical ADHD symptoms.
Jamil: probably also has C-PTSD. Wouldn't be surprised if he develops some kind of personality disorder either due to trauma.
Vil: okay like... honestly? I think he's okay. He has some inferiority complex going with neige but 1. That's not a diagnosis and 2. It's not particularly disordered aside from the SDC incident.
Rook: he's a freak. But idk if his freak is diagnosable.
Epel: "a bit of a dick sometimes" is not a diagnosis
Idia: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, MDD, autism, and PTSD. please god get this guy some antidepressants.
Ortho: he is a robot. he has a soul now but he seems like a very neurotypical and not mentally ill robot. Idk maybe autism??
Malleus: this guy is so full of autism it's unreal
Lilia: PTSD. Not even a question.
Silver: Narcolepsy, possibly with cataplexy, although I don't know if his sleeping spells constitute true cataplexy. Excessive daytime sleepiness is, however, a classical symptom of narcolepsy. Also probably on the spectrum. Flat affect king.
Sebek: Autistic ADHD legend. specifically ADHD hyperactive type.
#twst#twisted wonderland#disney twisted wonderland#twst theory#i guess lol#riddle rosehearts#trey clover#cater diamond#ace trappola#deuce spade#leona kingscholar#ruggie bucchi#jack howl#azul ashengrotto#jade leech#floyd leech#kalim al asim#jamil viper#vil schoenheit#rook hunt#epel felmier#idia shroud#ortho shroud#malleus draconia#lilia vanrouge#silver vanrouge#sebek zigvolt#seraph speaks#is ortho neurodivergent? idk i think a lot of his quirks can be attributed to “being a robot”#and i think a lot of the other characters' odd behaviors can be attributed to “being young and stupid”
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I'm gonna be completely honest I'm starting to get tired of people going 'aces can have sex' 'asexuality is a SPECTRUM' in my reblogs every time I post about asexuality where I literally haven't implied or said otherwise and I've honestly thought about deleting some of them. Like... I know guys. I know. I'm either speaking on my own experience which isn't sex favourable or from a Black and/or lesbian POV of asexuality which would include sex favourable aces anyway so it should go without saying.
It's getting similar to how I see 'lesbians can have sex with men'. I'm fully aware lesbians have the physical means to do so, but I wouldn't wanna hear that in a lesbian space for centring the experiences of people who don't, especially lesbians who were coerced and/or forced into doing so. As long as lesbophobia exists, that statement can't be neutral and the wider context will always shape how I see it. I don't need to be reminded I can conform to the thing I'm actively going against. I don't want to and I can't.
We can acknowledge how diverse and varied a community is but it's disingenuous to pretend there's a single uniform experience throughout. Going 'everyone is valid' is cute but it doesn't address the specific problem, which is compulsory sexuality. In this case, the constant need to derail sex repulsed, averse and indifferent aces in our own posts and conversations does compulsory sexuality's job for it. I'm reminded of my 'wasted' sexual potential on a regular basis I don't need my own community doing it too.
As respectfully as possible, not every single asexual post is gonna personally represent you. I don't go into aro spaces and expect to be centred or represented because those weren't made for me and that's okay. Asexuality is a wide spectrum with lots of sides. I'm not part of all those sides and that's okay.
#if i constantly had to read 'lesbians can have sex with men' on my posts about Black lesbian theory I'd be fuming probably#so idk if i can let this slide actually idk#vent ish#ace tings#lesbian tings#black lesbian#asexual#asexuality#ace lesbian#asexual lesbian#compulsory sexuality
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Riz Gukgak — biggest hater of sex that when told that his dad did something terrible to get himself into hell, he assumed that unforgivable horrible thing was sex
#find this hilarious#when your strangling with your ace identity after encountering the actual embodiment of your internalized aphobia#and your in hell so your entire body and mind is just going haywire#and Kalina just drops multiple psychological bombs on you#so your theories are thrown around your brain like dice and show back up again with this theory#also this is me assuming hes WRONG#i dont actually know#100%#but im gonna go out on a limb and say that pok and kalina did not have sex#Kalina: ha I really got him there I wonder what hes going to think after all the ambiguous stuff I said#Riz: I think Kalina and my dad fucked#Kalina: what.#d20 fantasy high#fantasy high#riz gukgak#kalina the shadow cat#pok gukgak#fhsy#d20 fhsy#dimension 20 fhsy#dimension 20
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Free (mostly academic) ace theory resources
On asexuality
Asexuality: What It Is and Why It Matters - Anthony Bogaert
Asexuality: Classification and Characterization - Nicole Prause et al.
Asexuality - Luke Brunning et al.
Biological Markers of Asexuality: Handedness, Birth Order, and Finger Length Ratios in Self-identified Asexual Men and Women - Morag A. Yule et al.
Crisis and safety: The asexual in sexusociety - Ela Przybylo
On asexuality and HSDD
Reconsidering Asexuality and Its Radical Potential - CJ DeLuzio Chasin
Asexuality: An Extreme Variant of Sexual Desire Disorder? - Lori A. Brotto et al.
Asexuality: Sexual Orientation, Paraphilia, Sexual Dysfunction, or None of the Above? - Lori A. Brotto et al.
Asexuality vs. sexual interest/arousal disorder: Examining group differences in initial attention to sexual stimuli - Julia Bradshaw et al.
On the Split Attraction Model
Splitting Attraction: Differentiating Romantic and Sexual Orientations Among Asexual Individuals - Canton Winer
Ace and Aro: Understanding Diferences in Romantic Attractions Among Persons Identifying as Asexual - Amy N. Antonsen
On acephobia
“I don’t know if this counts but…” A report on acephobia in 2021. thank you to @plum-petunia for finding this <2
Examining the Social Tabooisation of Asexuality: The Underpinnings of Anti‑Asexual Bias - Grigoropoulos Iraklis
Chasing Aces: Asexuality, Misinformation and the Challenges of Identity - Adrienne Colborne
An Intersectional Exploration of Outness, Encountered Discrimination and Violence, and Non-Suicidal Self-Injury among Asexual Youth across Gender Identities - Zurong Liang
LGBTQ Minus: Predictors of Anti-Asexual Bias Among Straight, Gay, and Bisexual Individuals - Nicholas A. Ashenfelter
“And Now I’m Just Different, but There’s Nothing Actually Wrong With Me”: Asexual Marginalization and Resistance - Kristina Gupta
On the ace community
Asexuality: A Mixed-Methods Approach - Lori A. Brotto et al.
‘”Asexual” Isn’t Who I Am’: The Politics of Asexuality - Matt Dawson et al.
Asexuality is inversely associated with positive body image in British adults - Viren Swami et al.
“What Can Asexuality Offer Sociology ? Insights from the 2017 Asexual Community Census” thank you to this anon on my main blog for finding this <2
Establishing Asexual Identity: The Essential, the Imaginary, and the Collective - Agata Pacho
2022 Ace Community Survey Summary Report - Ai Baba et al.
Belonging to the Ace Spectrum: Correlates of Cognitions, Feelings, and Desires of Ace Individuals - A. Catarina Carvalho et al.
There’s more to life than sex? Difference and commonality within the asexual community - Mark Carrigan
The lives of asexual individuals outside of sexual and romantic relationships: education, occupation, religion and community - Esther D. Rothblum
On asexuality and the queer community
Queering Asexuality: Asexual-Inclusion in Queer Spaces - Dominique A. Canning
What Asexuality Contributes to the Same-Sex Marriage Discussion - Kristin S. Scherrer
Asexual and Non-Asexual Respondents from a U.S. Population Based Study of Sexual Minorities - Esther D. Rothblum et al.
“I Didn’t Know Ace Was a Thing”: Bisexuality and pansexuality as identity pathways in asexual identity formation - Canton Winer
(A)Sexuality Online: Self-Discovery, Exclusion, and Community in the Digital Age of Asexuality - Lauren Kauenhofen
Too Queer to be Queer? Revisiting the Metaphysics and Epistemology of Asexuality - Abigail Klassen
Uncertain Belonging: Asexuality and Queer Nightlife - Canton Winer
Asexual Borderlands: Asexual Collegians’ Reflections on Inclusion Under the LGBTQ Umbrella - Amanda L. Mollet
On asexuality in different parts of the world
Patterns of asexuality in the United States - Dudley Poston
Patterns of Asexuality in China: Sexual Activity, Sexual and Romantic Attraction, and Sexual Desire - Lijun Zheng et al.
Constructions of Asexual Identity in China: Intersections of Class, Gender, Region of Residence, and Asexuality - Day Wong et al.
Seeing the Invisible: Asexuality in the South - Ellie Campbell
On intersectionality
Asexuality in disability narratives - Eunjung Kim
You have to be normal to be abnormal: an empirically grounded exploration of the intersection of asexuality and disability - Karen Cuthbert
Asexuality and epistemic injustice: a gendered perspective - Karen Cuthbert
“When We Talk about Gender We Talk about Sex”: (A)sexuality and (A)gendered Subjectivities - Karen Cuthbert
Theorizing Conscious Black Asexuality through Claire Kann’s Let’s Talk about Love - Brittney Miles
Variations in suicidality across multiple social identities in asexual people: An intersectionality analysis - Sinéad Kelleher
Contested Intersections: Asexuality and Disability, Illness, or Trauma - A. Kurowicka
Does Everyone Have a Gender? Compulsory Gender, Gender Detachment, and Asexuality - Canton Winer
The Intersection of Gender Diversity and Asexuality Psychotherapy with TGNC Individuals Who Identify as Ace - Katherine Rachlin
Beyond the Label: Asexual Identity Among Individuals on the High‑Functioning Autism Spectrum - Scott T. Ronis et al.
Sexual, Romantic, and Community Experiences of Individuals at the Intersection of Autism and Asexuality - Randolph C. H. Chan
On researching asexuality
Understanding asexuality: A sociological review - Canton Winner
Methodological Issues for Studying Asexuality - Andrew C. Hinderliter
A Validated Measure of No Sexual Attraction: The Asexuality Identification Scale - Morag A. Yule et al.
What can Asexuality do for Queer Theories? - Anna Kurowicka
On asexuality and relationships/sex
Asexuality and relationship investment: visible differences in relationship investment for an invisible minority - Jared M. Edge
Asexual scripts: A grounded theory inquiry into the intrapsychic scripts asexuals use to negotiate romantic relationships - Haefner, Carol
The nuances of intimacy: Asexual perspectives and experiences with dating and relationships. - Brooke Higginbottom
Ace of (BDSM) clubs: Building asexual relationships through BDSM practice - Lorca Jolene Sloan
Sexual Fantasy and Masturbation Among Asexual Individuals: An In-Depth Exploration - Morag A. Yule et al.
Patterns of Genital and Subjective Sexual Arousal in Cisgender Asexual Men - Malvina N. Skorska et al.
Physiological and Subjective Sexual Arousal in Self-Identified Asexual Women - Lori A. Brotto et al.
Deepening Sexual Desire and Erotic Fantasies Research in the ACE Spectrum: Comparing the Experiences of Asexual, Demisexual, Gray‑Asexual, and Questioning People - Filippo Maria Nimb
Asexuality, Affect Aliens, and Digital Affect Cultures: Relationality with the Happy Objects of Sexual and Romantic Relationships - Charnell Peters
Other interesting ace related reads
Contradictions in the Representation of Asexuality: Fiction and Reality - Gwendolyn Osterwald
Asexuality and the Potential of Young Adult Literature for Disrupting Allonormativity - Patricia Kennon
A mystery wrapped in an enigma – asexuality: a virtual discussion - C. J. Bishop
‘You have to coin new things’: sexual and gender identity discourses in asexual, queer, and/or trans young people’s networked counterpublics - Zach Schudson
Asexuality, the Internet, and the Changing Lexicon of Sexuality - Jo Teut
“I am not a Robot, I am Asexual”: A Qualitative Critique of Allonormative Discourses of Ace and Aro Folks as Robots, Aliens, Monsters - Ben Brandley
Other lists of ace resources
Asexual theory 101 by @leikeliscomet. thank you to @plum-petunia for finding this <2
The Asexuality and Aromanticism Bibliography
If you know of any other free ressource about asexuality please consider adding to this list
Free (mostly academic) aro theory resources
#all those links are legal open access but you can also probably find other ressources for free in pirating websites#also disclaimer: i’m white aroace and able bodied#While I’ve tried to include diverse perspectives my own identity probably shaped how I’ve curated this list#asexuality#ace#asexual#ace awareness#ace positivity#ace pride#ace spec#ace spectrum#acearo#acespec#actually asexual#aro ace#aroace#aroacespec#aromantic asexual#asexual pride#asexual spectrum#asexual theory#ace theory#queer theory#aspec community#aspec#aspec mafia#aspec pride#ace community#asexual community#queer community
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